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okay

Focus on your current relationship.

Don't tell me you don't know what "touring around" means. I won't honour the invitation if I was the one.

Na do you find and get money reach?

Tales by moonlight

finallybusy:
We dated in the past. She japa’d from the country seven years ago. She severed all forms of communication since then. I’ve dated two other women after that and healed from the heartbreak. I’m now with a third.

She unexpectedly called me last week, saying she’s in Nigeria for two months and is willing for us to tour around the country together. Should I fulfill this wish or focus squarely on my current relationship?

Nigerian women don't like to pay for anything..U are about to be used for free lunch and orgasm......use ur brain...

finallybusy:
We dated in the past. She japa’d from the country seven years ago. She severed all forms of communication since then. I’ve dated two other women after that and healed from the heartbreak. I’m now with a third.

She unexpectedly called me last week, saying she’s in Nigeria for two months and is willing for us to tour around the country together. Should I fulfill this wish or focus squarely on my current relationship?

If you fail to take my candid advice I will never forgive you.
First of all, declare bankruptcy to her before proceeding. Never you fall for any woman again to avoid heartbreak.
2condly, the present Nigerian economy is very bad...rush immediately and follow, enjoy and catch cruise with her while it last. You have to code your movement but if the current one wish never to mind her business and discover your tour with her, so be it.
The most important thing you should learn to do in your life is SELF LOVE. Let yourself be your priority.
Even if you no go tour your current girl will still break your heart so long as you are not ready to marry her now.
In fact for you to ask this question shows you have not learnt anything yet from women.
I repeat, never you fail to catch your fund with this Yankee ex girl or else you will definitely regret it in a short while.
Advice from 45yrs old man and the best thing that can happen to you.
Shalom. I'm waiting to hear from your fun places.
Peace

Peakdesign23:
Focus on your current relationship.

Which relationship Shut d fuc k up there. Does any human being in Nigeria value relationship? Every woman here does not go where the will suffer, literally every woman here does not know what is called Love of Chill

finallybusy:
We dated in the past. She japa’d from the country seven years ago. She severed all forms of communication since then. I’ve dated two other women after that and healed from the heartbreak. I’m now with a third.

She unexpectedly called me last week, saying she’s in Nigeria for two months and is willing for us to tour around the country together. Should I fulfill this wish or focus squarely on my current relationship?

Who is Footing the bill?
What and what are you guys going to be doing by the Touring?
Sha know that she only want to use you to pass time (including her sexual need)

What I observed lately is that girls are trying to reduce their body count, so they will put you on friend for benefits list.

advanceDNA:


Nigerian women don't like to pay for anything..U are about to be used for free lunch and orgasm......use ur brain...

You just spoke my mind. But op go still behave as a SIMPle man rush go. We go hear the scores later for here

finallybusy:
We dated in the past. She japa’d from the country seven years ago. She severed all forms of communication since then. I’ve dated two other women after that and healed from the heartbreak. I’m now with a third.

She unexpectedly called me last week, saying she’s in Nigeria for two months and is willing for us to tour around the country together. Should I fulfill this wish or focus squarely on my current relationship?

Tell her she will cover all the expenses.
If she agrees. Make sure you don't pay for anything.
Tell her she will send money for tfare.
Make sure it is all bills on her
Let her agree
And tell her you are doing it because it is she.
Again she is sex starved.
If she is going back.
When you get there have a business idea you think she can sponsor.
If it is means you paying tell her you are busy

You are not cheap mf

You should tour around Nigeria with her as escort or ho0kup guy wey you be abi?..
@OP If you like go and belittle yourself and let her leash you again.

She could end up with " a bun in the oven", before going back.

Linus well done

focus on your relationship,tell her to dash you foreign currency Sha

Women are cheap but men are cheaper. Supposing women decide to kill for ritual, I wonder how many men will survive.

You are dating someone and your ex that ghosted you seven years ago, showed up and she wants your sorry ass, and you want advice? If it is your girlfriend that wants to return to one of her ex for touring now, the gender bashing will start.

