What are we friends for.....?
End time friends.
Na sample, he show you so,
If chance dey he go show you more

I once gave out my car to a friend to use and go to a different state,it was during fuel scarcity and I had a full tank
This woman pampers cars eeh,wakes up 4am every morning to wash car and goes to mechanic at any slightest sign of anything so I wasn't worried at all leaving my car with her.

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

Before I'll lend anyone my car, that person will have to be God or the angel in charge of book of life.
Bro, you willingly gave him, there's no case here. Na next time no go happen.

Sorry Op friends na manage them they manage them.. No worry u self fit need something and you go tell am to borrow you.... Meanwhile i hate friends wey no dey pay money wey them borrow from me.. I go leave the money for you but the friendship is gone

A friend requested for my car. I gave him and he went to a terrible road. Damaged the car shaft and came back to tell me my car is safe on a lonely road. I got a friend with his car to assist in towing the car to mechanic workshop. We were shocked to found the car in a terrible road. Some years after, I needed to visit my in laws and got no car with me but my wife insisted I should borrow a car from any of my pals. I reluctantly did. A bus rammed unto me and one M class why waiting for traffic light. Bus driver jumped out through a broken windscreen and ran away. I called my friend. He said I should manage it if it can still go since it only damaged driver side. Lesson learnt accident and people's attitudes are inevitable.

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

The only thing that i consider slightly equivalent to lending someone your only car is 'lending him your well-behaved wife". If the wife is troublesome, a good car is obviously much more valuable. It seems to me that the guy in question deserves that level of sacrifice from you maybe because of sacrifices he has made for to in the time past. Just swallow and move on.

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW WHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side?

I have a friend that I love to be around, a few min with him always feels like heaven. But anytime he's around, I must prepared to take care of every mess because he's a nonchalant person and something must be fixed when he leaves.

We all have someone like that.... Sorry bro.

Mine was a glass shoe. After she borrowed the shoe, I could not recognize it again. Infact I regret giving her in the first place.

I can only give out my car to any of my brothers. Not to any friend. There was a time my younger brothers car engine knocked and his job demands he comes to work in a car or uses uber. He was spending a lot on uber. I gave him my car for three weeks. Within tat three weeks, he sold the old car, bought another one, fixed all the minor issues I planned fixing in my car.

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

some years back I borrowed a so-called friend who told me he just needed it to dash to a function within and was going to return it before evening, but till evening I didn't see him. i called his line a couple of times, but he didn't pick till the next day. in the morning at 11am he drove in with his wife begging that they went outside Lagos and could not make it back. I collected my car and said no problem , i guess they blew air into the car tank to return back to lag, because the tank was clean and empty (thank God the car was in tact anyway), given its a strong Japanese baby the reason God helped me the fuel pump did not go. Some friends, eh, be careful giving them such items.

You've already made up your mind by not giving anyone your car again. Ño one can take good care of your care except you yourself.


I only have one friend I can entrust my car into his hand, and it's because we use the same type of car. The rest, I will dedicate my time to drive them to wherever they want to go freely.


To maintain car these days nor be Moin Moin Ajeh

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

Your friend is not a good person. Shey you have learn your lesson sha?

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

U learnt from someone,,,,U was told!!!! from the very beginning,it wasn't your mind to lend Him your car... Reason U asked people to monitor Him for You.... Busy body giver!!!? Oga next time don't give!!! instead of giving and U won't let them enjoy it...U still run to Nairaland to announce it....A woman is far better than U

Consider yourself lucky.... take this as a lesson. What if he really damaged your car? If he can't buy fuel do you think he will even help pay for the repair? Anything you lend him .... expect to pay for any damage or to replacement. Lend to thise who you know are responsible... who takes good care of their own stuff .... and of others.

Spark2:

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

it is very hard for me because of ridiculous and unbelievable lessons from the past.

e dey hard me to borrow my friend something if na something wey I no fit dash am. If it is precious to me, sorry.

I rather gift you money than giving you my car. There is a way I drive my car.

Driving ur car by urself is the best because u know how painful it will be for u to fix any fault. During Christmas I requested a friend to drive me and my family to beach...I don't really understand Lagos roads that well so to avoid traffic offenses. This guy was doing James bond with my car why I say with him....to cut the story short, when we got home and I woke up the next day my front tyre deflated, after removing it and checking i discovered that my alloy ream was in bad shape(bend) at two spots, opposite sides of the wheel ....he enter potholes with force i believed. I was not happy although I have got it fixed.

Op has learnt what we have learned many years ago. Lol
Never give out your car, except you have loads of money or many cars.

