Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Odidigboigbo(m): 10:20pm On Feb 04 |
immortalcrown: Do those women say they need husbands? If no, don't give yourself headache for their sake. Most of the married ones are even plotting to become single.
Their values have changed. They don't care about marriage. Some of them don't even care about having children. They have enough money and can make upfront payment to companies that will care for them in old age.
What I worry about is the continuation of humanity. Bro that is not true, most women care of marriage than me. Take a bit of your time and come close to those established career single ladies, your testimonies will be different. 5 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Basicend: 10:25pm On Feb 04 |
Jman06: Everybody can now understand why the likes of Boko Haram are against western education. It destroys the traditional family values and keep the two genders at loggerheads as both men and women appear to be in contest of who is smarter than the other. No gender wants to 'gree' for the other.
Continuity of human existence is clearly threatened by the above scenario. God already created an order in His book, the Bible. But, we pervert it to suit our will. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by bonnez(m): 10:26pm On Feb 04 |
Jman06: Everybody can now understand why the likes of Boko Haram are against western education. It destroys the traditional family values and keep the two genders at loggerheads as both men and women appear to be in contest of who is smarter than the other. No gender wants to 'gree' for the other.
Continuity of human existence is clearly threatened by the above scenario. You’re saying this a BH spokesman abi? 1 Like |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by DavidEsq(m): 10:28pm On Feb 04 |
immortalcrown: Do those women say they need husbands? If no, don't give yourself headache for their sake. Most of the married ones are even plotting to become single.
Their values have changed. They don't care about marriage. Some of them don't even care about having children. They have enough money and can make upfront payment to companies that will care for them in old age.
What I worry about is the continuation of humanity. This is very true, even among so-called Christian women. The ones whose children are gradually getting independent and who have found a career, either on social media or in a profession/skill, hunger the most for the death of their husbands or a divorce. 2 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by sageb: 10:41pm On Feb 04 |
uche87:
Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England What a revealing article 1 Like |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by RALPHOW(m): 10:47pm On Feb 04 |
The funny thing is that Nigeria women are unconsciously RACIST. They feel belittled when other African citizens or Oyinbo approach them for marriage. Even their parents are disappointed when they introduce anyone who is not a Nigeria or from their tribe . 1 Like |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by drkrest(m): 10:52pm On Feb 04 |
Jman06: So, all your little brain could think of is that I support Boko Haram? Much as I don't support Boko Haram and their violent ways, I also understand that they are fighting to correct one of the negative sides of Western education and civilization,,,which is the destruction of the traditional family system.
Every right thinking individual understands that education, especially women's education, tends to destroy the traditional family system. Women who are empowered via education and employment would still want the men to be the traditional men who are seen as the sole providers yet these women would not stick to their own traditional roles of being submissive to their husbands and taking care of the children and the house generally. This is the reason why many men are not interested in marriage these days.
Or are you not seeing the alarming number of unmarried men and women in the society Don't you realize that such situation threatens human existence on earth
Western education and civilization are good but we have to work on maintaining the family unit. If women know that they're not ready to change their mindset from what they think a man's role is in the family to the mindset that aligns with the current reality of women empowerment, then it is better to stop all the hue and cry about gender equality, girl-child education and women empowerment. We must then withdraw our women from schools and work places so they can go back to their husbands' houses and become that submissive traditional wives for whom traditional men paid dowry and catered for. The Taliban did it in Afghanistan, so we can as well do it here. You don't expect to eat your cake and still have it. There is no moral justification for violent extremism. Extremism itself is a threat to human existence. The truth is in a liberal world, you have copious of choices to make. In this western world, there are submissive women who deliberately chose not to succumb to the societal norms. I will choose an evolving liberal world over your 'traditional' society. |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by abba190: 10:52pm On Feb 04 |
advanceDNA: I was expecting statistics of women drawn from survey(s), complaining of not having men to marry them....
Abeg leave these pple ....only a lazy woman needs a man....and everyone works in the UK.... expect a few exploiting the system
but why this girl from uk is disturbing me for video calls? |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Enskynelson(m): 10:58pm On Feb 04 |
uche87:
Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England My guy... Dropping the real stuff. Nice expository 2 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by BiGVEEN58(m): 11:00pm On Feb 04 |
Insightful thread |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by hustla(m): 11:05pm On Feb 04 |
Loneliness don finish plenty of them. Set awon "He wants to marry me for my papers" Oya, chop the papers na 14 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by cliqtips: 11:06pm On Feb 04 |
Have you moved close to any of them to have a heart-to-heart talk? Jeon:
Hardly to see a rich or successful woman crying for marriage because she has what it takes to get a way from *poverty *.
