Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oshokhai69: 9:21pm On Jan 09 |
zenithgroup: Happy new Yr brothers.
I needed to share this with brothers here and to get their opinions.
Sometimes in 2020 my carrier was hit and i started falling, my wife not loyal she left me with kid- I was so depressed and suicidal so I left the city to the village. In 2021 still in the village farming but i was curious as to what led me to such a fall My curiousity was what lead me to this forum I took my den woman too seriously and i was not putting myself first. In 2021/ 2022 right there in the bush I started taking overdose of redpill- I got involved with a young igbo lady in the local city near my village, though I was in the village but I took my development very seriously. I don't know what she saw in me but she was always all over me once I came to the city- one of such time I took her virg.nity and we became even closer.
Early 2022 her incessant closeness with me got her Elder sister attention ( she was actually staying with her elder sister and her husband). They press her to know what was up between us and she spilled, her sister was furious and angry so they castigated and rebuked her for dating a farmer more so a YORUBA MAN- so we were separated; and she started sleeping with her long time admirer ( her pastor) In all dis I put myself first and my head up. After few months I decided to start my business back now in their city.
The business grew faster than anticipated- It was one in dat town. The sister quickly noticed me she now allowed her sister to visit me at will. When i question her loyalty towards me, she said it was her sister doing. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD ACCEPT HER BACK? Please wetin be meaning of this thing wey you write? 🤔 1 Like
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Beverlyjean(f): 9:31pm On Jan 09 |
MrsAminaBello: I hear say you get prick. I for like fucck you sha. I'm a married woman by the way Ur ban is loading ...u this jobless rifraf 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Mandela27: 9:43pm On Jan 09 |
Beverlyjean:
Ur ban is loading ...u this jobless rifraf must u call people names to prove a point 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Pukkalolo: 12:16am On Jan 10 |
LifeofDream:
There's this girl I got her contact mid last year but I didn't contact her, I think she later misplaced the number.. Fast forward to late December when I came back home, she visited me 4 times in 2 days but I wasn't around those time. Later on, I heard she's sick. I took the bold steps and approach her, got her new number too.. Called her the second day to meet up somewhere around the street... We talked for some minutes and I think I show too much interest in her which I think was a mistake by me..
Although, I've little interest in her but I made it too obvious when I see her because she was sick and I was trying to care for her. And also I was trying to compensate her because of the stress and disappointment she went through by visiting me 4 times and I wasn't around, I don't want the situation to look like I was taking her for granted.
I've chatted her up few times and I notice she give me one word reply, I may be wrong but I think this is a sign she's not interested.. This is a girl that was practically chasing me up and down a week ago..
I'm thinking maybe my first impression wasn't top notch, considering the fact I even asked/go for a kiss in our first meeting.. 🤦 A mistake I made because I thought I'll be traveling three days later and I wanted to escalate things with her quickly...
What do you think I can do in this situation?..
@rizzputin Pukkalolo Ubunja IAmHim1 adambeatz ayoll and other bosses.
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem. Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem. The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you. So what's the real problem ![](/faces/huh.png) Let's begin properly.... On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is... PATIENCE. Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward. Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy. Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys. As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off. If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused. I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes. I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy. This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it. Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough. Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward. Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to. If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place. See guys, understand this hardcore truth: Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up. She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you. Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you." Nah bro... Again, understand this: A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you. Did you spot the difference? Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her.... A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you. Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women. Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time... That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly.. For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift. So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift. 33 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kimcutie: 12:41am On Jan 10 |
Oshokhai69:
Man wey don get post nut clarity wetin go come make am to dey simp? 🤔 Okay. Continue 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by OgunjimiFengxi(m): 12:59am On Jan 10 |
Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.
Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.
The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.
So what's the real problem![](/faces/huh.png)
Let's begin properly....
On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is... PATIENCE.
Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.
Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.
As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.
If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.
I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.
I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.
This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.
Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.
Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.
If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her
Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex
Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.
See guys, understand this hardcore truth:
Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.
She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.
Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."
Nah bro... Again, understand this:
A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.
Did you spot the difference?
Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....
A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.
Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.
Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...
That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..
For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.
So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.
On point 👍...I can relate with most of your points. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:18am On Jan 10 |
Ballzproblemm: trolls are here, remember they only thrive on the attention you feed them, starve them and they're dead.
keep the pills coming in Exactly!!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 2:21am On Jan 10 |
zenithgroup: Happy new Yr brothers.