SELF LOVE
Thank you for such wisdom

seetomorrow:


If you fail to take my candid advice I will never forgive you.
First of all, declare bankruptcy to her before proceeding. Never you fall for any woman again to avoid heartbreak.
2condly, the present Nigerian economy is very bad...rush immediately and follow, enjoy and catch cruise with her while it last. You have to code your movement but if the current one wish never to mind her business and discover your tour with her, so be it.
The most important thing you should learn to do in your life is SELF LOVE. Let yourself be your priority.
Even if you no go tour your current girl will still break your heart so long as you are not ready to marry her now.
In fact for you to ask this question shows you have not learnt anything yet from women.
I repeat, never you fail to catch your fund with this Yankee ex girl or else you will definitely regret it in a short while.
Advice from 45yrs old man and the best thing that can happen to you.
Shalom. I'm waiting to hear from your fun places.
Peace

She wants a baby and you are about to be used as a sperm donor

Yea. Swallow the bait. Hook line and sinker. You will Lear the hard way. I know this might not be you thinking. But your john Thomas.

finallybusy:
We dated in the past. She japa’d from the country seven years ago. She severed all forms of communication since then. I’ve dated two other women after that and healed from the heartbreak. I’m now with a third.

She unexpectedly called me last week, saying she’s in Nigeria for two months and is willing for us to tour around the country together. Should I fulfill this wish or focus squarely on my current relationship?

Have some pride bro, don’t cement the the cliché that men are cheap.


…but you’re not me, do as you wish 🤔

This is an opportunity to bang free toto, please don't waste it

Focus squarely on your current relationship. Don't be her extra tyre.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
This is an opportunity to bang free toto, please don't waste it

Free things are not actually free.

It’s a good thing I announced the situation. Now, my thought process is clear. I’ve made a decision.

My ex is thirty-nine years of age. My current girlfriend is twenty-three. I’ve decided to stick with what I have. At least I enjoyed my ex when she was younger. I do not patronize pensioners. Let her find someone else. On whether she would finance every part of the adventure, I highly doubt. She normally spent on me, however she set limits. I know for sure there would be times she’d feign ignorance and want me to handle financial responsibilities. I can, but I’m not ready to. Spending squarely on me should be her penance for ghosting me without warning.

Thank you, Nairaland. For the many idiots who frequent here, there are some wise individuals.

finallybusy:
It’s a good thing I announced the situation. Now, my thought process is clear. I’ve made a decision.

My ex is thirty-nine years of age. My current girlfriend is twenty-three. I’ve decided to stick with what I have. At least I enjoyed my ex when she was younger. I do not patronize pensioners. Let her find someone else. On whether she would finance every part of the adventure, I highly doubt. She normally spent on me, however she set limits. I know for sure there would be times she’d feign ignorance and want me to handle financial responsibilities. I can, but I’m not ready to. Spending squarely on me should be her penance for ghosting me without warning.

Thank you, Nairaland. For the many idiots who frequent here, there are some wise individuals.

She might be trying to pull a Linda ikeji on you

finallybusy:
It’s a good thing I announced the situation. Now, my thought process is clear. I’ve made a decision.

My ex is thirty-nine years of age. My current girlfriend is twenty-three. I’ve decided to stick with what I have. At least I enjoyed my ex when she was younger. I do not patronize pensioners. Let her find someone else. On whether she would finance every part of the adventure, I highly doubt. She normally spent on me, however she set limits. I know for sure there would be times she’d feign ignorance and want me to handle financial responsibilities. I can, but I’m not ready to. Spending squarely on me should be her penance for ghosting me without warning.

Thank you, Nairaland. For the many idiots who frequent here, there are some wise individuals.

Ìdí Sure?

talk2hb1:

Ìdí Sure?

I am suspecting this your concern

romme2u:




I am suspecting this your concern

Just big bro syndrome