Skillsmaster:
I am a mathematics teacher, before my marriage, I can't submit my CV in three to four schools without getting any invite for interview from two or all of them. But it is the opposite now.
I tried to get capital to even start a poultry farm because I am also good at that, but I couldn't get any. My wife is already "threatening the marriage" asking me to bring money which she knows that I don't have. She told me that she regrets this marriage and just saying all sort of things. She knows that I am not lazy. Even to get labourer work on site is not easy. I will stop here.
I am sorry for bothering you with this long write up. You can say anything you want to say but I will appreciate it if you can help out with a job. I want to have my home back. Thank you.

Kobojunkiee:
Does your wife at least have a job of her own or die you marry her to become a housewife on a teacher's salary?

Do you share house responsibilities with her--- chores, etc.? Do you both still do things together even though things are hard?

I hope you have both planned not to have children until you not only get your job back but saved up at least 6 months salary?

Mindlog:
My wife is already "threatening the marriage" asking me to bring money which she knows that I don't have. She told me that she regrets this marriage and just saying all sort of things......Be bold enough to have a one to one talk with her, giving her the option to leave the marriage if she wants to, don't let her trigger your collapse.

I still can't wrap my mind around the fact that you teach mathematics and still not earning from it because your job as a teacher!

Like earlier suggested, be creative. Market your skills to parents especially those whose children will be sitting for next year's SSCE and NECO, kids living in Estates will be more ideal as you can get 4-5 parents in an Estate get their kids enrolled in your Maths tutorials that would be held in the home of one of the parents, selling them the angle of security as their children won't have to leave their Estate for the classes.

Mindlog:
My wife is already "threatening the marriage" asking me to bring money which she knows that I don't have. She told me that she regrets this marriage and just saying all sort of things......Be bold enough to have a one to one talk with her, giving her the option to leave the marriage if she wants to, don't let her trigger your collapse.

I still can't wrap my mind around the fact that you teach mathematics and still not earning from it because your job as a teacher!

Like earlier suggested, be creative. Market your skills to parents especially those whose children will be sitting for next year's SSCE and NECO, kids living in Estates will be more ideal as you can get 4-5 parents in an Estate get their kids enrolled in your Maths tutorials that would be held in the home of one of the parents, selling them the angle of security as their children won't have to leave their Estate for the classes.

Resetinc:
I believe you have no kids yet since the marriage is 3months old …?
So, when you said “tired of everything” what and what is ‘everything’ — rent, upkeeps & feeding for 2 people for 3months and everyone is tired of everything?😂😂😂😂😂

1TrippleCee:
Oga, make flyers home teacher, go to event centers, malls, churches, put the flyer in car windows


find 10,000 Naira, print like 2,000 - 4,000 copies. Distribute and see the wonders that will happen

Thank you



Why are Nigerians scarcely creative

Skillsmaster:


Tired of the situation. No job, no money to even feed the two people. My rent will be due in two months time.

Skillsmaster:


Tired of the situation. No job, no money to even feed the two people. My rent will be due in two months time.

Resetinc:


Join your wife in her shop and be assisting her … forget the ‘I’m a graduate mentality’ … if you can drive look for who’s hiring keke drivers for hire-purchase …. It’s not easy anywhere

Lastly and more importantly…
next election, Vote wisely 😂😂😂

henrimoto:
..Oluwa a se IYANU. - God will surprise you ! Be strong. Don't give up. Continue in your search and continue to believe God.

Skillsmaster:
Good day nairalanders. Please come to my rescue. I will be brief as possible. Please ignore any grammatical or spelling error.
I lost my job (teaching job) two months to my wedding. About 10-15 of us lost our job in this same school, because of the economy of the country. I couldn't get any job after then, so I decided that I will postpone my wedding because of this but everyone except my younger brother kicked against it including my wife. I continued with the wedding plan believing that everything will fall in place soon. This is three months after my wedding, still no job. My wife has tried a lot, she has a shop and she has been very helpful all these while and I use to appreciate her for that. But of recent she started behaving somehow, which shows that she is tired of the situation and I am also tired of the situation. My wife told me that she can no longer continue like this. I was surprised because this is the same woman that was so angry when I told her about my plan to postpone the wedding. To be honest with you people, she has tried, I must commend her.
On my own side, I have searched for job to no avail, both teaching and non teaching. I reside in Abuja, I and one of my friends have trekked on many occasions submitting my own CV. Yet no call for interview. I am a mathematics teacher, before my marriage, I can't submit my CV in three to four schools without getting any invite for interview from two or all of them. But it is the opposite now.
I tried to get capital to even start a poultry farm because I am also good at that, but I couldn't get any. My wife is already "threatening the marriage" asking me to bring money which she knows that I don't have. She told me that she regrets this marriage and just saying all sort of things. She knows that I am not lazy. Even to get labourer work on site is not easy. I will stop here.

I am sorry for bothering you with this long write up. You can say anything you want to say but I will appreciate it if you can help out with a job. I want to have my home back. Thank you.

Note: I studied engineering. I was a site engineer for like two years before going into teaching. Story for another day.

1TrippleCee:
Oga, make flyers home teacher, go to event centers, malls, churches, put the flyer in car windows


find 10,000 Naira, print like 2,000 - 4,000 copies. Distribute and see the wonders that will happen



Why are Nigerians scarcely creative

Skillsmaster:


Thank you. I won't give up

tevanso:
From his write up, even the 10k will be difficult for him to get, please help him with 10k if you have. Thanks

Skillsmaster:
■ Graduate mentality? Anyway, you don't know me. I use to join her in the shop

Stevenbright:
Have you tried home lesson teaching. It could be the way out for you as a mathematics teacher.

She threatening you could mean two things but I don't know which is your reality though:
1. She thinks being of help and soft on you is making you feel relaxed. Hence the need to fire you up.

2. She is beginning to fall for someone else and hence regretting the marriage.

ahnie:
Most parents are scared of male home lesson tutors.
The wife has no choice than to keep bearing with her husband for the time being since the man is not resting on his job hunting.
But if the reverse is the case ,the man would gladly feed the said wife without complaining.