I needed to share this with brothers here and to get their opinions.
Sometimes in 2020 my carrier was hit and i started falling, my wife not loyal she left me with kid- I was so depressed and suicidal so I left the city to the village. In 2021 still in the village farming but i was curious as to what led me to such a fall My curiousity was what lead me to this forum I took my den woman too seriously and i was not putting myself first. In 2021/ 2022 right there in the bush I started taking overdose of redpill- I got involved with a young igbo lady in the local city near my village, though I was in the village but I took my development very seriously. I don't know what she saw in me but she was always all over me once I came to the city- one of such time I took her virg.nity and we became even closer.
Early 2022 her incessant closeness with me got her Elder sister attention ( she was actually staying with her elder sister and her husband). They press her to know what was up between us and she spilled, her sister was furious and angry so they castigated and rebuked her for dating a farmer more so a YORUBA MAN- so we were separated; and she started sleeping with her long time admirer ( her pastor) In all dis I put myself first and my head up. After few months I decided to start my business back now in their city.
The business grew faster than anticipated- It was one in dat town. The sister quickly noticed me she now allowed her sister to visit me at will. When i question her loyalty towards me, she said it was her sister doing. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD ACCEPT HER BACK? You are seriously asking me us this? Nawa o...I leave the comments to my brothers cuz it seems like you are trolling us 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KingEarnest(m): 8:00am On Jan 10 |
Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.
Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.
The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.
So what's the real problem![](/faces/huh.png)
Let's begin properly....
On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is... PATIENCE.
Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.
Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.
As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.
If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.
I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.
I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.
This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.
Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.
Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.
If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her
Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex
Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.
See guys, understand this hardcore truth:
Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.
She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.
Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."
Nah bro... Again, understand this:
A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.
Did you spot the difference?
Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....
A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.
Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.
Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...
That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..
For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.
So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.
Epic! Thanks for this boss. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Streak47: 8:21am On Jan 10 |
There's something about bleaching yellow women but let me not generalize at least from the ones have met. It is well. 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmHim1: 12:17pm On Jan 10 |
showing too much RANDOM interest in her vs showing interest in her cus she was sick is two diffferent things. i personally would target my interest in her when shes sick. called a girl you found out was sick to WALK WITH HER SICKNESS AND meet somewhere around the street. she'd be thinking you must really care a lot about her unno heres a hypothetical chat in my head. ** hie. she replies. **dunno. i shouldnt be messaging you ryt now.i found out u fell sick and i tot i shld check up on u. **she replies** **should ve called but i duunno. didnt tink u might av d strenght to talk. even me messagin u at dis moment is makin me feel rilli badd. **she replies why **i feel u shld be restin afta everytin. gotta b healthy n strong 4 urself n d people dat care abt u unno. **she replies. yeah im on my bed now ***hope u av sum1 there watchin afta u. a baby girl shld b taken care of delicately especially during times lykk dis ***she replies. i av sum1 here. **hope he/she (dependin on her 'gender 'reply) understands ur everyneeds well and gives it 2 u dose times wen u nId itt **she replies **if nobody there. hope ur parents wont mind if i come say hi. i knw wat it feels like to need sum1 to be der for u but every1 u tink cared abt u is just busy 4 only themselves **she texts you her address. jst nid to round up sumtin. ill join u shortly when coming, you then buy some fruits for her. it should be varieties(banana, wateemelon, pineapple) so you dont end up feeling like a loser when she tells you the fruits you bought isnt wat she likes. ouuchhh! **i made her pay attention by carefully abbreviating my words and making itbquite readable. now her attention is on understandin wat im writin and at d same tym, in her feelinss wer i want. careful wo u use dis abbreviation for thou. dont go try wit ur boss at work unno** etcetera etcetera still building myself in this chat game but dats whafs is in my head. show you feel for her and match your words with your actions chat game is quite easy. there is no face to face interactions and you are relaxed behind your screen like i am ryt now typing and