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Hmmmm

Inform ur dad when he returns tho...

Don't keep him out of it

Interesting how you took pride in beating her and even abusing her to the point her body is swollen. She's shown you she's more matured than you are with the level of knowledge she's displayed in your old post.

What she needs now is more counselling and guidance than unnecessary beating. In it all, I wish you guys the best.

Zzz.

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GboyegaD:
Interesting how you took pride in beating her and even abusing her to the point her body is swollen. She's shown you she's more matured than you are with the level of knowledge she's displayed in your old post.

What she needs now is more counselling and guidance than unnecessary beating. In it all, I wish you guys the best.

Dem suppose knack you 2x2 plank for your head.

Thank goodness all ended well even though your tactics leaves much to be desired .

At least you now have your peace back.

Kudos

GboyegaD:
Interesting how you took pride in beating her and even abusing her to the point her body is swollen. She's shown you she's more matured than you are with the level of knowledge she's displayed in your old post.

What she needs now is more counselling and guidance than unnecessary beating. In it all, I wish you guys the best.

Just STFU

matify83:
Thank goodness all ended well even though your tactics leaves much to be desired .

At least you now have your peace back.

Kudos

Thanks.I just hope you learn from all I told her

Your sister has a soft heart, I guess. She's just an exposed teenager. She has probably heard about sex and porn from external people.

Pray for her and continually be her friend. Also make sure your parents establish boundaries for her - controlled phone usage and controlled visiting times.

Also, be close with her. Educate her about sex because obviously, she knows one or two things. Tell her that sex isn't the flex she thinks it is.

She's just being curious.

I love her already and wish I could give her a brotherly hug. I pray that God will touch her heart and bring her along the right path.

Op, bro, kudos on caring for your younger sis. Don't be discouraged... It's the generation we are in, where sex is glorified. Don't give up on her. LOVE HER irrespective of what happens. Always make sure to love her. Love is stronger than death.

I'm rooting for you guys.

I hope to come back to this comment in 20 years, if Christ tarries, and hear great news about how she's a goldy woman doing great stuff for the world.

Cheers mate.

didi100:
I told my mum and my aunty that was present about everything.My mum and aunty were very shocked and wanted to drop all the anger in them on my sister.I told them to let me do the flogging. We called my sister and started questioning her. My sister is very close to me among my siblings and I hardly flog her that is why I decided to do the flogging.
I flogged her mercilessly. I was asking her questions and showing her what I saw.From the questions I ask her I found out that she has not suck any dick as she said in the chat.She said she just felt like saying that maybe she want them to feel she is a big girl. She is still a virgin(the boy that she said she did something what is very small. She said her ex sch and that time that boy was 9 so I believe her hymen is not broken)

Hopefully, she will truly change her circle of friends, because it is saddening that a girl of 12yrs had to talk dirty and look up sexual related words in dictionary, so as to please her friends (bad friends).

you did well, Godspeed to your family and may the creator help her heal fast from these evils, she's your kid sister,its a difficult thing you did but too much emotions is what is rotting the western countries, may the creator help your family and this little girl to attain chastity.i know what raising kids mean its not easy.

Kudos, OP. You handled it very well.

All this one is suppression, this girl would grown up to become worse (or better, depending on how you see it). The streets has gained one more, where is this girls father in her life?

didi100:

It seems like you did not read to the end.I know the kind of relationship I have with my sister that is why I told my mum let me do the flogging.I flogged her with my hand and use that same hand to hug her.She knows what she did was wrong and she deserve the flogging.This my sister was gisting with me not long ago.She knows I will never flog her over a slight issue.The swollen part was not necessary though but I got really angry.You can't blame me

You've played your part and played it alright!
The most fortunate part for you and the Famz is - She's still young and she gladly took the correction with love.
Had it been she's started doing hucup and monetizing her body, your correction would have worsen things!
Even as you are her best friend, you're still not a female and this is where your Mum should play her part.
Like I said on the other thread, it's never easy for a lone girl to behave herself when all that are around to emulate are boys!

No girl, I repeat no girl should use a smart phone before university

Praise God hymen is intact according to op. . If you know your dad might kill her. Pls don't tell him immediately he is home. Wait for sometime.

A whure is a whure, once the forbidden fruit has been tasted, there is no going back, just a few crocodile tears, fake promises and change tactics

Very good that you flogged her..you for call me mk I help you too.i hate nonsense.next time she go comport

Good one. Now you need to make sure she is always watched and restricted as much as possible from going out too much. She is quite exposed already but all u have to do is to make sure she doesn't practice what she already knows

jamesversion:


Dem suppose knack you 2x2 plank for your head.

Anyway, good job op but always keep your eyes on her.

GboyegaD:
Interesting how you took pride in beating her and even abusing her to the point her body is swollen. She's shown you she's more matured than you are with the level of knowledge she's displayed in your old post.