Snap and show. Rather than make all this long description. Can't tell if you exaggerating. Plus ur fwend no de to defend himslef.

Beware of this kind friend weh go borrow u something come tell the world behind ur back. ...beware of them.

YOUR OWN BETTER, MY STORY .

THEY CAME TO WAKE ME UP FROM EARLY MORNING SLEEP THAT THEY NEED MY CAR TO ATTEND A WEDDING FUNCTION AND I HAPPILY GAVE THEM THE KEY , A PUSH TO START ENGINE TYPE OF VEHICLE , OMO ALONG THE WAY , THE CARD HAD A FLAT TIRE AND THEY CALLED ME THAT THE TIRE IS FLAT THAT THEY WONT NEED TO PROCEED TO THE VENUE WITH MY CAR AND THEY LEFT THE KEY TO AN UNKNOWN VULGANIZER AND LEFT MY CAR THERE, THANK GOD I WAS ABLE TO MEET THE VULGANIZER FIXING MY TIRE, I PAID HIM AND DROVE MY CAR BACK HOME , SINCE THEN, DEM NO BORN DEM WELL TO SAY ABEG BORROW ME YOUR CAR.

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

Even to "borrow" somebody my car battery to start their car, I can't try it.

When it's time to go to the mechanic, na only me waka come oh.

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

Never give your car to anybody no matter whatever

I have my car to a neighbour to take his sibling to the hospital but ended up denting at the back ever since then, I rather drive you to wherever to wanna go as long as am free (emergency only sha o)

Maybe you are stingy with the car, so he decided to step on your nerves 😭😭😭

Please borrow me your car

Spark2:
Good day NL.
A friend of mine borrowed my car few days ago to help ease movement for him. I happily gave him the car because I understood the need he had.

For precautionary reasons, I don't let my fuel get below quarter tank. Each time it gets there, i ensure I top it up.

When I gave this guy my key, I told him clearly to ensure he adds enough fuel as he's leaving my place and not to allow the fuel guage gets below quarter.

My car spent some days with him. he brought back the car and complained that my car has stopped on the way several times and each time it stops, he'd have to buy a little fuel and add before it moves.

Second, he brought back the car with scratches on my front bumper. I learned from someone that he had moved on terrible roads with the car. I was told he went to places that other people had parked because their vehicles can't enter.

I asked how much fuel he bought and he told me he bought a few litres of fuel. This got me furious because this is a journey that if I am to go, I'd have to buy over 40L of fuel.

Third, he brought it back with a faulty fuel gauge, my fuel gauge has never been faulty since I bought my car. It was not possible for me to know the fuel level at the time he returned the car.

I had to go fix my car because I had a need to go somewhere with it. My mechanic opened to tank to check why the car was stopping as well as the fuel gauge. To my surprise, my tank was terribly empty. It was dry.

I had to buy so much fuel as well as fix the fuse of the fuel gauge. As for the scratches, I will have to leave them like that. The funny thing is that my friend cannot even tell me he is sorry.

I have resolved in my mind, I WILL NEVER GIVE ANYBODY MY CAR AGAIN. NO.
ITS ONLY ME THAT CAN TAKE CARE OF MY CAR. I AM THE ONE MAINTAINING IT AND I KNOW EHERE IT PAINS.

what do you think about this?
Do you give out your car to your friends to use especially in this hard economy where fuel, maintenance and cost of parts are on the high side.

Don't take this personal. Just thank God that your friend has revealed himself to you.
He is not a good person and should not be trusted

You made two mistakes.

Firstly, you thought the guy is a friend but he is not.

Secondly, you have not learnt to set boundaries.

A boundary is a limit you set for others to ensure your property, time, money etc are not misused or violated.

That guy is not a friend to you. He is most filled with envy because of your blessing.

Let me add that he should not be within your circle.

Make friends with those who are moving in the same direction with you in life, not one who'd rather destroy what you have to drag you low to his own level.

Free2Fly:
Lent, not borrowed.

Meanwhile, make sure you don't lend anything to him next time.

It's borrowed. The receiver borrows while the giver lends.

What a terrible friend

Adakintroy:
Snap and show. Rather than make all this long description. Can't tell if you exaggerating. Plus ur fwend no de to defend himslef.

Beware of this kind friend weh go borrow u something come tell the world behind ur back. ...beware of them.

Are you the unrepentant friend?

Anguldi:


Lessons learnt

which one be Anguldi😁, us that were you live in Jos? I live in vet so I pass there frequently. 🤝

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