TreasureJunky:
I'm available for you,, I will give you peace of mind, help you grow your career or whatever you're doing. All women are not the same, there are good ones and I'm one of them. Thank you.

Thanks madam but
Its not that easy sis,

How will you help me heal,

do you know how to help a person who has been traumatized by a past relationship where i invested millions and got nothing but pain?

Maybe you can send dm for proper introduction

She too dey nag.

duduade:
To the poster who above me please Sha try and marry

You will need a companion as you age

True talk

woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

"Dwarf minded men". Lol.
You realised this and believed it like your life depended it BUT NOT AFTER your heart was broken and shattered. Those who are advising you to get married again don't really know or understand that your heart is so damaged that it can't be fixed again, not in this life. This is the kind of pain that never goes no matter what.

woginid967:

Thanks madam but
Its not that easy sis,

How will you help me heal,

do you know how to help a person who has been traumatized by a past relationship where i invested millions and got nothing but pain?

I knew it . You're just trying to mask your pain by forming Hulk Hogan, calling men in marriages "dwarf minded men". You better face your trauma and look for a way to heal and get past it instead of masking it.

Maybe you can send dm for proper introduction

Finally, he wants to be a "dwarf minded man" again . Go for it, who knows?

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Modified to add; Why are these logical gender people quoting me with their nonsense and stupidity na? You people think you have the monopoly of divorce in Nigerian marriages, abi?

I thought you also said marriage is a scam that doesn't benefit men. Why do you get so triggered when women are bold and courageous enough, to end horrible marriages with your gender? Shouldn't you be celebrating that one of your own has been liberated from the scam?

Wailing wailers, una never see something. If you like don't change your shitty behaviours and lifestyles in marriage, your own divorce may just be waiting for you down the road or when you reach UK, US, or Canada.

. If you see any man beat his wife, try to find out the reason, most of time the woman is cheating on the man and the man is acting out of anger. I'm not encourage violence but if you know you can't do without cheating, don't married

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Modified to add; Why are these logical gender people quoting me with their nonsense and stupidity na? You people think you have the monopoly of divorce in Nigerian marriages, abi?

I thought you also said marriage is a scam that doesn't benefit men. Why do you get so triggered when women are bold and courageous enough, to end horrible marriages with your gender? Shouldn't you be celebrating that one of your own has been liberated from the scam?

Wailing wailers, una never see something. If you like don't change your shitty behaviours and lifestyles in marriage, your own divorce may just be waiting for you down the road or when you reach UK, US, or Canada.

Can't you use liberal words? You are speaking to men in this forum, we are your superiors here in Africa.

woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

. This is most common reason for divorce and women will never tell you that she cheated on her husband.

allanphash7:
The best option I had then is to walk away just because I chose not to go behind the bars for the rest of my life





It was a dirty relationship



Infact very very dirty



If you know , you know

please elaborate please

abeg allow the guy. Na the same you will need companion as you age them take dey lure young men into marriage wey them no understand. please do what works for you my brother.

duduade:
To the poster who above me please Sha try and marry

You will need a companion as you age

Divorce was @ d extreme for me. Got adolescent kids already. So I have to think about them first. Found out that she was having an affair. Not only that, but the timing really broke me. I was building up a biz, things were connecting up for the family and boom disaster struck. In all these I was still up to date in taking care of family expenses, tho not like before. But she never cared and was busy frolicking with some dude until I found out and some other things even revealed itself that I wasn't even safe. Didn't tell anyone. But I didn't divorce for the sake of the kids. But she is just as useless as a P in psychology. She cannot run cos she is disadvantaged. All d evidences are in soft and hard copies. I have balanced up again and living my life to d fullest. I don't want to go low like her to keep other women. When I need Bleep, she serves on a plate with protection tho. She got only one option, which is suicide. My Next of kin is not even her. Everything has changed. I don't even eat from her pot.

Scentedgrance:
Continue deceiving yourself cheers!

Mumu he is not deceiving himself.

woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

I share with your pain. On a totally different topic, please I'm currently out of work. I'll be grateful for anything you think is appropriate within your network. Thank you

Kobojunkie:
Does knowing origin make your children better than those other children? See African man delusion! Look around the see the end of the seeds wey una don sow so far in the name of being viable. Are they any better than the children with unknown stocks?

Individual is free to go for what he or she prefer, simple

Jangbajantis:
Date for a long time and get more than just acquainted with your partner before jumping into marriage. At times, marriage can be a cage with no exit.

There is always an exit, we are just afraid to head for the exit, lack of courage

woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

if you do really read the holy book, you will discover that sleeping with escorts is wrong and your giving your strength again to strange women and sowing your seeds in the wild.

woginid967:


Danjuma shaibu
Dangote
Selman
Pastor chris


The list is endless.

Proof is, MAN who has lots of money will never need woman.

these people you mentioned are not really richer than many married men. Alakija, otedola, obi cubana, emoney, uebert angel are all happily married

dkidd:

I know ur a worm. If u want cure urself go out and get cure. No dey wait for person to push to u. Grow some balls/ confidence in ur stupid self

This one don go sniff one of im relation putrid smelling vagina come the reply me.

