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I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Impregnable101: 11:52am On Dec 28, 2023 |
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by EmptyGarden(m): 11:55am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Change title to “I don’t find my baby mama attractive anymore”…. 376 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Zaheertyler(m): 11:56am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Have you spoken to her about it If yes in what manner? I think you're the immature one 42 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by madone: 11:56am On Dec 28, 2023 |
you held someone's daughter for 6years no progress, no marriage no impact and you are here talking. Brother go and work on yourself cos you have a problem. If you have not been able to work on her appearance And model her to what you want you may as well fu..ck out of her life. 88 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Jeon(f): 11:56am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Chaii what a waste. Some Ladies won't learn no matter what. Well I guess she's from the previous generation, not from mine. Don't worry you will come across the one that will only care for and thinking about how to improve her appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself).But don't come here crying "she has nothing to offer apart from sex". 54 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by proff010: 11:56am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Tell her what you have observed. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Impregnable101: 11:57am On Dec 28, 2023 |
EmptyGarden:we got engaged, did our introduction 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Impregnable101: 11:58am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Zaheertyler:A lot. |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Zaheertyler(m): 11:59am On Dec 28, 2023 |
Have you spoken to her about it If yes in what manner? If no then try to encourage her to change don't force or complain...she'll feel insecure still and fear of abandonment will enter Try encouraging and supporting the change Love is kind and patient lol Also it's a choice if she no change Then you can change 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by naijapikin2(m): 12:02pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Congratulations... A broken relationship is better than a sad marital status or rather divorce. Just pray the spark in your eyes will not be dimming out in every relationship you enter. My advice don't pretend about it or force yourself into it.. I've been there before I know warrai m'saying.. just be open In a wise way. Do it sensibly or it may backfire on the kid (I hope not) Ciao. 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Animegirl(f): 12:10pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
. I'm sure you're not perfect too. People act like they won't die one-day, beauty or not even if you leave her for another woman, that woman will still get old, same as you looking old and unattractive. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Impregnable101: 12:11pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Jeon:Ask questions before you blab. I must not put all the details in the write up 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Zaheertyler(m): 12:12pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101:Your manner of approach? She's your partner not your daughter Have you tried to see it from her pov and why she isn't changing? Most men acts like tryrants in relationships I don't think love should be that way 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by viyon02: 12:12pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Op, let just turn the table around, let say someone did that to your sister, what could have been your advice to him? Am sure something better will come to your mind, now do that to yourself. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Jeon(f): 12:17pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101: Cancel my subscription because I don’t need your issues. 14 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Sonnobax15(m): 12:19pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
A broken relationship is far more better than a broken marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by DyingFetus: 12:24pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Move on with your life if you don't find her attractive Date other women 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by mablie(m): 12:28pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101: @Emboldened hehehe The Good 'ol Bait & Switch 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by id4sho(m): 12:49pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Nackzy: 12:49pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
It is over |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Mihaug(m): 12:49pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Break off the engagement ASAP so u both don't live many years of tears and regret when it could have been avoided |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by pansophist(m): 12:49pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Marriage is not based on a permanent sexual attraction. Remember the vow both of you gave to each other on your wedding day, and let that lead you. Maybe I should remind you. for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death If she had cheated or done something that violates her vow, then I can understand, but attraction is a mere feature of a long-lasting relationship, and both of you must work to reignite it. You mentioned that she changed in appearance, and there lies the issue. If both of you are allowed to eat only soup, then the soup better be well-prepared. So both of you can get into fitness and strict dieting. Besides, ever wonder if it's mutual? maybe she doesn't find you attractive anymore but forgave you for things you are holding against her? If this is the case, then she is the stronger person. Lots of marital problems will end if people just keep being attractive to each other and keep forking each other. EDIT - I think say una don marry sef. ANyways, this advice is still valid regardless. If your loss of attraction is not as a result of not being a good person to you, then tell her to go loose weight. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by BlackhatMentor: 12:49pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
It's not your fault Men aren't designed to be caged by one hole. Even if you get married to the most beautiful woman on earth When you both get to 50, she becomes unattractive While you as a man can still bang 18year old 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Femisol(m): 12:49pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
You know what to do next nau |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by harsysky(m): 12:49pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
When I look at the beautiful children my wife has given us, I find her more attractive than before. How she manages to maintain her weight without much exercise after two children is still a mystery to me 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by noobody(m): 12:50pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
I nor dey comment on this kin topics, But LOOOOOL 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by iwaeda: 12:50pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101:Beauty is only in beolder's eyes. Seek for counsellors, take out for dinner. Ask her about her worries and fears. Change her wardrobe, if you can afford it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by MatrixReloaded: 12:50pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
IamDora:Toto no dey tire us but then again the useful once open business or switch her iq to his perfection. There is nothing like that bolded sentence you wrote. Who is tired will move on without hesitation. So be real and face reality. pansophist: |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by Dottore: 12:51pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Ok |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by FeliciaOja(f): 12:51pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Ok |
Re: I Don't Find My Fiancee Attractive Anymore by YourGFsnatcher: 12:51pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Impregnable101: Nothing new, just another phase of relationship. No one Is perfect n if you expect her to remain attractive forever you are delusional. You are a man, don't do something u ll regret, handle your relationship, no human can remain attractive forever 4 Likes |
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