BloomingDale:


Research shows that married women with children are the unhappiest. Even the women married to rich men don’t want children cramping their lifestyles. They most times leave the children with their nannies to take care of.

The simple fact is that women are no longer interested in having children. Birth rates are declining. And that wave will soon get to Africa.

Another storm that is brewing up is women no longer wanting to be with men, hence there is a rise of single, lonely men. Women worldwide are getting tired of men.

Men benefit a lot more from relationships and marriages hence why they are fighting feminism tooth and nail(as if their lives depend on it). They see feminists as the enemy that is removing the feeding bottle from their greedy mouth.

there are low birth rates because of high cost of living

This is what my own research says

Odewaleadesoye:
Nollywood actress, Jaiye Kuti has claimed that 85 percent of married women want to leave their marriages.

Speaking in an interview with Gistzlife, the thespian disclosed that she attempted to exit her marriage thrice but ended up finding herself stuck in it.

She revealed that after marriage, couples tend to know each other better compared to their dating stage.

Kuti added that men’s egocentric urge to cheat is also another factor that makes women contemplate divorce.



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coming from someone that went from been a concubine to wife…I sabinur husband wells..na him hotel I Dey sleep for Aroloya..you Sabina’s before u marry am

Odewaleadesoye:
Nollywood actress, Jaiye Kuti has claimed that 85 percent of married women want to leave their marriages.

Speaking in an interview with Gistzlife, the thespian disclosed that she attempted to exit her marriage thrice but ended up finding herself stuck in it.

She revealed that after marriage, couples tend to know each other better compared to their dating stage.

Kuti added that men’s egocentric urge to cheat is also another factor that makes women contemplate divorce.



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Na lie, big lie

motymop:


there are low birth rates because of high cost of living

This is what my own research says

Hopefully the low birth rates get to Africa cos of high cost of living. African women have started the discussions on Twitter on how most of them are miserable in their marriages. Research has also shown that the factor that contributes most to the death of pregnant women are their husbands. Hopefully the young gullible ones are reading and learning.

This is a wave that cannot be stopped and there must be emancipation of the African female mind.

Lifeinlight:
which lot of women are happy in their marriage? Where did you get your data from? Most average Nigerian women stay put in marriage majorly because of finance. Promise them a financial backup and watch how many will dump their husband without thinking twice. Only few sensible ones amongst them leave an abusive marriage no matter how poor they are

Have you gone all over Nigeria to confirm your bias or you are just cooking up data

Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages.
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm!

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even beat and rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. . Bunch of sickos!!

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

May it be to you as you've stated



We rise by lifting others

Lifeinlight:
she's right. Most women are not happy in their marriage

When did you conduct your survey?

BloomingDale:


Men are the ones that are scared of growing old lonely, hence they project their fear on women. Check all the researches that has pbeen done.

both gender needs eachother that's the fact but na you go gas pick your own poison.

whatsoever you pick pls don't complain later... note know body I repeat know body can change anybody because the person your trying to change is grown and programed in a certain way.

babzlim:


both gender needs eachother that's the fact but na you go gas pick your own poison.

whatsoever you pick pls don't complain later... note know body I repeat know body can change anybody because the person your trying to change is grown and programed in a certain way.

No, we really don’t need each other.

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BloomingDale:


Oga, research has shown this is a lie. Women are no longer believing those lies no matter your desperation to pass that across as true. Research has shown that married women with children are the unhappiest and die quicker, while single women without children are the happiest and live the longest.

Define “happy”. Common sense ought tell you such research is not possible. Who is happier - a soldier who goes to war and faces difficulties and danger or one who stays in camp eating delicious food and watching tv? Ask yourself as a woman which will make you happier - preparing your kid for school or having casual sex and watching tv

FreeIgboho:


Define “happy”. Common sense ought tell you such research is not possible. Who is happier - a soldier who goes to war and faces difficulties and danger or one who stays in camp eating delicious food and watching tv? Ask yourself as a woman which will make you happier - preparing your kid for school or having casual sex and watching tv

Oga, my happy is not your happy, though I’m at my happiest when I’m alone with nobody around to disturb my peace. I have this beautiful beautiful inner sense of peace and it’s like I’m one with nature and the universe.

Do you know the number one death of pregnant women is homicide carried out by their spouses?

[quote :Dauthor=BloomingDale post=128064739]Oga, my happy is not your happy, though I’m at my happiest when I’m alone with nobody around to disturb my peace. I have this beautiful beautiful inner sense of peace and it’s like I’m one with nature and the universe.

Do you know the number one death of pregnant women are their spouses? [/quote]

Exactly. Everyone is different. I am like you, I’m quite happy by myself while some can’t spend an hour alone.
But common sense ought tell you a lion is more fulfilled hunting for his food (though it is much more difficult) than being brought the best meat any time he wishes

FreeIgboho:


Exactly. Everyone is different. I am like you, I’m quite happy by myself while some can’t spend an hour alone.
But common sense ought tell you a lion is more fulfilled hunting for his food (though it is much more difficult) than being brought the best meat any time he wishes

Yeah, that is why a research was conducted and the results printed.

BloomingDale:


Hopefully the low birth rates get to Africa cos of high cost of living. African women have started the discussions on Twitter on how most of them are miserable in their marriages. Hopefully the young gullible ones are reading and learning.

