HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY
I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere.
This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja.
The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family.
I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland.
Please your brotherly advice is needed.
Thanks

Follow your heart - move back to illorin. Stop believing nonsense. You people never learn. When was the last time any Nigerian seer accurately predicted a football match or election?? Yet they can predict your life!

tallfish145:
HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY
I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere.
This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja.
The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family.
I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland.
Please your brotherly advice is needed.
Thanks

these things happen in Africa only. That's why we are so lagging

Where is your faith, always move forward.

tallfish145:
HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY
I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere.
This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja.
The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family.
I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland.
Please your brotherly advice is needed.
Thanks

I hope your wife is UNDERSTANDING and RESPECTFUL despite your predicament, MOST WOMEN WOULD LEAVE.

Now, about your issue..... hmmm

If you are in ABUJA, why not attend DUNAMIS and go for proper deliverance.

MAD WOMAN AND SEERS are not GOD.

You may be tied to ABUJA because of a gross mistake you made years ago.

You also shouldn't have rushed into marriage when your finances are not settled.

Bro, you need a FRESH START and it is not about LOCATION but MINDSET.

Attend KOINONIA too whenever you can and be active. YOU WILL SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY.

These are the genuine places of help I know in ABUJA...

Asides all these, I hope you are prayerful, you give alms and do not abuse your wife..... BLESSINGS WILL SURELY LOCATE YOU THIS YEAR WHEREVER YOU ARE.

blackpanthar:


I hope your wife is UNDERSTANDING and RESPECTFUL despite your predicament, MOST WOMEN WOULD LEAVE.

Now, about your issue..... hmmm

If you are in ABUJA, why not attend DUNAMIS and go for proper deliverance.

MAD WOMAN AND SEERS are not GOD.

You may be tied to ABUJA because of a gross mistake you made years ago.

You also shouldn't have rushed into marriage when your finances are not settled.

Bro, you need a FRESH START and it is not about LOCATION but MINDSET.

Attend KOINONIA too whenever you can and be active. YOU WILL SEE THINGS DIFFERENTLY.

These are the genuine places of help I know in ABUJA...

Asides all these, I hope you are prayerful, you give alms and do not abuse your wife..... BLESSINGS WILL SURELY LOCATE YOU THIS YEAR WHEREVER YOU ARE.

I am a Muslim and its against my faith visiting churches. Thanks though

U want to live among ur yoruba people...words of a fearful man.

We that live among all tribes nko.

Must u live amongst them?

Look beyond ur tribe and and stop limiting urself from growth.

Stop watching Nigerian movie as well.

tallfish145:
HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY
I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere.
This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja.
The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family.
I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland.
Please your brotherly advice is needed.
Thanks

A mentally deranged woman asked you to go back to where you came from and you obeyed

Ok, no wahala.

Where's Kobojonkie??

She should come and talk to you, abeg, because, as it stands now, we don't who's the mad person between you and that 'mad' woman.

You are a muslim and you visit a seer. But you cannot visit church. Continue.

Did they tell you want will happen if you didn’t leave within that 2 days?

Your reason for want-in to relocate is not too clear. Is it because you want to live among the yoruba or because of difficulty?

Listen to your heart where God want you to be and the direction you are getting. If you are in the wrong place you will find it hard and living in circles.

tallfish145:
I am a Muslim and its against my faith visiting churches. Thanks though

Hello bro it seems you must be a lazy Muslim who doesn't observe his daily solats. And also wake up in the night to perform middle night prayers.

For you to have put your beliefs in mentally derail person and seer, not Allah that created both living and nonliving. You need to check your self and ask for forgiveness from Allah.

The way forward is to move closer to Allah by committing and dedicating your life to him.
Then move back to Ilorin or somewhere else.

May Allah continues to guide us Right

Amin

tallfish145:
I am a Muslim and its against my faith visiting churches. Thanks though

And it's not against ur faith to visit juju house,sorcerers and witch doctors.