vibing. if u make a mistake, u can easily edit be4 typin send. lolzzz regardless, you dont find out a girl is sick and after consoling her, tell her to come out **i noticed sumtin particularly interesting. ive seen girls wit teddy bears. n i mean exoensive teddy bears unno. these are big girls with good payin jobs. they go to work, leave the teddy bear at home, then come back from work and go ciddle the teddy bear while binging netflix before they sleep now NOTE. the teddy bear doesnt talk. the tedd bear doesnt give them money. the teddy bear doesnt offer advice. the teddy bear is just a lifeless piece of material that just sits there and receive all the attention from dem ladies out there. i think of it and i feel an epiphany coming but i just cant place my finger on it unno. its soo soo surprising what of those the ladies that have cats as pets in their house. lolzzzz. cats that still give them claw marks, thats for those sensitive enough not to declaw their cats. yet on top of the free claw marks their cats give them, they still buy cat food, prolly sew some fancy clothes for their cat. guys are not left out too but yet guys go through heaven n hell and receive what??*** i think ladies place emotional connection over logical connections some guys thinks all a lady has to offer is just pussy until they come across otedola daughters using their daddys connection and connection of those many admirers in their dm to boost the financial level of some guy they cant seem to get over bond wit her. shes open now. i think i wrote sumtin abt dat "pair her weakness with your strenghts" men need sex to feel loved. women need to feel loved to av sex punch lines from da dutch rhymes but thats dat. LifeofDream: If you hesitate, you masturbate... Thanks Pukkalolo for that... @rizzputin and my other bosses, thanks for the reply... Can't believe I was able to bed a girl in a day with no shishi spent just because I made the move, truly girls have crazy imagination...
Though I've fvcked up this same year too but it's part of the learning and process...
Pls what do you think I can do to get the upper hand again in this situation...
There's this girl I got her contact mid last year but I didn't contact her, I think she later misplaced the number.. Fast forward to late December when I came back home, she visited me 4 times in 2 days but I wasn't around those time. Later on, I heard she's sick. I took the bold steps and approach her, got her new number too.. Called her the second day to meet up somewhere around the street... We talked for some minutes and I think I show too much interest in her which I think was a mistake by me..
Although, I've little interest in her but I made it too obvious when I see her because she was sick and I was trying to care for her. And also I was trying to compensate her because of the stress and disappointment she went through by visiting me 4 times and I wasn't around, I don't want the situation to look like I was taking her for granted.
I've chatted her up few times and I notice she give me one word reply, I may be wrong but I think this is a sign she's not interested.. This is a girl that was practically chasing me up and down a week ago..
I'm thinking maybe my first impression wasn't top notch, considering the fact I even asked/go for a kiss in our first meeting.. 🤦 A mistake I made because I thought I'll be traveling three days later and I wanted to escalate things with her quickly...
What do you think I can do in this situation?..
@rizzputin Pukkalolo Ubunja IAmHim1 adambeatz ayoll and other bosses.
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by adambeatz(m): 3:15pm On Jan 10 |
Streak47: There's something about bleaching yellow women but let me not generalize at least from the ones have met. It is well. Bro, lemme generalize it from my view, any man that wants to marry or married a bleaching material in the name of love is either mentally retarded or should be physically blind.A woman that bleaches is a very insecure human being and they wear the insecurity by bleaching as a badge, the one's that are good in deception use hydrogen peroxide to wash their knuckles and other obvious spots that would give them away. When they enter their husband's home and keep up with the bleaching, it would later cause damage to their body organs, the body tries to produce melanin, the bleaching creams breakdown the melanin and the body is forced to expel the damage while trying to repair(na them be the real wolverines with admantium in their body causing their healing factors to go haywire). A never ending cycle of which when it's time to give birth they've ended up producing substandard kids cause their body's where never at optimal peak conditions before giving birth. Not to talk of the smell they give off under heat when they don't apply their heavy perfume.[b]The girls who don't bleach don't know what God gave them, I've come across some of them who use all natural skin care routines and have their dark skin under the sun looking much better that the fair skinned (both the bleach & non bleaching). If not for the western brain washing in all our media having everyone think white skin is better, have you guys seen dark skin and fair skinned women during old age without skin surgery, you'd rush for the dark skin, a fair skinned woman can't stay under the sun for long cause she doesn't have the melanin to absorb the light fromt the sun hence she turns red and always seeks shelter. I only f*ck with dark skinned babes and during dating I make sure they upgrade their skin so even if we don't end up, my next nigga wey wan take over go appreciate the works of my hand. One love 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Puntingnoob: 3:41pm On Jan 10 |
adambeatz:
Bro, lemme generalize it from my view, any man that wants to marry or married a bleaching material in the name of love is either mentally retarded or should be physically blind.
