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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by PoliteActivist: 11:17pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
loswhite: Wrong response. Right response: not every woman gives birth |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Kilometres: 11:19pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Fahvvy: You also forgot that a woman can choose not to give birth? If giving birth was that natural... women will naturally give birth like they do menstrual periods... no control or choice 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by mariahAngel(f): 11:19pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
ugodson: Whose name do the children bear? Whose descendants are they? Whose lineage do they keep alive? π If a woman bore 5 sons for her husband, and her own father had no son, will her husband give up one of the sons to her father? Will her father demand to have at least one of the sons of his daughter bear his own name? So yes! They're more your children than hers. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Emanodimo(m): 11:21pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
the sacrifice they make in bringing your children to the world. You will explain when the court give custody to her, when the baby see the mother alone as sole parent, you will be alive when she will tell u straight up, they are her children, she birthed them, so not your children. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 11:21pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Wisegeek01:Another simp thinking he is in a position to interpret what do you bring to the table to other men. If you have a working wife kindly tell us what she does with her finances since she is not supposed to bring finances. Then if you have a jobless wife kindly come and tell us what she will do if you sleep and don't wake up the next morning? Will she go and look for another man that will bring finances? Will your children be hungry while she is looking for the financing man? A woman should be happy when they ask her to be responsible. It is for her own good. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Ekeneegwu(m): 11:22pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Comments are hilarious.. kudos to all women and men who make it work at the end .. all I know is that it takes both parties to make their world work or rock .. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Frenzyboy(m): 11:22pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
obesse: Hear wetin this ode de talk...ur mumu no too much ? 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 11:23pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
PoliteActivist:Make I too know no put you for trouble sha. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by loswhite(m): 11:26pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
mariahAngel:Lol chop the name if that is the problem. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Bluffly: 11:28pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Rich4god:When responsible men work their waist off in sex to satisfy their wives sexual desire, you think say an beans |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by ugodson(m): 11:35pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
mariahAngel: Good questions, but haven't you seen women fight over custody of the children, if she knows they are his, why fight over them? Why not allow him take d kids with no quarrel? Well as we speak so to say, my wife tooks my kids away from me. I have NEVER laid a finger on her Haven't you seen women who get pregnant just to secure her future why not hand them over to the father as you said they bear his name 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by UptownVibes(m): 11:43pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
BlaqFaze:No mind am.. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by translux(m): 11:44pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Any Husband that is asking the wife for what she's bringing to the table isn't yet matured for a marriage, This is the 14th year that I got married to my wife and for the fact that I have been footing 100 percent of the bills till date, I have never for a day asked my wife for what she's bringing to the table, for the facts that we have somany responsibilities, I aways encourage her in the past that things will get better with time but we thank God Almighty that he has blessed our marriage with everything in life. 5 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by iHateFraudsters: 11:44pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: You dey mind the op. Woman wrapper. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by purples25(f): 11:45pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Omo replies here have shown me. The other gender takes childbearing for granted. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by bluefilm: 11:51pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
But who is giving birth to all these SIMPs? What nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by besayag: 11:51pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Rich4god:are u done? |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by ofemigeorge(m): 11:58pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Rich4god: Men are heavily pregnant with worry and responsibility every day and night in their mind, heart and soul. Do you know what it's like to be blamed for anything bad that goes wrong in the family. A woman can go scot freee of blame, if things go south, but a man, society will ask him question. He is not meant to have a break or off or period leave to his situation, he is to break, over come and produce no matter what or else, even his family will blame him and ask questions. If you see a woman sitting out side on a Monday morning, every one will assume she is fine. Let a man try it, people will ask don't you have work. Men die much faster than women becos of thinking, hidding emotion, taking risk to make it, sleepless night of worry,, watching over family to protect and provide. Our pregnancy is every day of our lives. Even Godd gave eve a single punishment, painful pregnancy and gave men a even tougher punishment...that ALL THE REST OF HIS LIFE he will till the tough ground for reward. Even though no be him cause the wahala in the first placee 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by olisaEze(m): 11:59pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
