I don't know if this makes sense or not, but do away with the thoughts of "make money fess before engaging women"

Except you attract leeches and liabilities, the ones that won't add any value of any sort to your existence or career, then you should check yourself.

Money shouldn't be your key to women or their coochie

You need them in your everyday life.

JESHAL007:
Studying about the redpill has not only taught me about the female nature but also taught me how to make women chase me instead of doing the chasing. It’s unfortunate that an average African man was taught in his childhood that men are hunters and hunters chase while women are the prize. If you still carry this mentality you will discover after so many years that you’ve spent your time, resources and energy chasing something that can’t pay your bills.

Have you noticed that when a girl chose you she does the spending? But if par adventure you start simping for this same girl that can’t stay a day without seeing you or hearing your voice she will start doing the running so that you will be the one doing the chasing and spending.

Most guys still think it’s their job to ask a girl out and if a girl asks them out they see it as odd and see her as a loosed girl but it isn’t. It simply proved that you’re the prize and important things are chased after. You can’t claim to be the prize and you’re walking up to every girl that catches your fancy. Mind you, if guys don’t approach a girl in a week or two I bet you the third week she will sleep in a church cos she will start thinking she has spiritual problems.

Why do girls think they’re beautiful, sexy, wife material, materialistic etc? Because guys have told them so. An average girl believes what guys tell them more than what their girlfriends tell them. I have seen girls that brag that they’ve sweet puss*ies simply because their exes told them so. Women feed on attention and when you deprive them of attention you deflate their pride and shakara.

You are making sense, but you got it all wrong in the bolded part...

Nah bro, it's your job to ask the woman out.

And, true, you are right: a girl asking you out doesn't make her a loosed girl... but It's still your job as a man to ask her out.

That's why you are the leader. The leader ask the followers to vote for him.

Again, you said, "You can’t claim to be the prize and you’re walking up to every girl that catches your fancy. "


Look bro,

If you see a girl that catches your fancy, you got to initiate conversation with her if you want to.

Initiating conversation first doesn't make you less of a prize, it simply means you are the leader.

This "I'm the prize" mentality does more harm than good to most guys because they misinterpret the idea..

The average guy is just scared of rejection and criticism, that's why when he sight a girl that catches his fancy, he doesn't initiate conversation with her; instead he wait for her to leave his side, then he turn his head around and look at her ass; storing the image of her ass in his mental file. This might come in handy when he want to jerk off later in the night.


As a man, you are required to initiate and lead things with the woman, but the woman still have to decide if she wants to follow your lead.

By nature, men are designed to lead while women are designed to follow. Leaders don't choose their followers, but rather the followers choose their leaders. Logically, the person doing the choosing is the prize. Which makes the woman also the prize per se.

Since the followers are the ones choosing their leaders, the leader has to demonstrate potentials and qualities that assures the followers that they can lead the followers to great experiences.

The painful reality is, sometimes the follower(woman) doesn't have to demonstrate too much great qualities. All she has to do is show up looking beautiful and presentable, and cast her vote for the Man she chooses. Afterwards, she should go on and stay submissive and supportive to the leader she chose in order to keep the relationship.

As a man, being the prize is about projecting a strong leadership role and masculine sense of confidence... True confidence with women stems from your experiences of handling the adversity and tension.

You can't develope that true confidence by thinking you are the prize while sitting in your comfort zone jerking off to porn.

But you can develop the true confidence by taking the lead and initiating conversation with the girl that catches your fancy and learning to handle the possible tension that may possible arise the process.

Kimcutie:
I don't know if this makes sense or not, but do away with the thoughts of "make money fess before engaging women"

Except you attract leeches and liabilities, the ones that won't add any value of any sort to your existence or career, then you should check yourself.

Money shouldn't be your key to women or their coochie

You need them in your everyday life.

Alaye i agree with you

IAmHim1:

"Logically, the person doing the choosing is the prize. Which makes the woman also the prize per se"

i dont grab this part pukkalolo

what it seems to be is THE PRIZE stays idle on the shelf while the teams struggle to win IT
the price DOESNT choose thee team that wins it that is.

supp

Using the FIFA World Cup Trophy as an example...

