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Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by jaxxy(m): 5:15pm On Jan 10 |
If the value of the car is 5m and she has only 1.5m where does the 3.5m balance come from ![]() |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Forumobserver12(m): 5:18pm On Jan 10 |
advanceDNA: Or atleast send them the #3.5 let the man and his go to a car shop and make their choice... If they wish they can add the #1.5m ... |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Escobar7(m): 5:20pm On Jan 10 |
To what end would you want your contribution to the purchase of the car noted? Do you anticipate issues in the future that would warrant a refund to you or that you won't be given credit for the car eventually? Is this ego induced? My take is you want her to get a car, then go ahead. Whoever contributes doesn't matter to me, cos the whole point is that it is your wife's car. Or we go back to the questions. 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Fryx: 5:20pm On Jan 10 |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by infotainment(m): 5:23pm On Jan 10 |
Freethought:Bros no vex o.... After your bro in-law buys the car for your family, who btw u and ur wife get the motor gan gan...... e get why i dey ask 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by tonytony208(m): 5:23pm On Jan 10 |
Freethought: Bro, be careful about what you are about to enter into. Your wife will misbehave to you if she gets that car. She will forget that you own 1.5 million naira out of the money. She might even go about telling people that it was her brother that bought the car for her without telling them that 1.5 mil out of the money was from you. She will claim ownership of the car and be reluctant to allow you ride it. Be careful how you place your wife's happiness above every other thing. Her happiness may cost you your happiness and break your marriage. Before agreeing with her brother on this matter, she should have carried you along if the marriage means anything to her. 4 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by tonytony208(m): 5:25pm On Jan 10 |
infotainment: Thank you. Freethought needs to think about this. Knowing women for who they are, she will start behaving as if the entire money came from her brother only. |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by fineboynl(m): 5:26pm On Jan 10 |
Greenfaces:nice one |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by intruder15(m): 5:28pm On Jan 10 |
Freethought: It's okay for you to be worried. Women no de too think issue deeply which is why they fall victim of rubbish that can be avoided if well reasoned. The guy may have good intentions. But you really can't tell. Neither should you risk it without thinking it through. It doesn't matter if it is your money or your wife's money. Ensure to get a picture of what the guy intends to your wife. Do some other level of validations before sending the money to the guy. I repeat. The guy. Not your wife. So the guy will know it's from you. E get why. |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by fineboynl(m): 5:28pm On Jan 10 |
DeLaRue:the brother will not help if he knows its the husband that own the 1.5m |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Folanre(m): 5:29pm On Jan 10 |
Do not drop the money. Period. 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by WhiteBlack: 5:30pm On Jan 10 |
Instead of thinking how to save more and work towards financial freedom, this fool wants to buy a car for his family. Chai! I pity you and your poverty driven wife. This nonsense ll only make her happy for a week, after one week, both of you r back to your poverty. As a leader, are you not suppose to lead your family in d right direction. Car should d least of your worry for now if you have got brains 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by tonytony208(m): 5:32pm On Jan 10 |
Wallade: You have a point. Freethought should ask the brother to send the money to him so he and his wife can go make the purchase by themselves |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Freethought(m): 5:33pm On Jan 10 |
Escobar7: Well, this is it, the car i bought that was sold was for me, the 1.5 i got after selling is still for me to save more to buy a car for me(not for my wife), even dou I'm still gon tag it family car, we both using it. Now if i drop the money. How long before i save again to actually get a car of my own, considering there are other responsibilities, also the he brother will think he got his sister the car, making him have some kinda say on how the car is used... You know humans can be funny.. I know my wife to some extent but the boy is just my in law, I don't know what he's capable of. 2 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by StJasper(m): 5:33pm On Jan 10 |
Freethought: Bro, I understand your situation seriously. Your wife has already made it look as if she is paying the 1.5m from her own pocket and not that you are paying for it. Oga, if you don't have your own personal car and she wants to buy the car at all cost from your money, then you are in a marriage with a manipulative woman who is interested in her own comfort and she doesn't care about your feelings. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Freethought(m): 5:36pm On Jan 10 |