Save some money and move to LAGOS!!! Move with a mindset of not going back to Abuja no matter what.

tallfish145:
HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY
I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere.
This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja.
The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family.
I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland.
Please your brotherly advice is needed.
Thanks

GbemiTrabaye01:
Save some money and move to LAGOS!!! Move with a mindset of not going back to Abuja no matter what.

thanks but cant live in lagos

A mad person told you that you something and you believed and then you pressed further to see a seer.😂🤣😂 This is so funny madam no offence.🤣😂🤣

I think you should move to Ibadan, I heard that things are quite cheap there, you can start with a self con and carry your products along or better still find those areas where you have cheap houses in Abuja and settle. I know for sure that things are quite expensive tho but I'm wishing you all the best ma'am.

tallfish145:
HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY
I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere.
This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja.
The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family.
I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland.
Please your brotherly advice is needed.
Thanks

You mean a mad man, possessed with demons instructed you and you obeyed as a family man? You have seen too many nollywood movies and it's to an extreme extent. Why will a mad man decide where you and your family live?

Well, I perceive you're a very superstitious man. And life doesn't always work on superstitions. Please wake up to reality.

Have a serious relationship with God and be addicted to midnight prayers. You will have some God given dreams and your mind will be opened clearly as for what to do.

Meanwhile, please understand that the devil is already tossing you around. He sent a mad man to you to reduce your strength as a man and tamper with a decision that can be taken intelligently. This is what makes men weaklings. Please Don't allow any prophet to play with your sanity. You're your own first prophet.

Pray and fast. You've access to God yourself.

Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6

Don’t Limit yourself.

tallfish145:
thanks but cant live in lagos

tallfish145:
HERE IS MY TRUE LIFE STORY
I moved to Abuja in the 2015 but never really liked the idea. Since then life has been back and forth with me. I have tried every possible means to get out of the city on so many occasions, I kept finding myself coming back(after moving out) due to unavailability of fund to start a new life elsewhere.
This year 2024 I finally made my mind to settle at Ilorin where I already rented a two rooms apartment and subsequently started something with the little capital I have. But something happened after two weeks that I have no choice than to move back to Abuja again. The reason behind it was a little bit scary. A madwoman had asked me to leave the town and go back to where I came from(Abuja). Not fully convinced, someone took me to a seer who also says same thing as the madwoman. I was given a deadline of moving out before two days. I obeyed and came back to Abuja.
The thing now is I can't find solace and peace here in Abuja because of standard of living and other factors. I really wish to live amongst my Yoruba speaking people with my family.
I am thinking of going against all odds and move back to either Ilorin or any other parts of Yorubaland.
Please your brotherly advice is needed.
Thanks

Call me, let me pray for you. May God take all the glory

tallfish145:
I am a Muslim and its against my faith visiting churches. Thanks though

As salam alykum brotherly, I wouldn't av commented on this post if not I saw you said you're a Muslim not because I can't advise a person from other faiths but because it's only a Muslim can understand what am going to explain now.
You know Eeman is what a Muslim must have in whatever situation he finds himself and must not shake not to talk of believing mad person of even another mad person calling himself Alfa/Pastor where is your Eeman my dear brother, do your 2 nofilat of Solat istikahra and leave everything to Almighty Allah
Go and download "citadel of the believer" on Google play and search for the 2 rakats nofilat of Istikahra inside it. May Allah guide your ways
I also stays in Ilorin

tallfish145:
thanks but cant live in lagos

There are communities in Abuja where they have a large number of yoruba indigenes and families . And they are more muslim yorubas' too.

You can cope with them.

Communities like Suluje, gauraka, parts of bwari etc... you should know about this places, you have been around Abuja for some time too.

They say a coward dies a 1000 times before his actual death! You that is sane, listened to a mad person... then going to a seer... you never see anything! It's just as easy to believe in God as it is to believe what mad people and seers say. You need Jesus my friend...

I just saw where you wrote that you are a Muslim... I rest my case.