A woman that bleaches is a very insecure human being and they wear the insecurity by bleaching as a badge, the one's that are good in deception use hydrogen peroxide to wash their knuckles and other obvious spots that would give them away. When they enter their husband's home and keep up with the bleaching, it would later cause damage to their body organs, the body tries to produce melanin, the bleaching creams breakdown the melanin and the body is forced to expel the damage while trying to repair(na them be the real wolverines with admantium in their body causing their healing factors to go haywire). A never ending cycle of which when it's time to give birth they've ended up producing substandard kids cause their body's where never at optimal peak conditions before giving birth. Not to talk of the smell they give off under heat when they don't apply their heavy perfume.[b]
The girls who don't bleach don't know what God gave them, I've come across some of them who use all natural skin care routines and have their dark skin under the sun looking much better that the fair skinned (both the bleach & non bleaching). If not for the western brain washing in all our media having everyone think white skin is better, have you guys seen dark skin and fair skinned women during old age without skin surgery, you'd rush for the dark skin, a fair skinned woman can't stay under the sun for long cause she doesn't have the melanin to absorb the light fromt the sun hence she turns red and always seeks shelter. I only f*ck with dark skinned babes and during dating I make sure they upgrade their skin so even if we don't end up, my next nigga wey wan take over go appreciate the works of my hand. One love My grandmother comes to mind. No of our skins come to her skin despite her old age 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Firstorderwizard(m): 8:16pm On Jan 10 |
If they touch any of the red pill threads including this, I will delete my account Mandela27: Abeg make una follow tell people wey Dem wan nominate as new admins,that they should not touch this our beautiful thread that we've suffered to build for almost 4years now 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by AyoII(m): 8:45pm On Jan 10 |
Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.
Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.
The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.
So what's the real problem![](/faces/huh.png)
Let's begin properly....
On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is... PATIENCE.
Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.
Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.
As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.
If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.
I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.
I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.
This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.
Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.
Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.
If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her
Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex
Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.
See guys, understand this hardcore truth:
Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.
She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.
Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."
Nah bro... Again, understand this:
A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.
Did you spot the difference?
Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....
A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.
Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.
Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...
That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..
For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.
So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.
Ah ah!! This was my experience with a babe last year. Patience! Patience!! Patience!!! Like a cat stealthily taking it's time, to get some fried meats. (Notice if the owner or anyone else is around, the cat will still be making it moves but at the same time also act uninterested, until you loosegaurd) Patience Is the name of the game . Not that you won't be making your moves. You will make hints while pretending you never need the pussy. Your desperation at times might lead to things like simping. I am very sure It will be served on a platter when it all said and done. Some women will take time to get comfortable with you sexually especially in some instances for example - where they are seen as or perceived as"a good girl" in neighborhood. You know they have a reputation to protect. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Mandela27: 9:16pm On Jan 10 |
Firstorderwizard: If they touch any of the red pill threads including this, I will delete my account
I swear,wetin person wan come find here again kwanu 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifeofDream: 10:41pm On Jan 10 |
[quote author=2special post=127857737][/quote] This is what I'm doing but some of this girls think I'm taking them for granted... 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifeofDream: 11:05pm On Jan 10 |
Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.
Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.
The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.
So what's the real problem![](/faces/huh.png)
Let's begin properly....
On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is... PATIENCE.
Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.
Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.
As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.
If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.
I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.
I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.
This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.
Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.
Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.
If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her
Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex
Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.
See guys, understand this hardcore truth:
Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.
She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.
Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."
Nah bro... Again, understand this:
A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.
Did you spot the difference?
Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....
A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.
Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.
Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...
That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..
For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.
So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.
