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Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Kobojunkiee: 4:36pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
stormborn28:Is Op some sort of god that he can't go into his own kitchen to cook food that his own family can eat? Op is equally a grown up like his wife so why can't he equally enter kitchen to cook for his family? ![]() 2 she is the one OP chose to marry so insulting her is tantamount to insulting OP. ![]() |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by gidjah(m): 4:39pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Mehn ?! Just came online to relax but saw this challenge and responses from amazing NLDRS. NA WAO ! some of our responses are quite way off for a union of 15! Honestly if you ain't married( like many of the ladies here seem),or you do not have a close elder/younger brother with this kind of situation on hand ,you might not be able to relate or empathise with the op. For most of us here giving great ounsel "itsiwell*,"fiscus" etc big ups to you all,great minds are you. If your advice is asking op to "go cooking" while d lady does something else, IT SHOWS U AINT MARRIED AND WOULD LIKELY WOULD NEVER BE with this kind of ugly feminist mentality ,keep deiceving and disgusting your self forming macho woman, GOD GO HELP YOUR GENERATION O!! |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by alyarmouk(m): 4:40pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Try practicing scarcity for a while n watch her adjust. Do with much qualms in the home |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Faposky95: 4:41pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Dey carry am go play monkey post, play against am......if she be keeper,dey blast the ball for her face or Bobbi......or dey tackle and clear am like soldier...... ..... nothing you fit do if na house....over Sabi wetin....wife....?! .....the end |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by stormborn28(m): 4:43pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: OP married her because he believe she can cook for him and save waste. This is some of the instances girls will complain that they can not go to their boyfriend house to cook since he has not married them.. How will a guy get to know this shortcoming? You are saying nobody forced OP to marry her. If OP had seen this during their dating, a can berth that he wouldn't have married her |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by stormborn28(m): 4:46pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: by gidjah(m): 4:39pm Mehn ?! Just came online to relax but saw this challenge and responses from amazing NLDRS. NA WAO ! some of our responses are quite way off for a union of 15! Honestly if you ain't married( like many of the ladies here seem),or you do not have a close elder/younger brother with this kind of situation on hand ,you might not be able to relate or empathise with the op. For most of us here giving great ounsel "itsiwell*,"fiscus" etc big ups to you all,great minds are you. If your advice is asking op to "go cooking" while d lady does something else, IT SHOWS U AINT MARRIED AND WOULD LIKELY WOULD NEVER BE with this kind of ugly feminist mentality ,keep deiceving and disgusting your self forming macho woman, GOD GO HELP YOUR GENERATION O!! |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Kobojunkiee: 4:46pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
stormborn28:OP married her for 15 years believing this even when the evidence was contrary? Now you are paintinh Op an imbe_cile too? ![]() 2. Na wa oo! ![]() |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by ThunderFireAgba: 4:46pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
cooooooks:Lol! Now Laugh at yourself. |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Kobojunkiee: 4:47pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
stormborn28:***yawn*** |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by tollyboy5(m): 4:51pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
vazsily:What she meant is you got what you want. Now that there is issue lead by example. Show her how to cook with lesser money so she could start from there. |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by gidjah(m): 4:57pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Kobo wake up !no one said other wise, most men do cooking at home,I as a matter of fact adopted cooking as my major hubby,( though I have become lazy as d days go by and by).What we are saying which your stubborn head and soul wouldn wanna accept is this, "your solution is wrong and horrible for this matter on ground kobo ,don't give us part of your junks to consume as counsel here today.This shouldnt be the major reason why op should fly into the kitchen so as to "make a point" or 'prove to his wife 'that he also can cook and b a better manager,"thus trying to get her to adjust "!!that's horrible to the ears ,that's defective on our side here and men here gather to say back off from posting this your awkward feminist counsel. It is not tbe required . Kobojunkiee: |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Kobojunkiee: 5:05pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
gidjah:So it is also about keeping up with the ego and not really about resolving the problem then to you? ![]() |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by stormborn28(m): 5:10pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: I repeat, that woman is the type that dodge going to her boyfriend house for things like cooking because she has a flaw there. If OP had discovered it during courtship, he would have ended the relationship |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Kobojunkiee: 5:12pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
stormborn28:Na wa oo...this one wey you dey cast Op as an imbe_cile so. Na so you hate am reach? ![]() |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by cooooooks(m): 5:15pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
1. I'm not religious. 2. Become one/are in agreement sound like the same thing to me. Kobojunkiee: 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Kobojunkiee: 5:18pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
cooooooks:OK. Just making sure you were not going to follow that up with the bullsheet line, "marriage is spiritual" or something close. ![]() |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by stormborn28(m): 5:18pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: I did not say that ..it is your words. Take responsibility |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Kobojunkiee: 5:19pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
stormborn28:I am not the one who has been demeaning OP'S choice upandan. ![]() |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Jewessgratitud3: 5:36pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
If truly she's wasting resources, then tell her to be cooking half of what she used to cook but if like you said she will not listen, try and find out the quantity she cooks. pack all the food into a store, measure out half of what she normally cooks, and drop for the days meal then lock up the rest carry key go work. abi she go beat you if you do this one too? I don't know how a man go dey fear woman wey he marry dey feed say he no fit talk to her |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Akharmony: 5:52pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Just imagine over cooking and looking for who to share the food for. . Marriage go humble you spirit, you will b shock to see some behaviours you spouse will strt unveiling |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by baba4thegehs: 6:01pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
vazsily: This marriage don tire this man, seems there are some unresolved issues. Because I don't understand how difficult it is to have a conversation with your wife and do properly meal planning. |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by BRATISLAVA: 6:03pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
vazsily: It's under 5 years, say the truth. She's crying about it all over the place too. |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by dododawa1: 6:06pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Excuse to JAPA |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Jorge91: 6:11pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
vazsily:don’t buy food in large quantity, if she wants to cook rice give her money for one and half de rica, at least it reach ur household for a day or 2, same applies for every other food items. |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by LeeSmart: 6:14pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Gadafii:E de do me like that junkie of a person no stable |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by jojothaiv(m): 6:49pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
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Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Eyinju112(f): 6:49pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
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Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Countersam(m): 7:02pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
vazsily: Chai.. it's quite unfortunate that your marriage has turned to Hell on earth... Call her parents to a formal meeting and make these serious concerns known to them, involve your church pastor too if possible. Just try and exhaust every peaceful options to effect a change or else you will get depressed beyond repair. In the meantime strictly Tighten your belt and wallet while doing that. |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by stormborn28(m): 7:59pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: No one is demeaning anybody. It is what the woman in question is that is what i am making emphasis on. If she is discipline, there won't be waste. When the truth is stated, most women take it as insult |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by Jughead29: 8:18pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Please don't pick advice from here that will hurt your golden 15yrs marriage please. God is our great provider, you're only acting in place of the Almighty. My suggestion : Tell her how much you loved her, how you admire her attitude over the years... and that she's the best that could happen to you. Then tell her that you don't want anything to bring problems between both of you but the current situation in Nigeria is trying to.... Now tell her that, her cooking habit has been great over the years, but everything has time and season.... That its time to adjust so that you won't over work yourself or start disliking her |
Re: How Do You Manage With A Wasteful Over Sabi Wife by PeachtreeReside(f): 8:18pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
Start reducing the money you give her Draw up a budget and if it finishes, o ti tan. Your kids will suffer for a bit. Hopefully sense will be restored to Mrs. Darosa. |
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