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Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by NwokoloOwa: 10:22am On Jan 04 |
The Ochi Idoma didn't say anything about "Aleku" the spirit of the ancestors of the Idoma people invoked to bind a woman automatically to her husband through rituals usually performed as part of traditional marriage rites. All these are always on the women, leaving out men. Sir, is it just?? |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by 4tomandchi: 10:22am On Jan 04 |
I hope Cross River traditional rulers will learn from their Idoma colleagues!!! Burial has become something else in Cross River |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Shantyken(m): 10:22am On Jan 04 |
Mayeldah: Not all part of Imo bro. 1 Like |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Bizibi(m): 10:24am On Jan 04 |
UnemployedGradu:they are always wretched, stupid family members. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Almunjid(m): 10:27am On Jan 04 |
wonder233:Nonsense! Just because u did a four year degree course at the university to memorize useless stuff in English language doesn't mean that ur culture is useless. U use Education to modify and adjust ur cultural practices (just like Och’Idoma has done), u don't use Education to condemn ur culture totally. You're not making any sense. You're willing to pay an olosho or hookup girls (who have nothing to offer u) N50,000 for one-night-stand, but u can't pay N50,000 to marry a decent lady who will be more useful to u beyond sex. The former will spend a night with u and the later will spend the rest of her life with u. Now u can see that no amount of money (bride price) can pay her for the number of days she will be spending with u for the rest of her life. U still think you're "Educated" with this stupid mentality of urs? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Objectivist04: 10:27am On Jan 04 |
AderonkeOlaniyi:The only thing is that the cheap lady is likely to give you children fathered by other men. Cheap things are really costly. |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by dbestcno(m): 10:30am On Jan 04 |
Idoma girls wey no dey stay one place |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Pat081: 10:30am On Jan 04 |
There woman is overstaying at home age is not on their side again any way good news 1 Like |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Trophy12: 10:30am On Jan 04 |
Na who get money to waste they pay 50k bride price. 1 Like |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by SuccessfulRichi: 10:30am On Jan 04 |
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Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by newnig: 10:31am On Jan 04 |
Johnycastro18: 1 Like |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Lance008(m): 10:35am On Jan 04 |
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Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by begge: 10:39am On Jan 04 |
See me for benue next week |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Nahunger(m): 10:39am On Jan 04 |
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Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Calitoscassius(m): 10:40am On Jan 04 |
Who da hell still gets married thesedays? Anyway, can i buy now and pay 50k later? Maybe in instalment? 1 Like |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by wonder233: 10:40am On Jan 04 |
A subhuman just responded as expected. And as predicted, he (abi it) has no cogent justification for the practise, other than insults and "culture". Almunjid: |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by mastermaestro(m): 10:43am On Jan 04 |
wonder233: Bride price is a token (which could be monetary or any other item) to seal a covenant between two families coming together through the union of their loved ones. It is symbolic. The amount is a totally different matter all together. But condemning bride price in its entirety depicts a lack of understanding of how vital contracts are struck. Bride price is not an African thing. You may need to study other cultures around the world. Money greed is what is driving many Nigerian families to charge exorbitantly. Bride price generally used to be items, not money. And the value depended on the family reputation of the bride. If you were marrying a princess, you would do more than the man marrying a commoner. Lastly let me add this. Bride price is the first test of a man's capacity to take up familial responsibilities. It was devised as a means to impress in men that starting a new family was serious business. So you suggesting that two adults should just consent to each other and that is marriage is a very ridiculous idea. I hope you celebrate each time Northern governments pair up men with brides and pay up their wedding bills. What does it result in? Children littered all the over the country begging to survive because some people who had no economic and mental capacity to fulfill familial duties were gummed together by a thoughtless government. 2 Likes |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by MephisF(m): 10:43am On Jan 04 |
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Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by dododawa1: 10:46am On Jan 04 |
Why not Instalmently ? |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by kunle75(m): 10:50am On Jan 04 |
pheelbert: My girlfriend wey still dey do me yanga say wetin wetin ,ok make she dey play ooo,I don get plenty options be that |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by MightySparrow: 10:53am On Jan 04 |
Idoma girls no dey get husbands again ni? |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Almunjid(m): 10:54am On Jan 04 |
wonder233:Now I understand! Ur father didn't pay bride price on ur mother that's why paying bride price doesn't make any sense to u. But ur father paid ur mother N50,000 for one-night-stand na, is that a good culture to u? Why is bride price ur problem? Why are u not criticizing the amount ur father paid for one-night-stand with ur mother? Since u believe sex and cohabitation should be free. But honestly, ur father was duped for paying N50,000 for one-night-stand with ur mother and still end up with a Dumbo like u as a son. Don't let me give u high blood pressure Ooo. Continue to mention me if u need full history about ur useless self. But hope u won't collapse before I finish telling the history? |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Lovelyn451(f): 10:58am On Jan 04 |
lawalosky:no we wont |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by sylve11: 10:59am On Jan 04 |
matify83: Please, give link to this gist. |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by matify83: 11:01am On Jan 04 |
sylve11: https://www.nairaland.com/7954879/bridegroom-escapes-through-bush-during/4#127735546 |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Sonofgod1990(m): 11:08am On Jan 04 |
dis one dont knw dat all idoma girls na holosho, na now day brake 4 una side? Even if na 2k i no go marry from dere..spits |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by jmoore(m): 11:11am On Jan 04 |
wonder233: Your white masters spend thousands of dollars just to buy engagement ring. Brideprice doesn't mean they are selling their daughters. 2 Likes |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by kiltoko1(m): 11:13am On Jan 04 |
Any idoma lady available, am interested |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by JONSYN7154: 11:18am On Jan 04 |
AderonkeOlaniyi:I fit come marry 1 dozen wives be dat from una side 😉 |
Re: Idoma Traditional Bride Price Is ₦50,000, Costly Burial Rites Abolished by Irupetepete: 11:19am On Jan 04 |
matify83:the escape through the bush caught me |
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