I really fvcked and it's unlike me, I shouldn't have asked for a kiss... Her body language was inviting and she murmured some words but I took it as a no... Initially, I thought I won't be around again the next day and this is a girl I want to be part of the squad.. Nothing spoil, I'm planning on visiting at the end of the month and I'll try to game her properly.. I hope to receive some guides from you chief... ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LifeofDream: 11:09pm On Jan 10 |
AyoII:
Ah ah!! This was my experience with a babe last year. Patience! Patience!! Patience!!! Like a cat stealthily taking it's time, to get some fried meats. (Notice if the owner or anyone else is around, the cat will still be making it moves but at the same time also act uninterested, until you loosegaurd) Patience Is the name of the game . Not that you won't be making your moves. You will make hints while pretending you never need the pussy. Your desperation at times might lead to things like simping. I am very sure It will be served on a platter when it all said and done. Some women will take time to get comfortable with you sexually especially in some instances for example - where they are seen as or perceived as"a good girl" in neighborhood. You know they have a reputation to protect. I'm really a patient guy... This particular girl has been crushing/wanting me for long, more than a year.. I was even slow, I should've talked to her Dec 2022.. With the way she was looking for me up and down when she heard I was around, it seems she's been waiting for me for so long.. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:20am On Jan 11 |
IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.
They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife. 19 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:27am On Jan 11 |
I'm not saying a woman cannot be a helper to a man or create a chance for him to excel, but we know that this is rare, and most women are around to leech on and gravitates towards available better options. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 12:32am On Jan 11 |
DEEP 16 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Likeplaylikepla: 12:43am On Jan 11 |
Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.
Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.
The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.
So what's the real problem![](/faces/huh.png)
Let's begin properly....
On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is... PATIENCE.
Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.
Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.
As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.
If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.
I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.
I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.
This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.
Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.
Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.
Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.
If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her
Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex
Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.
See guys, understand this hardcore truth:
Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.
She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.
Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."
Nah bro... Again, understand this:
A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.
Did you spot the difference?
Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....
A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.
Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.
Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...
That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..
For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.
So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.
This is it. I lose one girl last year November cos of this mistake. Patience is the key. Man has to still express sexual interest and escalate things, but also apply patience cos women are scared of looking cheap. Pukkalolo you really sabi female Dynamics. I can relate to most of your points Thank you for this. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 2:39am On Jan 11 |
Women have two deadline clocks their beauty clock and biological(fertility)clock and the wise ones among them capitalize on it and get into a committed relationship early, the foolish ones want to use nice ignorant men as retirement plans especially gullible Christians who don't have redpill awareness 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 2:41am On Jan 11 |
Treat relationship and commitment as business, be very pragmatic, be very rational, fine you are not a machine, you are not a stone, you have to open up to women and get intimate but never compromise frame to supplicate to any woman, be very prudent in your dealings with them 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 2:45am On Jan 11 |
Sex is not the only way a woman shows love, women fucck for several reasons lust, security, prostitution, genuine desire can turn to hatred overnight, in your dealings with women always have rational routes that would leave you in a position of advantage regardless of the outcome like for example understand gynocentrism of western societies and put yourself in a position so you won't be burnt 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by JESHAL007: 2:46am On Jan 11 |
Women and moved by feelings and they are fleeting and unpredictable, women can change anytime so you must do well to remember this in your association with them always improve your value and put yourself and your heart in an advantageous position 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmHim1: 3:01am On Jan 11 |
lolzzzz the big picture is staring at you and everyone here right in the face we men created the monsters we see in women today WOMEN DID NOT MAKE MEN REDPILLED. MEN MADE OTHER MEN REDPILLED BY USING WOMEN there are guys in here calling themselves redpillers that fvck married women when their husband is on a business trip, toiling so he can put food on the table for his family. and guess what one guy out there would be telling heer and reinforcing it in her mind that her husband doesnt even have time for her...that she should come to him as he will create time for her. there are even guys here that take pride in sleeping with other guys girlfriends EVEN AFTER FINDING OUT THE GIRL HAS A BOYFRIEND. yet when woman do them bad, they open their stoopid.mouth to shout "i encourage men to swallow the redpill. the redpill is life" u can start to see the hypocricy from a mile away now stiill find it hard to believe then ask yourself this: the paternity fraud u talking about, how did it happen did the women mistakenly fall on guys d1ck when coming back from workk HECK!!! MOST redpillers here cant leave their 'trusted wife' here with a fellow redpiller because they know the shii theyve done with the wives of other married men the monsters we made. luckily for us, we all know the solution to killing this monster once and forall. be truthful to urself FIRST. you encourage abortion. you encourage the married woman u busy fvckin to pin your child on another man. lolzzz. you claiming stretzz. lolzzzz EVERYTHING STARTS FROM THE FATHERLESS DAUGHTER/ THE ABSENT FATHER ---the birth of Matriarchy thats the MAIN root of alll mens problem today apart from free salvation promised by all churches. take respinsibility men. man d fvck up Philosopher1979:
We can even create our own forum or social media. Are there no programmers here. No law stood us from doing it.
