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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by LEGALSER: 12:12pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

No be your destiny na grin

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by eepeepook: 12:13pm On Dec 15, 2023

Did you ever try the one trick which will guarantee you success, traveling out of our border? Cameroonians, Nigeriens, Ghanaians and Togolese na foreigners too. Try those places for a start.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by saintkel(m): 12:15pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
Thanks for sharing, all the uncle's and Aunts I have over there are useless, so no luck on that front, but you're lucky, very lucky.

I had to laugh real hard

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by drimzsmoke(m): 12:15pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

Tori mi o le fe caucasiannnn, end of conversation ~ Wande Coal(Mama Maradona)

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by AskNgige2: 12:16pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
Thanks for sharing, all the uncle's and Aunts I have over there are useless, so no luck on that front, but you're lucky, very lucky.

Aswear

Even my cousin won't want u to come over Yankee.. they want u to be answering them Sir and boss..

Thunder will strike them over there..

This is Xmas when they will come back and want me to be there driver in the village or be fetching water for them from d stream to bath

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by optimusprime2(m): 12:16pm On Dec 15, 2023

Japa & it will happen organically...

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by verybadmouth(m): 12:18pm On Dec 15, 2023

DCmaverick:

name at least one site for me make i meet my own na

Facebook is definitely the best and it's free of charge

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by AskNgige2: 12:21pm On Dec 15, 2023

ednut1:
People fantasizing about biracial kids are suffering from low self esteem 🤮

And Nigeria guys or Yahoo boys don spoil the show.. they will use female white pic and be claiming they want to bring u over so u can marry her..

My friend came all the way from ABA to abuja to stay with me for a month waiting to pick his oyibo woman he met online from airport not knowing that it was a guy who was playing with him since.. if not that I got involved at that commitment period this guy for sell their land and send to this fake oyibo woman..

I pity the orphan who has suffer so much..

Let us be careful when searching for this white ladies online..

Naija guys are wicked

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by StpidNLmods: 12:22pm On Dec 15, 2023

Master Na me na.
This is moniepoint I used for pos business but no cash to continue.

I still have access too if u want it I will paste too.

God bless u already for thinking on my behalf

Sermwell:

I wanted to send you money but I saw SUNEB as the receiver! Who is SUNEB??

You're obviously not genuine!

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by StpidNLmods: 12:24pm On Dec 15, 2023

Na me oh.
This is moniepoint I used for pos business but no cash to continue.

I still have access too if u want it I will paste too.

God bless u already for thinking on my behalf

[quote author

Sermwell:

I wanted to send you money but I saw SUNEB as the receiver! Who is SUNEB??

You're obviously not genuine!

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Katcall: 12:29pm On Dec 15, 2023

colbycell:
I am married, though my wife knows I've always wanted biracial kids and prays I don't get Visa to any EU, or American State...I go do quickie I no go lie

But then, I tried without success to get a white girl. Though I've had a few in Abuja, but those happened when I was not fully matured, so I didn't use my time well.

have you fúcked a white gal b4

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by KingMack(m): 12:33pm On Dec 15, 2023

Blackdeewhy:
I met him through my uncle who stays in the US.
However, we are always on phone, either talking, chatting or facetiming, unless he's at work like at present.
Take it or not, I've always wanted to give birth to mixed race since my secondary school days.
Thank God for Grace and Merry Christmas to you all

abeg you get any oyibo friend you go gv me? Like dis like dis I don block my girlfriend🥰😤

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Discountsempai: 12:35pm On Dec 15, 2023

Akwamkpuruamu:
I de find abeg, naija gehs Don tire person

Am an anime fan, and among us worldwide are people who are fans of japan and its culutre and people.

And many of them are people who move to Japan with the idea they would marry Japanese wife, thinking they are all nice, beautiful, docile girls, not like their woke white girls, who are all fat and overweight any way....

Only to find out that Japanese girls are WOMEN INDEED....like all the others. Women... cheesy

. Na so the dream go die.

Grass is always greener on the other side....until you see am.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by fyneboi79(m): 12:35pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

To meet foreign women, visit: https://www.merry-women.com

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Katcall: 12:36pm On Dec 15, 2023

BRATISLAVA:
Once you begin planning it, it's business.

A lot of businessmen here.

You mean black people get married to a particular race, just to see what they could produce? Black people can be dumb at times. The desire for having children as trophies or complements...

