kingthreat:


I am against morbid pictures. As long as the face is covered, that is better.
As for when we all die, we have no idea how our physical bodies will be displayed. We pray whoever will treat it with respect as we rather be remembered on how we lived than how we died.

Exactly.

Lexusgs430:
Tough times never last ........ Tough people do .........

Tough times last Bro, if you’ve not been there you won’t understand…. A very long tunnel before the light at the end , not everyone can hold on till the end .

RIP to Amarachi

Visocrate:
Tough times but whatever is the issue live life until God calls you

God don call her

TheBTCinvestor:
My God...I remember when I used to work In the Diamond bank now Access bank in 2013 as a full staff marketer....I was bashed because of low figures, disgraced during MPR, talked down on my colleagues, my salary was poor and I felt my future was bleak. It was a long struggle till I left for keystone bank and the harassment to meet deposit and risk asset continued...Imagine being told to raise 400m in 6month
I was always responding to queries stating why i havent met 60percent of my target..this affected me in many ways and I still have PTSD. Omo thank God....My Jehova came thru and gave me a good oil and gas offer that disgraced my enemies...They thought they had won by kicking me out..little did they know God had a better plan. Bank job is not for the weak!!!..I totally understand her frustration.

This is so apt!!! And maybe for someone who won’t want to get entangled or compromise!! I’ve seen my boss tell our marketers to “do like others do” it’s really unfair!!

bottlewater1:
This is not a solution please

plz how she dead already

internationalman:
Person go dey wash plate for abroad he go fit use am build house for Nigeria or mortgage house or buy a car on credit for that same abroad.

But in Nigeria person fit work for 30 years and he salary for that 30 years nor go reach 50 million let alone building a house.

If you can survive the current Nigeria you can survive anywhere in the world.

Rest in peace to the lady.

Meanwhile her family members should check if that's truly her handwriting.

50million is too much na. Except of course it's FG job. In this Nigeria Private sector no go fit give you 50m is 30years as a staff in that company!

TheBTCinvestor:
My God...I remember when I used to work In the Diamond bank now Access bank in 2013 as a full staff marketer....I was bashed because of low figures, disgraced during MPR, talked down on my colleagues, my salary was poor and I felt my future was bleak. It was a long struggle till I left for keystone bank and the harassment to meet deposit and risk asset continued...Imagine being told to raise 400m in 6month
I was always responding to queries stating why i havent met 60percent of my target..this affected me in many ways and I still have PTSD. Omo thank God....My Jehova came thru and gave me a good oil and gas offer that disgraced my enemies...They thought they had won by kicking me out..little did they know God had a better plan. Bank job is not for the weak!!!..I totally understand her frustration.

I joined sterling bank as an ET in 2022,they gave me a target of 400m in 6 months, I was always bashed during branch and zonal meetings, the branch manager was even harrassing me sexually,I coulnt cope anymore,I left for another organisation. The struggle continues.

Banks in Nigeria pay some people so well and some so poorly. I was once a victim before I resigned and started my own car business.


Even Profit sharing at the end of the year, some get nothing while some share millions. Why won’t the low cadre staff be depressed.

RIP .. abeg check on people to know what they are going through

Thank God Largeman Motors is successful today

TheBTCinvestor:
My God...I remember when I used to work In the Diamond bank now Access bank in 2013 as a full staff marketer....I was bashed because of low figures, disgraced during MPR, talked down on my colleagues, my salary was poor and I felt my future was bleak. It was a long struggle till I left for keystone bank and the harassment to meet deposit and risk asset continued...Imagine being told to raise 400m in 6month
I was always responding to queries stating why i havent met 60percent of my target..this affected me in many ways and I still have PTSD. Omo thank God....My Jehova came thru and gave me a good oil and gas offer that disgraced my enemies...They thought they had won by kicking me out..little did they know God had a better plan. Bank job is not for the weak!!!..I totally understand her frustration.

Funny thing is if you don't meet up those target, na basic salary you go dey collect, come get query join. Marketing and sales is not for anyone that love their mental health. I'm happy for you Bro

Afunja people av killed her

hopeforcharles:
Hmmm, very strange a lady with atleast job prospects and income is this depressed what about those without any prospects at all? Life is not balanced, May God have Mercy on her Soul.

Those with jobs with fixed salary are the ones suffering the most now.

Naira jumped from 700 to 1200 in less than 7 months. Price of everything nearly doubled but did you ever hear of any salary increment? Even the FG is playing cat and mouse with Labor unions over minimum wage.

