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Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Eskoba: 7:12pm On Jan 08 |
Before I came back from ikoyi prison my babymama wasn't living with me again but we were on good terms. So before I came back she was already living in our house with her junior brother, my mom gave them a go ahead to live there because my son needed one of his parents meanwhile my babymama house was sold so they were sent out and she needed a place to stay with her sibling. So it was my mom's idea to let her come so she can be with our son. Though I didn't have a problem with that because we were on good terms even if we weren't dating again. Ever since I was back from prison it was not but I kept doing my best to find a job or business. So on Saturday I got a message to come for a interview today Monday. This morning I reached out to my babymama to borrow me 1k to use as transport fare but she said she didn't have likewise her junior brother. So I left for the interview, I trek to and fro, infact I haven't eaten anything. But to my greatest suprised when I got home this evening I met my babymama mother with them in the room. She started shouting at me that I'm a thief and I stole her son money 13k. I was suprised because why would they even think about that kinda thing against me. She called her older son who's a civilian staff to a military man to come with a military friend to come pick me up if I don't say d truth. In my own father's house oooo.. The embarrassment wasn't here that the whole neighbors came out and started begging the woman on top something I didn't do, I stood my ground that I didn't do it so I called my mom to let her know what was happening, and she came around. My mom told the woman she disrespected me for accusing me for such thing, but d woman said she doesn't trust me again because I am broke and I just came back from prison. This is someone I was very good to when I was still well to do. I explained to everyone that I trekked to work and I haven't eaten, which some other neighbours confirmed that I also came to them to ask for money. Anyways they searched again and saw d money, the money wasn't even upto the said amount, but I'm vindicated. I told my mom I don't want to see them again in d house because she's d one who brought them in but she pleaded I should give dem time to get a new place. Still because of my son, I don't want to take any rash decision. But truth be told, I was so embarrassed something of such happened under my own roof from a mother in law. I have cried my eyes out afterwards but I need advise if I should leave them or send them away. I decided to share here to get advise BTW, no one takes me serious again, I'm just back from prison, I'm broke with nothing to show so if I talk they will just shun me. I am still recovering, I didn't expect this type of allegation Please move to frontpage Seun Lalasticlala Nlfpmod Mynd44 |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Lance008(m): 7:18pm On Jan 08 |
This one pass normal U don get life connection with them which is ur son U can't see ur son suffer Na why dem Dey do u like that U are indirectly powerless 1 Like |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Eskoba: 7:24pm On Jan 08 |
Lance008:exactly the point sir, they are doing that especially because they knew I would do anything for my son |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Danremmy: 7:36pm On Jan 08 |
Bro I can relate, Try to set more boundaries or else expect more insults. when I say boundaries I mean stop asking them for anything infact don't eat same food. Avoid them like a plague if u have somewhere else u can go, please leave for them till they are ready to go. Just know u are doing it for d sake of ur son. I hope help comes your way soon, it's not easy over here also. 1 Like |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Eskoba: 7:38pm On Jan 08 |
Danremmy:noted sir I will use your advise 1 Like |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by abdrazak: 7:45pm On Jan 08 |
I believe that they are pushing you to your glory which is coming soonest. As for your in-law, behave as if they are non existent and do your best because of your son 3 Likes |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Eskoba: 7:50pm On Jan 08 |
abdrazak:thank you so much. |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by tommy589(m): 8:30pm On Jan 08 |
See finish The wheat is getting separated from the chaff. Never despair,your glory is on the way |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Eskoba: 8:36pm On Jan 08 |
tommy589:hmmm.. Amen🙏 |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Stevenbright(m): 9:16pm On Jan 08 |
Eskoba: Tell her that the younger brother must leave your house now and that she too must fast track the process of getting her accomodation. 3 Likes |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by hakeemhakeem(m): 9:44pm On Jan 08 |
Send that your bro in law away now now and if your wife insists she wants to go with him please allow her it doesn't end there more is coming if he remains with you, he most leave so that you face your challenges squarely.your son will look for when it's time because 4 Likes |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Lance008(m): 11:20pm On Jan 08 |
Eskoba:The only solution is massive success Your story need to change |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Eskoba: 9:25am On Jan 09 |
Lance008:I hope it does change |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Eskoba: 9:26am On Jan 09 |
hakeemhakeem:hmmm.. I understand u sir, I will look into this |
Re: Biggest Embarrassment And Insult Ever by Eskoba: 9:27am On Jan 09 |
Stevenbright:I'm working on it already. Thank u sir 1 Like |
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