lordnkem000:

That's the thing bro, he didn't let her go, read her statement, she left him because another woman came into her boyfriend life and was giving everything she couldn't so she left. I can tell you she's not saying everything

Tooh just look at that...

My candid advise to her (prettygirl) is to go back to that her guy, adjust her lifestyle that need adjustment...and collect back her man from that new lady in his life.

She shouldn't allow another lady reap all her labours in the relationship. That is if she have sown any

Matix222:


I pity that your boyfriend if he is still with a lesbian like you

Small girl of 19 years has gone awol even your parents are at fault

Anny69 is actually bisexual.
Do you have any experience dating a lesbian or ex lesbian?
Omo the experience no just funny at all

Just move on,everything will be alright.

Ballzproblem2:
I'm glad he upgraded, after women dry leave men at their worst


find person your level if you are not willing to support

even the hypocrite OP would have done the same

Jeon:
This happens when you placed love at the top of your life budget instead of improving yourself, you are trying to improve for someone.

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Remember this "Men can never be pleased no matter how good and dedicated you are" .


Not one lady, not two, but all the past ladies supported him before you came into the picture,yet he left the supportive relationships .Why did you not ask him why he left the supportive ones?.



You ask Wahala, you no ask Wahala.



Omo ,you don suffer for relationships since I know you for NL. Sorry dear. Next time open your eyes and don't love with all your heart

Love takes advantages of good girl.

just shut the hell up

A4alpha:
Block button spell cowardice, it demonstrates weakness. every human should learn to take a stand and set boundaries (Redline). note one Bs multiplies to more Bs(es) and if your cool taking BS then by all means your a low value woman and he's right?

That's the only way I can easily forget about him.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

The truth is, internet is causing a lot of awakening among men and women. But more especially men. The male folks are now being more alive to some of the things/flaws they neglected or ignored about women in the past, all thanks to our social media and internet forum rants like this.


These things are going farther than we all think.


I was surprised when an elder brother who is a billionaire in Naira sent me a News link about something that happened and guess the link? It was Nairaland, I was dumbfounded, I was like so this man self de visit Nairaland lol.



Most of my guys abroad frequent Nairaland, but mostly as unregistered guests.



So work on yourself so you can become a better version of yourself not for guys but for yourself first, for your family, for your closest friends and then it will prepare you to meet a better man, but only if you didnt allow your new better self you will become to become another impediment to your meeting guys. I said this because most ladies become unruly, unfriendly and unapproachable the moment they improve and become more valuable, making them lose out in starting and keeping a great relationship/marriage with a great man

more of this kind of guys will full street soon. Ladies get set oooo. For you my dear poster thank you for being a strong and straight forward girl. Leaving that guy is the best thing that u did

then by all means protect your heart sis
do what ever works for you.

Prettygirl200:
That's the only way I can easily forget about him.

BscHolder:
even the hypocrite OP would have done the same

exactly

BscHolder:
Anny69 is actually bisexual.
Do you have any experience dating a lesbian or ex lesbian?
Omo the experience no just funny at all

Do you know me?

Anny69:
Do you know me?

thonia marvin right?

BscHolder:
thonia marvin right?

Nope.

Anny69:
Nope.

what about flamemignon?
Are you both still communicating?

BscHolder:
what about flamemignon?
Are you both still communicating?

Who are you?

Y is everyone not talking about d unnecessary comparisons? Not once not twice, Y did he left his “Supportive ex girlfriends”? After all they did for him….I personally can’t be with someone who compares me with others, if u want me to adjust, tell me and I will but not comparisons…Also bro is a jigolo, why is it dat it is only financial support he’s always getting from his so called supportive gals?? He’s a jigolo, there’s no two way about it. What are u getting from him other than financial gains? Does he have any impact in ur life aside dat?? So wat’s d fuss all about?? He clearly saw a better opportunity and tuned in, trust me if he sees a new catch dat’s more richer dan the current lady, he’ll still leave dis one for d new one…His needs are insatiable….
My advice, be a better version of urself, u’ll meet a better person soon, just be good
NB; I’m not a feminist and I’ll never be…But Let’s call a spade a spade

Damn,

Another guy broke OP's heart again. We had barely recovered from her Yahoo ex, now this?

Watch how her NL posts will get SAVAGE, attacking everything and everyone.