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Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by LordIsaac(m): 11:11pm On Feb 04 |
Adakintroy: Downside to upside of women liberation.
To think you come to this world to work and build careers is one of the most sickening forms of orientation to impose on the human mind.
Men can easily break pass it. but once it set in for women it's hard for them to emerge out of it. Therein is the message, but will they accept it? Just like Eve of old, they will always want to know and experience the other side! 2 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by LordIsaac(m): 11:11pm On Feb 04 |
Adakintroy: Downside to upside of women liberation.
To think you come to this world to work and build careers is one of the most sickening forms of orientation to impose on the human mind.
Men can easily break pass it. but once it set in for women it's hard for them to emerge out of it. Therein lies the message, but will they accept it? Just like Eve of old, they will always want to know and experience the other side! |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Bonapart(m): 11:12pm On Feb 04 |
Yugoslavia247: Women living in Nigeria can never relate
They will be asking mumu questions like
Did they tell you they want husband?
Most don't even have friends in the UK so they don't understand no one cares. Lose everything but don't lose your faith. Achievement without God is filth and vanity and destruction. Jesus alone saves |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by LordIsaac(m): 11:13pm On Feb 04 |
VULCAN: Aren't you embarrassed that you couldn't understand the article?
It's not like it's a treatise on Quantum Mechanics oo
The writer just took time to identify that many well to do Nigerian women in the UK are single against their will and pertinent reasons why men are staying away from marriage.
That's not rocket science
😂 |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Godsonkemz(m): 11:15pm On Feb 04 |
Biglittlelois: How come it is usually Men that cry more than the bereaved? I don't understand. An evening newspaper sighted... 2 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:22pm On Feb 04 |
BarrElChapo: Like the article posited, these women don't wanna be submissive so most men steer clear. |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Nairalander248: 11:23pm On Feb 04 |
Yugoslavia247: Women living in Nigeria can never relate
They will be asking mumu questions like
Did they tell you they want husband?
Most don't even have friends in the UK so they don't understand Are you referring to Jeon? |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by 7upnigeria: 11:29pm On Feb 04 |
uche87:
Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England Aaaaaa, mechanical Engineer. Where did you learn that one from? |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by 7upnigeria: 11:33pm On Feb 04 |
Jman06: Everybody can now understand why the likes of Boko Haram are against western education. It destroys the traditional family values and keep the two genders at loggerheads as both men and women appear to be in contest of who is smarter than the other. No gender wants to 'gree' for the other.
Continuity of human existence is clearly threatened by the above scenario. Are you the one that created HUMAN EXISTENCE? Hows the continuity your business. That you want to have children does not mean others want to. You're talking human existence and world population keeps increasing. There's no justification anywhere by Boko haram for killing people because of different in religious views 3 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Offpointng: 11:35pm On Feb 04 |
eazzzy1: I think when women stop being eager to get married, men would start rushing to get married. When I was growing up there was an old man who had all sort of fruit trees in his farm, guava, mango, orange, apple, what we called fruit etc. We the neighborhood kids will pluck a lot to take home but you never saw him or his kids bother with plucking fruits.
The average guy with a decent life can get married with the wave of a hand or the push of a button so he isn’t exactly keen on it. It’s the same way women turn down sex offers, they could get it whenever they want. It’s the abundance mentality.
God cursed man with hardship, man doesn’t appreciate anything he does not get through hardship. If getting married becomes difficult for men, they will do the work to get married and keep the marriage. If you have an assignment due in four hours but the question is 1 + 1, there’s no motivation to start early, you can do it at the last minute, likewise a man with six women chasing him for something serious. Where’s the motivation to pick one? You're pointless my lord trash 2 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Dopenigga(m): 11:36pm On Feb 04 |
Jman06: If you could think properly for once, you'll realize that many Nigerian men are getting into crime nowadays in order to meet up with the expectation of their women. This is because the empowerment of the women folk reduced their chances at work places and also created a generation of women whose expectations from men are so high that only a few privileged men can meet up. This is one major reason why some guys now resort to crime in order to meet up.
