A response to a post I saw on instagram yesterday.

It's good to be positive and love yourself quite alright but know when to stand back when your chunky limbs are reaching for the delusion line.

For starters, men all over the world are attracted to a similar build in Women-which is the ever youthful Slim built. Some like theirs flavourless(no curves), others flavourful or very flavourful. As long as the base remains slim.

Almost all men including African men are attracted to slim women. Don't cross the delulu line yet.

Men are first attracted to youth in a woman even before her beauty. Since slim is mostly a youthful attribute, it's no wonder men price this figure the most among other figures. The extreme opposite of slim is "unyouthful" hence, less appealing to the male gaze.

Thick and chubby women are too much to take in for the average male. They are just a bit extra no matter how pretty she is. But a pretty petite girl is an instant male magnet. Na dem dey tire.

I've had some pretty friends let themselves go because some big mouths online kept priding themselves as meat eaters and not bone eaters. Too much of that kind of needless takes online to maliciously bully slim women can make a beautiful unsuspecting girl gradually let herself go to appear "acceptable"

There are men who love big women but they are in the minority and very loud about it online(because they are few?). The average Joe isn't checking for the aunty that looks like the aunty.

So if you are a girl or lady that enjoys male attention, don't be fooled by the internet. Reality is a different ball game. Happy new year in ady! 😘

Men like to present slim beautiful women to people and the society but in actual fact they prefer to bed chubby women cause these type of women give them a thrill especially if she has big butt and boobs. That's the reason some women go under the knife to get cosmetics surgery for larger boobs and butt

na huna headache be that

like a guy here usually say:

e no concern me but he dey mind

You’re right.

Majority of men love slim ladies, just as the Op has pointed out, the attribute of youthfulness which we all know men love.

By the way, how about aging gracefully?
With or without men, please let’s all try to maintain healthy weights; for our own sakes.

Slim thick all the way

I like slim girls die but sometimes I day like taste chubby girls as a slim guy, their thick boobs day give me joy

Orobo na Stress for bed.

I like chubby women ! Fat is "N0" for me

Which minority OP?

Well lets use a poll.

If you like picture 1,2 and 3 over picture 4 click like, otherwise click share.

DaTruths:
Which minority OP?

Well lets use a poll.

If you like picture 1,2 and 3 over picture 4 click like, otherwise click share.

Omo no be this kain slim abeg

Dyfynezz12:

Omo no be this kain slim abeg

Na you dey differentiate slim?

E no get the kind slim wey i go choose over those curvy women.

DaTruths:

Na you dey differentiate slim?

E no get the kind slim wey i go choose over those curvy women.

laiye

Why are women speaking for men Different men of different races have different preferences generally. The European standard of a beautiful ( slim) was never our preference in many African societies. In some cultures even in the current Nigeria , women were fattened before going to their husbands house. The average black man prefers women with flesh 🙄

DaTruths:
Which minority OP?

Well lets use a poll.

If you like picture 1,2 and 3 over picture 4 click like, otherwise click share.

He said Chubby. Those girls are not chubby.

Dyfynezz12:

Omo no be this kain slim abeg

DaTruths:
Which minority OP?

Well lets use a poll.

If you like picture 1,2 and 3 over picture 4 click like, otherwise click share.

I clicked Like, abeg.

I mean I've boned all sizes and found the soft, curvy (not fat, not fat please! ) chicks super appealing and satisfying. Keyword, soft.

Firstly, feeling the soft butt cheeks engulf my thick hard c0ck stretching her wetness, and also just having all that flesh to grab and squeeze on, prolongs my lifespan by 2 years.
Secondly, the coochie is a pleasant warm and wet cushion, and the booty as well, if you're a doggy specialist. For someone with a thick c0ck, you need all that shock absorber trust me.

The slim chicks are great for the drunk sex and gymnastics. You can wrap her up, pick her up and pin her to a wall, a table or wherever. Asides that, there's not much to see there.

Generally, whether curvy or slim, she gotta be soft and fresh please. I can't stress that enough.

The majority of sub-Saharan women are thick or fat or chubby however you define it. So, how can the men suddenly change their preference away from what they evolved with? Even in the US, African American women are thick or fat or chubby. The same applies to the Caribbean. The problem happens when it becomes a health issue, but black men like their women to be thick or fat or chubby.

We are not white or Chinese men.

Gerrard59:
The majority of sub-Saharan women are thick or fat or chubby however you define it. So, how can the men suddenly change their preference away from what they evolved with? Even in the US, African American women are thick or fat or chubby. The same applies to the Caribbean. The problem happens when it becomes a health issue, but black men like their women to be thick or fat or chubby.

We are not white or Chinese men.

I can't speak for other African countries but the average Nigerian girl from 25 downwards isn't big.

The average young woman in any society in the world with the exception of maybe African Americans, starts out slim.

Women usually start getting thick from 25 upwards.

And no, black or whoever men don't like their women thick or big, that's a myth.

Majority dont

DaTruths:
Which minority OP?

Well lets use a poll.

If you like picture 1,2 and 3 over picture 4 click like, otherwise click share.

