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Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by darealez(m): 8:28am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Bro, face life.. get the car and care for your baby. Rice go show next year!! Life's in stages, don't get stretched into making unplanned decisions. No need to show off.. also plan for unexpected expenses.. 1 Like |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Aklee4994(m): 8:31am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Nazgul:Look the moniker you quote na offpoint him no Dey ever serious with his comment |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Trustmea: 8:44am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Offpointng:🤣 Funny |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Ubanz: 8:47am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Everyone is just talking, no one knows how long it took him to save that much. It's not mandatory that u should send anyone anything,what is mandatory is the bride price u paid. When your wife delivers safely your mother in-law would still visit ,you can gift her a bag of rice & any other things u can afford. If u tamper with the money now ur so called in-laws will make mockery of u if God forbid ur wife has complications during delivery. Some years ago my friend lost his wife because he couldn't raise the required amount for CS on time.she died before the twin boys were rescued. It was so unfortunate that weeks after my friend discovered where his wife hid some 100's of 1000's of Naira. Don't listen to anybody telling you to tamper with ur savings,afterall it's Jesus birthday not theirs. 2 Likes |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by yemmit90: 8:47am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Valoromega: Don't mind those who are advising you not to buy anything for your parent and inlaw. This is a season of love, I've personally gives items to 2 widows I knew, my parents, inlaw and my former sale girl. I am not rich but this is what I do every year( though this year gifts were not robust). Since you are not totally broke, you can manage to get them something with just 50k or even less, they will appreciate it than nothing. Country is hard, only a fool will not appreciate little you give, so do what you can afford. 1 Like |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by betfair(m): 8:49am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Valoromega:better go and buy the rice for her..wont she be the one to come take care of your baby and wife after she gave birth? |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by 10kgod(m): 8:50am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Learning... Will be right back |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Timiblanko(m): 8:52am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Offpointng: I wanted to talk until I saw your Monica/Name 😂 |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Sucre7: 8:52am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Edusouls: Well we've been designed to carry the weight of the world |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Aklee4994(m): 8:57am On Dec 24, 2023 |
siant:if they didn’t bring it to online what are will going to comment on here..Everyone can never be like me and you |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by femi4: 9:05am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Valoromega:No, you are not balancing the equation. Instead of buying rice, give her money and explain your decision to wife. Giving them nothing will not be wise, do that which is within your budget. Besides , you can buy other stuff like yam, semovita etc that's not as costly as a bag of rice |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Father4all: 9:19am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Why must everything come online |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Gerrard59(m): 9:32am On Dec 24, 2023 |
cyrusmillz: E tire person. |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Ndipe(m): 9:32am On Dec 24, 2023 |
If you buy Christmas rice for her mother, remember also to buy one for your mother. Valoromega: |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Gerrard59(m): 9:44am On Dec 24, 2023 |
The comments are irritating! The wife's siblings DID NOT BUY ANYTHING FOR THEIR MOM! Does it mean OP loves his mother-in-law more than her children? And in the post, I did not see any of their fathers mentioned. So, what exactly do men gain from marriage?! Let's assume they are alive, what are they gaining from marriage? This marriage thing get as e be. Why should a man be saddled with the responsibility of catering for another family when he was not responsible for having them? Ah! Wahala go dey! 3 Likes |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by buJu234: 9:45am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Ur wife is so lucky that am not you.. Instantly I will tell her my mind.. no shi shi for your family.. Take it or leave it.. Eversince I knw that 21st century marriage has nothing for the man.. I stop being interested in getting married. From beginning to the end, Men gain nothing from it. But women gain everything, even during old age, the children only send money to their mother and carry her only to travel abroad while the father (aka man) relocates to the village and die alone.. So what's now the difference, infact a single man may even enjoy life than a married man these days.. because both of them will still end up living alone during old age either in the village or in old people's home. But the single man has lived a stress-free life unlike his married fellow, whom had suffered alot of marriage stress plus divorce if he is unlucky etc 3 Likes |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Gerrard59(m): 9:46am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Ubanz: Nna mehn! 2 Likes |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by jddempire(m): 10:07am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Bro don’t be stingy , you’re a family man now and her family are also your family. Send your mother in law 20k for the Xmas . Don’t wait for a woman to teach you how to be a man. |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by jddempire(m): 10:09am On Dec 24, 2023 |
A lot of people giving advice here are single , they don’t understand marriage / family . 1 Like |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by ogawisdom(m): 10:26am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Valoromega: Buy rice and other things in smaller quantities and share to everyone. Say half bag or quarter bag. At all at all Na em worse pass. There is no excuse for not giving your family and in law something at Christmas. |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by 9free(m): 10:29am On Dec 24, 2023 |
SamuelAnyawu:Congratulations in advance. Wishing you lovely wife safe delivery. |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by DEswiftfx(m): 10:47am On Dec 24, 2023 |
...sorry ar u kinda sure she isn't reading all u wrote up here |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Exceed15: 10:54am On Dec 24, 2023 |
LikeAking: Can a stingy man plan to get his wife a car.? |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Exceed15: 10:57am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Bro, you are good man. You even plan to surprise her with a car after birth. Don't bow to her pressure. Be firm with your decision so next time she will ot joke ur principles.After all no matter what you do for women they will soon Forget. |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by TheGift: 11:31am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Valoromega: Plan for your Baby, still the decent thing to do is send something to your mother in law and parents this season. Your wife doesn’t need to tell you. Instead of buying rice of 100k though, you can just give her 50k cash. |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Blackdisciple(m): 11:35am On Dec 24, 2023 |
I've already decided that I'm not buying anything for anyone this December, including my own mom Meaning he has been buying things for people when ever it's Xmas... Oga your child you are expecting a child and that should be your priority for now after then any other thing can come by after all Xmas just tomorrow and next tomorrow no kill yourself because of Christmas... 1 Like |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by BeeNG3: 11:50am On Dec 24, 2023 |
Buy the rice bro. Oluwa will provide |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Edusouls(m): 12:14pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Sucre7:bro men are tired of carrying that weight it’s telling terribly on our mental health, look around and see many men are worn out, down , depressed, suicidal, and completely broke 2 Likes |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Edusouls(m): 12:16pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Mohisah:bring the 55k nahh if it’s that simple? If u bring an heaven won’t fall |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by SPAMBOX7: 12:31pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Valoromega:Nice one. |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by SPAMBOX7: 12:34pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Nazgul:Abeg make person hear word. Poor people wey no get shishi wey dey born nko. Yall be doing too much on this matter of having and caring for a baby. Guys rasing a baby isn't as expensive as this person here portrays. Make una stop dey scare people. 1.7m will finish in 3 months for baby feeding lmao |
Re: We Are Expecting A Baby But My Wife Wants Me To Buy Christmas Rice For Her Mom by Esthered: 12:52pm On Dec 24, 2023 |
Acidosis:Maybe it's not his first child. 1 Like |
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