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Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by achimendy(m): 12:26pm On Jan 02 |
Fahvvy: Hahahahahahahaha |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by achimendy(m): 12:28pm On Jan 02 |
Lifeinlight: Very correct |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by EconFinance: 12:29pm On Jan 02 |
Building with a man is a risk So I don't blame women who don't But I'll say it's a risk worth taking especially when it pays off down the line 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Lifeinlight: 12:31pm On Jan 02 |
Iamzik:You claimed only foolish men get thrown out by their wives right? Then i said even in Nigeria, only foolish and daft wonen get thrown out by their husband Outside that, if you no misbehave your wife no go throw you out abroad 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Iamzik: 12:33pm On Jan 02 |
Lifeinlight: You still didn't read. I said couples who have issues in Nigeria should not be surprised when one of them gets thrown out abroad. The problem you cannot resolve in Nigeria will worsen when you get abroad. I don't have time to argue biko 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by loswhite(m): 12:36pm On Jan 02 |
Wisegeek01:Write up without direction making front page...smh |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Iamzik: 12:37pm On Jan 02 |
santaclaws: This is the trend. Men are no longer under pressure to marry again. A man can get married at anytime really why tie yourself down with someone who doesn't believe in you? You can use that time to pursue your career or business and get well established. Younger women will always be available. Women who are your age will also pursue older rich men. That's how the story goes... 4 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Lifeinlight: 12:38pm On Jan 02 |
Iamzik:Yes, you're right. But we all know how some men throw out their wives in Nigeria after building with him for many years. If same scenario happened to Men abroad, some men will be crying on behalf of the man that got thrown out, and i begin to wonder if it's not same thing some of these men practice in Nigeria to women 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by flexyrule(m): 12:40pm On Jan 02 |
Another relationship topic created by a 20 year old. Walks out of thread... |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by ogaontop(m): 12:41pm On Jan 02 |
Lifeinlight:Eye for an eye, except for infidelity and physical beating, no man or woman should throw each other out of the house in Nigeria, let alone abroad! Nigerian men can send you packing for any slightest provocation, and when I read some of the reasons why some Nigerian women sack their husbands abroad, I discovered it's either selfishness or wickedness! It's rare to see white women sacking their Nigerian husbands, so what's the problem with our Naija women Men of my "good-mannered" uncles that have stayed so long in the states are avoiding Nigerian women like plague! 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Lovelife433(m): 12:41pm On Jan 02 |
Trash as usual. No substance, no concrete point to uphold. Just trash and trash. |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Lifeinlight: 12:47pm On Jan 02 |
ogaontop:The truth is that there are hundred of thousands of successful marriages in Nigeria and diaspora, vice versa. Some Nigerian men throw out their wives in Nigeria for whatever reasons that suits them. Some do that because they want to get another woman, some because they are tired of her, some could be childlessness, infidelity or what have you. They throw them out after being with them for several years. Nobody will question them, unless the woman is wise enough to get justice through human rights concerning marital affairs 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Iamzik: 12:48pm On Jan 02 |
Lifeinlight: Bro the thing is that most Nigerian men do not realize that the law in western countries sees the women as the head of the home sort of. They realise when it's too late. I know someone who had serious issues with his wife here but foolishly sold properties and resigned his job, sponsored the woman for masters only for the woman to show him pepper abroad. Even people who have settled homes are not guaranteed how much more a man that is not at peace with his wife back home. Marriage/relationship is a risk. One need to be wise before taking some decisions 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by MrPresident1: 12:48pm On Jan 02 |
Ladies are not supposed to build anything with anybody. The are supposed to be married, brought into the house and pampered forever. The man is the provider and pamperer. The woman is the nurturer and keeper of the home This notion of building together is a western idea, it has no place in African culture or in the Bible. But since we are living in western times, we have to conform until their time is over. Husbands must seek to provide fully for their homes, this must be your overall goal, stop looking at your wife's money, she can lend some to you and you have to return it, this is how a man can be in charge of his home. When a man starts to see splitting of bills with his wife as obligatory then he will lose the right to her submission to him. |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:48pm On Jan 02 |
Lifeinlight:Men should do better,women should do better.there should be genuine love.if as a man you jam better woman.you no need treat am like thrash, same with women. Infact na fake people full everywhere now.you meet a woman and she keeps asking what you do for a living,she no even wan know anything else about you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by santaclaws: 12:49pm On Jan 02 |