The World Cup Trophy is kept at the FIFA headquarters in Switzerland.

The team that win aren't even allowed to keep the trophy.

The only time the FIFA World Cup Trophy leaves its home is on the first and last games of the finals, the latter for when it is awarded to the winning team. After it's awarded to the team, they raise it up and take pictures with it and do whatever; then FIFA takes the trophy back immediately.

So, the trophy is just a symbolical REWARD.

The tangible benefits the team get for winning is cash and maybe other stuff.... I guess so. I'll research on that later.

But my point is. FIFA actually "choose" the team that wins. It does so by putting them in competition and selecting the winner.

In school, the teacher chose the best student. He/she does so by dishing out test/exams, to see who comes out on top.

The person organizing the game (FIFA) or the person giving out the test(teacher) is the actual prize.

In redpill, they talk about woman giving men shit test. And men have to pass her shit test in order to win her heart and pussy. Then she "choose" the man that pass her. Thereby, automatically making the woman the prize.

This is why, I'm always against the idea of trying to pass female shit test.

Because as the MAN, I'm also the prize. That means, I should also be dishing out shit test to the woman.

But to truly be the prize as a man, there's a price to be paid, which is: I should not be trying to "get" pussy, love or affection from the woman.

The pussy, affection and love should should naturally just come to me.

Me, FIFA or the teacher is the actual prize because we aren't trying to get anything from the girl, the players or students; we are just giving out or withholding reward (and punishment).

The person trying to get the prize is often in a confused, tensed, frustrated and stressed state. While the prize is always in confident, patient, cool, calm and collected....

The players struggling in the field trying to score a goal are often in a tensed, frustrated and stressed state. While FIFA boards are somewhere in the air-condition chilling and watching them struggle. And the FIFA cup is sitting calming somewhere on the shelf in Switzerland...

The students struggling in the exam hall trying to pass the exam are often in tensed, confused and psychological stressed state. While the teacher calmly just watch them struggle.


When interacting with a woman, I say things that challenge her ego and put her in a confused, tensed, frustrated and psychological tensed state... while I maintain a confident, patient, cool and collected attitude.

In addition, A true prize doesn't masturbate. Because when you jerk off, there's an image of a woman you are mastubating too: that woman has spiritual/psychological power over you.

That woman image you are Jerking off to is the prize because you are crazing her sexual companionship.

A truly prize doesn't crave for a woman's sexual companionship.

Pukkalolo:



Using the FIFA World Cup Trophy as an example...

The World Cup Trophy is kept at the FIFA headquarters in Switzerland.

The team that win aren't even allowed to keep the trophy.

The only time the FIFA World Cup Trophy leaves its home is on the first and last games of the finals, the latter for when it is awarded to the winning team. After it's awarded to the team, they raise it up and take pictures with it and do whatever; then FIFA takes the trophy back immediately.

So, the trophy is just a symbolical REWARD.

The tangible benefits the team get for winning is cash and maybe other stuff.... I guess so. I'll research on that later.

But my point is. FIFA actually "choose" the team that wins. It does so by putting them in competition and selecting the winner.

In school, the teacher chose the best student. He/she does so by dishing out test/exams, to see who comes out on top.

The person organizing the game (FIFA) or the person giving out the test(teacher) is the actual prize.

In redpill, they talk about woman giving men shit test. And men have to pass her shit test in order to win her heart and pussy. Then she "choose" the man that pass her. Thereby, automatically making the woman the prize.

This is why, I'm always against the idea of trying to pass female shit test.

Because as the MAN, I'm also the prize. That means, I should also be dishing out shit test to the woman.

But to truly be the prize as a man, there's a price to be paid, which is: I should not be trying to "get" pussy, love or affection from the woman.

The pussy, affection and love should should naturally just come to me.

Me, FIFA or the teacher is the actual prize because we aren't trying to get anything from the girl, the players or students; we are just giving out or withholding reward (and punishment).