What she needs now is more counselling and guidance than unnecessary beating. In it all, I wish you guys the best.

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Guy forget that thing o.

Many of us would have been wayward today if not for the correctional beatings we received back then..

Special slaps wey dey reset brain..

Hoping for the best, expecting the worse

EBUBS:
No girl, I repeat no girl should use a smart phone before university

You know the kind pimping wey dey sub for University, you know as e dey go.

Flog am well
She for grow become olosho
Naso e start

didi100:
I told my mum and my aunty that was present about everything.My mum and aunty were very shocked and wanted to drop all the anger in them on my sister.I told them to let me do the flogging.We called my sister and started questioning her.My sister is very close to me among my siblings and I hardly flog her that is why I decided to do the flogging.
I flogged her mercilessly.I was asking her questions and showing her what I saw.From the questions I ask her I found out that she has not suck any dick as she said in the chat.She said she just felt like saying that maybe she want them to feel she is a big girl.She is still a virgin(the boy that she said she did something what is very small.She said her ex sch and that time that boy was 9 so I believe her hymen is not broken)

The boy that tell her to meet her somewhere close to our house has not done what he planned on doing because she did not see the last message he sent.I have taken the phone before the message came.I also confronted the 13years old boy and threaten him and gave him a big warning about my sister.I also called the ones I could and put warned them all.
Few hours later,I called her to the room and start advicing her.I told her "you know how I love you.Have I flogged you like this before? Why did you disappoint me and she started crying again and answered No.I ask her if I was wrong for flogging her and she said No.I gave her a 1hour+ advice.
I told her how guys planned and bet with their fellow guys to sleep with a girl and go back to their friends to tell them so that they will be praised by their friends and called boss and baba for the girls.I told her what the bible says about what she did.I told her to be a girl of class,a girl that won't have anything to do with stupid boys.A girl that won't be carried away by any sweet and lovely words of a boy that want her body.I warned her about what having sex at the age will do to her and how she will be the one to carry all the pain and disgrace and the boy can go scott free.I told her to pray to God and ask for forgiveness and grace not to engage in such again.I told her how to identify stupid boys.I told her to focus on her studies and promised her a gift if she do very well this new term.I also told her I will give her a paper containing some important and positive message she should be reading time to time as she is going back to school.

We are not changing her school.From my search,I didn't find any of her female classmates involved in this.It's not from her school,it's all from the house.I know girls can have some dirty conversations between themselves in school but that won't change if she goes to a mixed day school. No phone for her again till university.No more leaving the house.After all,I told her to come and hug me and she came.Immediately she started hugging me,she started crying again.She started telling me sorry over and over again.My mum and aunty advices her too.I will put my eyes on her very well and my mum will too and other siblings.
For those asking of my dad,he travelled for some weeks now and he does not know anything about this.I and my mum have resolved everything.I pray she does not go back and she keeps her promises.Thank you my Great Nairalanders.I appreciate you all contributions.

you did well flogging her and speaking to her afterward. The Bible said spare the rod and spoil the child. Now you need to make sure she doesn’t go back to those her friends. If I’m the one, I’ll be so pained that I’ll personally go and meet the parents of all those kids and show them what their children are doing.

Your sister is an adventurous person and social media has gotten the best of her in a negative way. You have to look for something to replace that addiction. I’ll recommend books. I read a lot of books as a teenager and I intend to bring up my kids that way. You can be getting her new books on daily basis and reward her when she’s done reading them. This technique has worked for a lot of people including Ben Carson and his brother. I can recommend nice books for you when you’re ready.

Good luck with your sister.

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Do not hit me no matter my offense, I can't imagine anyone laying their hands on me and so I don't support the beating.

Kids these days are something else, they know more than the elders. The best is to become friends with her.

EreluRoz:
Do not hit me no matter my offense, I can't imagine anyone laying their hands on me and so I don't support the beating.

Kids these days are something else, they know more than the elders. The best is to become friends with her.

Go and steal in public and ask no one to hit you

I'm not a religious person but I like the verse that says "foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; the rod of correction will drive it far from him".

OP has done well.

ReacherSaidNoth:
Go and steal in public and ask no one to hit you

I'm not a religious person but I like the verse that says "foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; the rod of correction will drive it far from him".

OP has done well.

We are talking about domestic issues here and not robbery
You All think it's right to hit a child. If anyone hits me for whatsoever reason I will never forgive that person, I'll completely avoid having anything to do with them again.
Hitting me is like traumatizing me, so nobody should ever dare it.

EreluRoz:

We are talking about domestic issues here and not robbery
You All think it's right to hit a child. If anyone hits me for whatsoever reason I will never forgive that person, I'll completely avoid having anything to do with them again.

You need to understand that some issues are beyond counseling, no one takes pride in hitting children.

So if your mother spanks you for taking meat from the pot she would become a lifetime enemy of yours? I'm sorry to say but you seem to have a child's sensitivity.