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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by YourGFsnatcher: 7:57pm On Dec 30, 2023
ideamonster:
Good day everyone!!

Most people in relationships believe that a relationship ends the day one party call it quit. But that’s far from the truth. An average relationship that ended didn’t end that day, it probably ended few days, months or years before. So why didn’t the person just call it quit that same day?

It’s mainly because the party involved just wants time to enjoy the benefits they’ve been enjoying. It may be the gifts, money, sex, the trips etc.

So let me share the experience of a friend of mine. He was dating this girl sometime ago and it was going on very well. So I was with him in her house on this particular day and they were arguing about something that has to do with the male and female gender. He is an unapologetic alpha male and supports the male gender with all he has but this was a problem with her. She said something that annoyed him so he told her he was going home. The next thing madam said was “who the hell do you think you are? Every time you'd just be getting angry as if you’re God” As if that wasn’t enough she pushed us both out of her apartment and told him “get out of my house and go and die“.

As a gentleman he didn’t say anything to me, but knowing my friend, deep down I knew the relationship was over. But he didn’t end it that day or week or month. A few later, he just called her out of the blue and said it was over. Some days ago while going through my own dating issues, I messaged him asking why he broke off with her and he forwarded the video below and typed "that day" under it.

So guys, when did you know that your relationship was over?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqQqxrWfCnk
On the first date, when she told me about her past relationship
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by ukaface(f): 8:02pm On Dec 30, 2023
That day

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by LordIsaac(m): 8:05pm On Dec 30, 2023
When I was unknowingly escorting her to the motor park on her numerous trips to go and see her second boyfriend! She’s married to him now.😊

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Astrid4(m): 8:09pm On Dec 30, 2023
LordIsaac:
When I was unknowingly escorting her to the motor park on her numerous trips to go and see her second boyfriend! She’s married to him now.😊

Fvck omo shora fun obinrin ohhh
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by ukaface(f): 8:11pm On Dec 30, 2023
pappilo:
The day she opened up and complained that I didnt help pay for her and her 2 kids holiday to Spain. And that I also didnt help her pay the balance of her sofa.

Sofa for my own yard na £1200. The werey go buy sofa of £4000. And she wan make I help am balance £1000. Maka why? If you have such high tastes, you have to finance it your damn self

Oloriburuku omo ale. Thank God she opened up, man for still dey sink money ontop bad investment. The girl carry my £3000 go sha. I was saving £400 with her every month for us to build up a deposit to buy a flat in her city. The oloriburuku just wanted to get drunk and live high life on an under-nurse's salary.

Na that day wey she open up to me I know say na end of the road for her. And end of the road for me in relationships.
Na Nigerian woman?
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 8:15pm On Dec 30, 2023
lordnkem000:
When I realized she had nothing to offer outside her pvssy. And she kept expecting me to become her father at the same time

Wide pussy that different sizes of diccks has rammed through grin grin
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by LordIsaac(m): 8:22pm On Dec 30, 2023
Astrid4:


Fvck omo shora fun obinrin ohhh
Exactly!
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by chukkystar(m): 8:37pm On Dec 30, 2023
She went to Tinapa without informing me and told me no one can control Her movement. Me too I jejely controlled my own movement. She Beg tire but no way back

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by lordnkem000(m): 8:53pm On Dec 30, 2023
MyVILLAGEpeople:


Wide pussy that different sizes of diccks has rammed through grin grin
I swear bro you sound like you know
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Shakathezulu1: 9:06pm On Dec 30, 2023
Prettygirl200:
I didn't make my comment on your mother's head. Sorry!!
Your ex really dodged a bullet.
You nasty. Ayanmmmmmmma

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 9:09pm On Dec 30, 2023
lordnkem000:

I swear bro you sound like you know

Bro I have been there several times. Girls don show me shege.
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by lordnkem000(m): 9:18pm On Dec 30, 2023
MyVILLAGEpeople:


Bro I have been there several times. Girls don show me shege.
Same here bro, never again will I be that stupid to any girl. Only my wife will I be a simp to
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Dopenigga(m): 9:42pm On Dec 30, 2023
When I found out that she told her abroad ex that she didn't have boyfriend when he asked. "still searching for the right person" was what she said. We were already dating for a year+ and cohabiting at that time. Her excuse was that we had an issue and she told him that out of anger. Girls are really funny creatures. Fvcked her for a few more months, then dumped her in the trash, where she belongs. Funny enough, this was a girl I disvirgined

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Bigkenny: 9:43pm On Dec 30, 2023
ideamonster:
interesting submissions

Her mom invited me to her shop and asked me for a 2 million naira loan which she promised to pay back 3 months later. Later that night, I told my lady that her mom wanted me to loan her money, but she didn't see anything wrong with this. She insisted I should loan her the money because she doesn't have anywhere to get the money.

I ended the relationship because I saw nothing good would come up if we eventually married.

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by AkpaMgbor(m): 9:47pm On Dec 30, 2023
DND069:
Hints to ladies: any time your boyfriend tells you "whenever you see someone better than I, you can leave/get along with the person, that he doesnt mind" just know you are a fuckmate to him.

Secondly, if he doesn't set boundaries with you in a relationship, then you just dating yourself. You are a fuckmate to him.


Why you wan cast our code??
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by maasoap(m): 9:54pm On Dec 30, 2023
Joseph099:
When she put her pussy on my MOUTH
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by maasoap(m): 10:03pm On Dec 30, 2023
Onuh211:
The day she gave me 37 missed calls when I left my phone with my Bro, and went to work with my small phone, I knew I was dating an irrational lady, I called it a quit🙄 weird isn't??

