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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by benqo01(m): 6:58am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Honestfrend: Giving birth is natural man,who is talking about responsibility |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:09am On Nov 28, 2023 |
mariahAngel: When it comes to divorce you won't bring up this argument so that the government will give the children to the man since he owns them You only argue for the man when it suits your selfish agender when it comes to financial responsibility that's only when the man owns the children 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by ExudeLoveToAll: 7:15am On Nov 28, 2023 |
translux: That you don't don't mean others who will isn't matured for marriage. Why do people always think what they do in their private life should be the standard life practices? Everyone has the power of thought process and life isn't in just one direction but multidirectional. Providing 200 percent doesn't make you better than the man that both spouses contribute to the finances of the home. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by kaymart: 7:26am On Nov 28, 2023 |
BlaqFaze:Not just a simp but a pathetic irredeemable one 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by jojothaiv(m): 7:27am On Nov 28, 2023 |
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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by DaveHarry(m): 7:35am On Nov 28, 2023 |
what sacrifice? Giving birth that is natural? I don't get what this SIMPle man is 👉 at 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by sammiewrite(m): 7:35am On Nov 28, 2023 |
It hurts that it is fellow men who are enablers of this idea women have in their head that they are superior to men and that every of their interaction with men is them doing us a favor. Little wonder a 21 year old girl without job, skill or career will be giving lofty conditions before getting into a relationship with a man. It is also the reason why a woman who doesn't have up to 100k in her account will open her mouth to tell her husband who has been footing her bills for years that she stooped low to marry him? It is funny that right from time men roles have not changed. Men are meant to provide and protect but for women it is always changing. Like someone mentioned up there, enough is not said of the life threatening conditions men exposed themselves to on a daily basis to put food on the table. Also, currently, there are men in the North East battling terrorists and if war breaks out today, women will be prioritized as usual. This is men performing their age long roles without blackmailing anybody but today's women wants a man who can provide for them and protect them, in addition be a babysitter, a laundry man, an errand boy, a chef, and now they want men to help them in carrying pregnancy and in giving birth? Tell me, what sacrifice can be greater than men fighting and dying to keep everyone else alive, including women? I mean within same military and police where men die by their dozens everyday, there are women, too, but most are in air-conditioned offices or at worst, they get posted to a MDA where there is little or no risk to their lives. I think at this point men like Op need to slow down on the women worshipping. If women are not creating threads upon threads celebrating the sacrifices of our gallant men in the battle field (even as two policeman just died yesterday in Imo state); if women are not creating threads upon threads celebrating multiple father's day in a year; if women aren't taking up men's matter like false rape accusation and paternity fraud as much as men usually do when there is a news of rape; if women worshippers is the only thing we have and not men worshippers. Don't you guys stop to think you are now in overdrive mode? 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by samcolee(m): 7:42am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god:Additionally taking care of the baby after birth till he/she can walk ain't easy coupled with other house chores |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by RingRoadCartel(m): 7:55am On Nov 28, 2023 |
ExudeLoveToAll: Will you die if you spoil your woman every once in a while? And what better time is there for you to spoil her? Abeg shift if you have nothing to say. And BTW, yes. If you've never gotten your woman a gift for putting her life on the threshold to birth your child, you're either financially incapable or just generally an unreasonable person. None of which is a bad thing. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Virgo3: 7:57am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Evolutionism:are you crazy? Wtf is this omoh @Seun dy put age requirement to enter this ur forum with International Passport! I swear I for batter you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BlaqFaze: 7:59am On Nov 28, 2023 |
EconFinance:Lol...bunch of sissies are springing up from every corner and I wonder what their fathers are doing because this thing is becoming a pandemic 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by GoodRocks: 8:01am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god: Post like this gets me extremely angry.. Like dude are you ok? Is a man supposed to give birth before? Does he have a womb? Oga there's nothing like SACRIFICE for something that's supposed to be natural. It is natural for a woman to give birth whether through CS or other means. Which kind SIMP you be ? Do you know what it takes for a man to go out there hustle and make money to take care of his family? What sacrifice could be more than that? Are these things not supposed to be naturally? Oga take this post down ASAP! Apart from sex, what are Nigeria women bringing to the table? Even the sex sef na dem dey enjoy am pass! So wtf are you saying 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Tonytonex(m): 8:01am On Nov 28, 2023 |
