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The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by GBPUSD: 3:20pm On Jan 02
I masturbated for good 17 years. It crashed my life. I struggled with it for years but it conquered me. Never a day went without me masturbating. The urge was mad. I battled with muscle pains, blurred vision, fatigue, loss of memory, weakened immune system, lack of motivation, lack of direction, nervous system disorder, low self esteem, to name a few.

If I begin to tell you I did one or two to stop it, I'd be telling lies. I did nothing. I only met with an older woman, about 12 years older. From the day we made out, the urge to masturbate ended. Ordinarily, when I make out with a lady, I masturbate excessively afterwards as I fantasize about the act. It's a different story here. From the moment we made out, I went on YouTube, searched for videos on how to stop masturbation, watched and watched, and that's it. But I kid you not, it is not the videos. It's like a veil was removed from my eyes; it's supernatural.

It's over a month, my sexual urge is still there, but believe me, I now find the act so disgusting. I can't picture myself ever engaging in the act again. In fact, I regret every of my actions. I've decided that it's either I'm doing it with someone or nothing; no fap.

I'm somewhat scared of this lady as I believe she's God sent. Why didn't I stop until I met her? Is she aware I have this problem? How should I relate with her? I feel God used her for me. The whole thing still remains a mistery.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by SHIVA001: 3:23pm On Jan 02
Oga Rest, Wey my Vaseline. Make I do data self, I'm Coming Back, xvideos over to you. grin grin.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by GBPUSD: 3:28pm On Jan 02
SHIVA001:
Oga Rest, Wey my Vaseline. Make I do data self, I'm Coming Back, xvideos over to you. grin grin.

I thank God I'm free. Which video have I not watched on that site? They disgust me as hell now.

Bro, I kid you not, I'm regaining my strength. I can now think straight and focus on my life.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Ibrahimlagosian(m): 5:41pm On Jan 02
Our trader,is that you?
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by EbenezerTriumph: 6:45pm On Jan 02
GBPUSD:


I thank God I'm free. Which video have I not watched on that site? They disgust me as hell now.

Bro, I kid you not, I'm regaining my strength. I can now think straight and focus on my life.
masturbation makes you useless to yourself and your career.
You lose energy, zeal and motivation.
And yeah you're right it leads to weak immune system cos those white blood cells in your semens helps in protecting the body.
And also you lose memory and you become lean with a disfigured face

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Uyi168: 7:23pm On Jan 02
EbenezerTriumph:
masturbation makes you useless to yourself and your career.
You lose energy, zeal and motivation.
And yeah you're right it leads to weak immune system cos those white blood cells in your semens helps in protecting the body.
And also you lose memory and you become lean with a disfigured face
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if mastubation does all of these things I wonder what the real sex will do..

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by EbenezerTriumph: 8:15pm On Jan 02
Uyi168:
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if mastubation does all of these things I wonder what the real sex will do..
you're a pharmacist you should know better
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Uchenna10(m): 9:23pm On Jan 02
Where did u meet her,I need older ladies
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by GBPUSD: 9:28pm On Jan 02
Uyi168:
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if mastubation does all of these things I wonder what the real sex will do..

Masturbation and sexual intercourse are not the same. Masturbation engages the brain more as you have to think of a sexual experience in the course of the act.

Masturbation is addictive unlike normal sex. You can easily masturbate as it involves you alone. With the help of porn, people engage in the act multiple times daily. Imagine the health risk. When you release sperm everyday you know what happens to your entire body system.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by GBPUSD: 9:30pm On Jan 02
Uchenna10:
Where did u meet her,I need older ladies

They're the best. I can't stand the drama of these young girls.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Uchenna10(m): 9:31pm On Jan 02
GBPUSD:


They're the best. I can't stand the drama of these young girls.

You're right
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Uyi168: 9:34pm On Jan 02
GBPUSD:


Masturbation and sexual intercourse are not the same. Masturbation engages the brain more as you have to think of a sexual experience in the course of the act.

Masturbation is addictive unlike normal sex. You can easily masturbate as it involves you alone. With the help of porn, people engage in the act multiple times daily. Imagine the health risk. When you release sperm everyday you know what happens to your entire body system.
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what about married men that have sex. almost everyday?

normal sex can be super addictive.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by CheedyJ(m): 10:43am On Jan 03
And if the lady in question decides to break up nko? Masturbation pro max abi.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Jazzman01: 11:06am On Jan 03
GBPUSD:


Masturbation and sexual intercourse are not the same. Masturbation engages the brain more as you have to think of a sexual experience in the course of the act.

Masturbation is addictive unlike normal sex. You can easily masturbate as it involves you alone. With the help of porn, people engage in the act multiple times daily. Imagine the health risk. When you release sperm everyday you know what happens to your entire body system.

