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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by ufotunang: 11:30am On Dec 15, 2023
Nigerian men rushing oyinbo women in order to Japa from this hard economy 🙄

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by nairalanda1(m): 11:30am On Dec 15, 2023
ednut1:
People fantasizing about biracial kids are suffering from low self esteem 🤮

Funny enough it happens in all races and all tribes. Some people want biracial kids of any colour because it looks beautiful lol

Well children are children. Noisy,messy and easily irritable angry grin

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Akwamkpuruamu: 11:31am On Dec 15, 2023
nairalanda1:


You will then marry foreigner and five weeks later complain that she is too woke.

Human beings are not perfect. Male or female.

Leave her for me, most naija gehs no get commons semse
They want gender equality but man's money must be involved. How does it sound?

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by SALLYBERRY01(m): 11:31am On Dec 15, 2023
NA Albino she came to visit her step mom at ibadan

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by colbycell: 11:32am On Dec 15, 2023
I am married, though my wife knows I've always wanted biracial kids and prays I don't get Visa to any EU, or American State...I go do quickie I no go lie grin grin grin

But then, I tried without success to get a white girl. Though I've had a few in Abuja, but those happened when I was not fully matured, so I didn't use my time well.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Nackzy: 11:32am On Dec 15, 2023
L1TTLE:
Thanks for sharing, all the uncle's and Aunts I have over there are useless, so no luck on that front, but you're lucky, very lucky.
same thing with mine ooo
Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Eriggs: 11:34am On Dec 15, 2023
accordadoga25:
Hehehehe

One lady wey marry oyinbo travel never allow people rest for WhatsApp.

She has been changing her WhatsApp dp 5-7 times a day.

WhatsApp status na like 38-45 (no exaggeration)

For the past one week now, we never rest 🤣🤣

Even when she never travel na like 8-10 times in one week she dey post her wedding pics with Oyinbo as if everyday na wedding anniversary day🤣
E be like say na her whatsapp status u dey live 24/7.
U get work so?
Asking respectfully

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by savcy(m): 11:35am On Dec 15, 2023
ednut1:
People fantasizing about biracial kids are suffering from low self esteem 🤮

It's unbelievable.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by kushercain: 11:35am On Dec 15, 2023
ednut1:
People fantasizing about biracial kids are suffering from low self esteem 🤮

Gatekeepers for high Esteem undecided

Foh with your linear bs!!

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by BRATISLAVA: 11:35am On Dec 15, 2023
Once you begin planning it, it's business.

A lot of businessmen here.

You mean black people get married to a particular race, just to see what they could produce? Black people can be dumb at times. The desire for having children as trophies or complements...

Creating people that belong nowhere. There was a guy on this forum that settled in some West African slum because he was only human in Africa, especially there.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by nairalanda1(m): 11:37am On Dec 15, 2023
Akwamkpuruamu:


Leave her for me, most naija gehs no get commons semse
They want gender equality but man's money must be involved. How does it sound?

You will have the same complaint about the foreign girl, only in different lingo

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Exceed15: 11:40am On Dec 15, 2023
L1TTLE:
Thanks for sharing, all the uncle's and Aunts I have over there are useless, so no luck on that front, but you're lucky, very lucky.

Hmm. .. it's not about the pictures on social media o . U can't imagine what people you call lucky are going through. Pray to God to guide you meet the man that will give u genuine love.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by BRATISLAVA: 11:40am On Dec 15, 2023
Error401:
Gold digging at the pretext of Biracial kids

You can travel out and meet them if you admire them so much. You dont need to find love, its natural anything outside that is GOLD DIGGING


It's surprising the comments here. Just for children that will be confused. Unless they are Megan markle who can use it for virtue signaling and notoriety.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by ShoeGetSize: 11:43am On Dec 15, 2023
This is the first time I've ever seen someone actually take pride in their lack of self esteem and low standards.


Blackdeewhy:
I met him through my uncle who stays in the US.
However, we are always on phone, either talking, chatting or facetiming, unless he's at work like at present.
Take it or not, I've always wanted to give birth to mixed race since my secondary school days.
Thank God for Grace and Merry Christmas to you all

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Akoasi: 11:44am On Dec 15, 2023
Blackdeewhy:
I met him through my uncle who stays in the US.
However, we are always on phone, either talking, chatting or facetiming, unless he's at work like at present.
Take it or not, I've always wanted to give birth to mixed race since my secondary school days.
Thank God for Grace and Merry Christmas to you all
can we talk Abt deals ?
Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by DeepSight(m): 11:45am On Dec 15, 2023
ednut1:
People fantasizing about biracial kids are suffering from low self esteem 🤮

That's a real possibility but may not always be the case. Sometimes people just fancy something for a peculiar "taste", "flavour" or "feeling" it gives them. An example could be sexual preference. A person may sexually prefer a certain race and it may not be anything to do with inferiority or superiority complexes. That person may just prefer the voluptuous shape of a Latino, Indian or African woman to the pencil shape of a Chinko or white woman.

ShoeGetSize:
This is the first time I've ever seen someone actually take pride in their lack of self esteem and low standards.


Same comment as above for you.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by BigDawsNet: 11:46am On Dec 15, 2023
L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

Social media I guess..

You need to have different mentality before it's works out... have dated a white lady while I was in University.... I'm currently with a new white lady here in America...

