Good morning nairaland,
Since thursday night, i’ve been hoping that i’ll find the time to make this post but my busy ass won’t let me.

I dated this girl within a period of 3-4 years. During this time, i take 100% responsibility of all her bills even as far as his family as i’ve assisted with part payment of the family house rent, took care of parents hospital bill when the dad was terribly sick, sometimes when they run into some domestic bills, i’m the one they call out for.

Despite all of these, this girl was cheating on me back to back with any single tom, dick and harry that comes her way. Your guess will be that our sex life is boring, truth is our sex life is perfect, i’ve read chats of she and her friend when she confesses of how i handle her in bed and please her very well just as i also read chat of her and other man.

To cut long story short, at every timeni caught her cheating, i secretly advise her and talk to her about how bad her actions her. God knows i can’t count how many times this girl has cheated. But i know i never disgraced her publicly unless she begins to create drama.

I made several post about her here on nairaland and also talked to my friends about her and i was advised to leave her.
June last year, i finally broke up with her and moved on with my life, immediately my life took a dramatic turn around. While i was dating her, although i had a good job and a good pay but i was always looking slim and unhealthy.

In less than a month after our brrak up, i swear even my mom waa shocked at my new looks. For the first time in my life i realised that a man could actually look cute and be so attracted to girls that girls will just want to have u for sex.

A lot of people gave comments about my new looks but the most shocking comment came from my ex who said she never believed i will look so good. Like she never imagined i could look handsome.

Now here is the gist- After our break up, she always come to my place for sex, she spent the christmas with me just because she does not want me to be with another girl. I just laugh in my mind.

She sometimes ask me for money but i don’t give her a dime, we just have sex and go our seperate ways until she’s sex starved again.

This week wednesday she came to my house, spent night, we had sex as usual, she asked for some money, i told her i don’t have. When it’s morning, i left to work she also left my house and went to her school.

Just at my arrival at work, i got a text from her saying some of her school documents are missing and she is certain that i took it. I said i did not, and truly i did not. The next message i got from her was that she is going to drink poison and kill herself cos i’m frustrating her. I told her what sort of stupid message is this, and she said yes that she will kill herself as she meant her words.

Immediately i called her elder sister and told her to caution the girl. Later that night she came around with excuses of forgeting something at my place. Then when she came i confronted her at her message and she kept saying she will commit suicide because i am frustrating her. The big question now is how am i frustrating her I have asked her several times and all she says is “you know what you’re doing“ “ i don’t mean anything to u anymore“

Just yesterday night she came around and was apologising about her messages as she said her sisters confronted her.

Dear nairalanders, what does this girl want ??

Face your books simp. Simp still staying under his mums roof

Nomerci:
Face your books simp. Simp still staying under his mums roof

Lol.. I built a house for my mom 5 years ago. What where u doing with ur life 5 years ago ??

Simp. Your imaginary house ba.poor ppl love to brag

omaira:


Lol.. I built a house for my mom 5 years ago. What where u doing with ur life 5 years ago ??

omaira:


Lol.. I built a house for my mom 5 years ago. What where u doing with ur life 5 years ago ??

Stop lying on social media
your mum might be selling akara this morning

iwriteall:

Stop lying on social media your mum might be selling akara this morning

and fry yam and plantain

Look away

Hmmmm...

I stopped reading soon as I saw 'I took 100% responsibility for the bills...'

It seems you're a simpleton.

Well you didn't broke up with her as you said maybe you're just the one who needs sex with her. Guy just let her go away you said she's a cheat what are you still doing with her?



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I wanted to call you a simp at first but when I read to the end, I changed my mind.

You're a stupid simp.

Don't you know what it means to "break up and move on with your life??"

jimmyvic:
I wanted to call you a simp at first but when I read to the end, I changed my mind.

You're a stupid simp.

Don't you know what it means to "break up and move on with your life??"

You are a badt guy

omaira:
Good morning nairaland,
?

If this story's true.
Then may her soul rest in peace.

You think say e easy to die? If she come face to face with death she go change her mind.

Me sef don fall this kind scam 2 times.

