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Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by PoliticalChinex(m): 6:22pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
LeeSmart: I live abroad and earn in dollars, for ur information. So 5O CENT is broke at 49 and still single?. u be mumu! |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Seriouslady: 6:25pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Everything in life has it's pros and cons. If you can afford to marrying early is good. But not too early as in 23, 24.. . I believe a man should be at least 28 before settling down to marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by dbestcno(m): 6:36pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Stephen2324: One of my guys dey regret am because he rush born 6 before age 34. Now hustle no easy for am |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by pappilo(m): 6:39pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Dated for 9 years Married at 28 Divorced at 42. No regrets but knowing what I know now, I'd have never got married. 4 Likes |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by mohd001: 6:43pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
martolux: Who tell you said those who married at 23 will live long? |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Chetas81(m): 6:53pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Black AFRICAN PRIORITY |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by VULCAN(m): 7:11pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
I love your response. It is so insightful. Hausa: 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Olawade24: 7:18pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Hausa: Oga, how come you know every member of your family history. You be sango ni ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by prosperod1: 7:24pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Marriage is not about age but it really depends on money though you don't need all the money in the world but atleast there should be income coming , in which you can build on Some 24 years already own a house and business, some 50 years own nothing. It's not something we can run away from I think starting ontime will make it easier before the bones gets weak , The pressure that comes from marriage can also push one into success if taken positively Because I have seen people who become richer in marriage, life it self is faith we must start from somewhere and God take it on. May God bless all married men financially and also provide for people who wish to but scared because of money . 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Hausa(m): 7:42pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Olawade24:It's just 20th century. E no too old naaa, lol. |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by nony43(m): 7:47pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
[quote author=notttty post=127226185] Nope best decision I have ever made, 4kids n existing the 5th, 3 boys n a girl, business booming n my career is progessing well, the boys are doing very great in school and are each others competition, 2013 till date has been a blessing because that marriage reposition my focus to new goals knowing the responsibilities I got. You are making a mistake as a man if you go being 30 unmarried. Yea my first son is in jss1 and I'm just 35, my wife 30 and trust me that family i created is bonded strongly, you can't oppress anyone cos we re all coming for you including my 2yrs old daughter that believe has teddy monkey can protect us all, don't worry. I grew from the street n now I'm a top accountant where In the organization I work, I know the street well and I'm putting my kids through the rope to learn the street without going into the street. Belive me if u meet that woman and you amhave a job, go for it, no job? No problems, use your brain and work your hands to bleed that money. Marrying young is heaven when the money and trust exist, I never ever regret marrying except for the period I went on training in geneva where I regretted being married cos I was Hot as hell n wife was in Nigeria, my vows couldn't let me believe me even tho the girl that was right there was Ethiopian and was so willing.. that's my only regret so far[/quot You knack her Abi you no knack her? |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by damosky12(m): 7:56pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Ladipo01: It will go well. |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Connected1: 8:01pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
DanielsParker:Don't mind him. Most of them want others to join them in misery, I have a young friend who's getting married soon not because they are in love but because of societal pressure and respect he hopes to get from being married. |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by notttty(m): 8:16pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
mobilemykel:Na i dodged miraculously ooo. |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by notttty(m): 8:17pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
[quote author=nony43 post=127232288][/quote]No I didn't. Was recscured with a call I can't but leave everything to tend to |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by obinna58(m): 8:32pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
They are not going to regret it but I can assure you most of them are suffering really bad. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Quebec91(m): 9:01pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
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Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Quebec91(m): 9:02pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
