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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by hammerFC: 12:06pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
jude33084: IT IS NOT EVEN THE MASTURBATION. HE CANNOT RETAIN ERECTION. NA 1, 2, EVERYWHERE DON BURST... |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by jrusky(m): 12:07pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
So you don't have a girlfriend as babes plenty reach for Nija? Even cripple, blind man, hunch back man, dwarf still dey get babe dey even marry you dey here dey talk masturbation shit. Go out there an do like a real man and stop hidden under flimsy excuses indulging in a nonsense masturbation shit. Wake up young man, be a real man...... It annoys me like mad anytime I read this madturbation shit. Grow up!!! 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by porthouse7(f): 12:07pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Maybe cos u masturbate everyday, too much of everything is bad, masturbate once or twice in a week and u will be the free and happy for the the rest of ur life |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by CaptainFM1: 12:08pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
If you can do that at a grave site, my advice for you is to just continue. You case is like that of a hardened smoker that no longer has a lung and wants to stop smoking! |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by porthouse7(f): 12:09pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Shakespeare100:Maybe cos u masturbate everyday, too much of everything is bad, masturbate once or twice in a week and u will be the free and happy for the the rest of ur life |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by hammerFC: 12:09pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
porthouse7: WHY SHOULD HE MASTURBATE, WEN U ARE WALKING AROUND WITH A YANSH BIG ENOUGH FOR TWO? U CARRY TWO PEOPLE YANSH DEY TELL AM, HE WILL BE FREE AND HAPPY? STAY OUT OF THIS MATTER, U DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT MALE SEXUALITY. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by jaxxy(m): 12:11pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
U need to try celibacy. Its not that bad and will help u in many ways. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by tsdarkside(m): 12:12pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
8 times in a day....?? madness.... |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Adakintroy: 12:12pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Truth is you are in good company. Many people are addict in this forum or the world at large. Jesus was my answer. I gave my life to Christ. Its why am eternally grateful to the late .T.B Joshua. This are the the things he put up as testimonies so other addicts can relate. Not how I got a Job at an oil company testimonies. Urs is the real testimony. Half the solution is an open declaration of sin. Jesus will perfect you. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by azpekuliar: 12:14pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
hammerFC: There is a difference between Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation, don’t conflate the two. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Error401: 12:14pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
10 seconds is okay boss Shakespeare100: |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by hammerFC: 12:15pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
azpekuliar: READ If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Hezmatosky: 12:16pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Norbe masturbation do u bro. Besides, quick release is even good for child bearing, than going 10hrs and nothing comes out. If you want to stop masturbation pls do. One great killer of sex drive is fear and anxiety. Take that nonsense from ur mind and keep enjoying yourself. If you have other sex issues pls tackle it. Problems of masturbation is quite far from what you're saying. Meanwhile apart from the fact that its not a healthy relationship with your creator, there's no medical proof that can be traced to masturbation |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by SamuelAnyawu(m): 12:17pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Masturbation cannot cause erectile dysfunction or low sex drive. Go hospital 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by ELKHALIFAISIS(m): 12:17pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Which virginity...oga nah Ur hands disvirgined you, you are no longer a virgin, all thanks to soap and saliva 4 Likes |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Adebayorsayaty: 12:18pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro: True talk attractive is best oooo |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Notatribalist(m): 12:18pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
PuZZyNegro:Drugs may may not work,but natural herbs and some coffee works. I was in same situation,mine was so bad that I can ejaculate without having sex. Just by thinking about sex can do the job. I was not even having erection,just ejaculation. It was one herb I used that solved the problem. And you said he should have sex raw? Dude do you even think of STI and STDs? |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by RoyalEdoBoy: 12:21pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Shakespeare100: Desist from porn watching and go for counseling |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by hammerFC: 12:25pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Notatribalist: U KNOW Y, U BOYS ARE ALL HAVING THIS PROBELM RIGHT. EXERCISE OR SEXERCISE. FROM YOUR TEENS, U SUPPOSE GET A FCK BUDDY TO BE PLAYING AND STUDYING. THE LONGER U DONT USE IT, AND U KEEP MASTURBATING, THE LESS IT WILL DEVELOP. SOME OF U ARE TERRIFIED OF YOUR OWN ERECTION, SOON, U GET NONE. AS A MALE CHILD ONCE U HIT YOUR TEEN, TELL YOUR MUM AND SISTERS TO KEEP THEIR HANDS TO THEMSELVES AND MARK OUT TERRITORY. IF DEM DISTURB, MOVE OUT. U ARE AT WORST A BIG BOY AND AT BEST A YOUNG MAN/ADULT, READY TO LAY THE PIPE IF THE OPPORTUNITY ARISE. GET THAT MONEY AND MAKE SURE THE BITCHES KNOW ALL ABOUT IT. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by pinknipple: 12:26pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
