GB85:
Pls, Somebody do me Christmas gift I beg e chok.

7 086 555343

Opay.
Thank u.

Make i check your name first, olu
I for run am for you but ....

Na Sabi woman

Nothing special

.....Because she didn't want you people to question her source of funds...

TheWinterBird:
Her behavior shows Nigerians are hard to trust, hence she had to be discreet, though she utilized deception since she was pretending to be broke and was asking you to lend her money, but hey

Look kids, a classic case of circular reasoning.

babaYIBO:
Just saw a thread where a guy is complaining about his friend not telling him about the fact that he was building his house, and I see a lot of comments complaining condemning the said friend.

https://www.nairaland.com/7892469/he-completed-house-without-uttering

Funny how people exact same thing happened to me last year, this time it wasn’t a from a friend but a blood sister who I thought loved me the way I do for her.

This woman was building her house while pretending to everyone that she was broke.

Funniest thing is, few weeks to moving to us getting to know about the house, she was asking me to lend her 300k as she has plenty debts to pay. Almost sent her 100k, but then I remembered how she prefers to party with her women associates more than she’s willing to buy anything for my parents. This is someone that my dad built and opened shop for.

If a friend do this to me now, walahi I won’t be surprised.

I don't blame her...u see sibling diverting the money send from abroad by their fellow siblings abroad..them go dey chop life dey carry woman..go lodge if dem get sense even build house in their own name..the painful thing is u go dey abroad dey hustle out your ass and one person dey do dorime with your money.

Hmmmmm.

Shalommy:
[b]You can't be a cheerful giver and expect better achievements. [/b]She did well. Congrats to her.

Shalommy:

You can't be a cheerful giver and expect better achievements. She did well. Congrats to her.

You are wrong. Blessed are the hand that gives. The act if showing people kindness pays.
Giving opens doors and has positive implications

advanceDNA:

Building ur own place secretly is one thing ...

pretending to be broke, building ur own house and telling ur folks to give ur money is another thing ....That's exploitation of family ties and the church mind ur family members naturally have towards u..... It's wickedness.

you are a witch 🧹🪄. She need to clip your wing and keep you in dungeon.

babaYIBO:
Just saw a thread where a guy is complaining about his friend not telling him about the fact that he was building his house, and I see a lot of comments complaining condemning the said friend.

https://www.nairaland.com/7892469/he-completed-house-without-uttering

Funny how people exact same thing happened to me last year, this time it wasn’t a from a friend but a blood sister who I thought loved me the way I do for her.

This woman was building her house while pretending to everyone that she was broke.

Funniest thing is, few weeks to moving to us getting to know about the house, she was asking me to lend her 300k as she has plenty debts to pay. Almost sent her 100k, but then I remembered how she prefers to party with her women associates more than she’s willing to buy anything for my parents. This is someone that my dad built and opened shop for.

If a friend do this to me now, walahi I won’t be surprised.

because u cud b leeches, anytime una call na money, una for say make dem give u d contract then chop d money n say na my sister wetin she go do

Abegiii!!
I don’t see anything wrong with that; people need to stop being entitled. What you’re allowed to know is what you get; be it family or friend. Respect people’s decision. The fact that your family decides to make moves without informing any of you doesn’t mean they love you less. They’re just comfortable operating that way, which shouldn’t be a reason to be upset. Being upset only shows some sought of envy towards the information… my opinion!!

Shalommy:
You can't be a cheerful giver and expect better achievements. She did well. Congrats to her.

You are a shamelessly exploitative insecure fellow. That's why you will support someone duping their siblings. You obviously shamelessly do same.

Birds of a feather are usually cowardly in calling out the wrongs of their compatriots.

Way to go!

Oloriibuu ni overwhelmly majority of we blacks. Trust me, she moved that way for a reason.

One of you in the family might carry a bad energy (if you know what I mean) which wouldn't allow her to start/complete the project. It might be you, your mother, or someone else in that family, or it might be for 'nother reasons.

The only thing I don't approve of is asking for money from you under false pretense. But I approve of acting broke - eni eleni ko fe kan ba toun je. Don't quote me if you don't understand how "evilicious" blacks have been since.... If you don't get it, forget about it.

When you live in Nigeria and have parasites who feel entitled to your money, then it's best to do things codedly if not you may never have anything tangible till you die. If you decide to ignore then your enemies will be countless especially household enemies..


If people knew she was building a house, the billing would have been in ten folds. It doesn't matter that she is spending all her savings and even taking loans to try and have a property and probably depriving herself and her kids from a lot of things so they can have a permanent roof over thier head.

She did well. Na house she build she no kee person.

GB85:
Pls, Somebody do me Christmas gift I beg e chok.

7 086 555343

Opay.
Thank u.

I don send you 500k manage am

babaYIBO:
Just saw a thread where a guy is complaining about his friend not telling him about the fact that he was building his house, and I see a lot of comments complaining condemning the said friend.

https://www.nairaland.com/7892469/he-completed-house-without-uttering

Funny how people exact same thing happened to me last year, this time it wasn’t a from a friend but a blood sister who I thought loved me the way I do for her.