Sex is both mental and physical. As a man, there is no way you can cum if you are not using your brain and mind to analyze your partner's body signs and sounds. Do you know that some men imagine the body of another woman or some porn scenes when having sex with their wife or a lady they are tired of.? So how is that different from masturbation?...

Talking about health risks, sex carries more health risks than masturbation. HIV/AIDS and a host of other STIs are there, the chances of suffering from cardiac arrest is also there. Masturbation is much safer but just like every other thing, you just don't have to over do it.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Hungrychicken(m): 11:13am On Jan 03
People who haven't been in this situation will say it's all lies… I masturbated for 5yrs.
I can tell you it's very dangerous... Losing sperm everyday of your life💔 without good diet to replace it!

I've had to endure low self esteem, hair loss, fatigue, loss of body weight, weak muscle, and lean cheek fat, I mean my face has been disfigured.
One part of my cheek is sunken.

So, I understand truly what you went through!💯

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Hungrychicken(m): 11:16am On Jan 03
EbenezerTriumph:
masturbation makes you useless to yourself and your career.
You lose energy, zeal and motivation.
And yeah you're right it leads to weak immune system cos those white blood cells in your semens helps in protecting the body.
And also you lose memory and you become lean with a disfigured face

I'm trying to recover badly, I look so ugly after so many years of masturbating. My face is disfigured, I lost so much cheek fat
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by sulakishop(m): 12:34pm On Jan 03
Delivered from ogbanje spirit
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by GBPUSD: 1:07pm On Jan 03
CheedyJ:
And if the lady in question decides to break up nko? Masturbation pro max abi.

We're not dating. Just FWB.

I can't masturbate again. I have a strong conviction I can't go back to it. It's a very strong will.
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by GBPUSD: 1:10pm On Jan 03
Jazzman01:


Sex is both mental and physical. As a man, there is no way you can cum if you are not using your brain and mind to analyze your partner's body signs and sounds. Do you know that some men imagine the body of another woman or some porn scenes when having sex with their wife or a lady they are tired of.? So how is that different from masturbation?...

Talking about health risks, sex carries more health risks than masturbation. HIV/AIDS and a host of other STIs are there, the chances of suffering from cardiac arrest is also there. Masturbation is much safer but just like every other thing, you just don't have to over do it.

There is nothing you can say to convince me. If you've not been there, you'll never ever understand.
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by PawsitiveBro(m): 1:18pm On Jan 03
Only a month, give it two months, and see yourself back in the act

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Tombrown3(m): 2:26pm On Jan 03
GBPUSD:


Masturbation and sexual intercourse are not the same. Masturbation engages the brain more as you have to think of a sexual experience in the course of the act.

Masturbation is addictive unlike normal sex. You can easily masturbate as it involves you alone. With the help of porn, people engage in the act multiple times daily. Imagine the health risk. When you release sperm everyday you know what happens to your entire body system.

Dey play 😂
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Mcslize: 2:31pm On Jan 03
SHIVA001:
Oga Rest, Wey my Vaseline. Make I do data self, I'm Coming Back, xvideos over to you. grin grin.

Go to Verydarkblackman page on Facebook. He just dropped a video about masturbation. Look for the video and watch what he said about masturbation. Once you are done, alert me here that you've watched it so I can share you one story.
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Mcslize: 2:41pm On Jan 03
Uyi168:
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if mastubation does all of these things I wonder what the real sex will do..

Better stop now that you still have the chance. Those that don't want to stop will always find ways to claim masturbation has no side effect. I stopped that stupid thing since 2021. Since then, I have never looked back.

I am still looking for the day I will share my testimony. Cuz I battled with that for 16 good years. It was one guy that lured me into it when I was 17 years. That was in 2005 and I was able to stop it in September 2021. How I stopped it still baffles me till today. I thank God for liberating me from that demonic addiction.

Well, go to Verydarkblackman Facebook page and watch what he just posted about masturbation. Search for the video on his page and then, come back and quote me once you're done watching what he said in the video. I have something important to tell you.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Nicepoker(m): 2:52pm On Jan 03
God sent someone to sleep with you (another sin) so you can stop self servicing grin.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by EbenezerTriumph: 2:53pm On Jan 03
Hungrychicken:


I'm trying to recover badly, I look so ugly after so many years of masturbating. My face is disfigured, I lost so much cheek fat
my brother i am exceedingly sorrowful as I type this. Two years ago almost all the girls in my class used to draw my cheeks cos it was I had fat cheeks which made my face round and attractive. Masturbation resurfaced and I masturbated excessively. If you see me now bro you go cry for me.
Few days ago I stumbled across my coursemate and being so long we last met after graduation she asked if I was sick cos I look lean, lost my muscles and my face looks disfigured cos all the fats have sunk inside.
I don't look chubby again, and I started looking older than my age. No be say I even dey chop better food oo
Bro despite all these dangers that it has wrecked on my body system I'm still struggling with it.
Worst of it all i have erectile dysfunction as I can't sustain an erection when with a lady (effects of porn) and when I manage to sustain erection the pussy walls of the lady are so soft unlike my palm and hands that my dick is used to, I don't enjoy sex.
Now I'm being forced to use pepsi and some fattening drugs to gain back my health which is another problem.
God punish those my friends that introduced me to this addictive habit
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by EbenezerTriumph: 2:55pm On Jan 03
Nicepoker:
God sent someone to sleep with you (another sin) so you can stop self servicing grin.
I weakgrin
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by EbenezerTriumph: 3:03pm On Jan 03
GBPUSD:


Masturbation and sexual intercourse are not the same. Masturbation engages the brain more as you have to think of a sexual experience in the course of the act.

