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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Kemnikky(f): 9:47am On Nov 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: if you don't know you better know now and get it straight that it is a sacrifice for a woman to give birth to your children. Are you aware that some women tend to use pills in order not to conceive, some will even tell you that they are not ready for childbirth and give you a clause to them conceiving. More so, marriage is a contract and a covenant, you both are meant together if you have children fine, if you don't fine as well, it all depends on both of you. The woman makes lots of sacrifices in her life right from the day she starts conceiving till her last breath. I don't want to go further on it. A resounding word should be enough. Treat women right and appreciate her more. My little kobo. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Lovelyn451(f): 10:07am On Nov 28, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick:thunder scater tha ur table there, women don't lose their lives during child birth abi, oh it's natural to give birth but it's not natural to provide for your family, after going through the pain of childbearing I should still bring to your useless table...that your table go break!! lazy bones... looking for women that will give them children and still provide for them...wateryoubringingtudtable yen yen yen....tchew 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by dejavubobo1(m): 10:24am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Lovelyn451:Child birth is ur God given role. A woman will be miserable if she doesn't fulfil that role. So it's not a sacrifice 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Ogunladewumi05: 11:05am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Not all men cherished children ,Some are fortunate to have kids All men are not family men. some are career men so often time they are ones that asked what are you bringing to the table |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by gbaskiboy: 11:21am On Nov 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:Please don't say that again unless you are not appreciative. Many women married has refused to get pregnant because of horrible experience associated with pregnancy and childbirths. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:49am On Nov 28, 2023 |
jaxxy: And you're educated, if educated people are told to raise their hand you sef go join, see the nonsense bolded you typed with confidence, you'd be disgracing your lineage thinking you're wise, western world with the best hospitals and quality doctors, women that get complications and die in the process of giving birth over there, what is the cause? The weather abi? Educated illiterate. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Nehyooh(m): 11:49am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Lovelyn451:What sacrifice are you even talking about? Do a lady get pregnant alone? You ladies are just fulfilling the way you're wired biologically. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by GoodRocks: 12:03pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Lovelyn451: Since a woman giving birth is now a big issue to U, madam produce sperm from yourself and impregnate yourself. 🤡 Apart from your overused damaged kpe.kpus what are you bringing to the table? 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:08pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Nehyooh: Those that died in the process of child birth, is that not a sacrifice? Is child birth not a life or death situation? 4 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:10pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick: Why not start by asking your mother your questions, then come back and tell us the many curses you received on your head. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by jaxxy(m): 12:13pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Stfu if u have a point make the point. I didn't insult u or anybody so why are coming for me in that manner. it is not news that old age or very early age can create complications in child birth and if im wrong show me don't tell me nonsense about ur illiteracy. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by GoodRocks: 12:18pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Ask them to send their account details, they'll do it without asking about your sisters and mother's well-being. Tell them how beautiful they are, they'll smile without asking if you've appreciated your sisters and mother's beauty. Buy them gifts, they'll accept without asking if you've bought for your sisters and mum. But, tell them the bitter truth that they are hoes and prostitutes disguised as girlfriend, and that what can they offer in a relationship apart from their over used damaged kpekpus, they'll immediately remember you have sisters and mother. Why? Because they are naturally selfish, daft, clownish, and extremely brain damaged. The truth is bitter! Fuul 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:20pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Truly nairaland is now filled with little kids and educated illiterates who have comprehension issues Op specifically mentioned a CS operation processs of childbirth, a process that can become life threatening at any moment which can lead to death, that alone is a huge sacrifice because a woman in that moment has one leg at death's door and the other with the living, but nairaland fools, in all of their glorious stupidity, had to interpret and compare it to men working and death generally, as if women don't work in this 21st century and men and women don't die everyday, This is to tell you the kind of home these ones grew up in, dysfunctional, damaging, useless homes with wack breeders, if these ones cannot appreciate women generally for that great feat, how can they appreciate the woman that gave birth to them and their sisters that will also go through same process, I fear for this generation and the next, most of them are nothing to write home about especially males, the country is enough evidence starting from the old people ruling to their progeny, we are truly in terrible times. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:22pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick: Can't sweat it, very easy to know children from dysfunctional homes lacking of love and parental care Again, ask your mother and tell her your bolded, then come back with the feedback. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by GoodRocks: 12:27pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Since you're a 🤡 lemme rephrase everything for U. E-diiiot. If a man wants to send you Money, why not ask him about his sisters and mother's account number? Fuuuuul. E don reach question u rush dey type men sisters and mothers. Ask them to send their account details, they'll do it without asking about your sisters and mother's well-being. Tell them how beautiful they are, they'll smile without asking if you've appreciated your sisters and mother's beauty. Buy them gifts, they'll accept without asking if you've bought for your sisters and mum. But, tell them the bitter truth that they are hoes and prostitutes disguised as girlfriend, and that what can they offer in a relationship apart from their over used damaged kpekpus, they'll immediately remember you have sisters and mother. Why? Because they are naturally selfish, daft, clownish, and extremely brain damaged. The truth is bitter! Fuul 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:27pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