Creating people that belong nowhere. There was a guy on this forum that settled in some West African slum because he was only human in Africa, especially there.

your brain needs factory resetting. do you know the advantages of hailing from two countries? I don't blame you. You've always been daft like a Nigerian gal that you are

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Katcall: 12:38pm On Dec 15, 2023

BRATISLAVA:

It's surprising the comments here. Just for children that will be confused. Unless they are Megan markle who can use it for virtue signaling and notoriety.

if I see u here again, I will marry you off to one alhaji in the north so you will bearing kids for him after he spreads his legs

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by laivwire(m): 12:41pm On Dec 15, 2023

Talking about

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by nairalanda1(m): 12:46pm On Dec 15, 2023

Katcall:
your brain needs factory resetting. do you know the advantages of hailing from two countries? I don't blame you. You've always been daft like a Nigerian gal that you are

To some extent some biracial children have issues with identity.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Goalnaldo(m): 12:54pm On Dec 15, 2023

accordadoga25:
Hehehehe

The way black people dey worship Oyinbo

One lady wey marry oyinbo travel never allow people rest for WhatsApp since she travel like a week ago.

She has been changing her WhatsApp dp 5-7 times a day.

WhatsApp status na like 38-45 (no exaggeration)

For the past one week now, we never rest 🤣🤣

Even when she never travel na like 8-10 times in one week she dey post her wedding pics with Oyinbo as if everyday na wedding anniversary 🤣

I will mute her if I'm you. Not because of jealousy but I hate seeing someone post more than 10 times on their status

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by DCmaverick(m): 12:55pm On Dec 15, 2023

verybadmouth:
Facebook is definitely the best and it's free of charge

they are lots of scammers out there on facebook , any other site

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Idaytesj29(m): 12:55pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

It is my dream too, but I got married before the social media revolution. Now, the dream is unachievable....... Though religiously I can have a second which I am not open to, but no caucasian would want to marry to be a second. So, my dream of having mixed kids may be long gone.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Goalnaldo(m): 12:56pm On Dec 15, 2023

VeeVeeMyLuv:

Lol 😂🤣

See description

That guy is a sadist. He and that kobojonkie

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Goalnaldo(m): 1:01pm On Dec 15, 2023

One matured lady followed me on twitter yesterday. Out of curiosity I asked her if she's real or he's a working guy. She replied "I'm not a yahoo boy I swear" I thought the yahoo guy he mentioned gave him away and I demanded for her WhatsApp number or voice note, she did a voice note and to my surprise she was real.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by hkidola00(m): 1:02pm On Dec 15, 2023

i have a cousin in illinois,please how did you present your word to your uncle

Blackdeewhy:
I met him through my uncle who stays in the US.
However, we are always on phone, either talking, chatting or facetiming, unless he's at work like at present.
Take it or not, I've always wanted to give birth to mixed race since my secondary school days.
Thank God for Grace and Merry Christmas to you all

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by franchasofficia: 1:02pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

Start a relationship blog on an international blogging platform

Through this way, I met hundreds if not thousands of real foreign ladies from all continents of the world, many fell in love with me from afar but I never fancied marrying a foreigner because I know people that did and at old age, it doesn't always end well cos most will never want to retire back to Nigeria with you, and even your kids are likely to deny you and Nigeria and adopt their mother's country.

When I weighed these options, I had to stand my ground and rejected all of them I met even though one from Australia refused to let go and this was when I was still struggling financially and she was ready to file for us to relocate to Adelaide together, I couldn't imagine myself marrying a white lady and she being my sponsor. I have ego a lot, I have always prayed and wished to be completely in charge of my marriage financially, and when I read their stories they shared with me about their past relationships and culture, I knew I cant cope.

So my advice is if you are good in writing, start a relationship blog on foreign blogging platforms that will give you international audience and from there start publishing books on relationships online. From there you will meet a lot of foreign ladies genuinely interested in marrying black guys but make sure you are truly ready to marry a white lady cos it's not always as easy as you may think considering our cultural difference and family style.

Yes mixed kids do look adorable, I cherished them too growing up, and wished to have one but as I grew older, got more exposure and life experiences, I realized it was all a child fantasy. And I thank God, I am happily married now and my kids look so adorable you might mistake them for mixed kids. I married a Naija hot chick though grin

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Machinegun91(m): 1:06pm On Dec 15, 2023

I met my Chinese woman in a market where I used to sell pork meat.

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by verybadmouth(m): 1:13pm On Dec 15, 2023

DCmaverick:

they are lots of scammers out there on facebook , any other site

Facebook is the only place I can assure you of meeting real people

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by BloomingDale(f): 1:15pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

I don’t know why you want your kids to inherit recessive and animal DNA. You are carbon based, they are sulphur based. Hope your kids won’t spontaneously combust as the UVC and UVB rays are increasing. Check out how white/biracial people can spontaneously combust.

Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by franchasofficia: 1:20pm On Dec 15, 2023

shoodboi2:
The easiest way to get a foreign partner as a man is to have something going on for you. Then, you meet on dating sites and fly out to meet them. But this would be hard cos there're lots of fake people online.

So your best bet is to again, have something going on for you. (Foreign relationship will require you to travel to, and later, stay in the lady's country for a while before she comes to yours.) Your best bet is to travel to a foreign country for tourism. Meet a lady, strike a convo, and take it on from there.

You can travel there for work too, but you'll have better chances in countries that are on similar league with Nigeria (e.g., Philippines, Thailand, Indonesia, and Malaysia) or countries that are richer than Nigeria, but Nigerians are not keen to migrate to (e.g., China, Singapore, Russia, or some other Eastern European or South Asian nation).

It'll be harder to meet a lady in the US or Western Europe cos they'd be afraid that you need them for citizenship. Plus, they have lots of high quality men to choose from, so, you'll just be another dude, unless of course, you're okay with taking a 65-year-old granny who's probably older than your mom, as a wife. 😁

You made valid points but sometimes it doesn't always work like that.

Some years back when I was just a broke graduate managing low paid salaried jobs in Nigeria, I met a lot of genuine classy foreign ladies; whites, Indians, Singaporeans, Japanese, Australians, Chinese (few), Americans (mostly), Irish, British, etc.

How did I met them you may ask?

I met them through relationship blogging on a foreign blogging platform then.

I was just exploring my hobby of writing and unknowingly from there many foreign ladies started following my articles, dropping comments and even requesting for my personal contact so they could seek for relationship advice from me. Na from there the whole thing started.

If I had this fantasy or dream of marrying a white lady or foreign lady, I would have married one of the best cos I swear I even met white ladies from A class family background. One was a daughter of a celebrity in Canada, another from Ireland was the daughter of a government official. She was just so in love with me but I was nervous and scared to go as deep as they wanted from me then, plus I was a spirikoko guy then who hated anything sex related cos I saw it as big sin that would impede my future financial progress lolz.

When some of them request sex chat or sex call, I always reject and this got some mad that they will be begging lol.

So back to the topic, I think best way to get genuine, young, well to do white ladies for genuine relationship as a Nigerian guy living in Nigeria is to have something going for yourself like you said; it could be by focusing on exploring your hobby like sports, blogging, poetry, art, singing, etc or by relocating there legally and starting school from undergraduate and being at the top of your class.

Other ways could be difficult unless the guy is rich and famous to attract them or luck just shined on him.

A close friend met his via Instagram, but the guy too handsome to a fault, the lady is taking him to US soonest lol

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by rezzy: 1:25pm On Dec 15, 2023

Error401:
Gold digging at the pretext of Biracial kids

You can travel out and meet them if you admire them so much. You dont need to find love, its natural anything outside that is GOLD DIGGING

I really wanted biracial kids when I was a teenager. I wasn't even thinking about money stuff, i just imagined how long their hair would be and their eyes.
Las las, i no see one marry

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by kaycome: 1:26pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
For Nigerians married or dating a foreigner with good intentions, not scamming, how did you meet him or her?

I always wanted biracial kids and a pretty Caucasian wife but I haven't been lucky finding someone from another race or country and I'm at that age(30s) where you have to get married like asap, tried social media and they all found it creepy, sometimes they read my text and don't reply, some block me instantly and to be honest I don't blame them due to our international reputation.

Don't talk about looks because I don't look bad and I have seen so many instances where those girls fall in love with guys that are nothing close to handsome, they're not like our naija babes, but getting one is the problem.

I don't think anything is wrong in having a desire for biracial kids. But my concern is are you looking for someone to love or someone to help you japa from nigetia via marriage. If it is the former then you don't need to limit your looking to caucasian ladies. Marry to build a godly home and kids. Infact you might have a lady close to you right now trying to get you attention but since your mind is already fixated on oyinbo, you may miss God's best. My wife is an American. We met through my Aunty who lives in usa. I never for once in my life desire to marry an American. No desperation while we dating. I was just trusting God for a life partner and gbam i giot the most amazing lady i ever met. She will be here with me in Nigeria today and we will celebrate our one year wedding anniversary this month. Cheers

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Re: How Did You Meet Your Foreign Partner by Fatbam005: 1:28pm On Dec 15, 2023

L1TTLE:
Thanks for sharing, all the uncles and Aunts I have over there are useless, so no luck on that front, but you're lucky, fortunate.

So you aren't lucky because they failed to get you a spouse. It's a pity.

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