The person trying to get the prize is often in a confused, tensed, frustrated and stressed state. While the prize is always in confident, patient, cool, calm and collected....

The players struggling in the field trying to score a goal are often in a tensed, frustrated and stressed state. While FIFA boards are somewhere in the air-condition chilling and watching them struggle. And the FIFA cup is sitting calming somewhere on the shelf in Switzerland...

The students struggling in the exam hall trying to pass the exam are often in tensed, confused and psychological stressed state. While the teacher calmly just watch them struggle.


When interacting with a woman, I say things that challenge her ego and put her in a confused, tensed, frustrated and psychological tensed state... while I maintain a confident, patient, cool and collected attitude.

In addition, A true prize doesn't masturbate. Because when you jerk off, there's a image of a woman you are mastubating too: that woman has spiritual/psychological power over you.

That woman image you are Jerking off to is the prize because you are crazing her sexual companionship.

A truly prize doesn't crave for a woman's sexual companionship.

You are a very jobless person for writing this hopeless epistle and any fool that has the time to read this trash go receive strong Yamayama for him bald head. What nonsense!

Hmmm

Misogynists how are you all doing

It's been a minute. How are you doing.

As usual the year has started off as adventurous as ever over here. Which is good news for you. More tips, principles, and strategies on female nature.

And the ability for you to sleep with as many gorgeous women as you desire. Before i post anything, i decided to look at the last conversations on the thread. I love the topic: Prizing.

Seems like some people still haven't wrapped their head around the idea of what it means to be a prize.

So let me start by saying: Men are the prize. At least that's how you and her should see it if you want any chance of your relationship to last.

But what does a man being the prize really mean? Well, there are three elements of what "the prize" really is.

So let's dive in:

● Winning & competition. You can't talk up about a man being the prize if the girl doesnt attempt, try or want to win him. The fundamental concept is that the girl wants to win him. And to that, she has to compete with other girls.

She also has to pass through challenges (that you set for her) so fùcking you or dating you feels like a win. She wants to feel proud that she has you (or almost does). Rather you trying to win her pùssy. She is striving to win you

● The prize doesn't care. Another element of the prize, is the prize doesn't care. You must play by the rules or you will be kicked out.

She must follow your standards or she not only risks her chance of winning but also competiting in the first place. She'll have to drop her bad habits and live up to the standards of someone that deserves to win the prize.

This also means that you're not the prize for everyone but for a select few. In my post on the Premier league guide to getting a girlfriend" i mentioned how you should demote or remove girls that dont play by your rules. That way, they dont get the chance to win the trophy of your dìck, time or resources

● Scarcity & Utility. No true prize is everywhere. There is a uniqueness to it. But you must also be useful.

It's delusional to think that you will be scarce without any form of usefulness. These 2 criteria greatly influence the first element. Because people tend to compete or try to win things or people that are scarce and useful.

Now, there's something else i want to add on shìt tests. If you're trying to seduce beautiful girls, they will test you.

You can dance around and call it whatever you like but they will test you. Luckily for you, most tests are "passed" by simply ignoring them

BUT there's an important distinction. Contrary to what red pill teaches, girls dont test you because they're the prize. In fact, they want you to be the prize. And they're hoping you are when they find you attractive.

Girls test for safety, strength & leadership. For they're safety, they hope to win the right prize for them. Because it can be a dangerous world out there for them. So they have to make sure a man is the right prize for them.

For you to understand this better, let's borrow a football analogy.

There are different top leagues in europe: England, Spain, Italy. A promising player would look at each league/trophy to assess which one he would start with to build his career. He would consider factors like salary, coach, teams etc

This assessment is similar to how girl's shit test work. They know fully well that men are the prize. But then they have to go through some factors to pick the best and right one for them.

In a world full of pretenders, it's not a surprise why they do it.