That girl is likely a mid level banker. Don't kid yourself her salary no pass 70k or 80k and she is living in Lagos where 1k can't feed you well in a day and you will need at least 2k for transport daily. She won't pay house rent, ni? How about personal upkeep... this is assuming she lives alone.
How about her personal life with a job that keeps her busy 5 days a week from morning till late evening

That girl was in hell

Please if you know somebody who is usually down and/or moody, reach out and check they are doing ok. Sometimes people need somebody to talk to, somebody to lean on. You may just be saving a life

Some of these stories are hard to believe. But let me give it a pinch of salt and respond, I have never liked bank marketing job. What expertly are they marketing ? For someone to open account and fund it? Atimes the pressure that comes with this kind of job is not necessary at all.
Albeit suicide is not the way to go at all.

Breadistaken:
I for asy make she rest in peace but ma hell fire get am so

You are wrong

TheBTCinvestor:
My God...I remember when I used to work In the Diamond bank now Access bank in 2013 as a full staff marketer....I was bashed because of low figures, disgraced during MPR, talked down on my colleagues, my salary was poor and I felt my future was bleak. It was a long struggle till I left for keystone bank and the harassment to meet deposit and risk asset continued...Imagine being told to raise 400m in 6month
I was always responding to queries stating why i havent met 60percent of my target..this affected me in many ways and I still have PTSD. Omo thank God....My Jehova came thru and gave me a good oil and gas offer that disgraced my enemies...They thought they had won by kicking me out..little did they know God had a better plan. Bank job is not for the weak!!!..I totally understand her frustration.

Bank marketing job is not for any sane human being.

searchng4love:

Bank marketing job is not for any sane human being.

People do it to avoid the ridicule of being Jobless. If they had better offers they won't do it. I know someone that drop a sales Job that pay 400k for a Govt Job that pays less that 100k. Said it's not the money, but peace of mind

Oh my God!

Kingray10:
Your government failed you.
The rate of suicide has increased *2 in this APC regimes.
RIP.

How silly!

superCleanworks:
Not every one has the mental and emotional strength and ability to see the life with a different point of view that would make them have hope and hold on to life.
Feel free to say she was WEAK, a COWARD and every other vile name you can call her that makes you feel better than her. Words are very easy, Life is not.

Be Kind.

And for those who are going through hell on earth, remember we are all going to die in the end and none of all this will matter anymore so Please do not be in a hurry to end it. There are people going through situations 7 times worse than yours.

God bless you 🌹❤️

jaxxy:
This is so sad. She had a job, family and friends so what's not working? Nobody has everything working perfectly but we keep going till we breakthrough.

And if u get overwhelmed by issues sometimes just talk about it or wait it out.

Everything is temporary it's just a matter of time. Time is ur ally.

Some Jobs take away your peace of mind. Consider that too

qtguru:
This is why I encourage people to be in relationship, she would have had someone to confide in, or share her problems with, or lighten her burden. This is just sad.

A lot of people are in relationships but still alone. Sometimes it's mental illness/depression.

But ideally a relationship is a good place to be. She appears to be married.

hopeforcharles:
Hmmm, very strange a lady with atleast job prospects and income is this depressed what about those without any prospects at all? Life is not balanced, May God have Mercy on her Soul.

If you look at her suicide note very well, you would see that her job was the main trigger factor responsible for her suicide. She should have quit that job instead

She expected so much from herself. She forgets that life doesn't give you what you want exactly the way and time you want it.

She gave up too soon. Rest in peace

The point is... We will still die one day, even if you are rich or poor.
So why would you kill yourself before the time appointed for you to die??
It's totally unreasonable to kill yourself.

Hold on to God and yourself.

CAPTIVATOR:


Some Jobs take away your peace of mind. Consider that too

I said the same thing. That job made her depressed.

CAPTIVATOR:


People do it to avoid the ridicule of being Jobless. If they had better offers they won't do it. I know someone that drop a sales Job that pay 400k for a Govt Job that pays less that 100k. Said it's not the money, but peace of mind

Another terrible job is the insurance sales person.... Give you 40k to start roaming Lagos.

OmoOshodi:
you sound like the real kill*r

Is this your own way of interpreting logical reasoning?

CAPTIVATOR:


Some Jobs take away your peace of mind. Consider that too

Then leave the job rather than ending urself.

franklingud:
The point is... We will still die one day, even if you are rich or poor.
So why would you kill yourself before the time appointed for you to die??
It's totally unreasonable to kill yourself.

Hold on to God and yourself.

The bank killed her by implication... I believe