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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by hammerFC: 12:06pm On Dec 08, 2023
jude33084:




Mastebation makes u last long in bed bro but will affects how to relate with other gender; you can never has a successful relationship.


see your doctor sha


IT IS NOT EVEN THE MASTURBATION.

HE CANNOT RETAIN ERECTION.

NA 1, 2, EVERYWHERE DON BURST...
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by jrusky(m): 12:07pm On Dec 08, 2023
So you don't have a girlfriend as babes plenty reach for Nija?

Even cripple, blind man, hunch back man, dwarf still dey get babe dey even marry you dey here dey talk masturbation shit.

Go out there an do like a real man and stop hidden under flimsy excuses indulging in a nonsense masturbation shit.

Wake up young man, be a real man......

It annoys me like mad anytime I read this madturbation shit.

Grow up!!!

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by porthouse7(f): 12:07pm On Dec 08, 2023
Maybe cos u masturbate everyday, too much of everything is bad, masturbate once or twice in a week and u will be the free and happy for the the rest of ur life
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by CaptainFM1: 12:08pm On Dec 08, 2023
If you can do that at a grave site, my advice for you is to just continue.

You case is like that of a hardened smoker that no longer has a lung and wants to stop smoking!
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by porthouse7(f): 12:09pm On Dec 08, 2023
Shakespeare100:
I've been addicted to masturbation since 16, how I discovered it is a story for another day. I became a chronic masturbator. Sometimes I do it 5 times in a day. My highest record was 8 times in a day. It was so bad that x videos became my most visited site.

I did it everywhere; on my hospital bed when I was sick, in the church's toilet, in my granny's room, on my grandpa's grave, e.t.c. It was that bad. My own level of masturbation addiction was mental illness.

However, I decided to stop masturbation and I've been on the journey for 4 months. Also, I decided to get a girlfriend, and lose my viginity. I got a girlfriend, we had our first sex and it was beyond embarrassing. If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.

We tried the second round, same thing, third round same thing, fourth round same thing! I'm in trouble! Is this how whack my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life? I can't last more than 10 seconds no matter the rounds. How can I redeem myself from the damage masturbation has done to me? I need help please!
Maybe cos u masturbate everyday, too much of everything is bad, masturbate once or twice in a week and u will be the free and happy for the the rest of ur life
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by hammerFC: 12:09pm On Dec 08, 2023
porthouse7:
Maybe cos u masturbate everyday, too much of everything is bad, masturbate once or twice in a week and u will be the free and happy for the the rest of ur life


WHY SHOULD HE MASTURBATE, WEN U ARE WALKING AROUND WITH A YANSH BIG ENOUGH FOR TWO?


U CARRY TWO PEOPLE YANSH DEY TELL AM, HE WILL BE FREE AND HAPPY?


STAY OUT OF THIS MATTER, U DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT MALE SEXUALITY.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by jaxxy(m): 12:11pm On Dec 08, 2023
U need to try celibacy. Its not that bad and will help u in many ways.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by tsdarkside(m): 12:12pm On Dec 08, 2023
8 times in a day....??

madness....
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Adakintroy: 12:12pm On Dec 08, 2023
Truth is you are in good company. Many people are addict in this forum or the world at large.

Jesus was my answer. I gave my life to Christ. Its why am eternally grateful to the late .T.B Joshua. This are the the things he put up as testimonies so other addicts can relate. Not how I got a Job at an oil company testimonies. Urs is the real testimony. Half the solution is an open declaration of sin. Jesus will perfect you.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by azpekuliar: 12:14pm On Dec 08, 2023
hammerFC:



IT IS NOT EVEN THE MASTURBATION.

HE CANNOT RETAIN ERECTION.

NA 1, 2, EVERYWHERE DON BURST...

There is a difference between Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation, don’t conflate the two.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Error401: 12:14pm On Dec 08, 2023
grin grin grin grin

10 seconds is okay boss
Shakespeare100:
I've been addicted to masturbation since 16, how I discovered it is a story for another day. I became a chronic masturbator. Sometimes I do it 5 times in a day. My highest record was 8 times in a day. It was so bad that porn sites became my most visited site.

I did it everywhere; on my hospital bed when I was sick, in the church's toilet, in my granny's room, on my grandpa's grave, e.t.c. It was that bad. My own level of masturbation addiction was mental illness.

However, I decided to stop masturbation and I've been on the journey for 4 months. Also, I decided to get a girlfriend, and lose my viginity. I got a girlfriend, we had our first sex and it was beyond embarrassing. If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.

We tried the second round, same thing, third round same thing, fourth round same thing! I'm in trouble! Is this how whack my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life? I can't last more than 10 seconds no matter the rounds. How can I redeem myself from the damage masturbation has done to me? I need help please!
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by hammerFC: 12:15pm On Dec 08, 2023
azpekuliar:


There is a difference between Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation, don’t conflate the two.