So that's it. Go through those 3 elements and find ways to incorporate them into your life so you really become the prize

LifeofDream:
If you hesitate, you masturbate... Thanks Pukkalolo for that... @rizzputin and my other bosses, thanks for the reply... Can't believe I was able to bed a girl in a day with no shishi spent just because I made the move, truly girls have crazy imagination...

Though I've fvcked up this same year too but it's part of the learning and process...

Pls what do you think I can do to get the upper hand again in this situation...

There's this girl I got her contact mid last year but I didn't contact her, I think she later misplaced the number.. Fast forward to late December when I came back home, she visited me 4 times in 2 days but I wasn't around those time.
Later on, I heard she's sick. I took the bold steps and approach her, got her new number too.. Called her the second day to meet up somewhere around the street... We talked for some minutes and I think I show too much interest in her which I think was a mistake by me..

Although, I've little interest in her but I made it too obvious when I see her because she was sick and I was trying to care for her. And also I was trying to compensate her because of the stress and disappointment she went through by visiting me 4 times and I wasn't around, I don't want the situation to look like I was taking her for granted.

I've chatted her up few times and I notice she give me one word reply, I may be wrong but I think this is a sign she's not interested.. This is a girl that was practically chasing me up and down a week ago..

I'm thinking maybe my first impression wasn't top notch, considering the fact I even asked/go for a kiss in our first meeting.. 🤦 A mistake I made because I thought I'll be traveling three days later and I wanted to escalate things with her quickly...

What do you think I can do in this situation?..

@rizzputin Pukkalolo Ubunja IAmHim1 adambeatz ayoll and other bosses.

Just seeing this. How did things end up with her?

So I'll keep my reply on the problem you made & your next moves.

Your issue with this girl is that you made her feel like she has won you over before she fùcked you.

I always tell guys to think like a hòòk up material. There's a popular statement on this thread: "Women will fùck someone. It may not be me. It may not be you. But she will fùck someone"

Becoming a hook up material means creating an opportunity where she fùcks you. That is fùcking you feels like both the right & only choice.


I understand you trying to care for her. But overdoing it before you fùck her sends every attraction for you into the ground.

So she was interested in you but your "overcaring" made her second guess her attraction for you. Dont be too worried about disappointing or stressing girls. They love it.

This is what happened when you saw her. When she came her attraction for you was high. Then, you started being overcaring making her wonder if it's that easy to win you over. This is your first time together and so there's no reason for you to be that caring. Why? Because she hasn't proven herself to you. So she was wondering why you were all of a sudden "so caring.

It pìssed her off. Because she thought she had a chance to win you over. Now the more caring you were, her attraction for you was sinking. So you were already in a bad spot. Then you went for the kiss. So instead of the kiss coming from a highly attractive guy, it was coming from a guy who she has lost attraction for.

So in her eyes you looked very needy. So the timing of the kiss wasn't the problem. The problem is the position you were in as you tried to kiss her (A low attraction spot)


------ Your Next moves


- Ignore her and don't hit her up. It sucks but you're almost starting from square one again. After you've ignored her for a while. ... she'll hit you up.

- If she doesn't, lightly tease her in a playful way with her text and guage her response. Your goal here is to just vibe with her till she starts investing again in the texting. Of course, while texting her dont be needy or too quick to reply.

- Once she's invested back via texting or calls over a week or two... invite her out again then seal the deal


Ideally, you should have fùcked her fast that day she came before you travelled BUT you lost attraction by caring too much

And if she's one of those crazy girls that likes harsh treatment in relationships, even worse.

Anyways, those tips should set you in the right direction. Enjoy

MarkHenry9:

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Benyten9:

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Please wetin be this

Rizzputin:
It's been a minute. How are you doing.

As usual the year has started off as adventurous as ever over here. Which is good news for you. More tips, principles, and strategies on female nature.

And the ability for you to sleep with as many gorgeous women as you desire. Before i post anything, i decided to look at the last conversations on the thread. I love the topic: Prizing.

Seems like some people still haven't wrapped their head around the idea of what it means to be a prize.

So let me start by saying: Men are the prize. At least that's how you and her should see it if you want any chance of your relationship to last.

