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Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by johnson4nosa(m): 10:04am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Now I can sight a mature mind InvertedHammer: 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by tetula123(m): 10:11am On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi: The question is it being kept a secret. Nobody is saying she should not. Why keep it a secret. Leave what you are typing here. You definitely going to feel bad. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by IamMobisola(f): 10:11am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Naijabad:Most men if not all are not trustworthy, reliable or responsible. They can wake up tomorrow and tell you someone is pregnant for them or that they want to take in a second wive. Africa has made men have too much privilege while neglecting the women. So as a wise woman, if you are married just make sure you have a job and also a business, have savings and when you have enough buy a land in your name or children's name and start something on the land. Whether you tell your husband, it doesn't matter but make sure your father or mother or siblings are aware. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Yvngex(m): 10:12am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Naijabad: I like the structural design. I prat to get mine someday.... |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by IamMobisola(f): 10:15am On Dec 25, 2023 |
tetula123: How many couples who cheat tell their spouses about their cheating rendezvous? Isn't that a secret too? Lots of men have has kids outside their marriages and kept it a secret from their wives. In a marriage, there will always be a secret. This shouldn't be any different |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:25am On Dec 25, 2023 |
tetula123: There is a woman who used to leave in my area, the husband opened a catering business for her. When she saved money, she asked me to assist her to get a land that she would love to surprise her husband by building a house. I asked her to inform the husband who opened the business for her. When he told the man, he collected the money from the wive bought a bigger car, moved to a bigger apartment. Husband was an Electrical Engineer. The next time she saved money, she bought a land without telling the husband and also built a 3 bedroom apartment on it at Sango Otta It was after the husband was retired and couldn't afford rent, that the wife opened up to the husband that she had built a house where the family could relocate to. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Amayabor1: 10:29am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Na igbo women sabi do this kind thing. They can even send their brothers abroad with their husband's money without the man knowing. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Dpaulie(m): 10:33am On Dec 25, 2023 |
No qualms Planning to go back to one's father's compound not a bad idea |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by AngelicBeing: 10:33am On Dec 25, 2023 |
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Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by smasher1(m): 10:35am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Naijabad: Absolutely nothing. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by tetula123(m): 10:35am On Dec 25, 2023 |
IamMobisola: All you mentioned they do it. Does it make it right ? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Starships4u(m): 10:36am On Dec 25, 2023 |
immortalcrown: Are yhu married at all? Do yhu really understand what is secret in marriage at all? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by tetula123(m): 10:36am On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi:The question here. We are assuming in a stable home. The woman does this. Is it right ? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by amah4game: 10:42am On Dec 25, 2023 |
jmoore:curious to know how you would or can differentiate your money and her money in the project, bearing in mind one way or the other you give her money 🤔 |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:45am On Dec 25, 2023 |
tetula123: We don't know the home is stable or not, you are assuming the home was stable. Life is too short to give oneself unnecessary headaches. The husband has the option of building his own house without informing his wife, he can also decide to send her packing. If a woman is employed, productively engaged, making her own and contributing her own quota to the running of the house, it is none of my business what she does with her money. The OP should be happy he has a forward looking wife who is building and not using her money to buy phones, jewelries and cosmetic surgeries. The money some women spend on cosmetic surgeries can build a house. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Free2Fly: 10:45am On Dec 25, 2023 |
immortalcrown: You always rush to dish out stupid responses in the name of being the first to comment, just to get some likes from some idiots. If you don't understand what marriage is and how it should work, you should just get out from such threads. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:48am On Dec 25, 2023 |
amah4game: Is she not working? Is there no household budget? Is she not contributing her quota of the budgets? 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Checkwell: 10:50am On Dec 25, 2023 |
I will allow her to finish, then I pack in there. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by jmoore(m): 10:53am On Dec 25, 2023 |
[quote author=amah4game post=127618117] curious to know how you would or can differentiate your money and her money in the project, bearing in mind one way or the other you give her money |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by amah4game: 10:54am On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi:True talk..., she works, she contributes, but if she is the one mainly going to shop for up keep items for the home, for instance a naira cut here and a naira cut there over time fit buy cement |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 10:56am On Dec 25, 2023 |
amah4game: She is a good woman. She didn't use the naira cut here and there to buy hair, phone or do cosmetic surgeries, but she could build a house with the money She is a very good money manager 2 Likes |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by amah4game: 11:02am On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi: |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by UncleKoboko: 11:07am On Dec 25, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy:Yẹyẹ The children that most of you can't take care of alone. Dey play, u go suffer tire ![]() Even the few ones that manages to take care of the children does so through the money they get from other men. Una go use stubborness and stupidity spoil una marriage come dey follow other MARRIED MEN OUTSIDE ![]() A reasonable man will never fight for his kids, he'll develop himself so well that it's even the kids that'll be fighting to be with him. U think think it's all this generation of men that are stupid and can be easily manipulated? Dey play ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by IamMobisola(f): 11:08am On Dec 25, 2023 |
tetula123:It doesn't but then again... |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Innobee99(m): 11:20am On Dec 25, 2023 |
immortalcrown:Easier said than done. How will ur wife be building a house without ur consent? This ur write up is just to get accolades 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Sunrise258: 11:20am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Perused all your comments here and I discovered how tribalistic you can be against the Yoruba people. I think you live in Yorubaland just as I'm Yoruba and live in your close to your land. From Yoruba women keeping secrets, to tying their womb to Yoruba men being polygamous & not fending for their children! Is Yul Edochie and more Igbo men with multiple wives Yoruba? Many Igbo men here do not fend for their kids. The rate of prostitution in Owerri is alarming. Everything you accused Yoruba of dwells within your people as well. Using Igbo in Lagos as yardstick is survey marred with inaccuracies bc they are the wealthiest set of Igbo. To really know your tribe, come to your land and see with your eyes the reality among your people. If Igbo men takes care of their wife n kids that much, why are 80% cases on Lagos domestic violence ministry Igbo couples breaking their heads & maltreating the kids?! Remove the wool in your own eyes first before you try to remove from others. bassdow: 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by captianfreeman(m): 11:22am On Dec 25, 2023 |
Nothing If it is with her money. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by tetula123(m): 11:24am On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi:you still didn’t answer my question. Let me help you out. Is is ok for couples to keep secrets? Now the op didn’t say this or that happened. So we will assume it’s a stable home. Now I ask again. Is it right for couples to keep secrets? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by papapchi(m): 11:25am On Dec 25, 2023 |
In as much the building of the house by my wife in her fathers compound is not affecting my finances, I don't have problems with it. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:36am On Dec 25, 2023 |
4mee:How is it betrayal? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Chidex50(m): 11:38am On Dec 25, 2023 |
ogawisdom:Lolzzz! Na secret family be that. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 11:41am On Dec 25, 2023 |
jmoore:That is where the mindset should be clear |
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