READ
If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Hezmatosky: 12:16pm On Dec 08, 2023
Norbe masturbation do u bro. Besides, quick release is even good for child bearing, than going 10hrs and nothing comes out. If you want to stop masturbation pls do. One great killer of sex drive is fear and anxiety. Take that nonsense from ur mind and keep enjoying yourself. If you have other sex issues pls tackle it. Problems of masturbation is quite far from what you're saying. Meanwhile apart from the fact that its not a healthy relationship with your creator, there's no medical proof that can be traced to masturbation
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by SamuelAnyawu(m): 12:17pm On Dec 08, 2023
Masturbation cannot cause erectile dysfunction or low sex drive.

Go hospital

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by ELKHALIFAISIS(m): 12:17pm On Dec 08, 2023
Which virginity...oga nah Ur hands disvirgined you, you are no longer a virgin, all thanks to soap and saliva

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Adebayorsayaty: 12:18pm On Dec 08, 2023
PuZZyNegro:


Don't listen to anyone asking you to go for treatment.

Firstly, you need to stop masturbation to heal from the quick ejaculations.

Secondly, you need to be having sex regularly with this your girlfriend. If you have sex once in a while, you are most likely to ejaculate prematurely.

Thirdly, try sex with and without condom. I have noticed that condom make me ejaculate quickly or lose erection at the slightest distraction.

Lastly, make sure the girl is extra ordinarily attractive to you, sexually. There's a difference between a girl being beautiful and being attracted to you. Her body type, shape, and color should be able to entice you anytime, any day, twice on Fridays m

But whatever you do, do not waste money on drugs and herbs. They don't work. At best, you can use natural substances like bitter cola, banana, etc, to boost your sperm level. That way, you should be able to maintain erection on the second round. First rounds generally don't last.

True talk attractive is best oooo
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Notatribalist(m): 12:18pm On Dec 08, 2023
PuZZyNegro:


Don't listen to anyone asking you to go for treatment.

Firstly, you need to stop masturbation to heal from the quick ejaculations.

Secondly, you need to be having sex regularly with this your girlfriend. If you have sex once in a while, you are most likely to ejaculate prematurely.

Thirdly, try sex with and without condom. I have noticed that condom make me ejaculate quickly or lose erection at the slightest distraction.

Lastly, make sure the girl is extra ordinarily attractive to you, sexually. There's a difference between a girl being beautiful and being attracted to you. Her body type, shape, and color should be able to entice you anytime, any day, twice on Fridays m

But whatever you do, do not waste money on drugs and herbs. They don't work. At best, you can use natural substances like bitter cola, banana, etc, to boost your sperm level. That way, you should be able to maintain erection on the second round. First rounds generally don't last.
Drugs may may not work,but natural herbs and some coffee works. I was in same situation,mine was so bad that I can ejaculate without having sex. Just by thinking about sex can do the job. I was not even having erection,just ejaculation. It was one herb I used that solved the problem. And you said he should have sex raw? Dude do you even think of STI and STDs?
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by RoyalEdoBoy: 12:21pm On Dec 08, 2023
Shakespeare100:
I've been addicted to masturbation since 16, how I discovered it is a story for another day. I became a chronic masturbator. Sometimes I do it 5 times in a day. My highest record was 8 times in a day. It was so bad that porn sites became my most visited site.

I did it everywhere; on my hospital bed when I was sick, in the church's toilet, in my granny's room, on my grandpa's grave, e.t.c. It was that bad. My own level of masturbation addiction was mental illness.

However, I decided to stop masturbation and I've been on the journey for 4 months. Also, I decided to get a girlfriend, and lose my viginity. I got a girlfriend, we had our first sex and it was beyond embarrassing. If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.

We tried the second round, same thing, third round same thing, fourth round same thing! I'm in trouble! Is this how whack my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life? I can't last more than 10 seconds no matter the rounds. How can I redeem myself from the damage masturbation has done to me? I need help please!

Desist from porn watching and go for counseling
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by hammerFC: 12:25pm On Dec 08, 2023
Notatribalist:

Drugs may may not work,but natural herbs and some coffee works. I was in same situation,mine was so bad that I can ejaculate without having sex. Just by thinking about sex can do the job. I was not even having erection,just ejaculation. It was one herb I used that solved the problem. And you said he should have sex raw? Dude do you even think of STI and STDs?


U KNOW Y, U BOYS ARE ALL HAVING THIS PROBELM RIGHT.


EXERCISE OR SEXERCISE.


FROM YOUR TEENS, U SUPPOSE GET A FCK BUDDY TO BE PLAYING AND STUDYING.