Masturbation is addictive unlike normal sex. You can easily masturbate as it involves you alone. With the help of porn, people engage in the act multiple times daily. Imagine the health risk. When you release sperm everyday you know what happens to your entire body system.
spot on bro
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Uyi168: 3:03pm On Jan 03
Mcslize:


Better stop now that you still have the chance. Those that don't want to stop will always find ways to claim masturbation has no side effect. I stopped that stupid thing since 2021. Since then, I have never looked back.

I am still looking for the day I will share my testimony. Cuz I battled with that for 16 good years. It was one guy that lured me into it when I was 17 years. That was in 2005 and I was able to stop it in September 2021. How I stopped it still baffles me till today. I thank God for liberating me from that demonic addiction.

Well, go to Verydarkblackman Facebook page and watch what he just posted about masturbation. Search for the video on his page and then, come back and quote me once you're done watching what he said in the video. I have something important to tell you.
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who is verydarkman
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Mcslize: 3:06pm On Jan 03
A lot of men masturbate in today's world. About 70% of men masturbate. Very many of them have become so addicted to it that they find it so hard to stop.

Now, before you can stop masturbation, you must first of all admit that it is a bad addiction. If you don't come to term with the fact that it is bad, you will forever be a slave to it and won't be able to cut it off your life. You will just be deceiving yourself by consoling yourself that it is not a bad addiction.

If you are still claiming that nothing is wrong with masturbation, just know that you are not yet ready to stop it.

You must come to term with yourself that masturbation has terrible side effects and then and only then you will be able to brace yourself up to put a complete end to it.

The moment you make up your mind to stop it and put in much efforts to eradicate it , it will leave you for good. It's a very chronic addiction that can drain you and make you look quite older than your actual age. Masturbation will turn you to grandpa with dry, wrinkled face, peeled manhood, vulnerable immune system, watery sperm due to excessive ejaculation and extreme muscle fatigue

Do everything to stop masturbation if you are still into it. If Verydarkblackman can advise men to stop masturbation as one of his new year resolution, then I don't know what you are still waiting for.

Stop speaking in favour of masturbation for your own selfish interest because you don't want to stop it. Try as much as possible to stop it and you will see your life improved massively than before.

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Mcslize: 3:15pm On Jan 03
Uyi168:
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who is verydarkman

I just gave you his handle. Go and search for him on Facebook. Watch what he said about masturbation. The guy is always spot on with his advice.

He is also suffering from masturbation. He was bold enough to advise all guys that are still battling with the spirit of masturbation to put in efforts to stop it this new year.
Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Mykillo74(m): 4:22pm On Jan 03
I too suffered masturbation, but I thank God all of a sudden after procrastinating and trying not to see anything bad in the act at a time I noticed I am a month gone without fapping, but truth be told you will always Bleep up with a real woman, interestingly this days I can watch porn without the orge to touch my self. I am saved never to go back grin

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Re: The Miraculous Way I Stopped Masturbation by Hungrychicken(m): 4:30pm On Jan 03
EbenezerTriumph:
my brother i am exceedingly sorrowful as I type this. Two years ago almost all the girls in my class used to draw my cheeks cos it was I had fat cheeks which made my face round and attractive. Masturbation resurfaced and I masturbated excessively. If you see me now bro you go cry for me.
Few days ago I stumbled across my coursemate and being so long we last met after graduation she asked if I was sick cos I look lean, lost my muscles and my face looks disfigured cos all the fats have sunk inside.
I don't look chubby again, and I started looking older than my age. No be say I even dey chop better food oo
Bro despite all these dangers that it has wrecked on my body system I'm still struggling with it.
Worst of it all i have erectile dysfunction as I can't sustain an erection when with a lady (effects of porn) and when I manage to sustain erection the pussy walls of the lady are so soft unlike my palm and hands that my dick is used to, I don't enjoy sex.
Now I'm being forced to use pepsi and some fattening drugs to gain back my health which is another problem.
God punish those my friends that introduced me to this addictive habit
I’m really sorry my bro… it really dealt with me same way💔
Now… I’m trying to get my life back, and hit the gym. I don’t have my morning wood again, been freaking long since I had one. I just wake up everyday without purpose and sad for no reason… I’ve lost so much that’s why I guess.

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