RingRoadCartel:the Op is probably a simp 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BlaqFaze: 8:05am On Nov 28, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA:it's obvious most women have nothing to offer so they try to make a big deal of basic natural processes a normal healthy female is supposed to go through. If she doesn't give birth, who will...who gains more actually because it's on record that women love their children unconditional compared to their conditional love for other things 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Karlifate: 8:07am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god: Rephrase this and see how foolish you look & sound. So, your mother made a sacrifice by giving birth to you BUT your father was just a mere figure head The way some of you think & type rubbish is baffling. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by GoodRocks: 8:07am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Lovelyn451: Shut the fck up! Is a man supposed to give birth before? Does he have a womb? Madam there's nothing like SACRIFICE for something that's supposed to be natural. It is natural for a woman to give birth whether through CS or other means because she has a womb! Do you know what it takes for a man to go out there hustle and make money to take care of his family? What sacrifice could be more than that? Do you know how many men lose their lives daily to put food on the table? So what's the fuss about? Are these things not supposed to be natural? Madam take this comment down ASAP! Apart from sex, what are Nigeria women bringing to the table? Even the sex sef na dem dey enjoy am pass! So wtf are you saying 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by GoodRocks: 8:10am On Nov 28, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: If e sure for you as a woman, produce sperm yourself and impregnate yourself na let's see Since your pûssy is all you have to offer 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by ExudeLoveToAll: 8:12am On Nov 28, 2023 |
RingRoadCartel: If you think this is about me then you need to think again. This has nothing to do with me been capable of gifting someone in a relationship with me or not, I am very comfortable. I am making this assertion as a generalization of what happens in the society and disposable income available to men in our society maybe you are delusional and ignorant to know the actual stats. Gifting push or no push and any name you may call it has nothing to do with been reasonable and capable. Been reasonable and capable has everything to do with standing for your family in good and in bad times irrespective of wether you have money to buy so called push gifts that to you makes one capable and reasonable. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Karlifate: 8:14am On Nov 28, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick: The guy is obviously pussy-whipped. He's simply implying that his mother made a "sacrifice" by giving birth to him (her biological responsibility), but his father was practically nothing but a figurehead in his family. These are the type of kids that exalt their deadbeat mothers, while neglecting the father that denied himself of worldly pleasures to ensure that they become successful. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by GoodRocks: 8:18am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Karlifate: E-diot like that boy can spend their entire life savings on a hoe begging her not to dump him 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fahvvy: 8:18am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Honestfrend: Is there any biological evidence that supports this? ... |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by rashylous(m): 8:23am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god: People don't notice men's struggles, efforts and sacrifices because they're physically strong, hide their emotions and hardly complain. ▪️Men hide their pains because the society expect them to always stay strong. ▪️Men hardly complain or show emotions because the society expect them to be a "Man". ▪️Women carry the pregnancy in their belly, while the husbands carry the pregnancy in their head. ▪️Men spend more than half of their lives protecting and providing for wife and children. ▪️Men's lifespan is shorter than that of women. ▪️Men are the backbone of every nation. •Respect your man. •Give him peace of mind. •Care for him. •Treat him like a king. • Men are not scum. •Without men the world will collapse. God bless every responsible man and father out there including myself. It's not easy but God is the supplier of our strength. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by RingRoadCartel(m): 8:26am On Nov 28, 2023 |
ExudeLoveToAll: You saw me giving two different answers to a question I was asked about "compensation", but you singled that part out and dragged your dead body into my mentions to tell me I'm generalising. Guy, dey your dey. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Karlifate: 8:28am On Nov 28, 2023 |
yewit37486: benqo01: If it was truly an appreciation, he should've left it as a comment on a post, not opening a thread to shove his appreciation down Nairalanders' throat. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by saysoo: 8:28am On Nov 28, 2023 |
The truth is that the women themselves do not know who they are, what they are, where they should to be. There no sacrifice,success a man has that can be compared to one child birth. They the women showcase themself to men for mockery, as pet,intimacy gadgets hence the high level of disrespect. I always tell my wife whenever she trie to praise me for supporting the home that no amount to support from me can equal her birthing these children. She should wait let me see how far I can get to half. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fahvvy: 8:41am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kilometres: 1. Exactly! But she choose to do so na, abi them point am gun for head make she born? ... 2. You're funny o ... So giving birth is not "that natural", it's "that artificial" ba? ... We need to arrest your basic science and/or biology teacher ... |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fahvvy: 8:46am On Nov 28, 2023 |
mariahAngel: I'm even more scared that they're women like you out there who think that fulfilling their biological responsibility of getting pregnant is a "sacrifice" that merits a Nobles Price award ... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Exceed15: 8:51am On Nov 28, 2023 |
This is what she want too .Having her own kids . They desire it more than men. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by benqo01(m): 9:04am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Karlifate: U re right |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by justmi1: 9:21am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Women should go on strike and stop giving birth jhor, world population too much. And men should stop donating thier sperm too. Make everybody rest. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by yewit37486: 9:35am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Karlifate: How did he shove it down anyone's throat? YOU chose to open the thread, right? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Oladhips(m): 9:37am On Nov 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: this op didn't expect this una harsh comments |
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