But what does a man being the prize really mean? Well, there are three elements of what "the prize" really is.

So let's dive in:

● Winning & competition. You can't talk up about a man being the prize if the girl doesnt attempt, try or want to win him. The fundamental concept is that the girl wants to win him. And to that, she has to compete with other girls.

She also has to pass through challenges (that you set for her) so fùcking you or dating you feels like a win. She wants to feel proud that she has you (or almost does). Rather you trying to win her pùssy. She is striving to win you

● The prize doesn't care. Another element of the prize, is the prize doesn't care. You must play by the rules or you will be kicked out.

She must follow your standards or she not only risks her chance of winning but also competiting in the first place. She'll have to drop her bad habits and live up to the standards of someone that deserves to win the prize.

This also means that you're not the prize for everyone but for a select few. In my post on the Premier league guide to getting a girlfriend" i mentioned how you should demote or remove girls that dont play by your rules. That way, they dont get the chance to win the trophy of your dìck, time or resources

● Scarcity & Utility. No true prize is everywhere. There is a uniqueness to it. But you must also be useful.

It's delusional to think that you will be scarce without any form of usefulness. These 2 criteria greatly influence the first element. Because people tend to compete or try to win things or people that are scarce and useful.

Now, there's something else i want to add on shìt tests. If you're trying to seduce beautiful girls, they will test you.

You can dance around and call it whatever you like but they will test you. Luckily for you, most tests are "passed" by simply ignoring them

BUT there's an important distinction. Contrary to what red pill teaches, girls dont test you because they're the prize. In fact, they want you to be the prize. And they're hoping you are when they find you attractive.

Girls test for safety, strength & leadership. For they're safety, they hope to win the right prize for them. Because it can be a dangerous world out there for them. So they have to make sure a man is the right prize for them.

For you to understand this better, let's borrow a football analogy.

There are different top leagues in europe: England, Spain, Italy. A promising player would look at each league/trophy to assess which one he would start with to build his career. He would consider factors like salary, coach, teams etc

This assessment is similar to how girl's shit test work. They know fully well that men are the prize. But then they have to go through some factors to pick the best and right one for them.

In a world full of pretenders, it's not a surprise why they do it.

So that's it. Go through those 3 elements and find ways to incorporate them into your life so you really become the prize

Well said/written 👏

I've finally accepted the redpill, who will welcome me?

Someone should send me the WhatsApp link or you quote me on a dead thread for that. Thanks

Karlifate:


Well said/written 👏

Bro bro can you send me the redpill WhatsApp link, you can quote me on a dead thread for that. Thanks

EreluRoz:
Bro bro can you send me the redpill WhatsApp link, you can quote me on a dead thread for that. Thanks

This isn't trolling tbh....I believe you're mentally unstable!!

Get help biko....please don't dismiss this, I genuinely do care.

H.

EducatedMind369:
Please, elders in the house; I need your advice.

I'm an undergraduate, and I met a girl recently who, one thing led to the other; I fell in love with. But the issue here is that there's a man waiting for her after school; who wants to get married to her.

She already said she's not interested in marrying him, but the man(31) is too dominant, and always overpowers her voice down. She's 19 by the way.

We've had sex, and one thing led to the other; he found out about me. She said she's not interested, but he refused to go away from her life. He got my number, and threatened me with death. The only reason I didn't take the threat serious was because he is a pastor at a local church, and my naive self believed that a pastor will not go diabolic over such a trivial issue.

Now, she said she wants to be with me, so I tried texting him today to please, leave us alone. And like always; he threatened me with death again. Truth of the matter is that the girl is kind of naive and not strong minded. She's too soft hearted and that's her weak point. And he's capitalizing on that. You know when someone is subtly manipulating a person using religion; talking about how the holy spirit said she's the one for him.

Truth is, I love her so much that I don't want her to end up badly, but I think it's all a waste of time. People need to learn from personal experience instead.