The more a country is developed, the lower the birth rate because of high cost of living and also education

BloomingDale:


Yeah, that is why a research was conducted and the results printed.

There are things you can’t research. How do you define and measure happiness?? There are thing’s you just KNOW. One of them is that it is more fulfilling for a woman to have a child than not have one, no matter what “research” says

FreeIgboho:


There are things you can’t research. How do you define and measure happiness?? There are thing’s you just KNOW. One of them is that it is more fulfilling for a woman to have a child than not have one, no matter what “research” says

You can’t ask someone how happy they are by a series of questions? You as a man knows what makes women more fulfilled than a woman? Ok, I’m confused here.

Coronavirus1:

I don't say sleeping around free chance free of monitoring spirit like looking unto man phone when he is sleeping checking his bank Alerts

okay. Some men do check their wives phone too. I think it's not good

motymop:


The more a country is developed, the lower the birth rate because of high cost of living and also education

Yeah, educated women have a higher level of thinking capacity and don’t fall for all the bias that has been propagated throughout time. That is why it is no longer business as usual and they are no longer dealing with low vibrational beings.

BloomingDale:


You can’t ask someone how happy they are by a series of questions? You as a man knows what makes women more fulfilled than a woman? Ok, I’m confused here.

People LIE! And like I told you, there are things you just KNOW instinctively. Someone hanging around “having fun” may say they are happy, but someone spending himself working hard at something important to him won’t have to tell you anything for you to know they have superior “happiness”

FreeIgboho:


People LIE! And like I told you, there are things you just KNOW instinctively. Someone hanging around “having fun” may say they are happy, but someone spending himself working hard at something important to him won’t have to tell you anything for you to know they have superior “happiness”

lol. Ndi, Mr know it all.

Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages.
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm!

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even beat and rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. . Bunch of sickos!!

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

Examine yourself to find out why you keep attracting sickos

kay29000:


Men do too... I have two friends that constantly keep telling me they want to leave their marriage. But they have been telling me this for years now, but they haven't left. I just laugh whenever they tell me, cos I know the next minute they are having nice time with their family. The truth is human beings naturally want to be free, and marriage is like living in bondage to some people.

Well said

Lifeinlight:
can 5 percent of those men capable of taking care of their first wife and children?

Today's woman is more interested in the M.R.S title.

Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages.
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm!

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even beat and rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. . Bunch of sickos!!

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

I can feel Ur pain😥😥😥😢😢😢😢

So sorry

But not all men are evil 😂😂
It's also vice versa

Men also suffers worse than urs.

U go still find love.
And believe me, love btw m/f is the best 😊😊😊❤️🥰.
💋💋💋💋💋

Jennyclay:
As matter of fact 95% of women want to leave their marriages.
Things are really happening in marriage/relationships that i just don’t want to say it out. What Nigerian men are using our eyes to see. eh! hmmmm!

All what men want is sex!! After sex, they treat you like trash! Some men would even beat and rape their wife and tell her to her face that there’s nothing like rape in marriage. . Bunch of sickos!!

The honest truth is, there’s nothing a man can bring to my life that I can’t get myself. I enjoy my own company and I don’t feel the need or want to get married. I don’t think it will add anything to my life at all.

I got out of two long term back-to-back abusive relationships in 2020 and have pretty much sworn off men. I don’t need a man to make me happy and I will continue to hate men!

Mumu girl

You can get things for yourself indeed

This one that worships anything that looks like it has money

kay29000:


Men do too... I have two friends that constantly keep telling me they want to leave their marriage. But they have been telling me this for years now, but they haven't left. I just laugh whenever they tell me, cos I know the next minute they are having nice time with their family. The truth is human beings naturally want to be free, and marriage is like living in bondage to some people.

DrAda:


Well said

Yeah, when they see all the benefits they get(free cook, free maid, free nanny, free everything), it will be hard for them to leave even though they no longer like their wives. They will ride it out as long as they can while tormenting their wives.

Really, I don’t think so

Beverlyjean:


I don't blame the men that dumped u...u are toxic and its turned u to a psychopath.... men are not stupid ... they see nonsense from far... but they mostly give ahead to score their 3 points .... they had seen thru u and seen u are not worthy ... those same guys will definitely have their women saying beautiful things about them , saying they are the best ever ... instead of u to go work on ur dirty terrible attitude, u are throwing blame to someone else... typical feminist, they never accept blame

I see u ending up in prison las las with the type of evil bitterness u carry around....women also break the hearts of men even more , but they take it as part of life and improve themselves to get better women ....sister, nobody send u and ur bitterness ... I am enjoying my marriage to the fullest, I have the sweetest man on earth... those that pass jamb easily, did well in preparing for it and they love jamb... only failures that can't pass due to unpreparedness hate jamb ....

Your marriage will continue to wax strong day by day. I know it’s not easy at times, but in old age you will smile.

BloomingDale:




Yeah, when they see all the benefits they get(free cook, free maid, free nanny, free everything), it will be hard for them to leave even though they no longer like their wives. They will ride it out as long as they can while tormenting their wives.

Another angle

okomile:
What can I say?

We shall have d strength to keep moving on to stay in an unhappy marriage.

Wish I left years ago but stuck

I take everyday as my happy day

e wa gba oko nla

You obviously must be doing something wrong if your 2 heterosexual relationships hit rock bottom. Their no fairy tale relationship anywhere whatever standard you want you must give.