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Re: Should I End The Marriage? by deyplay: 9:02pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Jeon:are you married if not, you are not in the position to advise. |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Whatisurproblem(m): 9:03pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83:leave her na and focus in taken care of the two, the woman you want to go and marry may kill you. btw, you guys didn't discuss how many kids you plan to have before marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by nedekid: 9:03pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
What is wrong with having only 2 kids? Moreso a boy and girl? Unless either of them has a eg medical condition. Omo, in this present state of naija, unless you are very rich should you consider more pikins ohh. 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Jeon(f): 9:04pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
deyplay: Do you want the short or the long version?. 9 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Dexy4yah(m): 9:08pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
yoniehuin:Imagine someone trying to end his marriage cuz his wife don't want to give him another kid. When you have two already. This my gender wahala toomuch 3 Likes |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Ozap: 9:10pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
GreatAchiever1: Learning everyday 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by CursedOsuPigs: 9:12pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83: You don born boy, you don born girl! Wetin remain? You wan born amaphrodite? 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by enemyofprogress: 9:12pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Please end the marriage jo and give me her phone number. I love eating remnants 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by israelmao(m): 9:16pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
The reason is not cogent enough to end marriage because the marriage is already blessed with two children and does family planning says she can't have more children when she wants?Even couple without kids are stuck together so why should you end marriage on such ground? 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Integrafamoo: 9:18pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83:You have a boy and a girl, you are still looking for more. What for ? Is there any SS among them? If you have excess, can't you channel it to the poor? |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by nosagold(m): 9:21pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83: It seems to me, that people do not actually understand what marriage is. |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by adecz: 9:27pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
⭕️⭕️Since you know she is gainfully employed as a model, why do you want to damage the "vehicle' ( body) she uses for her work❓ As a working mum, She has tried, giving you two kids in 6 years & from your statement, what she is trying to practice is child spacing. This means, she may want up to 3 years before the third child. This is what UNICEF recommends in these modern times.. You appear to be a mentally native person who is behind in modern trends. Better live & celebrate your wife and wait for her, or you deposit N20m in her account & tell her to quit modeling..☑️☑️☑️ ✌️✌️ I come inpeace 🕊️🕊️🕊️ 2 Likes |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by dominique(f): 9:29pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
oguns222: Why should a woman seek her husband's consent before getting birth control on HER body? Is it the husband that will go through the stress of pregnancy? Is it the husband that will go through excruciating labour pains? Is it the husband that will take care of the baby post partum? Why should he now be the one to decide how many children his wife should have? In this era of extremely selfish men who won't lift a finger to assist with chores and child care, the only half of a couple who has any rights to decide the number of children they should have is the one who will be doing the bulk of the work taking care of them. |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Shantyken(m): 9:30pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83: Get a second wife guy, which kind model she be 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by lalalista: 9:34pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Stupid fool. End the marriage |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by bolousadex: 9:39pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Isnt two kids enough? You earn 5m/month? You r even lucky to have both genders. Your wife is right to do family planning. 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 9:41pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83:OP, how much do you make that you would need another child at this point in time? |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Fearcom(m): 9:52pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
yoniehuin: Positive plus negative equals negative She was W R O N G altogether. Her husband is her HEAD. She took a decision involving both of them without his consent. |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by GoodRocks: 9:57pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83: Have you done DNA test on those kids? If no, quickly rush and do them right away, could be she doesn't want to carry your child and the man always knacking her might be out of town and so she's waiting for the man to come back. Moreover, it appears she's the head of the house and you're the woman in that home |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by bigman001(m): 9:59pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83: Is she depriving you of sex? or its just the baby you are after? afterall you know she is a model and you know what it takes to be a very good attractive model, she has given you a boy and a girl, what else are you looking for? abi you are competing with someone on whose gonna have much kids? considering the economy crunch don't you think its a wise idea for now? the only issue i will see is if she went for FP without consenting you. |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by pikechukwu6(m): 10:15pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Yes nah |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Empresa: 10:21pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83:Give yourself sense 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Nonywendy(m): 10:26pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Isn't that two enough? Pls don't bring plenty children to come and suffer |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by seetomorrow: 10:30pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83: My brother if you reason with her based on your pocket, you may see her reasonable but of you are Odogwu..(sticking rich) still accept the idea. Cherish the 2 she gave you and how much more those with one. I have 2 don't wish to born another, for what? Be cool with 2 bro, love and cherish your wife. The Devil you know is better than Angel You don't know. |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by aameyah(f): 10:44pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Yes, it is her body. It is good she carries him along, but it is never 'by force' that he be the one to give her go ahead to do it. Most times, women lock up because they are married to irresponsible men who do not care for them. You can't continue popping out babies with such men who don't deserve to be fathers. 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by overseasnbeyond: 10:50pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Meaning your wife get sense pass you! She considered alot of factors including the economic situation of the country. Take your wife to America if she will not born more babies? onobire83: |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by jomarick(m): 10:54pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
Two kids is ideal in this current state of the world, not just in Nigeria. Even wealthy men hardly do more than 2kids these days. Your wife is educated and knowledgeable, she deserves respect and love. She probably do not deserve you! 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by MrJames007: 11:05pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
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Re: Should I End The Marriage? by PDJT: 11:11pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
onobire83: -If true, it appears she has no respect for you. However, you don't need to end the marriage, you can marry another younger woman that would have more children for you. Nigerian law allows polygamy, so it's your right to marry more wives and have as many children as you can look after. I don't even know how you young men of these days manage only one woman. |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by PDJT: 11:16pm On Dec 23, 2023 |
aameyah: -You're right. OP needs to go and marry another wife and have more kids for peace to reign. Nigerian law allows polygamy and OP, like everyone else, deserves to be happy. He should let the woman be. |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Thundafireseun: 12:09am On Dec 24, 2023 |
spiceadole: Mstheeeeeew You have a long way to go oga Have you asked yourself the reason why the rate of divorce is the highest in the western world?? |
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by ttobizz(m): 12:26am On Dec 24, 2023 |
I didn't read, but I think you should |
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