A woman has shared the last messages she exchanged with her close male friend this holiday season before she blocked him.

In their chat, the woman is seen keeping her friend updated on her Christmas plans, including where she plans to spend the holiday.

During the chat, she invited him to her dinner party only for him to inform her that he was now in Canada.
She added that before he travelled, she saw his packed luggage and asked but he lied.

She also disclosed that others knew he had travelled but he hid it from her while regularly chatting with her.

https://nigerianstreet.com/2023/12/29/woman-shares-chat-that-made-her-block-her-close-male-friend/

Was he your fiancee or just a friend? Is he answerable to you or has his own mind?

E get why

🦌

Even though you're his friend, you can also be the village people he's trying to avoid. It's not all friends that are happy that their fellow friend is progressing.

I rather tell some enemies my plan and prepare for war than tell some friends and loose guard.

ikeno:
Even though you're his friend, you can also be the village people he's trying to avoid. It's not all friends that are happy that their fellow friend is progressing.

Then why be friends with such people?

He clearly is weary of her, so why should she continue to be friends with him?

Africans tho...we are too selective with our "Woke" culture

An African will tell u he doesnt believe in God and even condemn those who attribute negative occurences to Juju but same African would choose to hide things like this from his friends cause he believes there are village people somewhere



Its why i dont take Atheists seriously...They only with atheitism to form woke

As for the lady, we have finally got to know that u now have a close friend who currently stays in Pluto

Cause if not for clout chasing, why would u bring this issues up on a SM space when obviously we know neither u nor your friend


That aside, even she might prolly do same if she was in his shoes

I have learnt so much about Humans to know that its easier for them to criticize things they are likely to do when opportune, most of the times, people are indifferent and hardly condemn a act they will never do

The guy lied to ONE person. This bitch is lying to the ENTIRE Internet that they are just friends.

Dude bleeped her and ran to another continent.

1Sharon:


Then why be friends with such people?

He clearly is weary of her, so why should she continue to be friends with him?

He has all right to be weary of her because she's definitely the aproko type of friend that will share every details of her friends personal life on SM

ikeno:
Even though you're his friend, you can also be the village people he's trying to avoid. It's not all friends that are happy that their fellow friend is progressing.

All the more reason to not continue be his friends?

If he sees as a 'village person', she's justified in blocking him.

She is mad because she didn't get the Chance to seduce that innocent man to abandon his traveling plans and become her simp. Destiny killers.

What will telling you about it beforehand have added to you? That’s what he wants, it’s about him not you. If you had any questions as to his reasons then ask. A simple ‘’nawa o, I was at your place last week, you didn’t think I deserved to know’’ would not kill you.

Your reaction to what is supposed to be a good thing for him is the reason he didn’t tell you in the first place. If he told you when you were at his place, you would have been mad he didn’t tell you when he got his visa, if he told you then, you would be mad he didn’t tell you he was applying and if it did, you would get mad it wasn’t when he conceived the thought.

Not like you were going to give him anything, you will find a brothers nephew aunty who wants to send garri and ogbono to her son in a different province. His first point of duty on getting to Canada will be looking for a post office to distribute ogbono and stock fish to Saskatchewan.

Me self if I want to japa, I won't tell anyone except my close family members. If u like vex that is ur business

Nicepoker:
She is mad because she didn't get the Chance to seduce that innocent man to abandon his traveling plans and become her simp. Destiny killers.

Pray not to take this mentality into 2024, it will not help with your progress in life.

Obviously a one sided close friendship, he didn't see her as a close friend, painful but a lesson.

Biglittlelois:



Pray not to take this mentality into 2024, it will not help with your progress in life.

Let me lay my hands on your head and pray for you.

I can understand why she is upset. Seems like after he told her she asked other people in their friend group and they all knew except her. That will make anyone feel some type of way. In the other hand, Nigerians like to move quietly especially when it comes to traveling. For some reason we always feel like there is someone or something after us when it comes to traveling.

The fact that she brought this to social media is the same reason he didn't inform her about his movement.

The ironic part is that everyone now knows he's in Canada with this post.

Na male friend be baby

She’s really pained, could be one of those guys that was just sayin her to cure konji, while he takes care of some of her needs, guy man had a bigger picture, make she no vex

Gadafii:
Na male friend be baby

She’s really pained, could be one of those guys that was just sayin her to cure konji, while he takes care of some of her needs, guy man had a bigger picture, make she no vex

She never talk the part wey dey pain am.

This kain things no dey pain me.

I will just think Otilor and ignore.

No time.

If he told her, she will not allowed him to go,higher billing bdat! Till he spend all his traveling budgets money on her! Women were truly in devil form

1Sharon:


Then why be friends with such people?

He clearly is weary of her, so why should she continue to be friends with him?

She might not be a bad person, in fact many friends are not, but a whole lot of them have mouth diarrhea. They are broadcasters faster than Sahara reporters and gistlover.
Dem never fit keep secret or what you don't want exposed to the public yet. Then, people also stereotype females for this that they are unable to keep secrets.

Probably she has been told not to let people know especially people close to her. There are some people that does get failure whenever they disclose their plans to others.

I don't know why our people do this thing.. they'll hide everything till they get overseas before informing their close pals.. at least let one or two you hold dear know you're travelling out, it won't take anything away from you.

Dizzyyish:
The fact that she brought this to social media is the same reason he didn't inform her about his movement.

The ironic part is that everyone now knows he's in Canada with this post.

Exactly!!!

Hhhmmm...

I had experience close to this.. it's hurt seriously... it makes you feel like you are a witch or wizard...

Well don't blame people if they don't trust you... it's dia choice

The thing is if you have a friend, you know their weaknesses and strength . May be the guy knows telling you will cause problems that's why he refused telling you. I personally.will prefer to.confide in a stranger that shuts his mouth than confiding in a friend that has a loose mouth. It does not mean I hate my friend.

malaria:
The thing is if you have a friend, you know their weaknesses and strength . May be the guy knows telling you will cause problems that's why he refused telling you. I personally.will prefer to.confide in a stranger that shuts his mouth than confiding in a friend that has a loose mouth. It does not mean I hate my friend.

. Reaons some married people keep having close friends outside their spouses . Some people mouth to loose, they no get secret .