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Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Sterope(f): 12:49pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
That marriage is ruined except there are good reasons(trust), even then she should disclose after buying the land. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by immortalcrown(m): 12:50pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Free2Fly:Are you obsessed with who comments first? Anyways, it is good that I "rush" to comment so that you will always "rush" to read it to your consternation. Meanwhile, my philosophy and attitude inspire my comments. Your own philosophy and attitude inspire your own comments. Suit yourself. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by immortalcrown(m): 12:52pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Starships4u:Forget my marital status. Use facts to counter my comment. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Smithwilliams826: 1:25pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
That's her business as long as it's not be my money. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by ibrahass: 1:37pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
HeadNigga:Lazy youth. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by rickleye: 1:56pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
I’ll be offended that she couldn’t trust me with the information and I’ll be even more devastated that I could not account for her whereabouts while building . But once she apologizes. I’ll help when and if I can and hope that such an occurrence will not happen |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Amuroba: 1:58pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
I'll definitely loose trust, if we already have kids, then next is DNA test. If she can keep such a big secret, then who knows what.................. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Blackdisciple(m): 2:00pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Meaning she doesn't trust her husband and the husband shouldn't trust her too.... If he has money he should secretly building a house or establish some businesses elsewhere without her notice simple... |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by marsup: 2:11pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Build your own as well |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Makamatic: 2:17pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi: But Epa .. she's building it secretly oo |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Elidrisy20: 2:17pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
I will be happy |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by latiephwald(m): 2:26pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
baralatie: Whatsoever she becomes is non of my business. For the fact that she hides things for me, I don't see that marriage working again. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 2:28pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Makamatic: Do you know why she is doing it secretly. At least her children will inherit the property The man should also build his own secretly. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Makamatic: 2:45pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi: Ok sir |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 2:52pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
latiephwald:Yinmu |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Executive729: 2:54pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: She is not sincere in the marriage, she is only doing this because most probably her husband have other children before marrying her. The only bad thing here is if she is sinfully syphoning monies from her husband to build the house and as soon as her house is ready she will probably quit the marriage. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 2:59pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Executive729:Siphoning monies from her husband Really? As in the wife siphon monies running into millions from the husband account? |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Bodexinvest: 3:28pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
No big deal but keeping it a secret is not good enough. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by femi4: 3:39pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Naijabad:Secretly marry another wife |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by zoedew: 3:45pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi:You miss the point. The point is not about the gender of the party doing the building but the fact of non-disclosure to the other person, |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 3:53pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
zoedew: Do you know the reason for the non disclosure? The guy should build his own house and not disclose, tit for tat. What most men don't know is that women play this marriage business better than men. It is usually more profitable for women. So nothing should come as a surprise to any man Na man dey love woman unconditionally, woman love conditionally. They only love what they are still getting from the man, when it stops the love stops |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by adecz: 4:37pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️ Maybe it's got to do with your cultural background and your people.. In some places, if anything happens to the husband, his people will come and takeover any property that he and wife developed and drive the kids away & leave them homeless. She is giving herself and children security, so that she doesn't become homeless in case of any unforeseen circumstances❗️❗️ 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by LINSAR: 4:47pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: This is why it's not a good idea to bring marriage matters to Nairalanders. Even the unmarried go dey use you shine all in the name of advice. When you marry, your mentality go change. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by benjanny(m): 4:49pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
I Know one woman who has done such |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by zoedew: 5:33pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
emmanuelewumi:Even when you do what you can it can be shocking the bad things they say to the children about the man. My advise is for every man out there to have a close relationship with God. When you are done in by folks who should be there for you God will be more than enough for you! Also plan and save towards hiring a cook. These days women see cooking as laborious and men get pilloried for asking for a meal. Some men suffer hunger at the hands of their wives who do meals at the time it suits them!😭. A man in such situations must be careful to not get involved with other women in the bid to get to eat regular meals. |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by emmanuelewumi(m): 6:51pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
zoedew: Okay ooooo. Are you married? If you know what majority of God fearing husbands are suffering courtesy of their wives. Men of God are not excluded from this. 1 Like |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:09pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
nickyvil: what do you mean considering the future of the kids? if she wise enough to built a house there is a high chance to think of the future of the kids The kids can benefit both from mum's side where the house is and from the family house (mum &daddy) The only issue which needs clarity is that is the house in her children name or development done considering that the children have the right to be included in the share of the compound in the event grandpa and mum dies |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by Teymanhenry(f): 7:15pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
I'll congratulate her. And focus on building our own house. She's got every right to build for her dad. He made her just like your dad made you |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by baralatie(m): 7:16pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:Now you are asking the real question The woman that is running from shark in laws on the husband side inorder to protect her children. How safe is this approach if infact her own side are also shark in waiting 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by nickyvil: 7:31pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
First let me clarity something's to you, first we are in Nigeria doing things in family house especially the female child is 50/50 chance, what if tomorrow there is a dispute on the said land after her father pass away, what if her sibling are not on the same page, we are having the same issues, my grandfather had so many properties which after his death, some of my Dad's siblings are not cool with the will which they contest. The case is in the court, my father had his properties away from his dads own and I have my own away from my dad, the house I build in our home town is simply a family house so to avoid family issues the best is to acquire your own properties and build, that is an investment for your kids but anything you build in your fathers house is a 50/50 unless if your father attest to giving you the land and before he died , you acquired the document for the landed properties if not its risky. I'm in support of her having her own properties but I'm not in support of her in her family house. ZIMDRILL: |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:49pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
nickyvil: i understand all that, the fact that the women went to built a house in her father's compound, it means she doesnt see the dynamics that might came later Then we also have to question the leadership of the house aka husband why the wife chose that route, roughly meaning their is lack of communication, future plans between the two. Or wife is reacting to something we dont know hence i responded that its complex becoz we dont know the dynamics in the house |
Re: What Will You Do If Your Wife Is Secretly Building A House In Her Fathers Compou by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:55pm On Dec 25, 2023 |
Blackdisciple: thats one side of things, i agree but the otherside is that she just helped to develop the compound of her father nothing more. Yes we might question why she hide it from hubby, to me its just a reflection of how are things in the house or someone poisoned her to hide it from hubby 1 Like |
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