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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by AgentGoat: 10:18pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Simp and his sense are soon parted. 7 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by airsaylongcome: 10:18pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Brati, nothing against motherhood. But the OP coming to tell us stories of how they sliced someone's abdomen open blah blah blah is bunkum for me. I've seen soldiers brought from the battle field, operated on without anesthesia in bone wrenching pain. So all that talk of abdomen sliced open is waffling 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 10:19pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
RingRoadCartel: The child is not the compensation. From the initial post, he is asking why you ask what a woman is bringing to the table, when she is not given any compensation for birthing your children. It means she is doing it as a free service. A birth gift is not the price of a child. How is that considered reasonable? But the child is something that is brought to the table. And it is priceless. More valuable than your crude. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by occfx: 10:19pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Rich4god: I no dey ask that stupid question... Why you no check your table before marrying her. You dey find who go bring something come for your miserable table 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by jmoore(m): 10:20pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Surrogacy exits. If you died on the road by car accident, will your wife train that baby with stories? 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by EconFinance: 10:20pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
BlaqFaze: Lmao The kind of men that the world is breeding these days is really worrisome That's all I'm gonna say on the matter 10 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:22pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Rich4god:Another simp man....What do you mean your children? Obviously you assume the kids are just for you....lol. I think you should ask God why he decided to make women go through that sacrifice. 10 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by RingRoadCartel(m): 10:22pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: Last time I checked, it takes two people to make a child. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Chicagograduate(m): 10:22pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Is it not food that she will bring to the table?Abi wetin again? 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Virgo3: 10:23pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:lol if you know how many women wey Don die from child birth or during/after You go know say nah life and death situation. The mortality rates are out der; 1 out of every 7 women die of complications from child birth. Due to economic settings, they should support but don't talk about der preg shiiii 4 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Ashirioluwa: 10:24pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Rich4god: Ok, I heard you bro. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Wisegeek01(m): 10:24pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
The phrase what are you brining to the table .. ha grossly been misunderstood, some men that even ask the question don't even know why they are asking the question, while on the other hand some women fly into a fit of rage or keep dodging the question, why they are angry they don't even know, its just a psychological impulse, first of all it is not mandatory for the lady to actually bring finance into the mix but it helps so that should not be the centre of the question, so the men asking and referring to finance really shouldn't do that, focus on what she is supposed to bring .. its not her job to bring finance, so if you are referring to that you are asking the wrong contextual question, a lady actually has what she should bring to the table, but sadly not a lot of ladies have taken their time to sit down and think about the question, because the are always offended or defensive, its just a simple question, that you need to understand, its not you mdfkn job to bring finance, that is what the man should bring to the table, what the lady brings to the table is .. ranges from great values Emotional Intelligence Attention to Detail Organizational Skills Nurture and Care Empathy and Compassion Collaborative Spirit Multitasking Abilities Intuition Social Skills Diplomacy when you list these features and tell the man you posses these traits now it s your turn to ask him what does he bring to the table ... he should have most of these below finance protection security Leadership Decision-Making Skills Stability Emotional Support Problem-Solving Abilities Initiative Adaptability Sense of Humor Integrity Shared Responsibilities marriage or relationship is team effort, not competition the next time i hear that question in the wrong context i fit flog person ![]() ![]() 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:24pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:Some men are just crazy.....lol. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by seguno2: 10:25pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Rich4god: Are they not also children of the woman? How likely is it that they will care more for their mother than their father ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:25pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
RingRoadCartel:Don't mind the kolo. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Paulinho59(m): 10:26pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
thejourney200:I wish u could like ur comment a million times.... God bless u for ur wisdom |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:26pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:Lol many had died while thrusting but SIMP will not see the sacrifice...lol 5 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 10:26pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
airsaylongcome: It appears he's saying that having a child under such excruciating circumstances should defy the question of "what do you bring to the table" thrown at women. Of course a woman should have more value than being a baby machine. But then, that's his perspective. I'd like to think that veterans get respect and some leeway in certain circumstances. Even when they pick up a gun and go psycho. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 10:27pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
RingRoadCartel: Last time you checked, it takes one of them to incubate and birth it. 4 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:28pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Cocopopsss:Sorry please don't give birth...I wish you will be barren so you don't have to go through this sacrifice...please say Amen at the end. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by DKM123: 10:29pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Lemme leave this quote here.... It's only small men with little minds that throw tantrums when a woman is being hailed over her biological make up.... See them crying "what about me? ", "I am in pains too", "hail me too", with cataarh in their nose. 4 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 10:30pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Towma: Comparing women giving birth to men working at rigs. Still trying to understand how that level of logic works. Guess he has nothing to compare it with but still needs to keep the stance. 5 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:30pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:A woman can choose and pray to be barren...lol but we know they will move from church to church...lol praying for the so called sacrifice....kolo ppl |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by jaxxy(m): 10:31pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
U went for CS that's why. Little girls are putting to bed daily without these issues or expenses in the village. Giving birth is a natural gift women have been blessed with it is natural to them. Yes there can be complications but its mostly a natural process. This does not excuse what women have to bring to the table. I do not know why people should be afraid to answer these questions. A woman should add value and if u don't know go and read about the virtuous woman in the bible. She went far beyond bearing children. Some will say because they bore u kids they now have a right make ur life a living hell. ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 10:32pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
loswhite: But a man cannot choose to refuse to work under the risky life and health policies if a rig? How exactly is working on a rig giving birth? Maybe you and that guy can explain it. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:32pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:Kolo you can pray to he barren so no one will force you to give birth |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Joy2dworldxyz: 10:32pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
If a woman giving birth is something to the table and a sacrifice then having sex that leads to the pregnancy is equally something to the table...... Op be careful 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 10:32pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
jaxxy: It's the most unnatural process. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 10:33pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
loswhite: Lord Jesus, give me immense strength not to descend on this obtuse misfit. He's your creation as pathetic an excuse for one that he is. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:33pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:How exactly is giving birth stopping a woman from being useful to her family? Maybe you and the foolish OP should explain that. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 10:35pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:Lol I was hoping to hear Amen |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by LeeSmart: 10:38pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
I thought dis question is for girlfriends not wives? How me i go come de ask my wife what would u bring to the table, abi i no sabi wetin she the carry come table before i marry her?. Make person come clarify me oo. 5 Likes |
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