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‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Odewaleadesoye(m): 8:24pm On Jan 21
Nollywood actress, Jaiye Kuti has claimed that 85 percent of married women want to leave their marriages.

Speaking in an interview with Gistzlife, the thespian disclosed that she attempted to exit her marriage thrice but ended up finding herself stuck in it.


She revealed that after marriage, couples tend to know each other better compared to their dating stage.

Kuti added that men’s egocentric urge to cheat is also another factor that makes women contemplate divorce.

“If you ask a hundred women, 85% want to exit their marriage. I even tried to leave thrice. The problem is that when you marry someone from a different culture, people start to reveal their actual selves.

A man would treat and pamper a woman when he wanted to get married, but when a second marriage and kids are involved, things go too far. Men can also have egotistical tendencies and are unstoppable when it comes to cheating.”

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by SHIVA001: 8:28pm On Jan 21
She is not talking about unfaithful married women that can knack both single and married men join. Promiscuous married women. Everywhere. Just talk from your own point its so many things that can lead to breakup In marriage. It can be financial struggle. Etc. Not only cheating.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Jennyclay(f): 8:34pm On Jan 21
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even beat and rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad. Bunch of sickos!! sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Zxcvbnmghtr: 8:36pm On Jan 21
cry Because most suffer from WEAK ERECTION .

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by okomile(f): 8:41pm On Jan 21
What can I say?

We shall have d strength to keep moving on to stay in an unhappy marriage.

Wish I left years ago but stuck

I take everyday as my happy day

grin

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by OKOATA(m): 8:51pm On Jan 21
Zxcvbnmghtr:
cry Because most suffer from WEAK ERECTION .
If most men suffer from weak erection that means the men women cheat with have weak erections too? Your man has E.D and you as a woman won't ever find a solution to your mans problem, but the next thing is to jump on another available E.D dick. Woman always finding excuses to cheat. Farmtoolz.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Cursive: 8:59pm On Jan 21
85% of the women she knows which is not surprising considering her profession.

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Lifeinlight:
She's absolutely right. Women are willing to leave their marriage if they can get financial backup. I mean most average Nigerian women though
did you like conduct a research to arrive at this conclusion? What's the sampling method you adopted? What's your sample size, how many states did you sample?

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by nstore: 9:01pm On Jan 21

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Jeon(f): 9:18pm On Jan 21
So you expect a woman to die in a Marriage filled with problems?.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Omihanifa: 9:24pm On Jan 21
Make them leave nah, others will come in

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by matify83: 9:37pm On Jan 21
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!


My dear

All you needed was just 2 men to conclude on us?

Thats not an objective assessment of who we truly are. You are indirectly telling me you can assess a tribe by interacting with just 2 people from that tribe.

Hate is a strong word my sister.

Wish you well

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by lordnkem000(m): 9:37pm On Jan 21
Depends on how they got married, who they married and reasons they got married.most women marry for selfish reasons and not because they love the person and buy into his vision. Marriages like that can't and won't stand the test of time. I know two of my childhood female friends who are married for almost 10years now and you see them love and cherish their husbands everyday till today. I was with one today and she was telling me she wouldn't swap her husband for anything or anyone in the world and I was so jealous. Her husband isn't rich, just normal worker like her and they have two kids. Is it that they don't argue atimes or etc? No. But they understand marriage is commitment and not party and everyone needs to be on same page. I've never seen any of these my friends post about their family life on social media. But today's women bring their issues on socials, how do you expect such marriage or relationship to last?

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by FRANCISTOWN: 9:53pm On Jan 21
Jennyclay:

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!
It gladens my soul that you lost both relationships because obviously, you were two timing.

You got out of 2 long term relationships in 2020. Which means you must have been in 2 long term relationships until 2020. Long term relationships count years and not months.

That is. If you got out of one long term relationship in 2020. It is impossible to get out of another long term relationship in the same 2020, as anything long-term relationship is at least 2years. The next one should be 2022 at least.

I hope guys can see that No Nigerian girl ever has one boyfriend at any given time.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Salubata(m): 10:04pm On Jan 21
Because people die by road accident, we shouldn't ply/use road again?

Calm your nerves and stop venturing your anger on men because of that.
This has nothing to do with gender, both are guilty.

Always prepare for the worse/unexpected, so that when it happens you won't be as pained as this. That's what life preaches.

Even your next try can disappoint you, know this and be at peace
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Gentlesoul2021(m): 10:29pm On Jan 21
FRANCISTOWN:

It gladens my soul that you lost both relationships because obviously, you were two timing.

