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Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by okomile(f): 9:35pm On Jan 25 |
Yoruba will say Ori buruku |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by DropsMic(m): 9:35pm On Jan 25 |
Hmm |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Savanahustle: 9:36pm On Jan 25 |
Not good |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by stasius: 9:36pm On Jan 25 |
Forget stereotype and all fallacies. Marriage has no formula. Do what Suites your home! And don't let society shape your marriage for you. If you like live in your parents house. If you like dont. No formula for marriage. 9 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Whatisurproblem(m): 9:36pm On Jan 25 |
NikoDeBonAmi:go back and read your own post yourself, this time, reason like a mature mind, then return and answer the question by your self. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by anslemarinze52(m): 9:36pm On Jan 25 |
rentAcock: Op is talking about permanent stay in he's parents home. Lol 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by anslemarinze52(m): 9:37pm On Jan 25 |
Nice2023: Leave op alone... He wants to die in he's parents house lol. 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Peakdesign23(m): 9:38pm On Jan 25 |
It depends. |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Ulogwe1: 9:39pm On Jan 25 |
Living in your parents house is different from living with your parents in the same house after getting married. So, if you mean living with your parents in their house after getting married, is very wrong. 6 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Oluwomonext212(m): 9:39pm On Jan 25 |
It doesn’t define u as someone responsible or capable of building a home and caring his responsibilities. But if na abroad and ur parents have BQ at the back of the building for u to stay for free, u wouldn’t mind oo, cuz rent is fucking high. We count too many things in naija because life is relatedly cheap, especially rent. 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Patojargz: 9:40pm On Jan 25 |
NikoDeBonAmi: It's wrong brr!!! Anyhow u like put am!!! You've to stand on your own as a man... Period... Abi u no wan buy or build ur house? Change that mentality brr 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by PheelzAlmighty: 9:41pm On Jan 25 |
Everything, everything is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by piehorse: 9:41pm On Jan 25 |
There’s no formula Different strokes for different folks, know what works for you and what doesn’t. Shikena |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Karleb(m): 9:45pm On Jan 25 |
Nothing! Absolutely nothing! |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Jamieb(m): 9:46pm On Jan 25 |
NikoDeBonAmi:Oga you don't know anyone . I put it to you 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Adakintroy: 9:47pm On Jan 25 |
independence that's what wrong. But if you are oriented as a proper socialist, Then you an extension of ur family. If they in line, so be it. Nothing is good or bad thinking make it so. _shakespear 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by CatchMeIfUCanMO: 9:49pm On Jan 25 |
Nazgul: What is this one saying? Just say that is how they behave in your place and don't generalize. 5 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Idaytesj29(m): 9:51pm On Jan 25 |
NikoDeBonAmi: Women don't like it, they won't be comfortable with such arrangement, cos they won't be able to press your mumu button at will. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Juniorangel(m): 9:51pm On Jan 25 |
Absolutely nothing wrong with it, I take care of my family business and it is very close to my family home, also all my siblings are outside the country, I see no reason why I will not stay in my family home when I get married, the whole flat is empty except for my mum's room, which is also vacant anytime she goes on vacation outside the country, although it's every man's wish to build his own house but we must start from somewhere, save first and build your own castle. So every one's case is different. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by stanliwise(m): 9:52pm On Jan 25 |
stasius:the most realistic comment ever |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by CatchMeIfUCanMO: 9:54pm On Jan 25 |
Jamieb: Keep kwayet please, no be everything be lie. I know two guys married and living in their parents house with their wives. Both of them have duplexes(standard/confirm ones, no be gbegbe ones) that is 92% to 95% completed when last I checked. One of them have at least 4( I don't know the actual figure) different buildings he uses for rent. So, what is your point exactly? |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Barbiturate(m): 9:54pm On Jan 25 |
I think it's just the mentality. Social media is good but then it's also bad in some ways. In the sense that, it has shaped some peoples' reasoning upside down. There's absolutely nothing wrong in living with your parents when you have a large house.That's if they want. They would even assist you in taking care of your kids well, if you and your wife are working class. For me, my dad is late and my mom lives with me and my wife. She formally stays in the village, but I discovered she's always falling sick. So I went to bring her to live with me and my wife, that's after discussing with her(my wife) and she agreed. Since she has been living with me, no more sickness. She's always happy and doing one or two to keep herself busy and she's not lonely again. She has BP but I help her to manage it. Takes her drugs and eats well. I also check her BP anytime I come back from my hustle. Don't allow social media to shape your life for you. Do what pleases you and works for you. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by jmoore(m): 9:55pm On Jan 25 |
Ulogwe1:According to which constitution? 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by egwuchuks40: 9:56pm On Jan 25 |
Honestly speaking, I don't see anything wrong in it . But if you are a grown man, you are not expected to still be living with your parents. It reduces a man to almost no body 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by stasius: 9:58pm On Jan 25 |
Barbiturate: God bless you. It is really absurd how yeye social media is trying to configure people's ideology and mentality when it comes to certain issues in life. There is no ideal. Do what is good for you and your home. Simple. |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Greenscientist: 10:01pm On Jan 25 |
Everyone has their own choices, and there's no one-size-fits-all rule. It's not accurate to say it's strictly good or bad. Let me break it down: Leaving your parents' house is wrong if it's just because of what people might say. If you're leaving their big house just to rent your own due to societal expectations, who is your financial adviser? It might be right to move out, especially if you'll be living under the same roof(same kitchen, living room e.t.c) as your mom and wife. These women are likely to clash and it could lead to problems. However, if your mom is easygoing, it might be okay. For instance, I know my own mom. If my family has a big house and I want to live in our town, why wouldn't I stay in my father's house? 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by koolib(m): 10:01pm On Jan 25 |
It was one of the greatest mistakes I ever made 3 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by GGIA: 10:11pm On Jan 25 |
ZIMDRILL:I don’t want any relatives in my house. both mine and hers. |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by harry2sexy(m): 10:12pm On Jan 25 |
So if someone's wife moans loudly, that's how the whole house will be shaking. How do you expect them to look at you the next morning during daily devotion? 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by ladywise: 10:13pm On Jan 25 |
You are looking for trouble |
Re: Getting Married And Living In Your Parents House. What Is Wrong About It by Lamanii22(f): 10:13pm On Jan 25 |
jmoore: Hmmm… I thought I made a mistake agreeing to live with my husband in his father’s house… but at some point it would be tiring… I can’t wait for us to move into our own home so I can at least treat my husband to different meals and take care of him properly |
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