. . .Your statement about masturbation ruining lives seems inaccurate or exaggerated to me. Everyone's experiences with such matters can vary significantly. Eversince my practice of masturbation since May this year, I've managed to avoid unnecessary sexual encounters, resulting in savings of 3.5 million. Additionally, I've never experienced any type of infection, and this stands as a testament to the benefits I've personally found in this approach. 1 Like |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by officialfestus(m): 12:26pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Nicepoker: |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by IAmHim1: 12:27pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Quitting your masturbation is quite easy if only you're truthful yo yourself and you follow these steps I'll outline to you 1) take two sheets of paper 2) write out ALL the things you love doing on one sheet ie listening to juice wurld, watching porn, reading love novels, eating rice n plantains, complaining. Etc. You know yourself AND THE THINGS YOU LOVE 2b) Then take the second sheet of paper and write down ALL the things you hate doing ie eating beans, listening to trap songs, reading a particular 'genre' of book, doing exercises...you name it. IF EARLY MORNING EXERCISES IS WHAT YOU HATE DOING, THE YOU DO IT. it falls under the things you HATE doing Now here's your salvation on a golden platter: After outlining the things you love doing and the things you hate doing, STOP DOING THE THINGS YOU LOVE DOING AND START DOING THE THINGS YOU HATE DOING FOR 30 DAYS STRAIGHT!!! After doing the things you hate doing for 30 DAYS STRAIGHT, you stop doing the things you hate doing and you start doing the things you love doing...by then, masturbation and porn watching would be a thing of the past Trust me, I haven't read all the advice youve received but if it's not what I just outlined here, you just might be wasting your precious time If you're truthful to yourself about the love doing and the things you hate doing, you'll be free I promise you this. Lolzzz ...and yes...all the steps I outlined, I've followed it also now I'm free. Done n dusted...now it's all behind me It works for ANY KIND OF ADDICTION WHATSOEVER. Gambling, drinking etc I know it will be hard...it was hard for me...the first two weeks are but after that...the third and fourth week... you'll start to experience your freedom n clarity. You'll even feel like crying when you're finally free And please and please, stay away from groups or therapy session filed with people trying to end their masturbation. It'll only make it harder for you to end yours as their energy rubs on yours. Trust me on this It's December now. Follow the steps outlined and by February, you'll be anneeeeww. Lolz Don't forget to share to whom might need it for no price tag. It should be Free. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by DARLINGTON869(m): 12:28pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Demons of life that chase after potential men of valour. It's not easy.....I tell you bro, it's not easy to break that chain.....But with GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. IF YOU CAN, TRY DOING THESE THINGS: 1) Delete every downloaded porn videos in your phone gallery. 2) If you can, swap your phone for a touch light phone. That way, you don't have easy access to porn. Porn is the greatest fuel for masturbation. The moment your eyes feeds on it, the higher the tendency to masturbate. 3) Pray and if you can, fast as well. Study his word even if it makes no sense or meaning to you. Trust me, while doing these things you will sense the devil fighting you with negative thoughts and sleep. But don't give up. It's just a sign that the devil hates the fact you are getting close to a solution. MIND YOU, you may relapse and find yourself masturbating again. Don't worry. Get back up and continue the healing process which you started. 4) Confide in a Christian friend or pastor who you know is trustworthy and can help or guide you. Above all, don't give up...... don't GIVE UP As for those of you making light of his situation or mocking the OP, just remember, this can happen to anyone including one of your kids (God forbid ).
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by EnglishUsa: 12:30pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Notatribalist:please help, I have law sperm count and I think the course is from this masturbation of a thing and I did mine for 23 years, his own story is a child play compared to mine... I need herb please suggest |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by PuZZyNegro: 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Notatribalist: He said girlfriend. You should be able to trust your girlfriend enough to have unprotected sex with her. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Oluwapab: 12:33pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by AfahaAbia(m): 12:36pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Shakespeare100: Your problem isn't because of masturbating. Your problem is psychological. Just try to see a doctor |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Revolva(m): 12:40pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Keep jerking off its healthy , at least sometimes its good no be everytime person go de nak naija gals wey dem kitten de smell sometimes As for ur weak performance oga no be jerking off cause am na ur.mindset |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by 12345baba(m): 12:40pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Shakespeare100:hahahaha |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by fitinwell: 12:44pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Shakespeare100: You need to get serious with your life.. You won't understand, the gravity of all these until you are ready to become a responsible Man by having your own Family.. Masturbation is not ordinary... You cannot understand Masturbation in the Physical Realm.. Masturbation is spiritual transaction or transfer of your glory, blessings in exchange for temporary pleasure... And the truth is this... The Porn as really messed up your mindset... The earliest you rescue yourself the better for you... Don't say you did not get an advice.. Here is one .. |
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Osanoghodua1: 12:44pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Just accept Jesus and make a daily confession of no masturbation to the Holy spirit and you're okay. |
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