What do I bring to the table as a man?? Mvthafvka in Nigeria, men own the damn table along with every damn bill on it including the CS bill! It's apparent that this is your first child. By the second issue when the bills have started piling up and opportunity cost has tinted your eyes with red dye, the only sacrifice you will have time to notice will be in your pocket! Just so you know, zithromax & augmentin are now closer in price to N25k than the N4k it used to be last year! 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Farraheights: 12:00am On Nov 28, 2023 |
BlaqFaze: I no go just go school again for life ππ 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Pinkyposh(f): 12:13am On Nov 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:Going by what you said, it's by nature that men should provide for his family, it's not a sacrifice, it's what he's supposed to do. It's his responsibility alone 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fryx: 12:13am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god: Not to contradict you. But the children still belong to the women. Itβs a sacrifice they made for their future. They will still be the one to use the children to their advantage as much as they wish. My only gain is the continuity of my family name. And thatβs if I am lucky the kids are mine. Itβs the pain they bear for them selves. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fryx: 12:16am On Nov 28, 2023 |
sucess001: Seriously considering that surrogate. Especially if I end up with my current girl. She is too fragile, and Iβm scared of her carrying pregnancy. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by PoliteActivist: 12:24am On Nov 28, 2023 |
ofemigeorge: But men can just disappear from all that, and they do so all the time. We can't and don't. You'd never hear of a woman japa abroad and forget her children |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Ejiakusmith(m): 12:24am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Mumu. Do you no how much it's cost to carry out operation on women for birth ..... Not only that OP was live inside the labour room ..... Do you know how horrifying it is ? ....... Stop being a fool π‘ BlaqFaze: 4 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Mcslize: 12:40am On Nov 28, 2023 |
sucess001: Omo it be like I go consider this surrogate o cuz marriages no dey last these days. Abeg explain am to me let me know whether to face that direction. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by darediamond(m): 12:41am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god:Are the Children not hers to? Or was it ONLY SPERM that brings forth the Children. Both parties brings forth the child and they must Both take care of the child FINANCIALLY as well. It is irresponsible of A lady to think child bearing is a sacrifice. Sacrifices for who? What you so is what you reap- If Childbearing is a Sacrifice then the THRUSTING AND THE RELEASE OF QUALITY SPEARM BY THE MAN IS a GIGANTIC SACRIFICE TOO. Oga, you are promoting PROSTITUTION IN DISGUISE or IGNORANTLY. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by darediamond(m): 12:51am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Lovelyn451:Is it the sperm alone that makes a baby? Think and talk as a well raised girl please. Prostitution in Marriage stem's from this IRRESPONSIBLE thought of some ladies seeing Childbearing as what you as lady should only brings to the table . So the Man should be the sole provider and you the lady would still want to be refered to as MAMA PIKIN STILL? Na foolish Guy they marry a lady who shows this mentality because at last the Guy would be the looser as the lady would become a WIDOW on top him head at 45years of age!! |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by bomsilaga(m): 1:02am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god: I can relate. Since I entered theatre, my respect for women increased. That's some scary shit going on and men will even demand a particular gender from them 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Rukevwe999(m): 1:15am On Nov 28, 2023 |
God, a simple enlightening thread like this and incels are already gettimg triggered. The comments I'm seeing here indicates that some of my fellow men need to evaluate themselves. There's more depth to human relationship than "what one brings to the table". 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by GreatOchuks: 1:54am On Nov 28, 2023 |
I heard some hospitals now restricts Men from viewing this sight , Childbirth or CS ,,,,, to avoid the Man finding it hard or scared to impregnate the woman again |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by ProtonX: 2:12am On Nov 28, 2023 |
"childbearing isn't a sacrifice", "you're a simp" coming from fools who can't survive the pain of a mild constipation, let alone kidney stones, but they're here spewing trash behind anonymous monikers lol. Embittered b*st*rds who rave about things they have no clue about because they think it's only contributing their sperm that makes them fathers. I pity your mothers, sisters, and wives who think they birthed good sons, brothers or husbands but will suffer the wrath of the misogynistic views propagated on Nairaland by you lot. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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