Iamzik: Leave them, let them keep playing. Which serious-minded guy even wants to marry while he's broke? Everyone wants to make his money and achieve his dreams before adding others into their life's equation... I just laugh at threads like this one. πππ 4 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by jaxxy(m): 12:58pm On Jan 02 |
Define build with a guy? is she sponsoring him to school or paying his bills like men do for these girls? what exactly is she doing when u say build with a guy? Every relationship isn't about marriage but u both must either like urselves or add value to urselves as u grow each other. Value is not money for sex. That is prostitution. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by reddingtonblack: 1:04pm On Jan 02 |
Wisegeek01: The house you built from scratch, buy land and all compared to a housed you bought nd move in which will you be more adhere to A puppy dog you raised and an adult you rescued which do you think you will be more adhere to are the feelings the same |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Aaaaarghmed(m): 1:06pm On Jan 02 |
Emeka Ike dey cry because woman wey he brush up,kasala burst.marriage scatter.because he invested too much.At least as a guy if you dey with woman wey get money,both of una go dey build the relationship.if anything happen,you no go cry like Emeka ike. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Dinieoj(f): 1:08pm On Jan 02 |
Let everyone use the waiting time to build each other, Men are easily carried away by what they see, they might want another, while woman are easily lured by material things, so everyone build themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by 1Alex: 1:08pm On Jan 02 |
The first few paragraphs of this post made me jump out of thread. |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Quebec91(m): 1:10pm On Jan 02 |
Said it all GreatAchiever1: 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by advanceDNA: 1:11pm On Jan 02 |
Lifeinlight: Weda u misbehave or not...a woman can throw u out... .take it or leave it ....there are evil and greedy women that take advantage of men and its not because he did any thing deserving such... .ask ur self...how come reporting any argument to the police and throwing a man out of his home become the only way of retaliation once they reach abroad....?? It's because there are loopholes in the system these women are looking to take advantage of weda, the man has finished paying for home mortgage or not.. ..in case u ddnt know .....it is possible for women that have children... that were truthfully or falsely abused by their husband with documented pattern of the abuse by the police... to file for some benefit from the government.......depending on the condition.. they even get free housing....corect standard 3 bedroom duplex... It's common practice for women to create false pattern of abuse just by calling the cops.. u know u don't have to touch a woman to abuse her.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Quebec91(m): 1:11pm On Jan 02 |
Very right Jeon: |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Quebec91(m): 1:13pm On Jan 02 |
Factorial ππ I feel you man, you must be a fan of DAX--- to be a man track says it all Marvyx: |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by CorrectionFLuid: 1:19pm On Jan 02 |
Lifeinlight: I understand that your sex organ is your most valuable asset. But I'm curious, what do you mean when you say... A potential man? LMAO 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Lifeinlight: 1:27pm On Jan 02 |
CorrectionFLuid:Not all men obviously will make it, women are best to go after those with good head on their shoulder. Not necessarily rich but know their onions and are vigorously working towards it Btw, I'm a man not a woman 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by pacespot(m): 1:45pm On Jan 02 |
Most of the so called ladies building with guys are even hindering to the guys' potentials. Except you can fund his business project or sponsor him abroad, don't claim that you are building with him just because you are dating him when he is broke. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by Aaaaarghmed(m): 1:51pm On Jan 02 |
pacespot:π.this guy ehn.Na wa for you o. |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by ChiefOkporghe: 1:53pm On Jan 02 |
Wisegeek01: |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by aremubabs: 1:55pm On Jan 02 |
I believe that if a girl truly stays with a guy when he is broke, he would appreciate her except he is a bad person. Because some girls don't usually truly stay with a guy when he is broke. You can't be verbally abusive and broke shaming the guy at every opportunity, and then he makes it, and kicks you off, and you start shouting, "after all I did for you!" You are fond of comparing him to other guys, you speak down on him, you keep male friends but frown at him even mistakenly touching a girl, all because he is broke. You make it seem like he should be grateful that you are with him. You expect him to worship you, to not exchange words with you because he is broke and should be lucky to have you. Then, he makes it, and kicks your abusive ass out cold, and then you start lamenting that you were there for him. I have seen the types of ladies outside today shouting they they want ready-made men. I laugh when I listen to some of them. They are just so empty, that I wonder if even a broke guy would look in their way for a serious relationship. What a broke guy and a rich guy would want from these girls is the same --- SEX. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Refuse To Build With Guys !! by SweetDipBenny(m): 1:56pm On Jan 02 |
"Woman of my dreams, i don't sleep so i can't find her"π |
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