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Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Yxxx: 7:07pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
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Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Silentgroper(m): 7:09pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
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Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 7:28pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
1Sharon:Dear having children is not sacrifice but a blessing or rather it more like investing for your feature. For example my mom is too old that she can't recognize her environment she don't know where her next meal coming from,her condition has changed my perceptions about importance of children and life in general |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Kobojunkie: 7:45pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24:If your mom had instead worked and saved up all the money she spent on raising kids on her health, and even her retirement plan, are you saying she would not probably have had it better? ![]() Now don't get me wrong! I believe it is ok to have kids, but I don't believe having children is a sacrifice since it is after all a choice people make for themselves. let's not glorify it to the point of calling it a blessing or investment of some kind. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by 1Sharon(f): 7:49pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24: Never said it was. But comparing childbirth to ejaculation just isn't the same. Investing for your future? That's a selfish reason to have a child. And why doesn't your mum know where her next meal is coming from? ![]() |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 7:56pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You did not get it, have you had about dimentia a point where you don't have control over the money you work for except you have the right person to help out |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Kobojunkie: 7:58pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24:Dementia is not rare at all and there are assisted living homes where people pay to live out the rest of their days even with such conditions. So, if you pay for the right person to help before it fully sets it, then you will be taken care of. ![]() |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Farki: 8:05pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Do you have to put a gun to someone's head before you become a societal nuisance? ![]() |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:06pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
AbuTwins: are you saying, breathing air is also a sacrifice ? My angle is giving birth is a choice unless one was raped The rest choose to have sex which leads to being pregnant and results in giving birth, all that process is a choice one makes meaning you can not choose two whereas sacrifice is something that puts you off your own plans egg, looking after someone's child, its a sacrifice becoz they went out of their own originals plans You cant claim sacrifice to things that you are meant to be doing either naturally or due to a choice you have made, eg you can not claim to sacrifice in looking after your own kids, becoz its a choice you made in having unprotected sex and resulted in one getting pregnant and child, therefore the child is your responsibility not anyone else Dont mix sacrifice and hard times women go through when givinh birth there are two separate things Sacrifice simply means putting away your own plans and dealing with or tanging along someone's plans aka spending time and money etc at someone plans than your own plans 1 Like |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Kobojunkie: 8:07pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Farki:I don't follow! Do these women impregnate themselves or what? ![]() |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by ProtonX: 8:07pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Solofresh2: You created a thread this early on a Tuesday morning means you're either jobless or you're not busy. Dimwit. I hope ladies and women are seeing these things, so that they can make informed decisions not to have children with non entities. It will be a colossal mistake. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 8:08pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
1Sharon:Dimentia will make you understand that having children is a blessing not sacrifice and medically search to know how much balance diet a man need to recover when he engaged just once. |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 8:12pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Nothing can be compare with family quote me anywhere |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by ProtonX: 8:12pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Savedday2: Are you mentally ill? Because the symptoms are glaring. Your mother, your sisters, and all the people who identify as female in your lineage are the real hoes, otherwise they won't have birthed a mistake like you for a child. Total waste. That also includes all your kind on this platform, we need to start separating the tares from the wheat. |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Kobojunkie: 8:13pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24:Tell that to the many old and grey who were abandoned by their family to live out their end in misery. ![]() |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by ProtonX: 8:14pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
mmadu5: LMAO. Says a dimwit. We all need protection from your empty head. |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:17pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24: i differ on investment, but let give u a chance to explain the investment to us |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by AbuTwins: 8:18pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: It's a sacrifice! Sacrifice is to give up (something valued) for the sake of other considerations. What didn't she give up to nourish the baby from gestation to delivery to lactation to other baby care? Have you seen a woman deliver a baby live before? Have you washed and bury a baby born dead before? Have you dealt with the trauma after such? 1 Like |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 8:23pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:What are investment for, you do something that'll benefits you "positively" tomorrow. |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 8:28pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Abandoning their parents does not change the beauty of family |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Kobojunkie: 8:34pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24:It is so beautiful that it can still abandon one when one is old and weak, right? ![]() |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:34pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
AbuTwins: you cant reason let me take baby step with you whats it her choice to have sex ? Did she know that giving birth can have complications? All those are choices she made, its like committing a crime and not wanting to go jail Tell me, to who is she sacrificing herself ? its her natural way to have a child no two ways about it Since she wants children, who is supposed to carry the 9months for her ? Who is supposed to make sure that the baby get all needed for the babe to be health? Stop mixing pain, process and emotions of giving birth and the choices, resposibility and natural ways to achieve something in this case having kids If you want to highlight the emotions and the pain you saw in women giving birth go ahead but dont mix it with sacrifice, if you want to give birth natural thats the only way, you have to make that decision alone |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by lookingfly: 8:34pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Magnoliaa:Shut up ![]() |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by SisterAnn(f): 8:35pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
GO0DHardDick:You are the most angry NLer I know. You exude too much negative energy online over nothing. Your life must be difficult! We can help you if you reach out. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:36pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24: a child is not an investment, money in bank, pension fund etc can make a better decision for me in future that relaying on child |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 8:36pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Depends on upbringing |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Kobojunkie: 8:43pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24:Storyland! ![]() |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 8:46pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:Investment is not limited to money |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:49pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24: yes thats true, but you know what i mean, in most african set up its not about emotional family support but money, so pliz stop trying to hide behind your finger 1 Like |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Crosby24: 9:03pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:Any how you put it at that point it's not robots that will do the work for you but human so having children is not sacrifice but a necessity |
Re: Giving Birth To Your Own Child Is Not A Sacrifice by Kobojunkie: 9:07pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Crosby24:So, children are sort of your personal slaves? ![]() |
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