Secondly women themselves will drive men to red pill. With the increase in paternity fraud most men will become red pill. When out if 4 children 2 are not your own you will reduce your rating if women. Women are so red pulled by nature that they will psychologically abuse men until men become red pulled. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 3:03am On Jan 11 |
JESHAL007: IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.
They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife. Stop it...your pills are so delicious I feel like asking for more 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmHim1: 3:08am On Jan 11 |
ALL MEN PAY the greater the attraction she feels for you, the higher the discount she gives you JESHAL007: ENDS IN REGRETS MOST OF THE TIME.
A WOMAN IS NOT A TROPHY THAT MUST BE WON. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU GET HER. SEX? EXPENSES? INFIDELITY? UNENDING DRAMA? ARE THESE THE THINGS YOU SPEND DAYS/WEEKS FIGHTING OVER WINNING A LADY FOR?
TRUE ATTRACTION MAY NOT BE PERFECT BUT IT COSTS LESS WHEN SHE'S ACTUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU. WHEN YOU FIGHT TO WIN/CONVINCE HER YOU'VE ALREADY LOST OUT BEFORE THE START OF THE RELATIONSHIP.
ANYTHING SHE SERVES YOU, SHE BACKS IT UP WITH "SHEBI I INITIALLY TOLD YOU I WASN'T INTERESTED, YOU COERCED ME".
ANYHOW YOU LOOK AT IT. BEGGING OR FIGHTING FOR A WOMAN'S LOVE OR ATTENTION IS A MASSIVE LOSS. IT'S WHAT SMALL TEENAGE BOYS DO BEFORE THEY BECOME ADULT MEN. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmHim1: 3:24am On Jan 11 |
its not the problem of her being in your control. its the problem of CAN you TAKE control have you taken control of your life first two blind people cant lead themselves. theyll end up in a pit. i personally believe men should take control of themselves FIRST. master their emotions first you wake up in the morning and you FEEL tired doesnt mean you wont go to work. you FEEL it but you do what needs to be done regardless note: feelings strongly corresponds to actions. thats why women use bodylanguages to speak BECAUSE THEYRE CREATURE OF FEELINGS. now the kicker here is this: women think with their feelings while men feel with their thinking. you feel angry at your woman doesnt mean you gotta flow with your anger and hit her NO. lolzzzz. THAT WOULD BE YOU SURRENDERING TO YOUR FEELINGS you feel the anger,get aumwhere to cool off and still think clearly regardless " so if i hit her what happens next. she calls the cops. domestic abuse. my a$$ b in jail for years. all becus of wat. she files for divorce. half my wealth gone. woman beater record to my name. yeah right. lolzzzz. it wont work". yeah. dats feelin with ur thinking now. iss quite hard though but achievable. thats why most weak men are behind bars or dead now JESHAL007: Don't because of woman ignore your valuable allies, loyal friends, family and loved ones, don't worship any woman, how many modern women are worth committed relationship whether they are beautiful or not, don't put any woman on a pedestal, she must enter your frame, she must be in your control, and it must be willing, she must show genuine desire in you by wanting to please you. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by IAmHim1: 3:37am On Jan 11 |
for one to be cold, one doesnt need to dip himself inside a freezer. all one has to do to be cold is remove all that is making him hot since total removal removal of heat from an object makes such an object cold and total removal of light = darkness ie removal of all heat = cold but regardlesss, ice block in a hot environment will melt soon thats why you are the sum total of the people you surround yourself with. company matters. association matters. show me your friends and i'll show you your future. JESHAL007: Men must create, men must produce, men must have a craft, men must have a trade, men must have a skill, men must be useful, men must take calculated risk, men are be strong, men must maintain frame, men must be assertive, men must be disciplined, men must be actionable, men must be bold, men must be wise,men are success objects, men must understand their value, men must respect themselves, men must respect and treasure their commitment, men must understand female nature, men must be rational. 4 Likes 3 Shares |