OP, it's 2024. If you like, go gree for anybody.

OP, you've made lots of mistakes ...

First of all, YOU NEVER TAKE BACK A CHEATING WOMAN ...

Once a woman cheats on you, let her go! ...

What kind of man even takes back a woman who has cheated on him repeatedly?? ...

I guess only a "real man" can ...

Secondly, why on earth would you accept to be 100% responsible for the bills of a girl that you're not married to? ...

In your mind, you think "You're a real man" but the reality of things is that you're creating room for laziness and entitlement ...

In summary OP, you're not a "si.mp" ...
Cause calling you that would be an insult to si.mps out there ...

Biko whats the meaning of break-up?

Fahvvy:
OP, you've made lots of mistakes ...

First of all, YOU NEVER TAKE BACK A CHEATING WOMAN ...

Once a woman cheats on you, let her go! ...

What kind of man even takes back a woman who has cheated on him repeatedly?? ...

I guess only a "real man" can ...

Secondly, why on earth would you accept to be 100% responsible for the bills of a girl that you're not married to? ...

In your mind, you think "You're a real man" but the reality of things is that you're creating room for laziness and entitlement ...

In summary OP, you're not a "si.mp" ...
Cause calling you that would be an insult to si.mps out there ...

Truth to be told, i made a great mistake being responsible for her bills. But here is my reason for doing that.

Once upon a time, i was so broke that i lived in the streets of lagos with no place of my own. During this time all i needed was a little support from anyone while i struggle to get my feet on the ground.

So when i met this girl, although she looks so pretty but her family background is nothing to write about. I did not look down on her but rather i decided to give her a helping hand with hopes that she will be able to resolve her family’s financial crisis. I just placed myself in her shoes and thinking of how a little help could make me cause a turn around in my family, i believed she will do same. But rather i realised she just wanted to open office in my head.

She no wan hustle make her own, she just want make i hustle dey bring for her.

if care is nt taken, that girl will kill you, then kill herself in your house...


See, that lady is mentally and psychologically devastated.....cos she feels she doesn't mean anything to you than just a cum bag and that alone drives her crazy....she could do anything to hurt you bro....make she no go kill herself for your neck or later get belle for you ooo....

Now this is it....stop sleeping with her....stay awy from her pussy...very important.....let her know you can't continue to have sex with her....she should steer clear of your residence....so she can find a man for herself.....since you are nt together anymore

the impending trouble you will get your self in is crazier than you think

na woman we dey talk abt here oo...

very dangerous when they are in this psychological state....

Goat said he no want yam again......but when Goat see yam, he begin eat yam......Is this goat a serious goat??

But Messi is still a GOAT

omaira:


Truth to be told, i made a great mistake being responsible for her bills. But here is my reason for doing that.

Once upon a time, i was so broke that i lived in the streets of lagos with no place of my own. During this time all i needed was a little support from anyone while i struggle to get my feet on the ground.

So when i met this girl, although she looks so pretty but her family background is nothing to write about. I did not look down on her but rather i decided to give her a helping hand with hopes that she will be able to resolve her family’s financial crisis. I just placed myself in her shoes and thinking of how a little help could make me cause a turn around in my family, i believed she will do same. But rather i realised she just wanted to open office in my head.

She no wan hustle make her own, she just want make i hustle dey bring for her.

When will people realize that men and women are not the same! ...

When a man is at his lowest point, more often than not, he will put his brain to work ...

But when a woman is at her lowest point, she will spread her legs like rumor in hopes of tying down one maga ...

For your sanity, kick her out of your life! ...
No amount of "free nacks" is worth risking your mental well-being for, cause that girl will drain the life outta you ...

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omaira:
Good morning nairaland,
Since thursday night, i’ve been hoping that i’ll find the time to make this post but my busy ass won’t let me.

I dated this girl within a period of 3-4 years. During this time, i take 100% responsibility of all her bills even as far as his family as i’ve assisted with part payment of the family house rent, took care of parents hospital bill when the dad was terribly sick, sometimes when they run into some domestic bills, i’m the one they call out for.

