L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

Your mumu is staring to full cup ,

remmeber single mums ave no love for u as a man as a nigerian guy by know u should know that most of our ladies are very sense less creatures , That is why @angrygoat @womenareapezz @savedday2 and @strongalphmale warn us ...to not love dem

70 percent of them are oloshos

advanceDNA:


Nigga u have a weird taste in women...

Why the fvck will I want to marry someone's wife...woman wey don born

The babe you think you wan marry what makes you think she hasn't been married before or have kids before

If you heard the truth and you are still in love, then it is worth it. Just be mindful of the fact that the father of that child will always make an appearance and you have to brace up for it.

SIONKPO1:

The babe you think you wan marry what makes you think she hasn't been married before or have kids before

Are u deliberately trying to be weird or u just feel like saying nonsense...

So to you.....theres no way a guy can be sure hers marrying a single woman with no kids...?? Are u reading the nonsense u are typing??

Jesubaby:
Abeg, let me come and be going jor 🚶🚶🚶🚶. Is it not one of those irresponsible men that made her to be a single mother today? Maybe because she refused abortion or some other illegal reason he might be imposing on her. Whose lady wish to be a single mother on earth if not for one stupid animal man she fell in love with?
Guy, go ahead and marry your woman jor if you find her genuine.

Lol....u guys are good at playing victims..it's pathetic....

Prostîtution: men did not give me job...

Murder: a man made me angry...

Hook up: a man tempted me with 100k.

Paternity fraud: my husband offended me and made me do it.....what of the man that slept with me...it's two to tango abi ?? I didn't have choice cos can't tell my husband I cheated him..... My husband should have asked if the baby is his own .it's not my fault he assumed
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Single mother: a man deceived me and ran away and I am good good girl that will never abort like those other useless girls out there

searchlight:
Who will train the child? Like when we were growing, my father always tell us that anybody who fails in school will stop schooling and he did it. My younger brother failed his Waec na so pupsy commit hand for en matter.

Can you as a father do that to her child and have peace? If the child is not coming to stay with them that's another thing all together but as far as the boy will live with you, the man will either divorce her or live unhappily all the rest of his life.

That is why I said that he should watch out for her reactions while trying to correct the child

ikeno:
There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a single mother so long she reciprocate the love too.one thing single mother cherish more is their child and if you adore her child the way you adore her she will give you unconditional love

No woman Except your MUM can give u unconditional Love

You're taking the right decision. Some single mothers are victim of circumstances. One you are happy with her and she's also on the same page with you. Please, go ahead.

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

Nicepoker:
You find her more attractive even after such a bone cracking and nerve paralysing revelation. You have been jazzed big time.

you well so?

iluvdonjazzy:
you well so?

Sure I am.

Someone opened the below thread...


https://www.nairaland.com/7907697/why-never-marry-nigerian-girl

advanceDNA:


Are u deliberately trying to be weird or u just feel like saying nonsense...

So to you.....theres no way a guy can be sure hers marrying a single woman with no kids...?? Are u reading the nonsense u are typing??

So if your Sister or Daughter become a Single Mother,you will discourage single guys from marrying them?

Greystone:
For your sake I hope her ex husband/baby dady is dead and that she’s a good woman if not Shege danburo-uba Pro Max awaits you.

Some Naive people won't understand this your wise comment.

It shows you are well experienced.

This life ehn, Any man wey no wise and dey well informed. I can bet my balls say na Suffer sure for am. No capping.

SIONKPO1:

So if your Sister or Daughter become a Single Mother,you will discourage single guys from marrying them?

I don answer this question before ....na u be hypocrite...so u dey feel say everybody go be like you ...

Why will I tell my fellow man to do what I can never do..... See guy ..I not dey pretend oooo...

If the guy ask me just as the OP is asking us...I go clear am on the disadvantage of marrying a single mother which far outweighs any advantage......if he wants to go head that's his wahala......see...I clear the babe wey wan marry my brother when we meet say my brother dey vex like volcano... so she go need patience of she wan marry my bro.....

See there is no advantage a man wants to get from a single mother that he can't get from a single girl with no kids....but there are peculiar issues that comes with marrying a single mother...any guy that wants to enter such marriage should know about them and not enter blind..... Take it or leave it...

I was in your shoes 10 years ago and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. As far as you have the heart to love and the means to cater for the child, you will find happiness that’s beyond compare and a woman who not only adore you but will forever be do all within her power to make her relationship work.

As far as she makes you happy and willing to sacrifice to keep you, go on bro.

My stepson is in a boarding school and i intend to send him to a driving school at 16 and buy him a car when he starts university. You can connect with me and I will share more with you.

Go ahead! But i hope u are not been pulled by some lust.

L1TTLE:
She brazenly told me "I have a 5yr old son", before she did I was crushing hard, then she told me she has a son today, I was taken aback for a while but much to my shock, I find her more attractive now? Instead of getting repulsed by the new information I want her more now, is it weird? Lol, I'm even thinking she can bring her son and live with me like we're family.

Please advise me.

fool! Sensible people to live while fools like you should die!

advanceDNA:


I don answer this question before ....na u be hypocrite...so u dey feel say everybody go be like you ...

Why will I tell my fellow man to do what I can never do..... See guy ..I not dey pretend oooo...

If the guy ask me just as the OP is asking us...I go clear am on the disadvantage of marrying a single mother which far outweighs any advantage......if he wants to go head that's his wahala......see...I clear the babe wey wan marry my brother when we meet say my brother dey vex like volcano... so she go need patience of she wan marry my bro.....

See there is no advantage a man wants to get from a single mother that he can't get from a single girl with no kids....but there are peculiar issues that comes with marrying a single mother...any guy that wants to enter such marriage should know about them and not enter blind..... Take it or leave it...

Keep being an hypocrite dude,i wish you well

SIONKPO1:

Keep being an hypocrite dude,i wish you well

You don't know what hypocrite means

ikeno:
There's nothing wrong with falling in love with a single mother so long she reciprocate the love too.one thing single mother cherish more is their child and if you adore her child the way you adore her she will give you unconditional love

LMAO! 🤣🤣

No matter the sacrifice you make for a single mother, you will always come second after her child(ren).


If the baby daddy is still alive, you'll forever be relegated.