A normal human being shouldn't buzz someone's damn phone more than twice! If to day we had an argument before I no pick call, e for dey understandable 🙄

Not really irrational, it could be mad love. My gf did that to me during MTN extra cool period. One night: like 58 missed calls. Another night: like 37 missed calls. I put my phone in silence on both occasions before going to bed. I knew it was weird, I still talk about it with her till now. Like I really want to understand what was going on in her head on those occasions

I knew the way I initiated the breakfast was stupid, I had to make her understand reasons we can't work weeks later, and we broke up proper. She loved me and want to get married ASAP but I don't love her that much, she can take a bullet for me and I can't do same for her 🥺 She's damn beautiful to the standard of Nigerian men, manchester and barca dey like nicki minaj own 😹😹 but damn it, I NO DEY FORNICATE!
That's it, you didn't love. You just needed small excuse to end the relationship.
I married that my girl, 12 years and counting

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 10:04pm On Dec 30, 2023
lordnkem000:

Same here bro, never again will I be that stupid to any girl. Only my wife will I be a simp to

Bro don't even simp to your wife. Don't use that word simp even if you are married. Ladies do take advantage of simps.

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Prettygirl200(f): 10:30pm On Dec 30, 2023
Shakathezulu1:

Your ex really dodged a bullet.
You nasty. Ayanmmmmmmma
Just like your wretched mother, ewu Gambia.
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Silentgroper(m): 10:57pm On Dec 30, 2023
Prettygirl200:
The day he started demanding I do more than my power, while he was boldly allowing a woman feed him all in the name of being supportive..not like he did anything in return while we were dating I was living on empty promises.
In other words, man couldnt deal with broke bitches...

Are my right??

cool cool

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Silentgroper(m): 10:59pm On Dec 30, 2023
Kukutenla:
When she told me she's a lesbian and she wants a party cool


Dang!!!!


My kind of girl ...


But I prefer them bi-sexual
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Silentgroper(m): 11:10pm On Dec 30, 2023
maasoap:

Not really irrational, it could be mad love. My gf did that to me during MTN extra cool period. One night: like 58 missed calls. Another night: like 37 missed calls. I put my phone in silence on both occasions before going to bed. I knew it was weird, I still talk about it with her till now. Like I really want to understand what was going on in her head on those occasions


That's it, you didn't love. You just needed small excuse to end the relationship.
I married that my girl, 12 years and counting
dang!!!



Highest I got was 17 missed calls ..

After I ghosted her .. I don't end things.. I just bounce without saying shiit...

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Chassy03: 11:37pm On Dec 30, 2023
Naija girl are mofos I prefer olosho...
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by pappilo(m): 4:20am On Dec 31, 2023
ukaface:

Na Nigerian woman?

Nah... East African.

Baby mama of 2 but I didnt mind. In fact thats one of the things that attracted me to her because I have kids too and didnt want to have anymore.

She sold me a dream and I waste money ontop that relationship. I was flying to her city every month.

I thought I found the 'one'. She was kind of an alcoholic and I knew this but I thought she would easily leave alcohol behind for our relationship. Alcohol addiction is real and is just as bad as any other substance abuse. After several disagreements brought about by said alcohol consumption, she straight up told me she couldnt leave alcohol. This was someone whose BP sometimes read 210/140 at the ripe old age of 32.

I really liked her but I wasnt ready to continue with someone who didnt take her health serious and her expectation (which she didnt show initially) that it was my duty to finance her lifestyle that sealed my decision to cut my losses.

I will now remain single till I exit this world.

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by pappilo(m): 4:30am On Dec 31, 2023
PopQueenAgency:


Why you no collect your bar before you japa?

I tried. I even use style threaten am but na omo aiye. The girl say she nor go gimme shishi.

And my causing wahala days are now over otherwise she for hear am. Me wey before before I dey craze ontop to prove point. I fit spend £6000 to recover that £3000.

I make myself feel better by telling myself the amount equates to me paying her approximately £140 per night for the nights I stayed at her house.

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by DanielsParker(m): 4:40am On Dec 31, 2023
We’re in a sort of LDR ( just an hour apart) . On one of her visits, I Saw her chats with multiple sneaky links where she goes to satisfy herself whenever she feels like but she still claims not to be cheating. I didn’t confront or tell her I went to her phone but deep down I was done with her . I’ll leave when I’m ready but I have evidences just incase she comes up with the usual “you used and dumped me”.

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Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by GVTAsiwaju(m): 5:58am On Dec 31, 2023
Prettygirl200:
The day he started demanding I do more than my power, while he was boldly allowing a woman feed him all in the name of being supportive..not like he did anything in return while we were dating I was living on empty promises.

Are you sure your pretty is pretty
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Hardunmhi: 6:44am On Dec 31, 2023
Why can’t you just mind your business
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by Trustmea: 7:28am On Dec 31, 2023
mekus15:
Mine ended when she started showing lack of commitment in the relationship. I call, she doesn't pick and wouldn't call back. I sent messages via whatsapp, she wouldn't reply.
This sign is obvious to even the deaf and dumb that the relationship ain't going no where, if u push it u might get hurt. she is not into you that's why. I was with a lady the other day a call came into her phone she hissed after seeing the caller and didn't pick, the guy called for about 10 times before resting lol but immediately another call came into her phone come and see joy in her face as she picked the call without hesitation. Some guys need hot slaps u call a girl three good times no response and she didn't call u back yet u are still calling her like you are obsessed with her wtf man
Re: When Did You Decide Your Relationship Was Over? by 1b8m: 8:02am On Dec 31, 2023
When She said in quote:

"I can never walk on eggshells for you"

I just knew we weren't going to work. I believe in loving your partner with fear and trepidation. The fear of losing them. I never would marry a lady I was dispensable to.

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