Leaving Nigeria

SMARTMOTORS:
None! Wrong choices has made my life very miserable!..... One of them is not choosing science in my secondary school to not studying hard in my uni to not so many others confidentials I can't mention here!

one of the worst student academically in my dept at uni, travelled out the same year he graduated. That's about 10yrs ago. He's way ahead even the best brains financially now. Academics is not all that matters, focus on the future and be hopeful.

SMARTMOTORS:
None! Wrong choices has made my life very miserable!..... One of them is not choosing science in my secondary school to not studying hard in my uni to not so many others confidentials I can't mention here!

Rubbish when we have so many jobless scientists. What's so special about science in Nigeria?

Richking2023:
Relocating to a new location where no one knew me. It has a way of motivating one's hustling spirit

I hope you factored in emilokan economics though.

My best decision was quitting my job last year and starting my own consulting firm even though I didn't have a dime. Everybody thought I was crazy. My fiancee's mom said she heard i was now jobless. Even my mom freaked out. A year later now and I have quadrupled my income with several clients bringing in jobs. The future has never seemed this good.

Sirchiboy:
Made a stand to stop sleeping with hoes coz I came into full awareness that nothing is so special about sex.
It will only drain your money and leave you in a state of perpetual regrets.

getting married when I did

Unrated900:
I risk a lot..

The day I was owing someone 5 million naira
No way to pay back.
I took one of my customer's car meant for sale for 7m to collect loan of 5m to pay the person am owing 5million.
After the loan was given to me.
Someone in the compound of the person that gave me the loan asked how much is the car because he has been willing to see such car with same Interior which mine carries.
I said pay 10m
He said I will pay 9m
I said oya pay.
He paid 9m
I paid my friend who borrow me his money back of 5.3 with Interest
I ended up paying my customer his own 7m
And also has some cash of 1m plus at hand.
I started doing buying and selling with the money.
Today now I can boast of 50 cars

Just 50 Cars only? Mtcheeew you still inside Poverty.

As for me i can boast of over 1000+ of Brand New Cars today.

gigabyte13:
I tell myself say
Any girl wey no get work, we no go ever be friend talk of relationship.....
That decision changed my relationship with every female around.
Parasitic ones around me flew away, l give you, you give me. No be me be una Papa.
Enough of father Christmas

Haha nice one

Lance008:

Omo family is bleeped
My family Na my problem for life I wish I knew earlier
I was also warned

they will be like they will die but do not mind them, know body will die just mind your business until you become very okay

It was when I put an end to Gambling and smoking

hkidola00:
what if shes a broke virgin

Read wertin l write again
As far as say, SHE dey jobless
Irrespective of HER status
STAY FAR FAR FAR AWAY FROM ME
DON'T BE UNFORTUNATE

i took away church from my heart and head and replace it with God .

Sirchiboy:


What trade did you learn that made you a millionaire within 1 year

Drugs, gun deal, organ traffic, baby factry. You can go in this trades.

Don't forget to thank me this time next year!

todugo:
Leaving JW doctrine and minding my business.

have never been a member o, but I have people that has trend that pact bro JW na case o....I really pity some people there, most especially single ladies

so a lady dat has a supermarket from the proceeds of runs or hookup is okay for you as long as she got something going....see i use to think like you but seeing things around, i become a bit drawn back when i see an independent lady, because you dont wanna have a wife an alhaji will be calling in the middle of the night, i prefer to roll with a broke girl than one which got established from doing runs

gigabyte13:


Read wertin l write again
As far as say, SHE dey jobless
Irrespective of HER status
STAY FAR FAR FAR AWAY FROM ME
DON'T BE UNFORTUNATE

I also did this and it was for the best 👌

Vinnie2000:


I pity you.
You better Learn how to Say NO.

One of my colleagues, Once Month end, 2 or 3 days later,
She would meet me to Borrow her 10K or 5K.

Recently, She did same thing. Na once I told her I don't Have! That she should Try to ask others.
She was Angry but I just Lock up!

If you are Thinking of a Person's Feelings too much, When you are in a Bad situation, That Same Person will show you Shege!

I tell you,have stop pleasing people like longtime ago.

EnglishUsa:
they will be like they will die but do not mind them, know body will die just mind your business until you become very okay

If I tell anybody Watin my family do me he no go believe
Even if u are very okay
Still wise up
Help them form far

Change state of residence

SPAMBOX7:
After years of being a good boy with dignity, integrity etc. but nothing to show for I said "fcck it, lemme get these racks whichever way I can."
That was the end of my travails.

Patiently waiting for that bitch called Karma to come do her worst lemme see. She go first pay me for all those years I was pure before anything else. Her papa!

Boss don't tell me you went into crime so that you can blow

OlawaleBammie:


Either u belive or not is not my problem, and ifs not ur problem either....the bottom line is that the trust always remain the same, if I explained how it happened explicitly it would add up

Explain nothing .... you said enough.... for each to take it or leave it.

after 20 years in industry in the western world, the combined influence of very toxic behaviour in office places and racism made me take the daring step to become self employed , its was as scary move with years of slow progress, but i thank God things getting better.