infotainment: This is one of the things I'm saying. The guy is buying the car for his sister. |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Montaque(m): 5:36pm On Jan 10 |
I will speak for the future of this matter. I am married and I have seen things like this happen. Do not hinder the gift (car) coming to your wife through your brother in law. Release the money and face your front. If you don't, the brother will still buy the car (he already has 3.5m) without you and you will be the enemy. Not just to your in-laws, but to the woman living with you. That is a dangerous trend. Assuming if the brother fails to buy the car (after you refused to release the money), your wife will never forget that you blocked her gift from manifesting (her brother will never be guilty in her eyes). You don't want to be seen as a blessing-blocker. Apply wisdom here. 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by FuckYeyeMods: 5:38pm On Jan 10 |
Freethought:Let me tell you how you're going to table everything..... Bro! My wife told me about the promises and arrangements you had. No doubt, you're a kind person. You know she's always passionate about car. I hope say she no go wound herself with joy. As maybe she must have hinted you, I made a bad buy with the help of one yeye mechanic which I have to sell shortly afterwards resulting to recovered loss of 1.5m. I will transfer the 1.5m to her account incase. I know she would be very happy. Women with wahala.. thank God for the men around her though.......... . . All of this to be said in her present while you're laughing enthusiastically with the said brother on phone. |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Montaque(m): 5:40pm On Jan 10 |
WhiteBlack: Can you define "financial freedom" here? Its like you don't know how importance a car is to a budding family. People talking like their motivational teachers. Go outside and see reality |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Opmic: 5:40pm On Jan 10 |
This thing you said your wife wants is not going to help your family. No matter what she likes every woman should be contented with what the husband has and grow together with him with full support. For God sake no woman that doesn't want a car, luxury home, and all. But not at the detriment of your husband finances. You just bought and sold a car at loss over this issues, all I see is another disadvantage if you give that 1.5 m. Like others have said if the brother wants to get a car for her sister, he should do it solely. Your wife should maybe give him a little more time 3 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by TheFarmer1: 5:43pm On Jan 10 |
advanceDNA: I agree. He should be very careful. Loyalty and Honesty na very difficult thing these days, even amongst people we call family. |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Freethought(m): 5:44pm On Jan 10 |
DeLaRue: Thank you. My thought exactly. 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Opmic: 5:44pm On Jan 10 |
Montaque: This is not wisdom at all. This is slavery. 2 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by fineboynl(m): 5:45pm On Jan 10 |
Maintaining car nor he beans oh. Anyone who struggles to buy a car will find it difficult to maintain the same car. Engine oil is over 15k now. Not even synthetic oil oh. Fuel daily and other unplanned expenses due to bad road. 1 Like |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Pharaoh4rin(m): 5:45pm On Jan 10 |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by AchrafHakimi: 5:48pm On Jan 10 |
Pharaoh4rin: All married men are simps. |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Opmic: 5:49pm On Jan 10 |
Freethought: Don't drop Money for the car it's not wise. A wife who stake her husband money without proper prior discussion with the husband, has not done well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by ogashman(m): 5:51pm On Jan 10 |
Why would ur wife who knows the source of the money lie about it to her brother? That's wrong to me. I suggest u don't get involved because the brother is younger than u to avoid disrespect. Tell ur wife, to tell him, that the money belongs to her husband. She can chip it in whenever they re having a conversation about the car. Don't confront her bro yourself! 4 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by Tenplet(m): 5:52pm On Jan 10 |
DeLaRue:When you see real men you will know ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by qtx(m): 5:54pm On Jan 10 |
Freethought:My own is that your picture shows only two cars there. I wont talk more than that. if u know, you know ![]() |
Re: Please How Do I Handle This With My Wife And Her Brother. by ifihearam: 5:57pm On Jan 10 |
Freethought: @poster You are just looking for people who will encourage you to call your wife's younger brother..you are either scared of your wife or her family because from the way you sound some of them if not all of them are doing better than you, but you are the king of your jungle. Dont ever call that brother of hers, tell her to correct her mistake by telling him YOU are the one gifting her the 1.5meter and if he cant call you to square things then forget the whole matter, you must learb to know rules to bend and when to stand your ground. Your wife does not respect you enough, you are to weak. THERE IS A VERY THIN LINE BETWEEN BEING A GENTLE MAN AND A SIMP. VERY VERY THIN LINE. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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