Tallesty1:
A life without problems sound great but it will bore the hell out of you because true happiness comes from solving your problems.

In
Mark Manson's words

Happiness comes from solving problems. The keyword here is “solving.” If you’re avoiding your problems or feel like you don’t have any problems, then you’re going to make yourself miserable. If you feel like you have problems that you can’t solve, you will likewise make yourself miserable. The secret sauce is in the solving of the problems, not in not having problems in the first place.

this post was an epiphany for me. it has enabled me to articulate ver clearly some issues i am having with some peoples atitudes.

to put it simply, some people solve problems through regression. rather than embrace the new system which yes comes with its own problems , they will rather enforce their comfort zone and insist on regressing to the old and antiquated ways

it is something you will see a lot of in nigeria at different levels

blackpanthar:


Even GOD has problems.

Lol...

His problem must be humans.

Emmanuel30a:
I prays for those who have written this and are reading this, you would die today before afternoon... Amen

Cc:
Seun
Mndd44
Rule 2 Broken.
Kindly do the needed.

GloriousGbola:



this post was an epiphany for me. it has enabled me to articulate ver clearly some issues i am having with some peoples atitudes.

to put it simply, some people solve problems through regression. rather than embrace the new system which yes comes with its own problems , they will rather enforce their comfort zone and insist on regressing to the old and antiquated ways

it is something you will see a lot of in nigeria at different levels

True, lots of Nigerians either avoid their problems or pretend it doesn't exist which in itself is a bigger problem. The Subtle art of not giving a fvck is a book I will gladly recommend to anyone because it is an eye opener.

sukkot:
that’s the wisdom of Islam. Islam has lots of great wisdom. Great practical wisdom. You know I think the great universal wisdom was splintered into several books like the Bible and Quran and you have to combine the two to get the full wisdom. Islam focuses on the Luna wisdom while the Bible focuses on the solar wisdom. But low vibrating men came and turned the two great books into religions

Time will come when the lies will be fully illuminated. People don't know the gift that Islam is. but Shaitan knows, that's why there are attacks from all angles.

blackpanthar:


Even GOD has problems.

werey

sukkot:
People are going through all kinds of problems
Mental
Spiritual
Marital
Children wahala
Financial
Health
Depression
Suicidal
Tired of life
Tired of Nigeria
Tired of abroad but broke and stuck
Tired of spouse
Work wahala
Moving up the ladder wahala
School (college wahala with unending test, exam, projects, study, writing papers )

Etc etc etc

I guess the question is are there any perfectly happy people out there with no problems please come out and declare thyself. And those with problems what is it ?

Dear Lord...this life!
Begs the question then what is life when the listed wahala above persist?

armyofone:


Dear Lord...this life!
Begs the question then what is life when the listed wahala above persist?

my brother life is wahala 🤣 in between the wahala small pockets of enjoyment go Dey but very fleeting. SIGH 😞👀😄

Nah but seriously life can be great. It’s all about your outlook, manage your expectations, taper your aspirations and seek a higher path. It’s an easy life. People make it hard for themselves. Oh and don’t have more than 1 child. Detach from peoples expectations of you. Just do you at your own pace

I am tired. Not physically but a deep in the soul kind of tired. Nothing brings me joy, I hardly laugh, I haven't felt genuinely happy in months and all in all I feel like I'm just existing and been blown around by the state of things.
I'm very hard working. But what is hard work without results. I have skills but no money to upgrade or even start up something.
And I have no one to run to.
If I can find someone who will mentor me, I'm willing to serve.
I'm tired of the ups and downs with no result.

sukkot:
my brother life is wahala 🤣 in between the wahala small pockets of enjoyment go Dey but very fleeting. SIGH 😞👀😄

Nah but seriously life can be great. It’s all about your outlook, manage your expectations, taper your aspirations and seek a higher path. It’s an easy life. People make it hard for themselves. Oh and don’t have more than 1 child. Detach from peoples expectations of you. Just do you at your own pace

I child - very good idea. But will your people do the 1 child thing ?
I don't know where hungry broke people see enough energy to have sex. Loads of money in bank to live well is better than sex!

I agree with all you said up there sukkot.

armyofone:


I child - very good idea. But will your people do the 1 child thing ?
I don't know where hungry broke people see enough energy to have sex. Loads of money in bank to live well is better than sex!

I agree with all you said up there sukkot.

yeah bro my parents spent like over a decade living in the UK. Point being they don't care what you do with your personal life as regards the number of children you should have. They would love for you to have one but if you choose not to that's your choice. So I don't deal with those kind of issues. Yeah I rather have lots of money in the bank than a lot of kids too. Am too independent to have lots of kids. I believe many kids would give me mental illness, then again maybe I would adapt lmao . But ermm it's not hard to want sex and be broke so long as you are under 25. Once you get past 25 it's time to get serious

sukkot:
yeah bro my parents spent like over a decade living in the UK. Point being they don't care what you do with your personal life as regards the number of children you should have. They would love for you to have one but if you choose not to that's your choice. So I don't deal with those kind of issues. Yeah I rather have lots of money in the bank than a lot of kids too. Am too independent to have lots of kids. I believe many kids would give me mental illness, then again maybe I would adapt lmao . But ermm it's not hard to want sex and be broke so long as you are under 25. Once you get past 25 it's time to get serious

Parents are not even the problem - the problem is the randy nature of brothers trying to sow their wild oat with their flying tadpoles whether hungry or not

armyofone:


Parents are not even the problem - the problem is the randy nature of brothers trying to sow their wild oat with their flying tadpoles whether hungry or not

condoms ?

armyofone:


Parents are not even the problem - the problem is the randy nature of brothers trying to sow their wild oat with their flying tadpoles whether hungry or not

I child - very good idea. But will your people do the 1 child thing ? <<<<< when you asked this question bro it wasnt about if my parents would approve of my one child policy ?

sukkot:


I child - very good idea. But will your people do the 1 child thing ? <<<<< when you asked this question bro it wasnt about if my parents would approve of my one child policy ?

Just a general question ....by "your people" I meant men now

I know ya as chitown warload...pickins are not in ya horizon

sukkot:
condoms ?

Your people prefer to feel the skin

Africans and condoms ?

armyofone:


Your people prefer to feel the skin

Africans and condoms ?

them ain’t my peoples bro. Like that mane Jesus Christ said, my peoples is a spiritual family, those who move the way I do. I don’t claim beasts as family bro 😄😄🤣🤣

armyofone:


Just a general question ....by "your people" I meant men now

I know ya as chitown warload...pickins are not in ya horizon

hehe oh my bad bro, thought you was talking bout my folks hence my answer. That’s like a real 3D problem for some people their peoples wanting them to drop grandchildren for them