Despite all of these, this girl was cheating on me back to back with any single tom, dick and harry that comes her way. Your guess will be that our sex life is boring, truth is our sex life is perfect, i’ve read chats of she and her friend when she confesses of how i handle her in bed and please her very well just as i also read chat of her and other man.

To cut long story short, at every timeni caught her cheating, i secretly advise her and talk to her about how bad her actions her. God knows i can’t count how many times this girl has cheated. But i know i never disgraced her publicly unless she begins to create drama.

I made several post about her here on nairaland and also talked to my friends about her and i was advised to leave her.
June last year, i finally broke up with her and moved on with my life, immediately my life took a dramatic turn around. While i was dating her, although i had a good job and a good pay but i was always looking slim and unhealthy.

In less than a month after our brrak up, i swear even my mom waa shocked at my new looks. For the first time in my life i realised that a man could actually look cute and be so attracted to girls that girls will just want to have u for sex.

A lot of people gave comments about my new looks but the most shocking comment came from my ex who said she never believed i will look so good. Like she never imagined i could look handsome.

Now here is the gist- After our break up, she always come to my place for sex, she spent the christmas with me just because she does not want me to be with another girl. I just laugh in my mind.

She sometimes ask me for money but i don’t give her a dime, we just have sex and go our seperate ways until she’s sex starved again.

This week wednesday she came to my house, spent night, we had sex as usual, she asked for some money, i told her i don’t have. When it’s morning, i left to work she also left my house and went to her school.

Just at my arrival at work, i got a text from her saying some of her school documents are missing and she is certain that i took it. I said i did not, and truly i did not. The next message i got from her was that she is going to drink poison and kill herself cos i’m frustrating her. I told her what sort of stupid message is this, and she said yes that she will kill herself as she meant her words.

Immediately i called her elder sister and told her to caution the girl. Later that night she came around with excuses of forgeting something at my place. Then when she came i confronted her at her message and she kept saying she will commit suicide because i am frustrating her. The big question now is how am i frustrating her I have asked her several times and all she says is “you know what you’re doing“ “ i don’t mean anything to u anymore“

Just yesterday night she came around and was apologising about her messages as she said her sisters confronted her.

Dear nairalanders, what does this girl want ??

You're a dog that goes back to it vomit

Bobloco:


You are a badt guy

Qatar2022:

You're a dog that goes back to it vomit

This one pain me

omaira:


Lol.. I built a house for my mom 5 years ago. What where u doing with ur life 5 years ago ??

😂 😂

GOFRONT:
Goat said he no want yam again......but when Goat see yam, he begin eat yam......Is this goat a serious goat??

But Messi is still a GOAT

And I like your moniker GOATFRONT

You are a pathetic SIMP, you deserve to be hanged. You broke up yet u dey shag her daily

You are not serious o, how can you say you are through with something yet you still keep it as before. Ask yourself what the meaning of breakup is

See, if you want that your freshness and glowing that people care commenting about to last you better block means if having her around else the toxic will come back to you

Your behavior is the reason why the commenters above are referring to you as a small boy and you lamely confirmed their claims by boasting of building a house for your Mom five years ago? Is that the bone of contention here?

Point is,. You're very immature cos how can you claim to break up with someone and you still continued to have sex with her back to back and now turn to ask how are you frustrating her? Who does that? That's both of you headache by the way since you decided to turn yourselves to knackers.

Now you're trying to portray yourself as the good guy and she the bad one because she has multiple sex partners meanwhile you're no different because you're in her circle of men and going back after breaking up shows you have not broken away from the circle. So you're not any different from her.

Common sense should tell you that once you break up with someone, you have no business going near them let alone having anything to do with them but no, because common sense is no longer common especially when sex is involved.

Just pray your name does not appear as number one on her suicide note list

Lol, OP is just a confused joker fellow.

First of all, you caught her cheating on you severally, you got advice from your friends and Nairaland, you still hang on till June last year before ending the relationship. A girl you claimed to be taking care of all her responsibilities cheated on you, and you were advising her per your younger sister?