Thing is, I just don't know what to do now. I enjoy the benefits I get from her(sex, free food, her company), but on the other hand; I can't continue fighting for her. She needs to learn to stand up for herself. But knowing her kind of person; I don't think she ever will. And that'll be her biggest regret, which is what I'm trying to prevent.

I guess I fell In love too deep.

How old are you?

Fortuneed:
How old are you?

Slightly above 19.

EducatedMind369:
Slightly above 19.

I knew already from your write up. Focus on books ,just being friends with her is okay. Avoid being emotional, I know you already had s×x with her which might have beclouded your thoughts.

if you dont know if your post makes "sense or not", how would you exoect others here reading to believe if your post makes sense OR NOT

lead yourself first unless of course you want others to lead...on purpose * wink

Kimcutie:
I don't know if this makes sense or not, but do away with the thoughts of "make money fess before engaging women"

Except you attract leeches and liabilities, the ones that won't add any value of any sort to your existence or career, then you should check yourself.

Money shouldn't be your key to women or their coochie

You need them in your everyday life.

Nobody and i repeat nobody should join that whatsapp redpill group. unless you purposely want to ruin yourself in all ways you can ever think of

its filled with mostly breathing piece of adult babies going back and forth with nonsense. soo.much that even those with real value or content are buried deeply or have finally left

the last thing id want to do is quote you. but this message should be put out there.

redpill is improvement as man and woman. anything you can do to improve yourself is redpill: finance, health, family, travel, spirituality etc.

look for the ugly truth about a sector (banking n finance, food, exercise, sex health, spirituality leadership, fasshion, travel, etcetera etcetera)...the part that flies over most peoples head especially. study it and milk it while causing no harm to any1 in the process.

karma is real and so is reincarnation.

but hey, this thead hasnt for once spoken about that yeah
lolzzzz

a whole " reality every guy needs to know" for that matter

https://www.nairaland.com/6908619/good-deeds-life

your journey of a thousand miles...

EreluRoz:
Bro bro can you send me the redpill WhatsApp link, you can quote me on a dead thread for that. Thanks

OgunjimiFengxi:
This isn't trolling tbh....I believe you're mentally unstable!!

Get help biko....please don't dismiss this, I genuinely do care.

I don't want IT to be healed. I prefer the madness. It gives me hope that at least we can concentrate on the sane ones.

IAmHim1:
Nobody and i repeat nobody should join that whatsapp redpill group. unless you purposely want to ruin yourself in all ways you can ever think of

its filled with mostly breathing piece of adult babies going back and forth with nonsense. soo.much that even those with real value or content are buried deeply or have finally left

the last thing id want to do is quote you. but this message should be put out there.

redpill is improvement as man and woman. anything you can do to improve yourself is redpill: finance, health, family, travel, spirituality etc.

look for the ugly truth about a sector (banking n finance, food, exercise, sex health, spirituality leadership, fasshion, travel, etcetera etcetera)...the part that flies over most peoples head especially. study it and milk it while causing no harm to any1 in the process.

karma is real and so is reincarnation.

but hey, this thead hasnt for once spoken about that yeah
lolzzzz

a whole " reality every guy needs to know" for that matter

https://www.nairaland.com/6908619/good-deeds-life

your journey of a thousand miles...

Your mata dey taya person. You always talk like you are high on some octane shiit. Disordered posts and shifting topic grounds just kill whatever sense you are trying to make. Leave the WhatsApp group alone and face your own shiit.

Kapish?

You should be thankful for I give this dead thread life. See that yeye one above talking anyhow

EreluRoz:
You should be thankful for I give this dead thread life. See that yeye one above talking anyhow

This babe nah werey 😂😂😂

Astrid4:


This babe nah werey 😂😂😂

olopa ma ko everybody

EreluRoz:
olopa ma ko everybody

Notice your troll are more constructive lately, seems you’ve been with the logical gender enough that you’re becoming more logical lately lol

Astrid4:


Notice your troll are more constructive lately, seems you’ve been with the logical gender enough that you’re becoming more logical lately lol

I'm now a redpiller but they don't want to accept me