You got out of 2 long term relationships in 2020. Which means you must have been in 2 long term relationships until 2020. Long term relationships count years and not months.

That is. If you got out of one long term relationship in 2020. It is impossible to get out of another long term relationship in the same 2020, as anything long-term relationship is at least 2years. The next one should be 2022 at least.

I hope guys can see that No Nigerian girl ever has one boyfriend at any given time.

The weyrey dey weigh her option,,,, good enough those guys left her smelly ass...

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Sonnobax15(m): 10:33pm On Jan 21
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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Yugoslavia247(m): 10:36pm On Jan 21
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

L ol.

You can never find love.

You just a sampling tool.

Keep chasing rich guys

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Stargangz: 10:50pm On Jan 21
See this 2 oloshos Jeon and Jennyclay grin , Jennyclay even vows to remain single for life, na woman with bad character dey talk dat kind thrash for mouth, by the time ur younger siblings grown up kids start calling u aunty and start asking u when are u getting married na then u go know wetin befall on u. Dem no dey tell person

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Nicepoker(m): 11:27pm On Jan 21
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!
I am sure you are aware of what happens to old layers in the poultry farm. You daily subscription.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Okoroawusa: 11:47pm On Jan 21
Of course everyone wants to leave their marriage. Na the liver no dey because it's a lonely world out there

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Little21: 11:53pm On Jan 21
You are not supposed to stay where you feel bitter instead of better. It's only right too leave.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by muller101(m): 12:21am On Jan 22
Just throwing statistics around.
Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Omoboricash(m): 1:28am On Jan 22
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!
I can understand ur plight, guys have done you shege. If you meet a caring and understanding man...... Your life would never remain the same again

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Erums(m): 3:52am On Jan 22
Victims thread

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by mu2sa2: 4:59am On Jan 22
Of course she couldn't have met ALL women. So, the 85% she's talking about are the women around her. A veritable confirmation of birds of a feather flock together.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by ExudeLoveToAll: 5:00am On Jan 22
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!



get well soon.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by eazzzy1(m): 5:01am On Jan 22
Just like men, women want to be single too. The compulsion to marry only arises from the need to have children before they can’t anymore plus the need to show people that they can get someone to marry them. Once those needs are met then it’s good riddance.

If men were the ones with biological clocks, women will charge men for marriage. We will have marriage workers like we have sex workers today. 2 million per year. Money for hand, ring for finger.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by ExudeLoveToAll: 5:12am On Jan 22
okomile:
What can I say?

We shall have d strength to keep moving on to stay in an unhappy marriage.

Wish I left years ago but stuck

I take everyday as my happy day

grin


If you want to leave leave and allow everyone to rest.

You ladies think most times guys don't think of leaving marriage or relationship, it's just that guys are more prone make decisions not because of how they feel (feelings has nothing to add in decision making) but what ought to be.

You think because most divorces are initiated by women means men caused more problems in marriage? No, it means men are more prone to stay in marriage irrespective of the issues caused by partners in marriage, they are prone to fight for the marriage than women do

One thing I loathe is someone threatening divorce or ending relationship and using it as a weapon to perpetuate their nefarious intent. I will help you bring that zeal to fruition that same minute.

Where most women have problems with marriage is they have Hollywood fantasies before venturing into marriage without knowing that marriage is not a place where you enjoy but a place of work where you raise and nurture the next generation of leaders in the country. When this Hollywood fantasies becomes different with real life situation that issues of contempt for their marriage becomes glaring for most women leading to high rate of divorce from women.

You better work for your marriage but if you want contempt for it take a walk and start your life elsewhere.

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Amumaigwe: 5:37am On Jan 22
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

Ok. Try loving women, that is, if you have not yet started

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by YorubaLord: 6:29am On Jan 22
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

You wonder why me keep dumping ur ass. Not far fetched! Ur legs are very thin and ugly... angry

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by YorubaLord: 6:30am On Jan 22
Jaiye Kuti, my crush! cheesy

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Re: ‘85% Women Want To Leave Their Marriages, I Tried Thrice’ – Actress, Jaiye Kuti by Yankiss(m): 6:49am On Jan 22
Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages. undecided
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm! undecided

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. sad

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!
Take it easy. Sorry, you have been with the wrong people twice back-to-back. It's understandable that you feel resentful towards men. But not all men are the same. There are still men who are real men. They treat women with courtesy and decorum. The awful truth, however, is that some of these men get dumped and mistreated in return. Trust God, the right man for you will show up with time!!!

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