SO that now when i look back, i compare the idea of planning to spend your adult life working closely with strangers you dont know , to the same as planning to eat all your future meals in dirty public toilet.

You have no idea how disgusting people can be, until you are trapped in a job.

One day when employees are able to put a high price on bad office practice, companies will clamp down hard on those who see their colleagues in work place as fresh meat. And this is already happening with all the new career options becoming available thanks to communication technology like internet etc.

All i ever learnt from 20 years in IT industry in Europe was how to hate people, so had to move on from that scam, cause it is a rip off to work in environment where uncontrolled mutual hatred is allowed to run rampant,which is 99.9% of companies. The bigger the company the worse it is.

I say if kids really knew what their parents have to put up with at work they would cry in shame.

It is a form of ritual, by that i mean the spirit of toxic competition ensures that demonic possession spreads throughout the public.

If body and soul snatching aliens ran the world, i would summise that schools prepare the youths for their souls to be snatched when they start to learn how to hate people at work. Thats why people who have worked in those evil offices for years are never the same again, and thats why good men cant hold down a job, cause the environment is just too toxic.

Work from home improves the situation, but not enough, i prefer self employed the whole way!!!!!

Until the work place is no longer the dumping ground for bullshit behaviour , the whole idea is a rip off, cause you can do better alone if positve energy soul thiefs dont have free reign to operate around you.

They never teach the kids in school that the work place , the glass office is only really meant for all the wicked pupils in school, join them at your own peril.

OlawaleBammie:


Either u belive or not is not my problem, and ifs not ur problem either....the bottom line is that the trust always remain the same, if I explained how it happened explicitly it would add up

Probably.

hkidola00:
so a lady dat has a supermarket from the proceeds of runs or hookup is okay for you as long as she got something going....see i use to think like you but seeing things around, i become a bit drawn back when i see an independent lady, because you dont wanna have a wife an alhaji will be calling in the middle of the night, i prefer to roll with a broke girl than one which got established from doing runs

So to you now, every established lady is a runs girl abi......
No be until she do runs to get established, am talking about legitimate hustle.
I don see virgin wey do hookup and get addicted...
So hookup no be status thing
Na mindset of the individual...
My point is get something doing, no dey depend on a man to get things done for you
Get busy with your life legitimately.
I no dey run orphanage home, no be me be ya poppsy.

fineberry:
Boss don't tell me you went into crime so that you can blow

😒

Giving my life to Christ some years back down d line,that has really brought a swift. Transformation in every area of my life !!

wunmi590:


I was sent 3 employment letter from three different organisations for the role of Manager, I mistakenly chose the worst, then after 3 month I was relieved of my job..

I came to nairaland to seek advice on how to claim my other 2 rejected offer letter, and I was advised accordingly, today I'm in one of the job as the manager and doing very well..

I'm not only working smart and hard, I'm loved by my boss with a better salary, annual leave package, 13th month salary and other bonuses..

2years plus and I'm still on the job...

Nairalanders are very intelligent when it comes to dishing out advice...

You can go through the thread on my profile

Yeah I seem to notice that too, now how can we chase the little kids with nothing meaningful away from most matured threads.

Lukepeter:

How do you normally smoke, and what do you do after smoking?

How do you use it?

we could partner me also investing my own quota

OlawaleBammie:
After bn a graduate without any source of income, then I decided to learn a trade at 28..lol, I was ridiculed, starved, used to beg for #50 but I became a millionaire at 29..

Thank God for the good and bad old days.

Modified..

For people asking the type of trade..Well, I will explain further..
The trade is cocoa and other commodities trading

Actually, I left lagos which was my residence then to edo to lean a trade in 2019, thanks to the popular advice from nairalanders then which says.."leave ur comfort zone"

By 2019, I was in abject poverty, and after a year of my apprenticeship I decided to work as my oga manager, my first year after apprenticeship I have already worth million.

Now I am contemplating on starting my own brand independently...

I have all to be grateful for, the fact I made mistakes learned, go back and re-strategize is something Great.
And at times I feel I need a better guardian, I'm young and hungry for success.
Just a guardian I could interact with daily would be of help.

petesunday:
My best decision was quitting my job last year and starting my own consulting firm even though I didn't have a dime. Everybody thought I was crazy. My fiancee's mom said she heard i was now jobless. Even my mom freaked out. A year later now and I have quadrupled my income with several clients bringing in jobs. The future has never seemed this good.

Discovering yourself is one of the best things that can happen to any human being. Most employers knows this secret thus they know employees weild great power.

But then REALITY is a respecter of nobody.

I never supported emilokan!

So am not to be blamed for part of d rest coconut heads dat forced him down on us wit #shege promax!