Capernum:
■ You mean a mad man, possessed with demons instructed you and you obeyed as a family man? You have seen too many nollywood movies and it's to an extreme extent. Why will a mad man decide where you and your family live?
Well, I perceive you're a very superstitious man. And life doesn't always work on superstitions. Please wake up to reality. Have a serious relationship with God and be addicted to midnight prayers. You will have some God given dreams and your mind will be opened clearly as for what to do.
Meanwhile, please understand that the devil is already tossing you around. He sent a mad man to you to reduce your strength as a man and tamper with a decision that can be taken intelligently. This is what makes men weaklings. Please Don't allow any prophet to play with your sanity. You're your own first prophet.

You believe with the advice you have offered here that you are less superstitious than OP is? See delusions abeg!

Kobojunkie:
You believe with the advice you have offered here that you are less superstitious than OP is? See delusions abeg!

My ascertions are not superstitious. That is the reality for those who needs divine guidance on taking sensitive decisions like relocating a whole family.

A person's relationship with his maker is beyond delusion.

Real delusion is for a man who thinks that everything about life is mental.

I guess the delusion is actually on you here.

Capernum:
■ My ascertions are not superstitious. That is the reality for those who needs divine guidance on taking sensitive decisions like relocating a whole family. A person's relationship with his maker is beyond delusion.
■ Real delusion is for a man who thinks that everything about life is mental. I guess the delusion is actually on you here.

OP equally claimed guidance from the seers and from the "mad" woman. So how is his idea of divine guidance any different from yours in this?

You are against critically reasoning your situation, right? Well, you and OP seem to be on the same path. So what makes your path better or different from his path?

Kobojunkie:
OP equally claimed guidance from the seers and from the "mad" woman. So how is his idea of divine guidance any different from yours in this?

You are against critically reasoning your situation, right? Well, you and OP seem to be on the same path. So what makes your path better or different from his path?

I perceive your distrust and disdain for spiritual intelligence and most likely God. Unfortunately, I avoid arguments bordering on spiritual interactions and the theological concepts once I notice an awkward tendency.

Capernum:
■ I perceive your distrust and disdain for spiritual intelligence and most likely God. Unfortunately, I avoid arguments bordering on spiritual interactions and the theological concepts once I notice an awkward tendency.

What you instead sensed was my absolute disgust for spiritual bullsheet— addiction to praying at midnight, dependence on dreams— which is all you spewed there feigning superiority over OP's ritual — visiting seers, paying attention to even the word of "mad" people.

Again, You are against critically reasoning your situation, right? Well, you and OP seem to be on the same path. So what makes your path better or different from his path?

Kobojunkie:
What you instead sensed was my absolute disgust for spiritual bullsheet— addiction to praying at midnight, dependence on dreams— which is all you spewed there feigning superiority over OP's ritual — visiting seers, paying attention to even the word of "mad" people.

Again, You are against critically reasoning your situation, right? Well, you and OP seem to be on the same path. So what makes your path better or different from his path?

Nothing is more entertaining than watching the display of ignorant people laced with a few touches or arrogance.

Their silly blabbings, their random assumptions and petty tantrums are nothing but entertaining.

No matter how learned you think you are, you have not started living, even at your age, if you don't understand that (1) life is spiritual and (2) the spiritual is more real than the physical (3) the spiritual controls the physical.

If you don't know these, life has not started with you. All you do, no matter how good they look, are not nothing but mirages. The delusion is so on you. Sir.

You can always rope yourself

nstore:
Check the pros and cons..
Compare and contrast..
Then follow your 'gut feeling'..

Exactly....even if it looks like 'madness' to others.

Capernum:


Nothing is more entertaining than watching the display of ignorant people laced with a few touches or arrogance.

Their silly blabbings, their random assumptions and petty tantrums are nothing but entertaining.

No matter how learned you think you are, you have not started living, even at your age, if you don't understand that (1) life is spiritual and (2) the spiritual is more real than the physical (3) the spiritual controls the physical.

If you don't know these, life has not started with you. All you do, no matter how good they look, are not nothing but mirages. The delusion is so on you. Sir.

Kobojunkie is a woman though. A unmarried woman in her early/mid 40s who enjoys spending her time trolling people here.