If you don't change ur mentality...they will stop talking to you... you can't possibly date them same wey you date an average Nigerian lady

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by WayoProphet: 11:50am On Dec 15, 2023
We met on Tango when Tango was Tango

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Sofistcatdmoron: 11:53am On Dec 15, 2023
meobizy:
The best way is to live in the environment. Save up and japa. They won't fall at your feet when you first arrive. Stay for eight months to one year and they'll begin sending you Facebook messages. It's mostly weird and desperate forty plus years olds looking for babies who'll approach you. Many others will come your way to experience sex with a black man.

Online dating will link you with weirdos especially overweight Caucasian men posing as females. Back in 2003 - 2005, one could get a real overweight Caucasian female or a discarded akata looking for a step spouse.
If japa is easy , I think only government officials will be left in Nigeria

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by WayoProphet: 11:57am On Dec 15, 2023
lol, baba if you package yourself well, they will want to fly to meet you. That is the case most of the time. Not just older women flying out to meet, but young middle aged women as well. Some want to fly out to meet in a neutral country because they know how difficult it is for us to get their visas.

shoodboi2:
The easiest way to get a foreign partner as a man is to have something going on for you. Then, you meet on dating sites and fly out to meet them. But this would be hard cos there're lots of fake people online.

So your best bet is to again, have something going on for you. (Foreign relationship will require you to travel to, and later, stay in the lady's country for a while before she comes to yours.) Your best bet is to travel to a foreign country for tourism. Meet a lady, strike a convo, and take it on from there.

You can travel there for work too, but you'll have better chances in countries that are on similar league with Nigeria (e.g., Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia, and Malaysia) or countries that are richer than Nigeria, but Nigerians are not keen to migrate to (e.g., China, Singapore, Russia, or some other Eastern European or South Asian nation).

It'll be harder to meet a lady in the US or Western Europe cos they'd be afraid that you need them for citizenship. Plus, they have lots of high quality men to choose from, so, you'll just be another dude, unless of course, you're okay with taking a 65-year-old granny who's probably older than your mom, as a wife. 😁

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by meritadavize1(m): 12:00pm On Dec 15, 2023
There are people like us who wants to just marry and have kids with white, I have business and not doing bad,
Pls help connect with one
BigDawsNet:


Social media I guess..

You need to have different mentality before it's works out... have dated a white lady while I was in University.... I'm currently with a new white lady here in America...

If you don't change ur mentality...they will stop talking to you... you can't possibly date them same wey you date an average Nigerian lady

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Whatisurproblem(m): 12:01pm On Dec 15, 2023
Blackdeewhy:
I met him through my uncle who stays in the US.
However, we are always on phone, either talking, chatting or facetiming, unless he's at work like at present.
Take it or not, I've always wanted to give birth to mixed race since my secondary school days.
Thank God for Grace and Merry Christmas to you all
you can now help us find one, these Nigerian women don tire person

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by meritadavize1(m): 12:03pm On Dec 15, 2023
I honestly wanna marry one, please make we reason together

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by ShoeGetSize: 12:03pm On Dec 15, 2023
Your standards are so low that after I read your thread, I felt the need to reply.

I have nothing against interracial marriage, but making light skin the most important criteria for a life partner says a lot about your low self esteem, lack of emotional and spiritual depth and self loathing.

I know marriages that have stood the test of time (30, 40 years of marriage and above) and some of these marriages are interracial, but the one thing that all these marriages had in common regardless of whether they were interracial or between members of the same race is that both husband and wife could easily communicate, laugh together, share together, trust each other, accommodate each other's faults etc.

Personally, from what I have read in your post, If I had to form an opinion about you, I would say that you are too shallow to venture into something as profoundly important as marriage.




L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by DOptical: 12:04pm On Dec 15, 2023
Whites aren't different from Albino na.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by alexvic12: 12:04pm On Dec 15, 2023
Won't be a bad idea to create a forum where foreigners and Nigerians can meet; strictly interracial relationships with rules and regulations to prevent scams from both sides.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by fergieboy: 12:06pm On Dec 15, 2023
From the ones I have seen live, it’s mostly from yahoo dating job wey cast and client have already fallen in love with the person behind the white profile

Eg

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM6r1m6nR/

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by DCmaverick(m): 12:07pm On Dec 15, 2023
verybadmouth:
How else. Most of them met them after bombing numerous dating sites. 🤣

name at least one site for me make i meet my own na undecided

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Entanglement: 12:09pm On Dec 15, 2023
L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.
during schooling and since then she is been the most wonderful 💕 of my life 💞 🥰 she has visited naija women me twice now and always worry when I coming back to naija grin

She Is always worrying that maybe those useless piece of shit (naija women) will steal me away from her when traveling back to Nigeria undecided
But I always assured her that "fear not! My seeds will not mix with those ungrateful self entitled piece of shiit angry

Guys on a serious note! Forget Nigeria women and date a foreigners! From my experience! Preferably Asian women! But you see America and British women! Those people are beyond damage but they're still pockets of good women with the exception of Naija women!

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Dpaulie(m): 12:09pm On Dec 15, 2023
L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.
If I had known you well and your intention, I could introduce u to one( maybe older though) but fear who no fear Nigerian youths
Yahoo! Yahoo! Intentions everywhere
Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Neddstark: 12:11pm On Dec 15, 2023
accordadoga25:
Hehehehe

The way black people dey worship Oyinbo

One lady wey marry oyinbo travel never allow people rest for WhatsApp since she travel like a week ago.

She has been changing her WhatsApp dp 5-7 times a day.

WhatsApp status na like 38-45 (no exaggeration)

For the past one week now, we never rest 🤣🤣

Even when she never travel na like 8-10 times in one week she dey post her wedding pics with Oyinbo as if everyday na wedding anniversary 🤣

According to her small mind, she has fulfilled her destiny.

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