Why can't Nigerian women kick against payment of bride price and also contribute 50% of the funds required to run their homes? If they cannot do the above, then their education and employment is of no benefit and would rather destroy the traditional family system. I don't expect you to understand the point I'm making though fantastic analysis 3 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Konquest: 11:45pm On Feb 04 |
uche87:
Osahon George Osayimwen writes from England "Coming back to the UK, marriage is not attractive to Nigerians anymore. People only keep multiple women for the purpose of exercising their waists when the pressure is intense, and when abject loneliness kicks in." The bolded cracked me up... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by aribisala0(m): 11:46pm On Feb 04 |
Jman06: If you could think properly for once, you'll realize that many Nigerian men are getting into crime nowadays in order to meet up with the expectation of their women. This is because the empowerment of the women folk reduced their chances at work places and also created a generation of women whose expectations from men are so high that only a few privileged men can meet up. This is one major reason why some guys now resort to crime in order to meet up.
Why can't Nigerian women kick against payment of bride price and also contribute 50% of the funds required to run their homes? If they cannot do the above, then their education and employment is of no benefit and would rather destroy the traditional family system. I don't expect you to understand the point I'm making though Bride price is not a significant issue for all Nigerians. Maybe for Iboezs but not in the North where they even do mass weddings or the SW. What you are describing is a tiny group of Nigerians. Most Nigerian girls are happy if you can buy Indomie |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by Iamzik: 11:48pm On Feb 04 |
Biglittlelois: How come it is usually Men that cry more than the bereaved? I don't understand. Because men are the ones who get to part with their hard earned assets and pay child support. Marriage in the west is a scam against men 4 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by dkidd: 11:59pm On Feb 04 |
immortalcrown: Do those women say they need husbands? If no, don't give yourself headache for their sake. Most of the married ones are even plotting to become single.
Their values have changed. They don't care about marriage. Some of them don't even care about having children. They have enough money and can make upfront payment to companies that will care for them in old age.
What I worry about is the continuation of humanity. Lol for UK where them dey work to pay bills and taxes... Enough money 😂😂😂😂 |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by NairaMaster1(m): 12:00am On Feb 05 |
Jeon: Abeg r3st. Did they tell you they are looking for marriage ? .Hardly to see a rich or successful woman crying for marriage because she has what it takes to get a way from *poverty *. Like what Men normal says *Marriage is an empowerment to Women*. So why will she look for an uplift empowerment, when she had all and all.
Why enbe say nah Men dy cry over Marriage and Women pass?..... Crying over what you claimed to be a man's destructions.
*spit * Feminist. If they start to Bleep you now you would be calling your ancestors. People like you are so funny. 1 Like |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by NairaMaster1(m): 12:02am On Feb 05 |
Yugoslavia247: Women living in Nigeria can never relate
They will be asking mumu questions like
Did they tell you they want husband?
Most don't even have friends in the UK so they don't understand You're intelligent 2 Likes |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by 12inchess: 12:02am On Feb 05 |
Biglittlelois:
Oh so women are the cause of the death of traditional family and marriages? purely women? because we were empowered with education, so education should be withdrawn from us? that is the only way traditional marriages can thrive? only when women become illiterates?
No wonder Nigerian men cannot produce anything, they cannot invent anything, they cannot even rule their country right, except to kill, kidnap, steal, yahoo, skull mining, cannibalism, cultism, corruption, fraud, and all sorts of evil vices, Nigerian men have spoilt our images abroad, you are not known for anything good outside this country except negativities, that is why in your own little 2 by 2 cubicle, you can spew all this nonsense and think you are making sense, western countries that are above you in every ramifications will never be caught saying utter rubbish like this and be proud of themselves, no wonder Africa is seen as a cesspit and a third world continent when the men ruling it are nothing to write home about with their sad little thought process
The world is failing, from Africa to the whole world, thanks to men and their bad decisions, yet what your limited brian could only think of is women education as the cause of men's inability to hold the home front as the captain of the ship by sailing it to the right direction for a productive end result,
The next generation of Nigerian men will be the undoing of this nation, which is a good thing anyway so that everyone will be accountable to their own region, which will make it easier to remove shafts from wheat. And the only thing Nigerian women know how to do is hoelosho |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by NairaMaster1(m): 12:02am On Feb 05 |
Amumaigwe:
Go and ask pastors that are into marriage counselling if rich and successful women cry for marriage. They stand a better chance of giving you a more credible answer. Don't mind the frustrated feminist 1 Like |
Re: Who Will Marry The Beautiful Nigerian Women In The UK? by 1Sharon(f): 12:05am On Feb 05 |
hustla: Loneliness don finish plenty of them. Set awon "He wants to marry me for my papers"
Oya, chop the papers na
Are you saying a woman shouldn't have concerns about a man marrying her for papers? But men can worry about women marrying them for money shey? Don't be a hypocrite. 5 Likes 2 Shares |