When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

Whatever you cant continue/sustain, dont start.

First of all or firstly, help me-before you would help them or anybody else... "Heaven help those who help themselves..."? Did you wants to help me, help me... Did you wants HEAVENS TO HELP you...?,HELP ME!!!

Go ahead and extend a helping hand. It makes you better than her. Please do help her.

You don't have to be friends to help if you can. But always watch your back.

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

Help but keep your distance!

Do what you can do that wouldn’t affect you in any way

Use long spoon to give them the little help you can afford

I was in your shoes save that mine was done by my own mother, so you can imagine the pain.

Would I help my mother today? Yes, not for her sake but for my sake.

Because hatred and anger only breeds more and there is no healing there.

Healing comes from God and you would find that in God, when you do good to your enemies, the good comes back to you whilst that same good is torturous to them. Hence the "heap coals on their heads"

But to do them back, leaves you in continuous pain and torture.

However, in the end, the choice is yours to make.

Help if you can BUT NEVER have any of your half-siblings live with you....help from a distance.

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

Pls,be careful.

If u think ur step mum loves u then u are deceiving yourself.

She is only looking for the perfect time to deal with u and deal with u seriously beyond ur imagination.

Don't give her ur money oh.

I am yet to see a good step mum...almost all of them are from the devil's compound.

Mindlog:
Help if you can BUT NEVER have any of half-siblings live with you....help from a distance.

Hmmmmmmmmmm

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

This your story is disheartening Sis

For all the gory experiences you've been through...I want to say sorry ma.


Kindly note that.... there's a purpose for everything under the sun ...those bitter experiences shaped you into a matured adult.....this is not the right time to be vendetta.


Nemesis already caught up with her for begging you for help


Let go of the past....help her for humanity's sake and never make a mistake of trying to accommodate her kids...you can show your generosity from afar just like mindlog already advised to avoid stories that touches the heart.


To every woman seeing this.....that child you're maltreating cos he/she isn't yours might someday grow up to become your life saver ...treat people aright irrespective of their status ....karma is always a bitch.

Just be wicked....
Especially to those wey don wicked u before..
Eye for an eye.

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

Am from a polygamous home.

DON'T HELP HER.
WHAT IF SHE USE THE HELP YOU'LL RENDERED TO HER FOR JUJU?

Emmanuel30a:
First of all or firstly, help me-before you would help them or anybody else... "Heaven help those who help themselves..."? Did you wants to help me, help me... Did you wants HEAVENS TO HELP you...?,HELP ME!!!

..
tell heaven to help u directly na..

ghettochild:
Just be wicked....
Especially to those wey don wicked u before..
Eye for an eye.

.
i second this.

JONSYN7154:
Am from a polygamous home.

DON'T HELP HER.
WHAT IF SHE USE THE HELP YOU'LL RENDERED TO HER FOR JUJU?

Testimony988 listen to this.

They may not be happy that you're comfortable while they're suffering.

E fit dey pain your step mother for heart , blood and bone.

If you really want to help, highest, send money, but NEVER bring any of their children into your home. Den no dey tell person but we don tell you o

You know what to do. Match their energy. Do not help them.

oweniwe:


Testimony988 listen to this.

They may not be happy that you're comfortable while they're suffering.

E fit dey pain your step mother for heart , blood and bone.

If you really want to help, highest, send money, but NEVER bring any of their children into your home. Den no dey tell person but we don tell you o

and if she want to give them money she shouldn't give them directly but let it pass through a third party.

1Sharon:
You know what to do. Match their energy. Do not help them.

She should give and eye for an eye. What if it is a test of forgiveness and the right Spirit from The Lord ?

Uyi168:
.. tell heaven to help u directly na..

You, help me...

1TrippleCee:



She should give and eye for an eye. What if it is a test of forgiveness and the right Spirit from The Lord ?

Religious sentiments don't work on me.

Nice2023:




Pls,be careful.

If u think ur step mum loves u then u are deceiving yourself.

She is only looking for the perfect time to deal with u and deal with u seriously beyond ur imagination.

Don't give her ur money oh.

I am yet to see a good step mum...almost all of them are from the devil's compound.

ARE YOU OK

Whatever you cant continue/sustain dont start...

Testimony988:

So, you later married your "cousin husband"

Op if I were the one, I won't help, anybody that can treat you that way at your lowest moment can kill you if she had the chance.

Testimony988:
she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder...

That is despicable. If she had killed you, she would probably still laugh about it and show no remorse. Your mom and family who want you to mind your business have their reasons. Please face front.

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

SISTER, IF HELPING THEM WILL GIVE YOU INNER PEACE, YOU CAN DO SO, BUT IF YOU ARE NOT PLEASED TO HELP THEM......JUST BE AT PEACE WITH YOURSELF AND MOVE ON. YOU OWN NO BODY OR SPIRIT ANY EXPLANATION.

IF YOU HAD DIED IN THAT HOUSE DUE TO THE TREATMENT THEY METED AT YOU THEN, YOU WOULDN'T BE HERE TYPING THIS.

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

Don’t help her..

Devils compound 💃

Nice2023:




Pls,be careful.

If u think ur step mum loves u then u are deceiving yourself.

She is only looking for the perfect time to deal with u and deal with u seriously beyond ur imagination.

Don't give her ur money oh.

I am yet to see a good step mum...almost all of them are from the devil's compound.

Testimony988:
When I was staying with her... my dad and siblings she had showed me shege pro max ... if my mum didn't rushed to picked me up maybe I wouldn't be alive to tell the story..... the issue is my dad passed away last year .... my stepmum and her 4 children are really suffering.... she begged me for help since September but I ignored her message...... I am married .....I did my traditional marriage in April this year.. ...
.my hubby and I are capable of helping her to start up something for her to cater for her children .... or to even accommodate one of her children .... her only daughter who is 12 and put her in school..... although my mum and her family will be against it ..... because we all hate her with a passion ...but I am find it hard to help her because of what she has done to me....... she had mistreated me to the extend of asking her children to beat and spit on me ..... and she will be laughing asking them to do it harder.... I know is not the children faults they were innocent ......they only did what they mum asked them to do ..... but still I don't feel like helping them .... just to clarify my late dad was a irresponsible father to me..... he denied the pregnancy and returned back after 12 years he took me to his house where his wife and children mistreated me .... most of the abused were happening in his presence .... but he didn't care...... my mum picked me up from him when I was 14....... he didn't bothered about me .... my mum and grand mum had suffered a lot for me... althought they've done so may upsetting things in the past that made me so angry but I still love them because they were there for me when I needed them the most.... please if I were you will you help them ?

Don't bring anyone home. Let your younger ones find you and help from afar.

My2cents