Autonomous01:
Y is everyone not talking about d unnecessary comparisons? Not once not twice, Y did he left his “Supportive ex girlfriends”? After all they did for him….I personally can’t be with someone who compares me with others, if u want me to adjust, tell me and I will but not comparisons…Also bro is a jigolo, why is it dat it is only financial support he’s always getting from his so called supportive gals?? He’s a jigolo, there’s no two way about it. What are u getting from him other than financial gains? Does he have any impact in ur life aside dat?? So wat’s d fuss all about?? He clearly saw a better opportunity and tuned in, trust me if he sees a new catch dat’s more richer dan the current lady, he’ll still leave dis one for d new one…His needs are insatiable….
My advice, be a better version of urself, u’ll meet a better person soon, just be good
NB; I’m not a feminist and I’ll never be…But Let’s call a spade a spade

Madam stop attacking a man who you don't know because what you read here. Why would she try to adjust if he was a bad person to her or if she felt he didn't love her? Is that how u make your conclusions? That girl has issues she's not telling us and you are here picking sides. Her loss is the other girl's gain so let the man breathe. Na she break up and not the man according to her story so it means the man didn't throw her away, she had too many inner thinkings and she decided to act on one of them so how is the man's fault? Myself I try to work hard to keep myself upgraded for my gf so another mothafka don't take her away, she should do same or let the man be

Prettygirl200:
i don't have much am a young girl in my very early twenties, am doing my best even though it's not enough but I can't go and steal or make prostitution, I still tried to adjust when he saw that he then told me I was acting up and pretending because of what I wanted to gain, that statement made me really weak.

and was aware of this,then that is the best solution you could applied i guess.

luminouz:
Damn,

Another guy broke OP's heart again. We had barely recovered from her Yahoo ex, now this?

Watch how her NL posts will get SAVAGE, attacking everything and everyone.

Tell us something, so you know her?

lordnkem000:

Tell us something, so you know her?

K

Being ones partner is by choice and not by force,partners would do things willing and be appreciate either little or big any men who judge his partner based on her assistance,is not a man enough as a men u have friends u can easily ask help from them..everything in a relationship would be done with love not force appreciate urself enjoy ur life im sure someone who truly love u and appreciate u will find u one day...try and learn frm ur mistakes in d relationship too to be d best version of urself

Hmmm. Na wa oh.
By 9 months, dem for don born baby

Tshine456:
Being ones partner is by choice and not by force,partners would do things willing and be appreciate either little or big any men who judge his partner based on her assistance,is not a man enough as a men u have friends u can easily ask help from them..everything in a relationship would be done with love not force appreciate urself enjoy ur life im sure someone who truly love u and appreciate u will find u one day...try and learn frm ur mistakes in d relationship too to be d best version of urself

Thank you!! I have decided to just move on, I just need peace of mind, I don't want that constant comparison, the constant reminder that am with him for what I want to gain, it's really somehow not appreciating my little efforts m tired so he should just be happy with his supportive girlfriend.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

I know you are heartbroken and you need someone to console you right now. Pm me to console you from this heartbreak.

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

you get mind sha. For me, that's the best thing to do. You are very wise

Prettygirl200:
Thank you.

u are welcome,im sure someone special is out there for u..

Anny69:
Ehya. Enjoy your single life. Quotes 1&2 have given the best advice already.

You wey like prick, Dey deceive yourself

Prettygirl200:
According to him I don't support his dreams, I don't encourage him, that my love for him was conditional, over time he keeps telling me that all the ladies that have come into his life has this tendency of supporting him and all of that, and I happen not to fall in that category, so because of that he keeps comparing and making reference's all the time it's always brings issues between us every now and then.

Some months ago he was facing serious financial problems, and all I was able to do the little I could even though it was chicken change but again he met a lady who did more than I did and the comparison started again, it again brought fights and arguments, off recent he has met a lady who according to him supported him greatly which he told him he has been able to bounce back and things are getting better, after some days he told me thesame lady confessed that she was in-love with me it was after that confession he then told me that he has seen and known how a woman can love unconditionally, that the lady never asked him of anything , that she supported his dreams and is encouraging something I couldn't do. Before then he told me about some things I was doing which he didn't like, I tried to adjust to suit in the woman he wanted me to be character wise that was when he told me I was acting up and pretending to love him because of what I stand to gain from him.

I just got fed up of the whole thing and told him that if the lady is the kind of woman he wants in his life he should be with her, he has always talked about a supportive woman and since I couldn't or didn't fall in that category I decided to let him go in other for me to have peace of mind. So I blocked him everywhere just so it will be easy for me to forget about him and everything, I don't know if I did the right thing?.

can you listen to yourself? You did your best and it's not good enough, he keeps comparing you with his exes or other ladies yet you are still there, he never appreciates you yet you keep pushing. Either you are jobless or don't know your worth. You are begging for love that doesn't exist and allowing yourself being used as trash. I can't help but imagine how used you are. My dear face your life and never beg to be loved. A man that values you would celebrate you no matter how little you offer him. He won't compare you with others and if he does it is to celebrate you. Get a job keep yourself busy make yourself worthy for others and not begging for love. You will find the right man out there that truly sees you as an angel. Not one that see you as a leech or nuisance. Go to were you'll be celebrated not Tolerated. A word is enough for the wise.

These generation of men demand too much.

Dminister:



I know you are heartbroken and you need someone to console you right now. Pm me to console you from this heartbreak.

run oh

According to you, "women are supposed to be $laves for men". You claim to be in your early 20yrs, yet a man is abusing your emotions and sees you as a sugar mummy. You haven't seen anything yet. Your beliefs is affecting you, so continue to suffer in relationships. $lave for the malefolk.