Tracey000000900:
Good day NL I'm a student in my second year about to be through with ND studying Mass Communication... Lately, things have been hard and I'm trying to buy textbooks do assignments, and transport myself to campus every day...it has been a lot...this evening I got back from class and I couldn't find my girl at home...I called her then she made me realize she was going back to her mum's place to work... We had been together for many years and we already had two kids together... Before I decided to go back to school..im so depressed right now... She sounds like she is leaving me.. ...I need help please there is a job I can do to help myself...My kids are with my parents and they are both schooling there.

pointblank247:
Hmm you are a student living with a young woman, having children with her. You could not take care of the children so your mama is helping out, now you could not take care of yourself yet you want to hold on to a woman you may not be able to feed. You can not even call on God because you are living in sin, upon all these wahala you are carrying beared, .

All these are excess luggage which summerises the fact that you are not organised. Let the girl go and sort herself out while you try to organise yourself.

There is an igbo adage that says and I quote " obulu na utu gi obulu gi uzo nwee olu, imara na nsogbu di"
Meaning, if your private part (blokos) get job before you, then you have trouble in your hands.

Tracey000000900:
■ Good day NL I'm a student in my second year about to be through with ND studying Mass Communication... Lately, things have been hard and I'm trying to buy textbooks do assignments, and transport myself to campus every day...it has been a lot...this evening I got back from class and I couldn't find my girl at home...I called her then she made me realize she was going back to her mum's place to work... We had been together for many years and we already had two kids together... Before I decided to go back to school..im so depressed right now... She sounds like she is leaving me.. ...I need help please there is a job I can do to help myself...My kids are with my parents and they are both schooling there.

Kobojunkie:
OMGosh! There are even kids involved in this relationship? Why are these people this wicked abeg!

Why are Nigerians, living in a country without a welfare system, over 5 million children homeless and without a guardian, living this way still? What do you gain from ruining these innocent kids you bring into this world this way?

Tracey000000900:
You wouldn't blame me because at first I was capable and everything was going fine...i use to work at an oil firm but at the long run I realized I needed to get more education...that was why I had to talk with my mum who is a teacher and she has been helping me take good care of my kids both male...my father agreed and I relocated to where I'm schooling at the moment..

Kobojunkie:
How does one person on a teacher's salary adequately take care of not even one child but two? Come on naw! What does she do with a teacher's salary for 2 children? Even back when I was a kid and Gowon subsidized salaries for teachers, it still wasn't enough. But you are here trying to get me to believe that in 2024, a teacher's salary is enough to cater to not one but two kids? For realzzz!

Consider their competition in places like South Africa, America, or Korea. Do you think those people there are fools waiting to make sure they first have more than enough before having kids? Why is this still Africa for crying out loud? And don't get me started on the state of the economy... argh!

Tracey000000900:
■ My parents are the best...i will be through with ND this year and I will be back and continue to take good care of my kids..
■ What about their mother who took her things and left what should I do about that..

Peakdesign23:
Your girlfriend or wife? Suffer no good, I no blame her.

Tracey000000900:
You wouldn't blame me because at first I was capable and everything was going fine...i use to work at an oil firm but at the long run I realized I needed to get more education...that was why I had to talk with my mum who is a teacher and she has been helping me take good care of my kids both male...my father agreed and I relocated to where I'm schooling at the moment..

1Sharon:
Who sent you to have two children?

StPete:
What nonsense!!!

You’re a student that cannot feed properly yet your dick Dey shoot pikin like rats up and down. Worse yet, you cannot take care of the children, you had to further labour your poor mother with raising your children. You’re not even concerned about how to find money, you’re more concerned about why a woman would leave you because u won’t have any pvssy to be fvcking every night for free.

I wish the govt can arrest people like u who have no ideal plans but just carelessly giving birth anyhow. I’m so pissed right now. You’re not even concerned about how you will feed, you’re more concerned about starving another man’s daughter as long as she stays with you to supply you endless kpekus. Tueh

Mindlog:


You needed more education, why didn't you go for a part time OND program while still working? By the way, what is the career prospect of one with OND in Mass communication in today's Nigeria?

1Sharon:
Who sent you to have two children?

StPete:
What nonsense!!!

You’re a student that cannot feed properly yet your dick Dey shoot pikin like rats up and down. Worse yet, you cannot take care of the children, you had to further labour your poor mother with raising your children. You’re not even concerned about how to find money, you’re more concerned about why a woman would leave you because u won’t have any pvssy to be fvcking every night for free.

I wish the govt can arrest people like u who have no ideal plans but just carelessly giving birth anyhow. I’m so pissed right now. You’re not even concerned about how you will feed, you’re more concerned about starving another man’s daughter as long as she stays with you to supply you endless kpekus. Tueh

lashout1:
Painting an imaginary picture around every sentence in your concerns should call for evaluation.

This what you as a man would had liaise with her to go to her mum since things ain't rigid at the moment. She being wise took a better decision you dey complain about feeling bad

You claimed you were working and made money before the thought to further your studies, please don't create a statistical fact that making money before education is terrific because it is a common knowledge for you to had weighed your savings before handbaging her from day 1 instead of her visiting at interval.

Tracey000000900:
I need direction that was why I came on here...lemme not lie it's not about pkekus...i can't leave my girl...we have been through thick and thin...right now I need good guidance on what ever aspect of life I should go to...on a norm it's not that we ain't eating well...i make money aside....im paying my rents and also sometimes I send supports home...im the first son and I didn't get some directions from home most of the things I'm going through right now is what I learnt the hard way...but That is not really the issue...i need good guidance..

Tracey000000900:
■ I need direction that was why I came on here...lemme not lie it's not about pkekus...i can't leave my girl...we have been through thick and thin.
■ ..right now I need good guidance on what ever aspect of life I should go to...on a norm it's not that we ain't eating well...i make money aside....im paying my rents and also sometimes I send supports home...im the first son and I didn't get some directions from home most of the things I'm going through right now is what I learnt the hard way...but That is not really the issue...i need good guidance..

Kobojunkie:
You can't leave her, you have both been through thick and thin. It is not about knacks yet you never thought to make a wife of her, never considered her joblessness and never mentioned a word of her own educational status. (She is a human being with a functional brain like yours or are we to believe she is retarded or handicapped?) The kain value some of you place on your women makes one wonder whether women will ever rise in that country.

You claim you work pay rent, and this and that, and also sent money home so you should be fine then. Why is your gal leaving you if all is well well as you describe.