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Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Artscollection: 10:56am On Dec 23, 2023 |
GB85: Make i check your name first, olu I for run am for you but .... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by AfroBeatDiary: 10:56am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Na Sabi woman 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by yesloaded: 10:56am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Nothing special |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by nsivic2001: 10:57am On Dec 23, 2023 |
.....Because she didn't want you people to question her source of funds... 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by SmartyPants(m): 10:57am On Dec 23, 2023 |
TheWinterBird: Look kids, a classic case of circular reasoning. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Blitzking: 10:57am On Dec 23, 2023 |
babaYIBO:I don't blame her...u see sibling diverting the money send from abroad by their fellow siblings abroad..them go dey chop life dey carry woman..go lodge if dem get sense even build house in their own name..the painful thing is u go dey abroad dey hustle out your ass and one person dey do dorime with your money. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by madridguy(m): 10:58am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Hmmmmm. Shalommy: |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by fastseo: 10:58am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Shalommy:You are wrong. Blessed are the hand that gives. The act if showing people kindness pays. Giving opens doors and has positive implications 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Whatisurproblem(m): 10:58am On Dec 23, 2023 |
advanceDNA:you are a witch 🧹🪄. She need to clip your wing and keep you in dungeon. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by besayag: 10:58am On Dec 23, 2023 |
babaYIBO:because u cud b leeches, anytime una call na money, una for say make dem give u d contract then chop d money n say na my sister wetin she go do 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Manuel91(m): 11:00am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Abegiii!! I don’t see anything wrong with that; people need to stop being entitled. What you’re allowed to know is what you get; be it family or friend. Respect people’s decision. The fact that your family decides to make moves without informing any of you doesn’t mean they love you less. They’re just comfortable operating that way, which shouldn’t be a reason to be upset. Being upset only shows some sought of envy towards the information… my opinion!! 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by sonofthunder: 11:00am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Shalommy: You are a shamelessly exploitative insecure fellow. That's why you will support someone duping their siblings. You obviously shamelessly do same. Birds of a feather are usually cowardly in calling out the wrongs of their compatriots. 6 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by xpressnow: 11:01am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Way to go! Oloriibuu ni overwhelmly majority of we blacks. Trust me, she moved that way for a reason. One of you in the family might carry a bad energy (if you know what I mean) which wouldn't allow her to start/complete the project. It might be you, your mother, or someone else in that family, or it might be for 'nother reasons. The only thing I don't approve of is asking for money from you under false pretense. But I approve of acting broke - eni eleni ko fe kan ba toun je. Don't quote me if you don't understand how "evilicious" blacks have been since.... If you don't get it, forget about it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by DKM123: 11:01am On Dec 23, 2023 |
When you live in Nigeria and have parasites who feel entitled to your money, then it's best to do things codedly if not you may never have anything tangible till you die. If you decide to ignore then your enemies will be countless especially household enemies.. If people knew she was building a house, the billing would have been in ten folds. It doesn't matter that she is spending all her savings and even taking loans to try and have a property and probably depriving herself and her kids from a lot of things so they can have a permanent roof over thier head. She did well. Na house she build she no kee person. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by MrBroke(m): 11:06am On Dec 23, 2023 |
GB85: I don send you 500k manage am |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by femi4: 11:06am On Dec 23, 2023 |
babaYIBO:It happens even among the siblings. That's how Nollywood has brainwashed us. A friend of mine got embarrassed seeing his family house renovated without being informed. He was angry with his parents and younger brother that renovated the house. He said, felt like a stranger in their midst and stopped all form of communication with them 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Lekan239(m): 11:06am On Dec 23, 2023 |
advanceDNA:I'm not supporting the fact that u guys are not informed about her building her ous. But you know building a house can really make someone very broke. Don't forget that money spent can never be in your account again |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by o123456789(m): 11:08am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Dont blame your sister for keeping shut, because when you know the kind of family members or friends you have at some point in life you need to shut the fvck up... There is an adage in Isoko that goes "Akoran te fo garhon, wo re siano" it means if your teeth are too white and shinny, then you must hide them to avoid unnecessary attention!!! 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Usmanovic95(m): 11:09am On Dec 23, 2023 |
This remind me of Wizkid verse in one life lyrics. "Ika poju ninu omo araye So when I hustle I dey keep am on the low When you chop no let anybody know No be everybody happy for your show Ika poju ninu omo araye oh So when I hustle I dey keep am on the low When we chop no let everybody know Cos no be everybody happy for your show". If I do am for anybody make the person no vex because if anyone do am for me I no go vex 2.Life is cruel,so she owes nobody no damn apology. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by AbujaLagos: 11:10am On Dec 23, 2023 |
babaYIBO:very wise and calculative 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by AbujaLagos: 11:12am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Good decision, I built two houses without getting any of my family members informed. Am no living to impress anyone. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Chibuzoripob: 11:12am On Dec 23, 2023 |
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Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by oluwaseyi0: 11:13am On Dec 23, 2023 |
advanceDNA: She may be truly broke when she ask you for 300k loan, building house is not for the faint hearted that is probably where all of her money is going into hence she is not lying about been broke About telling you guys ...the only person she own telling is her husband every other person is completely optional and at her discretion If she has told everyone, she will probably not be able to finish the house as you people will be seeing her as big madam hence more billing, if she ask for 300k loan you won't even consider her at all if you are aware she is building 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by VaginaAcademic: 11:14am On Dec 23, 2023 |
What i can definitely do, even myself will not hear of it 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Skillsnigeria: 11:16am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Hmmm |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by appini: 11:17am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Doing same in lagos now, I don't trust him. I have uncountable reasons why I will never tell him my movements. Don't let the same flame burn you twice. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by enemyofprogress: 11:21am On Dec 23, 2023 |
And so fokn what? Enemy of progress 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Naira2Man(m): 11:21am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Building ur own place secretly is one thing ... pretending to be broke, building ur own house and telling ur folks to give ur money is another thing ....That's exploitation of family ties and the church mind ur family members naturally have towards u..... It's wickedness. My Sister Whenever somebody embark's on a building project he/she will become broke this is Nigeria where prices changes daily so will your budget adjustment be occuring weekly 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Trustmea: 11:22am On Dec 23, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:To be honestly speaking the one that complained of his friend not telling him is right, how can someone you ate in the same plate with, you confided in on him and take him like a brother, you assisted him when he don't have and yet he built house without even telling u. It means that fellow don't see you as a true friend perhaps he sees you as an enemy of progress hence concealing his plan from you. It's too bad, if I'm carrying any big projects like building house I will always confide in on some people bossom to me unless I view you as someone..... you know the rest abeg 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by TheFinesseKid: 11:22am On Dec 23, 2023 |
fastseo:na there you go Sabi people wey stingy. It's a female sef. I am not surprised. Fucking stingy things |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by Ofadaman(m): 11:22am On Dec 23, 2023 |
People owe you nothing ,because you yap about everything is the reason you expect others to do the same. Plus exactly this kind of attitude of self entitlement is what made her not inform you. Why do you feel entitled that she must tell u about her finances ,why do you feel pained that she built a house without telling you, if she told you would give her a penny? 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by RepoMan007: 11:24am On Dec 23, 2023 |
She owes no one announcements and was probably trying to be on the offensive financially so they don't choke her with demand when they discover. 2 Likes |
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