More so, you break up with someone who cheated on you, and you are still sleeping with her, are you that indisciplined or sex starved? Why should an ex who cheated on me be doing in my place before even sleeping with her?

Furthermore, you are allowing her to sleep over because of sex. What if she strangled you with pillow or poison you? Guys, some guys just lack sense.

She is blackmailing you or try to manipulate you into accepting her back. One girl did that with me, threatening suicide, that I will be held responsible if anything happens to her, I just told her to rest in peace in advance.

Some guys come here to act tough and in reality, they are just sex starved, Lilly liver, gullible and women impresser.

I swear you're real definition of otondo. All those things you type to console yourself, are all symptoms of chronic simp.

omaira:
Good morning nairaland,
Since thursday night, i’ve been hoping that i’ll find the time to make this post but my busy ass won’t let me.

I dated this girl within a period of 3-4 years. During this time, i take 100% responsibility of all her bills even as far as his family as i’ve assisted with part payment of the family house rent, took care of parents hospital bill when the dad was terribly sick, sometimes when they run into some domestic bills, i’m the one they call out for.

Despite all of these, this girl was cheating on me back to back with any single tom, dick and harry that comes her way. Your guess will be that our sex life is boring, truth is our sex life is perfect, i’ve read chats of she and her friend when she confesses of how i handle her in bed and please her very well just as i also read chat of her and other man.

To cut long story short, at every timeni caught her cheating, i secretly advise her and talk to her about how bad her actions her. God knows i can’t count how many times this girl has cheated. But i know i never disgraced her publicly unless she begins to create drama.

I made several post about her here on nairaland and also talked to my friends about her and i was advised to leave her.
June last year, i finally broke up with her and moved on with my life, immediately my life took a dramatic turn around. While i was dating her, although i had a good job and a good pay but i was always looking slim and unhealthy.

In less than a month after our brrak up, i swear even my mom waa shocked at my new looks. For the first time in my life i realised that a man could actually look cute and be so attracted to girls that girls will just want to have u for sex.

A lot of people gave comments about my new looks but the most shocking comment came from my ex who said she never believed i will look so good. Like she never imagined i could look handsome.

Now here is the gist- After our break up, she always come to my place for sex, she spent the christmas with me just because she does not want me to be with another girl. I just laugh in my mind.

She sometimes ask me for money but i don’t give her a dime, we just have sex and go our seperate ways until she’s sex starved again.

This week wednesday she came to my house, spent night, we had sex as usual, she asked for some money, i told her i don’t have. When it’s morning, i left to work she also left my house and went to her school.

Just at my arrival at work, i got a text from her saying some of her school documents are missing and she is certain that i took it. I said i did not, and truly i did not. The next message i got from her was that she is going to drink poison and kill herself cos i’m frustrating her. I told her what sort of stupid message is this, and she said yes that she will kill herself as she meant her words.

Immediately i called her elder sister and told her to caution the girl. Later that night she came around with excuses of forgeting something at my place. Then when she came i confronted her at her message and she kept saying she will commit suicide because i am frustrating her. The big question now is how am i frustrating her I have asked her several times and all she says is “you know what you’re doing“ “ i don’t mean anything to u anymore“

Just yesterday night she came around and was apologising about her messages as she said her sisters confronted her.

Dear nairalanders, what does this girl want ??

Thank God you escaped her shackles . Girls from trenches are problems. Greater heights man, cheers to greatness

Starz825:
if care is nt taken, that girl will kill you, then kill herself in your house...


See, that lady is mentally and psychologically devastated.....cos she feels she doesn't mean anything to you than just a cum bag and that alone drives her crazy....she could do anything to hurt you bro....make she no go kill herself for your neck or later get belle for you ooo....

Now this is it....stop sleeping with her....stay awy from her pussy...very important.....let her know you can't continue to have sex with her....she should steer clear of your residence....so she can find a man for herself.....since you are nt together anymore

the impending trouble you will get your self in is crazier than you think

na woman we dey talk abt here oo...

very dangerous when they are in this psychological state....

You are a wise man