chatinent:
Money is everything.

Jeon:
sex.

Uyi2017:


I won't conclude on that cus there are marriages that even with money, they still gall apart

Uyi2017:


Sex?

Kooldon:
More money and less sex

FuckingMachine:
A big, attitude-resetting preeq.

Magnoliaa:
Almost 6 comments in and no one has said anything meaningful.

Okay.

Big dick energy?

Magnoliaa:
Almost 6 comments in and no one has said anything meaningful.

Okay.

folake4u:
Check my own.

folake4u:
BDE

Magnoliaa:


They are coming for your head.

Magnoliaa:


I know this is all a person like Luminöuz has to bring sha. 😂🤭


And brawns, but no br*ins.

folake4u:
Let me use NL to de-stress small. 🤣🤣🤣

folake4u:
You too like trouble.

Magnoliaa:


I know this is all a person like Luminouz has to bring sha. 😂🤭


And brawn.

Magnoliaa:


O necesstri.

If you feel it's needed, I support you. 🤣

chatinent:
Money is everything.

He also brings love in exchange for respect..

He keeps making sure there is money in the relationship until he goes six feet yonder.

kkins25:
I remember my neighbor back in Naija; the community council was about to sell a nearby land and were re-measuring lands in the area, including ours and my neighbor. Let's call her mama Gloria. Mama Gloria, is a widow with two daughters.

when the community folks came, every house hold men had come out to defend their land, except, of course, mama Gloria. She came out to defend herself, but, she was a woman amongst men. At the end of the day, they took a little portion of Mama Gloria's land, claiming that she had built into the land next to her.

Later that evening, I heard Mama Gloria tending to her backyard farm speaking to herself, mostly grumbling. The words that made ingrained that day into my head was "it's because I don't have husband."

If you live in a society where traditions of old are still clinged to and you're a woman, a man will be your greatest asset. LIke most other women, mama Gloria was employed and was able to single-handedly raise her two daughters through school and even higher education. She was also a farmer, who managed several plots of land worth of farm produce. She was not an average woman, even then, as aggressive as she had become, in the presence of aggressive men, she was still shut down.

Ladies in the city have no clue what women in the rural areas go through, and therefore cannot fathom why women desperately want to cling to their fvcking abusive husbands. It's either that or homelessness and shame.

In today's society, Nigerian society, where women earn 77% less than men, men still hold all the bargaining power. So, what do men bring to the table is a ridiculous question to ask you man, knowing he's most likey way more richer than you.

I think we make the mistake of using western society's data to analyse our situation which is a gross misrepresentation of relationship dynamics.

Epistle on top small question...

Shaking my head

luminouz:


*Sighs*

🙄🙄🙄🙄.... As if na small dick energy you want before... I have brains too!!!

Omode yi, sho ara e! Oma jegba lowo mi!

Persephone1:
Epistle on top small question...

Shaking my head

Magnoliaa:
Almost 6 comments in and no one has said anything meaningful.

Okay.