This woman was building her house while pretending to everyone that she was broke.

Funniest thing is, few weeks to moving to us getting to know about the house, she was asking me to lend her 300k as she has plenty debts to pay. Almost sent her 100k, but then I remembered how she prefers to party with her women associates more than she’s willing to buy anything for my parents. This is someone that my dad built and opened shop for.

If a friend do this to me now, walahi I won’t be surprised.

It happens even among the siblings. That's how Nollywood has brainwashed us. A friend of mine got embarrassed seeing his family house renovated without being informed. He was angry with his parents and younger brother that renovated the house.

He said, felt like a stranger in their midst and stopped all form of communication with them

advanceDNA:

Building ur own place secretly is one thing ...

pretending to be broke, building ur own house and telling ur folks to give ur money is another thing ....That's exploitation of family ties and the church mind ur family members naturally have towards u..... It's wickedness.

I'm not supporting the fact that u guys are not informed about her building her ous. But you know building a house can really make someone very broke. Don't forget that money spent can never be in your account again

Dont blame your sister for keeping shut, because when you know the kind of family members or friends you have at some point in life you need to shut the fvck up... There is an adage in Isoko that goes "Akoran te fo garhon, wo re siano" it means if your teeth are too white and shinny, then you must hide them to avoid unnecessary attention!!!

This remind me of Wizkid verse in one life lyrics.

"Ika poju ninu omo araye
So when I hustle I dey keep am on the low
When you chop no let anybody know
No be everybody happy for your show
Ika poju ninu omo araye oh
So when I hustle I dey keep am on the low
When we chop no let everybody know
Cos no be everybody happy for your show".

If I do am for anybody make the person no vex because if anyone do am for me I no go vex 2.Life is cruel,so she owes nobody no damn apology.

babaYIBO:


A wise woman you say. Lol

very wise and calculative

Good decision, I built two houses without getting any of my family members informed. Am no living to impress anyone.

I'm in category of people like that.U go FEAR VILLAGE PEOPLE

advanceDNA:

Building ur own place secretly is one thing ...

pretending to be broke, building ur own house and telling ur folks to give ur money is another thing ....That's exploitation of family ties and the church mind ur family members naturally have towards u..... It's wickedness.

She may be truly broke when she ask you for 300k loan, building house is not for the faint hearted that is probably where all of her money is going into hence she is not lying about been broke


About telling you guys ...the only person she own telling is her husband every other person is completely optional and at her discretion

If she has told everyone, she will probably not be able to finish the house as you people will be seeing her as big madam hence more billing, if she ask for 300k loan you won't even consider her at all if you are aware she is building

What i can definitely do, even myself will not hear of it

Hmmm

Doing same in lagos now, I don't trust him. I have uncountable reasons why I will never tell him my movements. Don't let the same flame burn you twice.

And so fokn what? Enemy of progress

Building ur own place secretly is one thing ...

pretending to be broke, building ur own house and telling ur folks to give ur money is another thing ....That's exploitation of family ties and the church mind ur family members naturally have towards u..... It's wickedness.




My Sister Whenever somebody embark's on a building project he/she will become broke this is Nigeria where prices changes daily so will your budget adjustment be occuring weekly

Jewessgratitud3:
Why is this a problem and why are some of you feeling so entitled and wanting to be in the know of other people's private life and plans?

The other day it was a friend complaining that his friend didn't tell him he was building a house. Abeg, Shey Dem collect money for una hand take build the house nii?

A person has the right to conceal his plans from the public until he has accomplished it and you have no right to condemn him for it. He even told you people after successfully completing his project and instead of you to be happy for him you're angry. for what? Did you have plots to t.wat his plans.

Please, never divulge your plans until it is matured because some people are dream killers and will destroy your plans even before you accomplish it..

Be happy for him. He owes non of you any explanations. When you too build your own don't tell him.

To be honestly speaking the one that complained of his friend not telling him is right, how can someone you ate in the same plate with, you confided in on him and take him like a brother, you assisted him when he don't have and yet he built house without even telling u. It means that fellow don't see you as a true friend perhaps he sees you as an enemy of progress hence concealing his plan from you. It's too bad, if I'm carrying any big projects like building house I will always confide in on some people bossom to me unless I view you as someone..... you know the rest abeg

fastseo:

You are wrong. Blessed are the hand that gives. The act if showing people kindness pays.
Giving opens doors and has positive implications

na there you go Sabi people wey stingy. It's a female sef. I am not surprised. Fucking stingy things

People owe you nothing ,because you yap about everything is the reason you expect others to do the same.

Plus exactly this kind of attitude of self entitlement is what made her not inform you.
Why do you feel entitled that she must tell u about her finances ,why do you feel pained that she built a house without telling you, if she told you would give her a penny?

She owes no one announcements and was probably trying to be on the offensive financially so they don't choke her with demand when they discover.