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Modified to add; Why are these logical gender people quoting me with their nonsense and stupidity na? You people think you have the monopoly of divorce in Nigerian marriages, abi?

I thought you also said marriage is a scam that doesn't benefit men. Why do you get so triggered when women are bold and courageous enough, to end horrible marriages with your gender? Shouldn't you be celebrating that one of your own has been liberated from the scam?

Wailing wailers, una never see something. If you like don't fix your shitty attitudes and lifestyles in marriage, your own divorce may just be waiting for you down the road or when you reach the obodo (UK, US, or Canada)

look at who is talking. Was it not my estranged wife that gave me a deadly infection and itchy genitals that has healed since she left by Providence?? You women are disease banks.

worldclass68:


Thank u ...your so on point, they don't realize they re the price! All the girls I dated asked me out themselves cuz I no dey underrate myself for anybody... women dont offer anything rather than to come take over one's life, freedom, wealth and everything in the name of marriage... even the children still belong to them las las...

You are so on ponit....

leisuretym:
Not yet but will soon, she started listening to Joyce of Nigeria info, stopped cooking, joined the feminist radio gang, always waiting for me to come back home to practise everything Joyce taught them that day, well she will soon move in with Joyce

seems that feminist Joyce is a very evil influence.

I need to know the details of your problem, before giving my opinion

woginid967:

Thanks madam but
Its not that easy sis,

How will you help me heal,

do you know how to help a person who has been traumatized by a past relationship where i invested millions and got nothing but pain?

Maybe you can send dm for proper introduction

EvangelistChuks:
In our Kingdom which Jesus Christ is the King ,there is nothing like divorce,yes separation for a season cos of threat to life but not divorce-[For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away-Mal.2:16].Also Mathew 19:3-9.God bless you.

left house the first time and stayed away for 21days, her prayer partner gave her a revelation to return to her husband, she did and we reconciled. Left again after two weeks and packed everything in the house before I came back from work and is staying away for 7 months now. Test revealed she has no womb currently and we were trusting God for a miracle but she started misbehaving. The marriage is over sir, going for another woman shortly, and wait, I'm a Christian brother, shalom...

TheMostComplex1:


But Infidelity is almost the most common ingredient in today's marriage.

You may be right but not proven.
There are so many divorced homes today that will tell you their problem is not infidelity. Harsh economy can make you angry over nothing towards your household especially if your wife is the comparative and nagging type. She will tell you what your mates are doing as if you aren't working hard and before you know it she starts tilting towards them directly or indirectly, disrespect comes in, worst case scenario infidelity and viola, the home is broken!!

Thegoodone13:
. If you see any man beat his wife, try to find out the reason, most of time the woman is cheating on the man and the man is acting out of anger. I'm not encourage violence but if you know you can't do without cheating, don't married

What type of lie is this?
It's like you are just looking for a way to blame wives for husbands bad behaviour.
Men with cheating wives don't keep them back and beat them. They send the women away, men are not like women that forgive all sorts of atrocities by their spouse. Men dump cheating wives and move on because society doesn't stigmatize divorced men.

MrSly:


All you said was exiting except the emboldened. Why tea in a child of an unknown origin when your seed is viable? At worst cinerio you opt for sorogacy. More than 90% of married men did it for children.

Tell me more about this surrogacy. How is like and who will be in possession of the child and so on?

princemillla:


ladies cheating can be so funny in their dumb smartness.

Had rough experience where my gf then was busy having affairs with my tenant.

Each time I go out to cover events (2-3 )days. This bachelor would sneak to my apartment to knack her
I got to check voice note on her phone only to discover my tenant calling my gf baby. "Baby I want to be with you" how she pack the gut to even record that still surprise me. We had argument about this....BOOM.. she packed her load, move into my tenant room that nite. That's the most shocking thing a lady has done to me. Mo foooooor straight. Since then omoooooo.
I had to call my tenant n warn him that nite. Sha to cut the long story short, she is now a community purry.

Unmarried till now.

Marriage is not for everyone indeed, owo ni koko

At the bolded...Emi gan foor!!

Adesolomon2014:



At the bolded...Emi gan foor!!

lendahand:
look at who is talking. Was it not my estranged wife that gave me a deadly infection and itchy genitals that has healed since she left by Providence?? You women are disease banks.

Were you denying your wife sex at home? 🤡

Mcslize:


Tell me more about this surrogacy. How is like and who will be in possession of the child and so on?

Surrogacy involves a person agreeing to carry and give birth to a baby for someone else. After the baby is born, the birth parent( the lady contracted to carry and give birth to the child) gives custody and guardianship to the intended or commissioning parent or parents( the person who desires the child) . The lady can fertilise her egg through insemination or both can decide to go the natural way of s£x. This is the good news that differentiates sorrogacy from adoption, in sorrogacy you have the opportunity of having a baby that is truly from your seed and not another man's seed.

After a successful surrogacy the child belongs to the intended parent. It has process and procedure so seek the professional advice of an expert in the field before venturing into it.

1. She was violent and rude.
2. Her mum was always giving her wrong advice
3. She couldn't conceive
4. She lied against me ( last straw that broke the camel's back).
5. She dared me to evict her from my house, which I eventually did.

Anyway, I got married 2 months after the divorce, and I have 4 boys now.