Give me picture 4 anyday anytime. You see that picture 4 na ageless beauty. She no dey crack no matter her age.

ikeno:
Men like to present slim beautiful women to people and the society but in actual fact they prefer to bed chubby women cause these type of women give them a thrill especially if she has big butt and boobs. That's the reason some women go under the knife to get cosmetics surgery for larger boobs and butt

They are getting surgery to increase their boobs and butts not their bodies.

A woman can have these features and still be slim. Many women are built like this.

And no, men are not fronting slim women, they actually see them as easier on the eyes because they are.

ednut1:
Why are women speaking for men Different men of different races have different preferences generally. The European standard of a beautiful ( slim) was never our preference in many African societies. In some cultures even in the current Nigeria , women were fattened before going to their husbands house. The average black man prefers women with flesh 🙄

So untrue. Maybe it was true in the last century but definitely not this current one. I hope young girls and women aiming for a better and comforting life are not listening to misconceptions like this cos they are misleading

Geminita1:


So untrue. Maybe it was true in the last century but definitely not this current one. I hope young girls and women aiming for a better and comforting life are not listening to misconceptions like this cos they are misleading

why are ladies doing BBL costing 3m to 5m and risking their lives 🤣

DaTruths:
Which minority OP?

Well lets use a poll.

If you like picture 1,2 and 3 over picture 4 click like, otherwise click share.

The vast majority of men globally will pick the 4th girl.

Majority of black or African men would pick the 4th girl if she has a larger boobs or butt on that frame.

Girls 1-3, will do well with a slim base. They are a little bit weighty on the eyes. Except maybe Pic 3 cos she looks slim from the side

ednut1:
why are ladies doing BBL costing 3m to 5m and risking their lives 🤣

Tell me who BBL looks best on. The slim or the thick lady. If your answer is honest, there would be no need for further argument

Geminita1:
I can't speak for other African countries but the average Nigerian girl from 25 downwards isn't big.

The average young woman in any society in the world with the exception of maybe African Americans, starts out slim.

Women usually start getting thick from 25 upwards.

And no, black or whoever men don't like their women thick or big, that's a myth.

Majority dont

Show us a scientific paper to support the bold 'cos those are very audacious claims.

BTW, if black men don't like their women to be thick, what kind of women would Southern African and black Brazillian men date, marry and copulate with?

Geminita1:
The vast majority of men globally will pick the 4th girl.

Majority of black or African men would pick the 4th girl if she has a larger boobs or butt on that frame.

Girls 1-3, will do well with a slim base. They are a little bit weighty on the eyes. Except maybe Pic 3 cos she looks slim from the side

Well i would pick you over the first 3

The bottom line is that anybody can be cute in their frame.
I have seen sexy chubby women, and also sexy slim women.
One can be chubby and still not be sexy, just like one can be slim and still not be sexy.

Vast majority of the world population would always go for a slim girl.
But Africans, especially Nigerian men would go for the thick one, no fat anyway.

Okoroawusa:

Give me picture 4 anyday anytime. You see that picture 4 na ageless beauty. She no dey crack no matter her age.

Cuddling her won't be fun, doggy sef go boring.. the tatata sound won't be tataring enough.

Life na choice sha, but the bottom line is that Majority of African men, especially Nigerians would go for the first 3.. even the poll is suggesting so.

ReluctantAdult:


I clicked Like, abeg.

I mean I've boned all sizes and found the soft, curvy (not fat, not fat please! ) chicks super appealing and satisfying. Keyword, soft.

Firstly, feeling the soft butt cheeks engulf my thick hard c0ck stretching her wetness, and also just having all that flesh to grab and squeeze on, prolongs my lifespan by 2 years.
Secondly, the coochie is a pleasant warm and wet cushion, and the booty as well, if you're a doggy specialist. For someone with a thick c0ck, you need all that shock absorber trust me.

The slim chicks are great for the drunk sex and gymnastics. You can wrap her up, pick her up and pin her to a wall, a table or wherever. Asides that, there's not much to see there.

Generally, whether curvy or slim, she gotta be soft and fresh please. I can't stress that enough.

I understand your emphasis on fatness.

But i would rather go for a fat woman with gigantic ass, than that slim girl on pic 4.

Another factor is whether if its gonna be long term or short term.

9182736455O1999:

He said Chubby. Those girls are not chubby.

They are slim?

Show us a chubby girl

Op i disagree with you, me and other 90%of Africans like chubby ladies. Don't ask me why? It's an African tradition

DaTruths:


Well i would pick you over the first 3

The bottom line is that anybody can be cute in their frame.
I have seen sexy chubby women, and also sexy slim women.
One can be chubby and still not be sexy, just like one can be slim and still not be sexy.

Vast majority of the world population would always go for a slim girl.
But Africans, especially Nigerian men would go for the thick one, no fat anyway.

Lol how would you know. Most men are not expressive about their choice but their actions are enough for everyone.

But you thick women lovers won't let us drink water and drop cup. Where do you guys get this confidence to announce your preference everytime. 🤣

Gerrard59:


Show us a scientific paper to support the bold 'cos those are very audacious claims.

BTW, if black men don't like their women to be thick, what kind of women would Southern African and black Brazillian men date, marry and copulate with?

Someone will explain tire but it won't be me