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Is This Considered As Cheating? by Overdosed: 3:03pm On Jan 08 |
Let's Get Your Opinion on something. A Man Is Engaged To his Fiancee, Then Another Lady(Supposedly a Friend) Sent him Her nudes (A full on Solo Masturbation video), Not on his request by the way. And He Wanked to the Nude. LOL. The question now is, Has he Cheated on his Fiancee By doing That? |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by phintohlar(f): 3:14pm On Jan 08 |
Spiritually and bodily he don cheat o, but physically he never cheat oo 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Overdosed: 3:16pm On Jan 08 |
phintohlar: Do you think his Fiancee would see things like this? |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by PoliteActivist: 3:19pm On Jan 08 |
*Politeness* Depends. By Christ's standards he already cheated just by looking at the photos in any sexual way. By worldly standards, it depends on his mindset and what he later does. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Overdosed: 3:24pm On Jan 08 |
PoliteActivist: So should he go on ahead with the marriage and all? |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by phintohlar(f): 3:25pm On Jan 08 |
Overdosed:she might not see it only if the guy stops there, but am very certain that they'll want to put it into practice, which means the fiancee will still catch them |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by PoliteActivist: 3:31pm On Jan 08 |
Overdosed: *Politeness* What a question. What does what he did have to do with the marriage?? Your question would make sense if she caught him and you're asking if she should go ahead 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by ogify1(m): 3:47pm On Jan 08 |
Another nonsense thread 6 Likes |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Appletek: 3:47pm On Jan 08 |
Overdosed: What kind of foolish question is this? 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by DuBLINGreenb(m): 3:48pm On Jan 08 |
People dey craze oh Crazy things are happening The story no clear Friend send am video, him come majerbate to the video his friend sent And now you are asking whether or not to go on with the relationship. Think of that for a minute; either The story is not complete or someone is lying. 1. That “friend” is not a “friend” maybe a friend and more 2. Please continue with the relationship If people ask you why did you break up what will you say? I broke up with him because I caught him masturbating That’s a lame excuse, aren’t you an adult? Maybe it’s just me; but I believe for you to break up there should be a cogent reason. The relationship should have broken down IRREVOCABLY: What can cause such damage to a relationship: physical violence, threat to life, assault occasioning harm, absence without communication for a long period of time, no love, someone who is vile/evil consistently evil and unwilling to change from such evil ways. Not all this; he masturbated, he looked at another woman’s nudes which he didn’t request for. He watched peon, he didn’t say he loves me 200 times today, he didn’t say what I wanted him to say but didn’t give him any clue about. Women should understand men have TESTOSTERONE in their body from their TESTES 24/7 imagine being on Hot pill 24/7 so some petty things should be over looked. Look at intent rather than form. The same way men should understand women’s cravings during pregnancies and discomfort and hormonal changes during periods. Did he intend to cheat on you? Did he do it knowingly? When you caught him? Did he apologize? Did he show remorse? Did he do it again? Forgiveness, patience etc are also virtues in a relationship that are very needed. There is ABSOLUTELY no man and no woman who will do 100% of the things you like 100% of the time in a relationship even if you marry your sister raised and brought up in the same household with the same parents so how much less a stranger from a different tribe or religion or race or country or family or school and different parents and slightly different upbringing and financial status. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by CoronaVirusPro: 3:48pm On Jan 08 |
When you look at some topics that grace Nairaland frontpage. you just wish you could teleport to the abode of the mod that moved to frontpage, and give him a thorough beating of his life. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by pikechukwu6(m): 3:49pm On Jan 08 |
Rubbish question |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by SaturnNick(m): 3:50pm On Jan 08 |
Yes |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by TheWinterBird(f): 3:50pm On Jan 08 |
Yes. Why would a man engaged to be married even have [a] female friend/friends? Other than his mom, sisters, or female colleagues he might communicate with for professional reasons at work, there's no reason for him to have any female friends. His only friends should be males, along with his wife-to-be who should be his wifey and friend all in one. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Smartjeezy01(m): 3:50pm On Jan 08 |
Haha! Soapy can never be a cheater. It is good to soapy in peace than to engaged all this hoe low show. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by HeadNigga: 3:50pm On Jan 08 |
Seun, you should also restrict these kind of questions to their sections...don't bring them to front page. So a married man who watches porn and masturbates to it has cheated? 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by flexyrule(m): 3:51pm On Jan 08 |
It even goes beyond that... Mere looking at a woman, whom you are not married to in a lustful manner, is as good as sleeping wit her. And you know what the Bible says about such temptation? Matthew 18:9 New King James Version (NKJV) And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you. It is better for you to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes, to be cast into hell fire. |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Jayboi(m): 3:51pm On Jan 08 |
Cheating for where? |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Ladech(m): 3:51pm On Jan 08 |
Flip it the other way and put him in position of his fiancee. Then get him to answer the question. I don't know if it can be called cheating but it's definitely not right. Overdosed: 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by CelestineNelson: 3:51pm On Jan 08 |
H |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by willi926(m): 3:52pm On Jan 08 |
Yes and no. |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Discountsempai: 3:52pm On Jan 08 |
The guy has cheated. Simple The fact is that cheating is not something that happens in one step. It starts by looking and then it progresses from there. If a guy is still getting sexually enticed by other women and he is engaged to be married,he is not ready to be married. Infact if he marries, with habits like that ,his marriage will have issues. Same goes for women who mastubate to images of other men. At the end, marriage is a sacrifice. It is not for self gratification. And if you carry your self gratification into marriage, problem will start. Let's be mature here 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Hotacetone: 3:52pm On Jan 08 |
So, your friend told you something so private? Oga comot jor na You yourself be the friend 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by tosyne2much(m): 3:52pm On Jan 08 |
What a question! |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Shedrack777: 3:53pm On Jan 08 |
As long as I'm concerned it is cheating. Pure cheating no doubt about it 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Greenlyf: 3:53pm On Jan 08 |
Smh in dismay |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by saintneo(m): 3:53pm On Jan 08 |
Overdosed: In all ramifactions - YES! 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by CHoccolaTE: 3:53pm On Jan 08 |
@OP, Ask yourself what would your reaction be if your girlfriend wanked to another man's naked video. Nonsense thread. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by FireUpNow(m): 3:53pm On Jan 08 |
He has cheated because if the same girl in the video should meet the guy and open her body, baba will fly the babe like a private jet without delay. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by JoeEeL(m): 3:54pm On Jan 08 |
Are u talking about urself bro? Careful careful bro. Na like person wey never rob but e don buy gun for house put. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Considered As Cheating? by Jewessgratitud3: 3:54pm On Jan 08 |
What kind of thing is this? He cheated and it's very wrong. By the way, how did the lady get his number in the first place if he didn't give it to her to be sending him such things. He's a chronic cheat! |
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