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Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Mhizzard(m): 3:11pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
samuelglobal:what bring would bring their blames,are they not the one having the best enjoyment that suppose to generally |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by ednut1(m): 3:12pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Some people believe marriage brings financial breakthrough. Poor people that have more than 2 kids need to be sterilized and the children taken away from them. Bunch of irresponsible idiots. Even if you have money you can still go broke one day so have a reasonable amount of children. You are not into farming like our ancestors but you don born 4 to 5. Haba 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Jozilinn: 3:13pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
True naso some useless stingy and worthless men dey Dem no just value the woman but the woman but ready to give am belle, without caring for the other children, Let God help us with sensible men this days who are ready to be fathers not he goats who are ready to climb and go. Even the marriage sef na scam no matter anything you do, it's terms you are looking for favour from the husband and he doesn't have just talking from my cousin sister experience Sha 😱😱 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Nwaokunkpara: 3:13pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
samuelglobal: Past government and past government blames the previous government 😀😂🤣 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by galantjoe(m): 3:17pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
The OP post is not fair to those people that have business challenges or job termination the moment they get married. Secondly, getting married is a divine mandate upon man to multiply and subdue the earth. Thirdly, getting married and having kids are good omen that will bring to biological equilibrium. Fourthly the main characteristics of living organisms is reproduction. So it is not out of place to marry and to have kids. those kids would bring continuity of life, fortunes and wealth to society in general and their parents in particular. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by komzy589(m): 3:20pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
jaksmillioniar:Na dem be this. Creating poverty with useless thoughts. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by eepeepook: 3:26pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Ignorance is the cause. The younger ones who should be wiser allow themselves fall into the trap, thus prolonging hardship for everyone involved. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by MimiSheWrote(f): 3:26pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Marriage is not actually compulsory. The reason most humans throughout history traditionally see marriage as a necessity is simply psychological and basic instinct, it's one of the traits we evolved along the way to encourage reproduction and ensure the continuation of our specie. Did you know that many other mammals out there also practice "marriage" ?? (They may not walk down the isle holding their father hand in the traditional human sense) But they sure understand the assignment. With all that being said. DO YOU REALLY "NEED" TO GET MARRIED? Well... marriage can be a beautiful,wonderful and fulfilling experience with many advantages(and also disadvantages) for many people, but it is not right for everyone. Individuals should think with clear head, bypass any basic instinct, any traditional-cultural pressure... other people's opinion. consider your own need and circumstances fully well before deciding marriage is right for you. "Your LIFE is yours to live" (read that again) 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by africandollar: 3:27pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Nothing wrong in getting married while you’re still struggling as long as you choose not to start having kids until you’ve been able to set yourself up to an extent. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Postinor: 3:28pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
pocohantas:you can also give me some pussy for some free cash,you in 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by kunyeo(m): 3:29pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Ask the motivational speakers! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by kunyeo(m): 3:30pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
IPDGP: Not hard to know those that used to miss their English classes when in school! |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by ViceGovernor: 3:34pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
I swear to Christ almighty I will never understand what pushes a man to marry a lady knowing fully well na suffer dey wait for front. When ah no kraze 😒 God bless my parents for the mentality they raised us with 🙏 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Emmanuel30a: 3:37pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
JibolaAyo:Na cause...No be course... You wants to be mention sexual intercourse... |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by emmaodet: 3:38pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: Exactly bro. The major factor of poverty is self induced poverty. Even if you are poor, sticking to just 1 kid while you and your wife hustle will go along way in alleviating poverty. Personal induced poverty is 60% why people are poor and government policies takes the remaining 40%. I have family members am paying their kids school fees why they hardly do anything for the kids. One has been staying with us since her JSS 1 up till now that she is about to enter nursing school. Her dad knows nothing about her feeding, clothing or surviving till now and when it is time for her to marry, he will now put on a useless agbada claiming bride's father. Father that knows virtually nothing how his daughter survived. He still has 2 that they don't even know what the future owes them because I doubt those ones will go to tertiary university. Poverty is bad and kills the dream of kids. It causes low self esteem and many other things. People should plan before taking critical actions and not just born like dogs and goats and wish the society will train the kids for them. Time has changed 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Emmanuel30a: 3:39pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
KingKO22:Were... |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by kunle75(m): 3:39pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: Most get married to escape promiscuity, thats one reason but there several others too |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Quebec91(m): 3:41pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Quebec91(m): 3:41pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
almajiri dem TimT: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Emmanuel30a: 3:41pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
dietsono:How...? Are you a parent...?... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Chetas81(m): 3:42pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
BLACK AFRICAN CULTURE, POOR ORIENTATION POOR MENTALITY, BLACK AFRICANS DID NOT CHOOSE BETTER LIFE FROM HEAVEN, THAT IS WHY EVERYTHING SCATTER LIKE THIS WAY |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Quebec91(m): 3:43pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
samuelglobal: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Quebec91(m): 3:43pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
blowjohn: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by ViceGovernor: 3:44pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
samuelglobal:Government blame previous government 😒 And the cycle continues 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Quebec91(m): 3:44pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
😆😆😆 prodigyy: |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by purejustice36: 3:46pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
According to my Yoruba Married Neigbour, in his words “To marry born children no hard, na you wan be responsible father” 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Quebec91(m): 3:46pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
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Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by jaksmillioniar: 3:46pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
komzy589:smile is d truth |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Kazeem47(m): 3:47pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
TimT:Boss,not only Hausa but the whole country,Hausa only have the majority.There are girls/ women in the South and Southwest who have many children from different father's,with some not even knowing the father of their child or children. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by Dreamhighnow(m): 3:50pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
People and busy body. Some question are very funny. Either you like it or not. Everyone decide what is the best for them and you will always see such. It eventually work for some and some it doesn't |
Re: Why Do People Get Married Especially Men Knowing Fully Well They Can't Cater For by stormborn28(m): 3:55pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
prodigyy: Imagine..no planning while the power last |
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