jaxxy: You are an illiterate, an educated illiterate, because if you are not you will not ignorantly type the nonsense above, and you will know that there is no menu or specific age to childbirth complications. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:30pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick: Your mother, if she exists or was present in your upbringing which i highly doubt, is in the best position to answer your gibberish, then come back here with her curse filled response on your head. 4 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by ugbanante: 12:44pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
This ur topic get as it be. Everyone makes "sacrifices" before, during and after child birth. A woman giving birth is following natural order and a man fending for the family is same. Both make sacrifices. E.g a woman carries the baby 9 months, a man stays on the Atlantic ocean for months too just to raise funds for upkeep. All na major sacrifice. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by jaxxy(m): 1:02pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Fountainofyouth: Like I said b4 stfu. u have nothing to say. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Acidosis(m): 1:14pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god: The highest form of sacrifice you have encountered. CS is the easiest phase in some TTC women's reproductive cycle. Did she go through ovarian stimulation, where she'll risk hyper stimulation and the pain resulting from egg retrieval? Ever done myomectomy, i.e., uterine fibroid removal where you risk losing your womb? cervical cerclage where you'll risk bleeding and persistent spinal pain and headaches due to epidural leakage? Ever done the unbearably painful HSG test? If CS is all your woman went through, thank God. That procedure takes only 15-45 minutes max. Some people went through hell. Any woman that goes through any of the above phases is already a god on earth; deserves to be worshipped every hour. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by achimendy(m): 1:16pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god: As far as the family is concern both the husband and wife have their various roles to play. And in other for the family to work both couples must play their part. You also need to know that a woman's responsibility is more than just giving birth, thesame way the responsibility of a man is more than just provision. Is not easy taking care of children, many men has lost their over the while trying to provide food for their families. So stop talking as if you're ignorant of what most men are passing through all in the name of trying to provide. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Lovelyn451(f): 1:32pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick:it's the woman that should be asking that question since they give more in the marriage...so oga, apart from your watery sperm, what are you bringing to the table ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by obesse: 1:42pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by obesse: 1:43pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by obesse: 1:43pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by obesse: 1:49pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Clito-currency traders can only bring vagina to the table. Shikenan!
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Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 2:35pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick: Lord Jesus, give me immense strength not to descend on this obtuse misfit. He's your creation as pathetic and stupid an excuse for one that he is. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 2:39pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
BlaqFaze: You are missing the point. Your biases aren't letting you look at this logically. We get it. You are angry that vagina people do something as special as giving birth. You don't want to recognize that it is something difficult to do, because... Well, you don't have one so you can at best denigrate and belittle it. If it's so easy why do people adopt and steal and buy babies? Why is a man without children incomplete and terrified his family line will end? It is interesting to note that the OPs of both threads are married men in loving relationships with their wives, and that is their opinion on it. Why it is so offensive that a woman brings children into the world as part of her table is an amusing one. A lot of you need to give your posts to your wives whether they can or cannot have children. Is it breast envy or what? 2 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 2:46pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Ashawoman82:Don't twist things to suit yourself. He is the one who equated working on a rig with child birth because he doesn't want to acknowledge it as worth anything. Same thing you're doing. I think a lot of you know nothing about family life, so you want to use black and white biases to color your world. Giving birth to children is not an occupation, but if a woman brings out her own table, what is money on that table? Since the only table is the money table to the people who can only provide money (in their limited capacity) and absolutely nothing else. What of the child table? The home table? The care table? There isn't only one table. If giving birth is not an occupation, why is it a paid service, though? Why is child care a paid service? Why is cleaning a paid service? I think men on the forum can try to reason more logically and holistically than the types of comments here. Indicates singleness and dysfunction. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by BRATISLAVA: 2:52pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Ashawoman82: I think it's not about value to you, but that even if a woman had all the PhDs and money in the world, you would still see her as nothing. The value isn't in the woman. It is in the man's ability to acknowledge it beyond his ingrained biases. BTW, that is what you think and that is why you are voicing it, though to seem like it is my suggestion. It's YOUR suggestion. 1 Like |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Rukevwe999(m): 3:21pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
abbey621:The thing is that when we begin to measure our partners by "what they bring to the table", the relationship starts to become transactional and we begin to measure them by what they give us, which they will not be able to fulfill all the time. And when a relationship starts taking a transactional route, selfishness abounds. Relationship is about giving. Yes, we are supposed to hold our partners to certain standards and our specific roles must be defined. See, the thing is a man's life is about service. Men are held at a higher standard that is why we are above women and hold more leadership positions. We lead our relationships, forget that woke trash about equality, men always carry the bigger burden of relationship and the society. Leaders are leaders because they carry the higher burden and responsibility, and women to an extent are just consumers. Pregnancy itself is not an easy task for both partners. On the thing about pregnancy, women don't joke about reproduction. In fact it's inbuilt in them. Why do you think little girls love to cradle their dolls like babies ? If you've seen most childless couples you'll notice that it's always the women who are mostly desperate than the men. Even some of the most empowered women seek meaning in having children and nurturing them. Forget what some feminists say, some are products of dysfunctional families. It's not about turning a woman into a baby factory. That's life. That's nature. |
Re: As A Husband, "Before You Ask Your Wife What Are You Bringing To The Table". by Silentgroper(m): 3:47pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Rich4god:sacrifice?? 😁😁 No one asked her to be too lazy to push the baby through the expected outlets .. These days, females always wants to opt for c.s because they don't want to stress theirselves by pushing.. you'd hear them say this alot nowadays .. She made the choice, the takes up the responsibility... 2 Likes |
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