THE LONGER U DONT USE IT, AND U KEEP MASTURBATING, THE LESS IT WILL DEVELOP.


SOME OF U ARE TERRIFIED OF YOUR OWN ERECTION, SOON, U GET NONE.


AS A MALE CHILD ONCE U HIT YOUR TEEN, TELL YOUR MUM AND SISTERS TO KEEP THEIR HANDS TO THEMSELVES AND MARK OUT TERRITORY.


IF DEM DISTURB, MOVE OUT.


U ARE AT WORST A BIG BOY AND AT BEST A YOUNG MAN/ADULT, READY TO LAY THE PIPE IF THE OPPORTUNITY ARISE.


GET THAT MONEY AND MAKE SURE THE BITCHES KNOW ALL ABOUT IT.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by pinknipple: 12:26pm On Dec 08, 2023
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.Your statement about masturbation ruining lives seems inaccurate or exaggerated to me. Everyone's experiences with such matters can vary significantly.
Eversince my practice of masturbation since May this year, I've managed to avoid unnecessary sexual encounters, resulting in savings of 3.5 million. Additionally, I've never experienced any type of infection, and this stands as a testament to the benefits I've personally found in this approach.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by officialfestus(m): 12:26pm On Dec 08, 2023
grin
Nicepoker:
You did it on your grandfather's grave grin. That old man is really disappointed in you.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by IAmHim1: 12:27pm On Dec 08, 2023
Quitting your masturbation is quite easy if only you're truthful yo yourself and you follow these steps I'll outline to you

1) take two sheets of paper
2) write out ALL the things you love doing on one sheet ie listening to juice wurld, watching porn, reading love novels, eating rice n plantains, complaining. Etc. You know yourself AND THE THINGS YOU LOVE

2b) Then take the second sheet of paper and write down ALL the things you hate doing ie eating beans, listening to trap songs, reading a particular 'genre' of book, doing exercises...you name it.
IF EARLY MORNING EXERCISES IS WHAT YOU HATE DOING, THE YOU DO IT. it falls under the things you HATE doing


Now here's your salvation on a golden platter:

After outlining the things you love doing and the things you hate doing, STOP DOING THE THINGS YOU LOVE DOING AND START DOING THE THINGS YOU HATE DOING FOR 30 DAYS STRAIGHT!!!


After doing the things you hate doing for 30 DAYS STRAIGHT, you stop doing the things you hate doing and you start doing the things you love doing...by then, masturbation and porn watching would be a thing of the past

Trust me, I haven't read all the advice youve received but if it's not what I just outlined here, you just might be wasting your precious time

If you're truthful to yourself about the love doing and the things you hate doing, you'll be free I promise you this. Lolzzz ...and yes...all the steps I outlined, I've followed it also now I'm free. Done n dusted...now it's all behind me

It works for ANY KIND OF ADDICTION WHATSOEVER. Gambling, drinking etc



I know it will be hard...it was hard for me...the first two weeks are but after that...the third and fourth week... you'll start to experience your freedom n clarity. You'll even feel like crying when you're finally free

And please and please, stay away from groups or therapy session filed with people trying to end their masturbation. It'll only make it harder for you to end yours as their energy rubs on yours. Trust me on this

It's December now. Follow the steps outlined and by February, you'll be anneeeeww. Lolz

Don't forget to share to whom might need it for no price tag. It should be Free.

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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by DARLINGTON869(m): 12:28pm On Dec 08, 2023
Demons of life that chase after potential men of valour. It's not easy.....I tell you bro, it's not easy to break that chain.....But with GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.
IF YOU CAN, TRY DOING THESE THINGS:

1) Delete every downloaded porn videos in your phone gallery.
2) If you can, swap your phone for a touch light phone. That way, you don't have easy access to porn. Porn is the greatest fuel for masturbation. The moment your eyes feeds on it, the higher the tendency to masturbate.
3) Pray and if you can, fast as well. Study his word even if it makes no sense or meaning to you. Trust me, while doing these things you will sense the devil fighting you with negative thoughts and sleep. But don't give up. It's just a sign that the devil hates the fact you are getting close to a solution. MIND YOU, you may relapse and find yourself masturbating again. Don't worry. Get back up and continue the healing process which you started.
4) Confide in a Christian friend or pastor who you know is trustworthy and can help or guide you.

Above all, don't give up...... don't GIVE UP

As for those of you making light of his situation or mocking the OP, just remember, this can happen to anyone including one of your kids (God forbid ).

Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by EnglishUsa: 12:30pm On Dec 08, 2023
Notatribalist:

Drugs may may not work,but natural herbs and some coffee works. I was in same situation,mine was so bad that I can ejaculate without having sex. Just by thinking about sex can do the job. I was not even having erection,just ejaculation. It was one herb I used that solved the problem. And you said he should have sex raw? Dude do you even think of STI and STDs?
please help, I have law sperm count and I think the course is from this masturbation of a thing and I did mine for 23 years, his own story is a child play compared to mine... I need herb please suggest
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by PuZZyNegro: 12:31pm On Dec 08, 2023
Notatribalist:

Drugs may may not work,but natural herbs and some coffee works. I was in same situation,mine was so bad that I can ejaculate without having sex. Just by thinking about sex can do the job. I was not even having erection,just ejaculation. It was one herb I used that solved the problem. And you said he should have sex raw? Dude do you even think of STI and STDs?

He said girlfriend. You should be able to trust your girlfriend enough to have unprotected sex with her.
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Oluwapab: 12:33pm On Dec 08, 2023
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Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by AfahaAbia(m): 12:36pm On Dec 08, 2023
Shakespeare100:
I've been addicted to masturbation since 16, how I discovered it is a story for another day. I became a chronic masturbator. Sometimes I do it 5 times in a day. My highest record was 8 times in a day. It was so bad that porn sites became my most visited site.

I did it everywhere; on my hospital bed when I was sick, in the church's toilet, in my granny's room, on my grandpa's grave, e.t.c. It was that bad. My own level of masturbation addiction was mental illness.

However, I decided to stop masturbation and I've been on the journey for 4 months. Also, I decided to get a girlfriend, and lose my viginity. I got a girlfriend, we had our first sex and it was beyond embarrassing. If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.

We tried the second round, same thing, third round same thing, fourth round same thing! I'm in trouble! Is this how whack my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life? I can't last more than 10 seconds no matter the rounds. How can I redeem myself from the damage masturbation has done to me? I need help please!

Your problem isn't because of masturbating. Your problem is psychological. Just try to see a doctor
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Revolva(m): 12:40pm On Dec 08, 2023
Keep jerking off its healthy , at least sometimes its good no be everytime person go de nak naija gals wey dem kitten de smell sometimes

As for ur weak performance oga no be jerking off cause am na ur.mindset
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by 12345baba(m): 12:40pm On Dec 08, 2023
Shakespeare100:
I've been addicted to masturbation since 16, how I discovered it is a story for another day. I became a chronic masturbator. Sometimes I do it 5 times in a day. My highest record was 8 times in a day. It was so bad that porn sites became my most visited site.

I did it everywhere; on my hospital bed when I was sick, in the church's toilet, in my granny's room, on my grandpa's grave, e.t.c. It was that bad. My own level of masturbation addiction was mental illness.

However, I decided to stop masturbation and I've been on the journey for 4 months. Also, I decided to get a girlfriend, and lose my viginity. I got a girlfriend, we had our first sex and it was beyond embarrassing. If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.

We tried the second round, same thing, third round same thing, fourth round same thing! I'm in trouble! Is this how whack my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life? I can't last more than 10 seconds no matter the rounds. How can I redeem myself from the damage masturbation has done to me? I need help please!
hahahaha
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by fitinwell: 12:44pm On Dec 08, 2023
Shakespeare100:
I've been addicted to masturbation since 16, how I discovered it is a story for another day. I became a chronic masturbator. Sometimes I do it 5 times in a day. My highest record was 8 times in a day. It was so bad that porn sites became my most visited site.

I did it everywhere; on my hospital bed when I was sick, in the church's toilet, in my granny's room, on my grandpa's grave, e.t.c. It was that bad. My own level of masturbation addiction was mental illness.

However, I decided to stop masturbation and I've been on the journey for 4 months. Also, I decided to get a girlfriend, and lose my viginity. I got a girlfriend, we had our first sex and it was beyond embarrassing. If I count my strokes well, it's not more than five.

We tried the second round, same thing, third round same thing, fourth round same thing! I'm in trouble! Is this how whack my sex life is going to be for the rest of my life? I can't last more than 10 seconds no matter the rounds. How can I redeem myself from the damage masturbation has done to me? I need help please!

You need to get serious with your life..

You won't understand, the gravity of all these until you are ready to become a responsible Man by having your own Family..

Masturbation is not ordinary... You cannot understand Masturbation in the Physical Realm..

Masturbation is spiritual transaction or transfer of your glory, blessings in exchange for temporary pleasure...

And the truth is this... The Porn as really messed up your mindset...

The earliest you rescue yourself the better for you...

Don't say you did not get an advice..

Here is one ..
Re: Masturbation Has Ruined Me! by Osanoghodua1: 12:44pm On Dec 08, 2023
Just accept Jesus and make a daily confession of no masturbation to the Holy spirit and you're okay.

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