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Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by bassdow: 8:49am On Dec 25, 2023 |
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Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by oyeb15: 8:51am On Dec 25, 2023 |
She's a good child. How there u take ownership of someone child whom her parents invest millions from childhood to adulthood just for her to marry you and a lazy you now want to be reaping where u don't sow. Do u pray one lazy man reap your investment on your daughter. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Faposky95: 8:52am On Dec 25, 2023 |
It is her father and her business...... On to the many other businesses |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by id4sho(m): 8:52am On Dec 25, 2023 |
hurryup123:Werey ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by RosyIsBlessed: 8:54am On Dec 25, 2023 |
I see nothing wrong with it. Based on recent happenings and how women are stranded in breakups and divorces, it's necessary so she and the children will have where to lay their heads in future should in case the marriage goes south. She's a wise woman. Secondly, that she's your wife doesn't mean she's no longer obligated to her parents. She still owes them care same as you owe yours. I won't do anything but just let her be |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by abysirius(m): 8:54am On Dec 25, 2023 |
There is nothing wrong in a woman building a house for her parents. Or what exactly is the issue? Is she building the house with her husband money that is meant for another project? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by jaxxy(m): 8:55am On Dec 25, 2023 |
She has a right to build a house there if she wants. it's still her father place and her family house. or should she build a house in ur fathers compound? People think when they marry the woman doesn't know her own family again or she shouldn't relate with her own family. The only problem I can have is her not informing her husband which is wrong unless if the husband is problematic or irresponsible. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Letuspray4niger: 8:56am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Akwamkpuruamu: When you see people that used lick đź‘… plate, you can easily identify them |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by lamalang(m): 8:56am On Dec 25, 2023 |
I will actually support her, cos she knows what she is doing |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Hezmatosky: 8:57am On Dec 25, 2023 |
If na place o, na laff i go just laff. Because why las las na she go loose. Why because she's just building the house for her brothers. For my place, women does not have share in their father's property. If she like make she build mansion. That's why women dey always take wrong decisions. Had she told me, wahala for no dey |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Onyiiobi7735(m): 8:57am On Dec 25, 2023 |
🤣 I am here to read plastic and insincere comments.Some of those commenting nicely would bring down the roof even if the wife is doing so with the money she earns.They will oo! Because the secrecy thing is a snag. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by amiibaby(f): 8:58am On Dec 25, 2023 |
hurryup123:it's you that don't have sense. Instead of u to build for u and ur kids u the do side chicks anumanu 2 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Mosba: 9:01am On Dec 25, 2023 |
If I found out from different source apart from her, I will study her source of money but won't confront her if her source of money is pure. I will now wait for as long as it takes for her to tell me. And if Satan pushed her to tell me that we should move there and demand rent from me the next thing separating me and her would be divorce letter |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by hopexter(m): 9:02am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Nice2023: On the same page of building a house on her father’s land? Don’t be a simp ![]() |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by nickyvil: 9:02am On Dec 25, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: I don't have anything against her building a house secretly but I have a problem building it in her father's compound, first this is not a wise choice considering the future of her kids. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:02am On Dec 25, 2023 |
I wouldn't bother myself with what she does with her money. It's hard to take such in, but money, possessions and even humans will pass away no matter how long. A woman who left her fathers compound in the name of being married, then goes back to build there is not fully invested in the marriage, so deal with this in mind. Continue to do what is right in the sight of God, and make sure you are working hard not to be dependent on her in the future. Be prayerful, make sure your own hands are clean, and may God come through for all who are faithful. 2 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by sulakishop(m): 9:03am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Congratulations to her. God will do mine too but why the secrecy? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 9:03am On Dec 25, 2023 |
bassdow: Yes Yoruba women are encouraged to have houses, investments and other income generating assets. Yoruba women are entitled to inheritance from their parents. My late grandma had houses , my late mother had a house, all my sisters have investment properties. Na wife you marry, no be slave. But the wife as a partner who is making her own money is required to have a financial role in the running of the household expenses 3 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Godwin7(m): 9:04am On Dec 25, 2023 |
It will be the beginning of the end of our marriage, first the foundation of marriage which is trust has been eroded. So we shall leave in that marriage as strangers from henceforth. I will never trust nor believe her again. If I am the type that can womanise ,I will start looking for another wife. And if my resources can carry it I will just build another house somewhere else and move out . Or worse if all I can Japa to another country and leave the rest of my life there. For her to do such it simply means she is not committed to the marriage. What is wrong if I am put in the picture about the plan from conception. This is a SERIOUS matter to me . |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by whippersnapper(m): 9:05am On Dec 25, 2023 |
id4sho:who is she now building it for |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by hopexter(m): 9:06am On Dec 25, 2023 |
It is normal in Edo state. The married woman will eventually return back to her father’s compound when she dies, so she’s got to build a house when she dies. Mumsi house for her papa compound don ready sef since ![]() |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by WantsandMore: 9:06am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Does it affects family finances, why's it a secret anyways? Crazy complexities |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by maxiuc(m): 9:11am On Dec 25, 2023 |
No matter how much I Love her I will end that marriage This is betrayal Oh while I was working myself out providing for every damn thing in the house and she has the gut to this and it will be worse if we are still living in a rented apartment, This days I can't tolerate any woman I can tolerate kids and my fellow man but you see women hmmmm I can't 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by chloride6: 9:11am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Nothing… it is the inheritance of her and her children. At least if I leave this world they have something to themselves. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by CodeTemplar: 9:14am On Dec 25, 2023 |
That's a project. As long as it isn't an ogboni project that involves using my spirit to build upstairs at 70 years of age and buying jeeps. Or using garment to monitor my thoughts from ibe close. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Babangidapikin: 9:14am On Dec 25, 2023 |
It's her secret and her house why are you stressing yourself ... |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Judolisco(m): 9:15am On Dec 25, 2023 |
I go marry another wife secretly.... And I'll tell her I can't trust her again 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by victorazy(m): 9:16am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Naijabad: I will help her finish it, then she will pack in with them forever. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by zedegit: 9:17am On Dec 25, 2023 |
immortalcrown: Many don't know the reality or wetin dey sup for marriage. Don't allow Nollywood to deceive you. If you're not willing to overlook a lot of things, don't marry otherwise na wahala everyday. As long as she's not cheating with a man, you can live your best life. The Nigerian mentality is that a woman's money na her own. With that mindset focus unless you no want peaceful home. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by victorazy(m): 9:18am On Dec 25, 2023 |
abysirius: Did you even read what Is written over there? Is obvious your not married. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by iyiola799: 9:19am On Dec 25, 2023 |
I will feel bad and confront herI will feel bad and confront her... |
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