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Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by okoroemeka(m): 9:08pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Stephen2324:regret what?I got married at 24 and now I have two graduates,one still in 300l and another in nursing school unizik,what I may have regretted is if I didn't marry my baby when I did,like my old man use to tell me if the opportunity is there,take it.but it is not easy to transition to bear such responsibility at that age needs disciple and the ability to handle what life will throw at you,I remembered in 2009 when we decided to have our last issue and lo behold it was twins,sometimes life itself can be mischievous and will just decide to test your ability and resolve 2 Likes |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by seunayantokun(m): 9:23pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
I think more 30+ are regretting than the teens and below 20 couples. Just my thought, no stats. 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by mariahAngel(f): 9:36pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Adetayo41: WoW! I love your love story. 😀 May God bless your union/family. 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by talk2hb1(m): 9:42pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
porthouse7:Let’s have One Together |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by mariahAngel(f): 9:45pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
thesicilian: You can't really say. If you ask them if they'd do it over again, going back in time, most of them probably would. |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by 2badForReal: 9:52pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Let your financial level determine your marriage age or time to avoid stress |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Lilfire(m): 9:55pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
I got married at 27, I will never advise anyone to get married that young, I have two kids now am an low income earner 90k per month after my wedding, everything about my life stop, it's now all about the family, so many opportunities to take risk but looking back and seen I have a wife who depends on me and I have two innocent kids, I have no choice but to remain where I am, achieve all you can achieve before you think of getting married let no body lie to you, my mental health is something else right now, all because I want to be responsible, chase your dreams achieve at least 60 to 70 percent before you settle down, I wish I could turn back the hands of time I would never be married at 27 at least 35. 10 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Formation10: 11:44pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
If he have a good job there's nothing bad at that age to get married,but what i about marriage is all about maturity and God grace nothing else |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Monaboo(m): 12:33am On Nov 30, 2023 |
Most people that marry at that age marry out of 3 things. 1) Unplanned Pregnancy. It came and they had no choice or were forced to marry the girl. For example Yul Edochie and his ex wife May. 2) They were from rich homes, had money or parents money/connection at their disposal. They were not struggling to find their feet in life like the rest of their age mates at 23. 3) They married becos they did not want to commit the sin of fornication. Atleast, that's what they used to tell us in church. In all, the magic is not in getting married but in staying married. 1 Like |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Nobody: 12:42am On Nov 30, 2023 |
No regret from me. |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Vision101(m): 1:49am On Nov 30, 2023 |
Married at 29. I'm very fresh now at 58. I and wife only. No school fees etc. My son married at 28. Thank God for my salvation I would have been a hotcake for the daughters of Eve. When they see my DP they send messages but the road is closed. 5 Likes |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by DDIA: 2:28am On Nov 30, 2023 |
MyVILLAGEpeople:Your village people stroooooong. |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by spiceadole: 3:14am On Nov 30, 2023 |
Lee99: Hahahahaha...The same marriage that doesn't benefit men. The same man who doesn't reach menopause is giving himself deadline. |
Re: Men Who Married At 24, 25, 26, 27. Do You Regret It? by Carlyboi(m): 4:08am On Nov 30, 2023 |
To each his own but a dude getting married at age 25 or under would never make sense to me. Even women who get married at their late teens or early 20s struggle and sometimes experience internal conflict and this isn’t necessarily about money. Ideally the prefrontal cortex isn’t fully developed until you’re in your mid 20s making life altering and life changing decisions at that stage could be seen as foolhardy or ended being disastrous unless you’re lucky. You should give yourself time to grow and have decent amount of life experiences and be mentally prepared for that big leap lest it’s gonna be your Achilles heel. Some women who get married early to men 5 years or more older than them do harbour resentment for their spouses and see them as robbing them of that young adulthood stage and by confining them in that box of marriage. At the end of the day do what works for you, I personally believe,marriage just like a lot of significant happenings in the existence of men is largely predestined if it’s for you it’s surely gonna happen at that supposed time. So if it’s not happening don’t force it,enjoy life and go with the flow be happy and explore. Attain success, be productive and lead a meaningful life and be fulfilled. After all there’s no higher goal or sense to life it’s a facade,a mirage, it’s mundane,a vicious cycle we all have to go through the moment we take our first breath till we kick the bucket. Cheers. 1 Like |
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